I wanted to make pussies squirt
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In topics like this, coming across someone quite different in a similar situation, I always like to use chessboard thinking. After using my own words, I try to think as a Devil's Advocate, in order to better understand myself and the people around me in relations to the topic at hand. From then, there can be an amicable mediation.
What we know is that MOS is not solely about enlarging the penis. MOS is about proving that truly any obstacle can be overcome when there is a need for it. We come here to band together and solve our problems. In the end, that includes coming to grips with who we are and growing from there.
That said, I'm surprised at how just about everybody posted in this one.
Where I work, we learn to cope with the frustrations of our clients instead of mirroring them. From a position of enlightenment and experience, we can more easily concentrate on the healing. I make it sound like it's a counseling center; it's actually technical support; but believe me the experience transfers.
In this situation, being a young 22-something virgin myself, it's taken a shitton of work not to go nuts over a lack of girl experience. Any older person will tell you it really doesn't matter at this age, and that you need to slow down and mature it out. But you wouldn't be able to convince a young person of that very easily when they're filled with hormones and people around them having the same experiences that they are not getting into. The media has a much louder voice, and a ton of people are nonvirgins by the end of high school, and everyone still sees it as some rite of passage.
Some people just have more control than others. I am a circle trying to understand a sphere here, I have to admit. But you're right about self-habit; being denied cool experiences is based on something a person does to be in that situation, perhaps a lack of proper mentality or because a person's thinking is on a totally different level. But among the humans who go about their normal lives with normal problems, never is it a mental choice. And it's difficult, when you cannot follow your own nature, to not be frustrated with that and express it as such. A lack of success certainly won't help in eliminating the anger. A good start, therefore, would be to advise how to change one's thinking as opposed to simply "Change your thinking".
Perhaps the words chosen by OP were hardly respectful of the rest of the community, and they provoked similar comments from the other posters. Although with many people who go through this "I have to change my thinking" process, it's very difficult when your thinking has already been founded on years and years of repeat experiences. For many people it certainly does not take much work to indulge in your sexual desires. Those who do not have that same luck will feel betrayed and hurt. It doesn't do much good to keep reminding them of that, any more than you would remind a man he has a small penis and that he should feel ashamed for being that way. Instead, there was a man who founded a site dedicated to solving that problem, and MOS was born.
AND SO...
The first step in all healing is to admit you have a problem. In this case it was, I think, a decent choice to say "I am a virgin and have sexual frustrations", which perhaps would have been better followed up with suggestions to get past it.
I may possibly be "giving into the troll" which I am hopefully not. But despite what the OP may or may not be, we need to take words at face value and be neutral in our judgments. After all, if you think this person is a creepy potential rapist now, consider the circumstances of terrible young lives that create adult rapists in the first place. Any one of us could be sexually frustrated beings simply being told from all sides to "Grow up and get over it". And a ton of us were. Those of us who still retain the memories of a troubled growth should not overshadow the steps with being overly proud of it. Otherwise we are no different from the antagonists in our own pasts.
What we know is that MOS is not solely about enlarging the penis. MOS is about proving that truly any obstacle can be overcome when there is a need for it. We come here to band together and solve our problems. In the end, that includes coming to grips with who we are and growing from there.
That said, I'm surprised at how just about everybody posted in this one.
Where I work, we learn to cope with the frustrations of our clients instead of mirroring them. From a position of enlightenment and experience, we can more easily concentrate on the healing. I make it sound like it's a counseling center; it's actually technical support; but believe me the experience transfers.
In this situation, being a young 22-something virgin myself, it's taken a shitton of work not to go nuts over a lack of girl experience. Any older person will tell you it really doesn't matter at this age, and that you need to slow down and mature it out. But you wouldn't be able to convince a young person of that very easily when they're filled with hormones and people around them having the same experiences that they are not getting into. The media has a much louder voice, and a ton of people are nonvirgins by the end of high school, and everyone still sees it as some rite of passage.
Some people just have more control than others. I am a circle trying to understand a sphere here, I have to admit. But you're right about self-habit; being denied cool experiences is based on something a person does to be in that situation, perhaps a lack of proper mentality or because a person's thinking is on a totally different level. But among the humans who go about their normal lives with normal problems, never is it a mental choice. And it's difficult, when you cannot follow your own nature, to not be frustrated with that and express it as such. A lack of success certainly won't help in eliminating the anger. A good start, therefore, would be to advise how to change one's thinking as opposed to simply "Change your thinking".
Perhaps the words chosen by OP were hardly respectful of the rest of the community, and they provoked similar comments from the other posters. Although with many people who go through this "I have to change my thinking" process, it's very difficult when your thinking has already been founded on years and years of repeat experiences. For many people it certainly does not take much work to indulge in your sexual desires. Those who do not have that same luck will feel betrayed and hurt. It doesn't do much good to keep reminding them of that, any more than you would remind a man he has a small penis and that he should feel ashamed for being that way. Instead, there was a man who founded a site dedicated to solving that problem, and MOS was born.
AND SO...
The first step in all healing is to admit you have a problem. In this case it was, I think, a decent choice to say "I am a virgin and have sexual frustrations", which perhaps would have been better followed up with suggestions to get past it.
I may possibly be "giving into the troll" which I am hopefully not. But despite what the OP may or may not be, we need to take words at face value and be neutral in our judgments. After all, if you think this person is a creepy potential rapist now, consider the circumstances of terrible young lives that create adult rapists in the first place. Any one of us could be sexually frustrated beings simply being told from all sides to "Grow up and get over it". And a ton of us were. Those of us who still retain the memories of a troubled growth should not overshadow the steps with being overly proud of it. Otherwise we are no different from the antagonists in our own pasts.
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wow I still have my v-card and I'm still acting sane as usual and happy about life I guess for some people it's not all that cracked up to still be a virgin, oh well I hope puccini got what he wanted and made that pussy squirt assuming he didn't get tased and peppered spray while trying to attempt the act, go pucccini go
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yeah that gif is funny as hell but yes my v-card aka virgin card still have it gonna hold on to it for a little while longer until I feel ready to use it no rush at all on my part
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for fucc sakes puccini
its pretty obvious why this guy aint gettin any pussy
who knows he might have got some by now(highly doubt it with that adittude)
but i mean you gotta be calm with the ladies dont scare them off
if he dosent decide to change hes better of gettin a hooker to help him(the only way hes gunna get laid)
but on the topic of wanting to make pussies squirt... dont we all.
its pretty obvious why this guy aint gettin any pussy
who knows he might have got some by now(highly doubt it with that adittude)
but i mean you gotta be calm with the ladies dont scare them off
if he dosent decide to change hes better of gettin a hooker to help him(the only way hes gunna get laid)
but on the topic of wanting to make pussies squirt... dont we all.
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I liked to see my girls squirt because it gave me a sense of achievement and knowing her pleasure was intense. Dont know if the thread starters is the same, suppose it could be a fetish aswell!
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I like girls squirting the same reason RED does...
But this threads not even about squirting the dude justs wanted to get laid.
But this threads not even about squirting the dude justs wanted to get laid.
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Once that pussy squirts he'll know about it.............. 
