Sometimes being celibate is the best thing in the world! :)
 
Fair point! Tbh with you dld..I've wondered if I might as well become celibate! After all every time I try to look for female attention and eventually sex it just ends up in disappointment and I end up feeling sorry for myself haha
 
cladre60;734352 said:
Amen to that!

Look at the cases of female teachers having sex with their students. They might get a few years in jail. If a man does it he's getting 15-20 years. They both deserve equal punishment.


Side note - I'd have a hard time being in a serious relationship with a ���� chick but mostly due to always wondering if I was good enough. She'd have to be extremely devoted and faithful and not a psychotic head case. Being bisexual and always willing to bring another woman to bed wouldn't hurt either ;)

A few years ago a friend had a major freak over the chick he was dating. They were talking and he found out she had slept with 17 guys before him. He listed all his sexual partners and was flipping out because he was only at 13 or 14. Given her age and how long she had been sexually active it was basically 1 guy a year and only 2 or 3 were more than a 1 night stand. He didn't have many 1 night stands, most of his were relationships. I tried to put it in terms of "you've had probably 10x the sex she has so what's the problem?' I couldn't see what the big deal was but he totally lost his shit. He eventually got over it but it took a month or two. Double standard even though he was far more experienced than she was.[/QUOT


not justifying their actions but is true when a man has sex whit aminor he gets a long sentence.

Most ���� women arent psychologically OK are they lol.there are so many reasons why women work n ����..?:( LMAO
 
LONGERDICK7+;734425 said:
not justifying their actions but is true when a man has sex whit aminor he gets a long sentence.

Most ���� women arent psychologically OK are they lol.there are so many reasons why women work n ����..?:( LMAO

I'm sure there are a few "normal" ones out there but they're far and few between. People like Nina Hartley, who have been in the industry for decades, actually seem normal. Many get into it for the wrong reasons and stay for the wrong ones (drugs).
 
cladre60;734455 said:
I'm sure there are a few "normal" ones out there but they're far and few between. People like Nina Hartley, who have been in the industry for decades, actually seem normal. Many get into it for the wrong reasons and stay for the wrong ones (drugs).

damn thats true sad shit dont u think:O
 
Stripeee;734418 said:
Fair point! Tbh with you dld..I've wondered if I might as well become celibate! After all every time I try to look for female attention and eventually sex it just ends up in disappointment and I end up feeling sorry for myself haha

Id stop doing that i used to feel that way n is not a good idea at all.continue whit your PE sessions dont quit thatd help you to boost your confidence too.

Besides there are so many other girls out there,dont waste your time and energy thinking about how many times you have failed.thats bullshit.
 
LONGERDICK7+;734475 said:
Id stop doing that i used to feel that way n is not a good idea at all.continue whit your PE sessions dont quit thatd help you to boost your confidence too.

Besides there are so many other girls out there,dont waste your time and energy thinking about how many times you have failed.thats bullshit.

Definitely the path I should be heading along, self improvement and all, channelling my energy in to doing something for me. Just completed 6 months and well progress is either really slow or non existant haha!
 
Stripeee;734479 said:
Definitely the path I should be heading along, self improvement and all, channelling my energy in to doing something for me. Just completed 6 months and well progress is either really slow or non existant haha!

In the Brotherhood it is good to correct the entire body and mind! There is so much here to help men become better, much more than just PE.
 
i couldn't agree more DLD! such a good response to my problems. this forum really does create a bond between men, truly a brotherhood.
 
Stripeee;734532 said:
i couldn't agree more DLD! such a good response to my problems. this forum really does create a bond between men, truly a brotherhood.

:) It is like a family in every respect and that is the way I designed it. I wanted men to feel like Brothers, together in the fight, sharing and helping as we forge ahead in every matter concerning our well being. I feel into be my ultimate responsibility to help the Brothers in this Brotherhood in every way they need help. I know, with all my heart, this is a job God chose me for. Many would think that to be a strange thing to say but it is the truth. We are all given different gifts and we are meant to use them to edify, educate, inform and do the best we can with it. The Brotherhood is my gift and using it to the best of my ability is to help every man, no matter who he is, to get to where he wants to be. I

When some say that I am in a sinful business because we are working on our penis but I am quick to rebuke them. I ask them, what is the most important thing God gave you? (aside from soul and mind). They have no answer but I am quick to say it is the penis! Without the penis there is no life. We can survive as humans without arms, legs, fingers, toes, etc. but we can never survive without the penis. Plus, in many cases, men come here thinking they have a penis issue when really it is a psychological issue. When a new man joins the Brotherhood I try to get to the root of their problem, not the leaves, not the branches or even the trunk, the root!
 
Getting to the root of the problem,thats key D is the one that has helped me out a lot..Yeah and again getting to the root of the problem thats my goal
 
LONGERDICK7+;734606 said:
Getting to the root of the problem,thats key D is the one that has helped me out a lot..Yeah and again getting to the root of the problem thats my goal

We can trim weeds forever, they will never die until we pull the root!
 
doublelongdaddy;734653 said:
We can trim weeds forever, they will never die until we pull the root!

pulling the root out...Ok thank you that will take some time i think, gettting to the core...
 
LONGERDICK7+;734676 said:
pulling the root out...Ok thank you that will take some time i think, gettting to the core...

I'm pulling the root out.... bringing all that inner penis out....

But back on topic, that's what you have to do to fix problems. Otherwise you're just putting a bandaid on an infected wound without treating it. If it does heal it'll leave a nasty scar.
 
LONGERDICK7+;734676 said:
pulling the root out...Ok thank you that will take some time i think, gettting to the core...

It is a process and there is no time limit, be gentle and kind to yourself and eventually you will figure it out.
 
Hey guys been a while...the reason I got in to p.e. Was because I was seeing who a girl who said she I had a small dick and pretended I was bigger like one of her ex’s. She messed me around by seeing someone else and it hurt tremendously.

Recently I have spoken to her and met her a couple times. She said over text later on after meeting she wished we never met before because we get on so better now, and we messaged for a few days. I mentioned meeting up again n she said definelty but now she’s gone cold!

Another thing I’ve noticed is she has added someone on Instagram and likes all of his pics even older ones? She’s obviously not interested in talking or going out is she....is it worth casually messaging saying “are you fre x-day we should go out”
 
Someone messed with you like so? Why do you even consider the casual messaging?! Unless one is into such submissive behaviour but otherwise I'd look further and say "pass!"

There are plenty of people in this world. I suggest doing most to surround yourself with positive impact people, not the ones who doubt or ridicule you!

Wishing you a lot of strength!
 
I agree with ark, I would say the hell with her and move on. It is not worth the effort you would spend on her
 
Stripeee;752944 said:
Hey guys been a while...the reason I got in to p.e. Was because I was seeing who a girl who said she I had a small dick and pretended I was bigger like one of her ex’s. She messed me around by seeing someone else and it hurt tremendously.

Recently I have spoken to her and met her a couple times. She said over text later on after meeting she wished we never met before because we get on so better now, and we messaged for a few days. I mentioned meeting up again n she said definelty but now she’s gone cold!

Another thing I’ve noticed is she has added someone on Instagram and likes all of his pics even older ones? She’s obviously not interested in talking or going out is she....is it worth casually messaging saying “are you fre x-day we should go out”

I have to say man you deserve better than this girl, someone who insults you and/or lies about it isn't going to change nor is she worth your time. The only thing that will change by pursuing her is buying into her insults and eventually looking down on yourself. I have been there myself, i have been with women who would say one thing to my face and act one way then bad mouth me and worse the second my back was turned these people are cancerous and will slowly erode your soul.
I would recommend stop texting her now, hell i would say block her so you didn't have the temptation of reading anything she sent as that will only suck you in deeper. Next would be to stop following her on Instagram, Facebook, twitter and where ever else there may be because you cant get over someone if your constantly having them in your life like that specially when they have manipulated you so.
Typically yes if they are liking everything a guy posts on social media they have some kind of attractio to that person but liking even older pictures is a red flag as that seems stalker ish.
 
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You’ve expanded on what many close people have said to me and made it perfectly clear....DONT WASTER YOUR TIME!

She’s not interested, she’s only going to lead you on, deserve better, all the usual stuff. With the Instagram thing she followed a guy At the end of the weekend and liked loads of his pics and he’s liked a few of hers, so they’re clearly interacting closely.

It’s jsut odd coz the night before she was messaging for me to have a drink with her n friends, I did, then goes cold ever since?

One thing I do want to know tho is why she spit up with her ex, who she chose instead of me...would probably not get a straight answer tbh
 
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