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hey guys i was wondering, what are real reason if you loose totaly your sexdrive, and you are ok with it. is it normal to not want sex even for years? i also gained around 40 pounds but still masturbate with a limpy dick from time to time, but never in the mood for sex
 
how you doin putzaras, and welcome to MOS! i read somewhere that weight gain can cause erection problems. lack of a sex drive can be caused by stress, diet, or maybe just boredom with the current things that you use to get into the mood. im sure some of the guys here, will help you out with this matter and give you better advice.
 
hey benjamin are you german?

mHydromax i also have no drive for anything , for a year now. iam only sleeping all day doin nothing, maybe going out for a bear with friends. i just cant get up my ass to do anything
 
Sex drive is effected by everything from diet and exercise to mental issues and self image. Aside from the 40 pounds you want to lose what else is going on in your life that may be effecting this?
 
Stress is the biggest reason my sex drive sputters from time to time.

Or maybe you have had the same "sex routine" with your partner for too long. Change things up, be spontaneous, do anal....well maybe not anal, that's not everyones cup of tea. I know my suggestions are easier said than done, but if you really want to change it, you are in control of making it happen.
 
putzaras;339496 said:
hey benjamin are you german?

mHydromax i also have no drive for anything , for a year now. iam only sleeping all day doin nothing, maybe going out for a bear with friends. i just cant get up my ass to do anything


hahahaha is it my last name? no im a spaniard but i was raised in NYC. are you german? i could be wrong, but you sound like you might be goin through some depression... usually lack of wantin to do anythin can be caused by depression. if you dont mind me askin, has anythin traumatic ever happened to you? this lead to PTS and depression.
 
yeah siegel is a very common german name.
the only stress i have is from studying but thats no big deal. i have no money issues or so.the only dramatic think that happened to me that i was dumped from the women i loved but everyone goes through stuff like this. its just me i think, i know if i eat proper and work out i will get lean and i know if i jelq and stretch i will get bigger but still i somehow never stick to those things and i fall back to the self me. its like quiting smoking , i quit for 3 weeks and then i restart again.i really dont know why iam so lazy, tired, wiht no sex drive all the time. iam stil 23 years old---
 
you and me are around the same age. maybe subconciously what happend between you and your girl has ben affectin you. also the beer and the smokin and not eatin properly can affect you. all those thing combined can lead to the way you described you been feelin. im dont mean to sound like your dad but try to quick smokin, dont drink as much, try to eat healthier and workout to try to slim down. that could probably help you with your problem because youll look better and feel better about yourself and youll be able to get hard and get the drive back.
 
It sounds like maybe your testosterone may be low. Have you had it checked?
 
mHydromax i dont know if its testo. iam quite a hairy guy i also have a deep voice, isnt that a indicator of testo?
 
could be tons of things, bad shape, bad diet, to much masterbation. practise kegals and your sex drive will return in no time.
 
putzaras;339521 said:
masturbion? i thoughth masturbaion is a good thing, i mas. every day...

no to much is no good. if you cant get hard and masterbate a limp dick then thats a problem.
 
no medication just some anti allergic pills and astHydromaxa spray (salbutamol/cortison)

i have astHydromaxa since my 4rth birthday..
 
putzaras;339547 said:
no medication just some anti allergic pills and astHydromaxa spray (salbutamol/cortison)

i have astHydromaxa since my 4rth birthday..

It might very well be the cortisone. Cortisone can cause Cushing's syndrome-like symptoms very much in line with what you've described. Combining meds like you've been doing can also amplify the effects.

You may want to talk to your physician about changing meds.
 
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putzaras;339517 said:
mHydromax i dont know if its testo. iam quite a hairy guy i also have a deep voice, isnt that a indicator of testo?
That probably means your test levels were high for some point in your life. Does not necessarily indicate that they are currently high.
 
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