You're going to need at least 4300 calories, but I would say a little more than that if you're trying to bulk. You weight alot so you need a lot of calories, assuming you are very active. You are going to need a minimum of 210g of protein per day but I would say you need more than that for bulking, I'd reccommend, 315g-420 a day. You would need at least 537g carbs but I would reccommend more since you're a big guy trying to bulk. For fat I would say 100-120g. Wow I never realized how much more a bigger person would have to eat
that must be a bitch for you having to eat that much all day.
For a routine I would say it's all preference really although it's good to stick to compound movements so more than one muscle is being worked. Personally I hate compound exercises but oh well.
Back/biceps
chest/tri
shoulders/abs
legs
there is a possible split for you.