I'M A LOSER, it's finally hit me.

doublelongdaddy;753577 said:
Thanks Cladre for this write up! Very helpful to so many!
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As long as you keep yourself out of the friendzone and keep her going nuts wanting you while getting to know each other you're setting the stage for a good relationship.
 
cladre60;753759 said:
As long as you keep yourself out of the friendzone and keep her going nuts wanting you while getting to know each other you're setting the stage for a good relationship.
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<3 Love this!
 
Couldn’t agree more cladre60! For once I think that’s what’s happening and it feels great!!,
 
Fuck women until u have ur sexual style down. Eventually u will see wonwn Chase u. Never let them know u want them. If yiure eing a prick u gone too far. Its ok to be a dick though as long as youre being one for the saje of humor. Humor is tha mantey master key. An angry asshole gets left. A cynical comedian gets laid.
 
If u can find a way to make fun of yourself in a way that causes intrigue u can eliminate yiur blockage
A woman admires an honest man.
 
bulldaboss93 said:
If u can find a way to make fun of yourself in a way that causes intrigue u can eliminate yiur blockage
A woman admires an honest man.
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Very smart advice! I really like the way you think
 
DLD said:
Trying to teach an old dog new tricks, very difficult to do. Changing a person is a very challenging thing, especially when cognitive dissonance is involved. Many do not want to let go of beliefs, habits, etc. because they can not see past those attachments to a greater good on the other side. It is not impossible but it will take compassionate work that does not come off as being a controlling person.

I can relate to this when I want to help someone convert their life to Jesus. If I am pushy and preachy, controlling and ego driven they will not even hear me. I approach them is a loving way, never being pushy, only pointing them in the right direction. Many of these people simply can not let go of their secular beliefs so they remain unchanged.

So with any belief system there will be a certain degree of resistance and to get through that resistance one needs to let go and put there trust in a new way of living.
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Hahaha that's right n even funny, trying to teach an old dog new tricks is almost impossible LOL..years ago I met this hippie girl LOL she was into me or something and used to look for me every now and then.One fine day she left n spend years Whit out seeing her face,I was Whit these guys n they started talking about their sexual adventures when two of them claimed theyd had sex Whit her LOL,

Had the answer I basically knew that she was an adulterous girl LOL.. now she's back n I see her cause she stays in a place close to my house actually a relative owns the place n she gets a lot of "visitors" LOL is quite impressive how some people never changes, hahaha
 
DLD said:
And GOD does not make losers! We are all winners, we only need to realize it!
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We have been programmed to believe that if we don't fit in that if we don't meet certain standards we are fucked..
 
DLD said:
If you let her go and she comes back there is something there otherwise, on to the next!
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LOL if she fucked up once she'll fuck up twice better stay away from that bullshit,unless you're into sharing her slit Whit someone else.. maybe one maybe two.. LOL
 
DLD said:
There is someone out there for everyone who is a perfect match but many will never meet :(
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My case I guess but as long it's not a sin I think is fine lol,the shitty part is when I have absolutely nobody around and the monster of loneliness visits my room.. LOL
 
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DLD said:
"I'M A LOSER, it's finally hit me."

The most word that proceeds "I AM" is what the mind defines us by.

"I am a winner" - "I am a loser" one feels good and the other feels bad.

This is very simple and agrees with what has already been said but understand that the most powerful two words in us is "I AM"...these are the two words our Lord defined Himself by "I AM" It may feel fake at first or even like a lie, but that is only because the negativity wants to keep you hostage. The best way to defy the negativity is with a out loud yell of "I AM GOOD" "I AM WORTHY" "I AM LOVED" "I AM VALUABLE" "I AM A CHILD OF GOD" "I AM SPECIAL" "I AM A WINNER"

Do this over and over, make it your mantra. Eventually you will curb the negative thoughts with positive. Being in a positive state allows us to see ourselves as worthy and good. You can also pray for help in this also as there is a GOD who loves you so much and wants to help you in every way.

Any man that is here is a Brother and if you are a Brother there is no way for you to be a loser. Brothers win, we do not know want loosing means.,,You are a Brother!
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bsolutely true. A mantra is a conversation between your conscious self and subconscious self. Say it enough and you'll believe it. There is probably no reason whatsoever why you shouldn't believe it either. If you can't go as far as to say you're a winner or something at the extreme opposite of how you currently see yourself, then try starting with, 'I accept you and I love you for who you are'. It sounds corny but try looking yourself in the eye, in the mirror every morning and saying that five times slowly and see how you feel in a couple of weeks!
 
A-Spot Spammer said:
I'm not sure if it will work with mind over matter but it should work for mind over mind! ?
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Mmm actually it's quite interesting besides looks like a simple n harmless thing to do..
Just change our state of mind trough our thoughts
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
Mmm actually it's quite interesting besides looks like a simple n harmless thing to do..
Just change our state of mind trough our thoughts
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That's basically it. It's the same principle as smiling when you're feeling down. Something in the action makes something in your psyche 'think' it must be happy. A mantra essentially persuades your psyche that what you tell it is the actual state of things. This may be accurate or not in terms of the objective landscape but it doesn't really matter whether it's true or not. It will be the knew truth to us. Everything about how we see ourselves and see the world around us and our place in it is based upon our interpretation of whatever data we see anyway, likely on a subconscious level, so it's just trying to influence our subconscious to see it in a different way. It can't hurt to love ourselves more though, can it?
 
A-Spot Spammer said:
That's basically it. It's the same principle as smiling when you're feeling down. Something in the action makes something in your psyche 'think' it must be happy. A mantra essentially persuades your psyche that what you tell it is the actual state of things. This may be accurate or not in terms of the objective landscape but it doesn't really matter whether it's true or not. It will be the knew truth to us. Everything about how we see ourselves and see the world around us and our place in it is based upon our interpretation of whatever data we see anyway, likely on a subconscious level, so it's just trying to influence our subconscious to see it in a different way. It can't hurt to love ourselves more though, can it?
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Getbiglonger7 said:
Mmm actually it's quite interesting besides looks like a simple n harmless thing to do..
Just change our state of mind trough our thoughts
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going back to what you said about mantra-ing our dicks bigger. Whilst it's likely it wouldn't be possible to increase size just with thecpower of thought, we could perhaps influence ourselves enough to accept what we have or even see it as big regardless of our prior belief...
 
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