Does Size Matter to your Sexual Partner?

<P ALIGN=left>Many of you have asked us whether or not you really need to add size to your penis. Does your partner think that average isn't good enough? How big do you have to be?

When asked directly by men, some women might say "size doesn't matter". Amongst themselves though, they tell a different story. Most women agree that bigger is definitely better- especially in terms of girth.

Look around... in women's magazines, on television (like Sex in the City), even in popular film... The more liberated attitudes of recent years have gradually begun to expose the truth... that "Size Does Matter"!

Here's what some female celebrities have to say about penis size:

Janet Jackson: "I'm a size queen. Honestly. If I'm on a date and I see the guy is not packing, that's when I fake a backache. Suddenly, your back goes out. I learned that from my friends."

Shirley Manson: "Oh. (pauses). Yes I am, and any girl who tells you otherwise is a goddamn liar! 'Size queen' - I like that. I should call a song 'Size Queen.'"

Rebecca Scott- Playboy Playmate (Miss August 1999): "Girth is more important, and I'd probably like an eight-inch penis. That's a good length. It's the right size to get you going."

Elke Jensen- Playboy Playmate (Miss May 1993): "Penis size is the most important matter in a man. I could not be with a guy if his penis couldn't make me come."

What's the size most preferred by women? Well, everyone has different preferences, but it seems that most women prefer a penis 7 to 8 inches in length and about 6 inches in girth.

Let's not leave gay men out of this. It's no secret that gay men also prefer their partners to be well- endowed.

I bring this up not to try and belittle men that may have less than average endowments, but to tell it like it is.

I also bring a message of hope.

In this day and age, there's no shame in trying to better yourself. We lift weights, do cardio, and diet in the pursuit of perfection (or as close to it as we can get). That philosophy should also apply to your penis as well. There are <A HREF=http://www.mattersofsize.com/partners/index.html>penis enlargement programs</A> and <A HREF=http://www.vigrxplus.com/clicks/clickthrough.html?a=wagner >supplements</A> that you can use to maximize your size. These programs and supplements are usually
backed by cutting edge research and have money back guarantee.

You have nothing to lose, so do your best daily to improve yourself!

In conclusion, there are (or should be) more important attributes that your partner should admire about you- intelligence, sensitivity, faithfulness, etc.- but face it- SIZE MATTERS! Don't be ashamed of wanting a bigger penis when nowadays it's so easy to do- and you can do it in total discretion. At least now you have the option of being a great partner due to your mental and emotional attributes AND being well-hung!

Best!

<A HREF=http://www.forsize.com/epbig_als_bio.htm>Big Al</A>
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Big Al interesting post, my wife reckons too small is a problem but being able to use it is far more important. The statement "size matters to women" is a generalisation of women and seeing as we usually only have one partner at a time it is very much an individual thing so a generalistion is of no use. For some women you may be too big, for some too small others just right The fact that there are some women out there who enjoy big dicks and are quite upfront about this plays on our insecurities so we make the assumption that this applies to all women. The truth is penis size is only a tiny (no pun intended) part of who we are as a person and most women realise this and probably would not list it as a priority when seeking a partner. That does not mean that it is unimportant and it is wrong to try and improve on it but i think that you need to keep it in perspective as it seems to be much more important to the owner than the rest of the world around them.

Just to clarify things, I'm not making generalizations about women. From talking to women and hearing them talk to each other, I believe that penis size matters to most women to some degree. True- most women aren't looking for 10 inch monsters, but given a choice between a smaller than average penis and a larger than average penis, most women would pick "larger than average" (all other things being equal). The same thing can be said about money, social prestige, height, etc. Whether we like it or not, women do look for these things. Just browse through any W4M personal ads on the net or in print and you'll see what I mean.

The good thing is that above all else, women are drawn to confidence. Penis Enlargement is meant to be used as a confidence booster. Men that feel anxious about their penis size will feel more confident about themselves if they've done something about it.

Big Al;282155 said:

Just to clarify things, I'm not making generalizations about women. From talking to women and hearing them talk to each other, I believe that penis size matters to most women to some degree. True- most women aren't looking for 10 inch monsters, but given a choice between a smaller than average penis and a larger than average penis, most women would pick "larger than average" (all other things being equal). The same thing can be said about money, social prestige, height, etc. Whether we like it or not, women do look for these things. Just browse through any W4M personal ads on the net or in print and you'll see what I mean.

The good thing is that above all else, women are drawn to confidence. Penis Enlargement is meant to be used as a confidence booster. Men that feel anxious about their penis size will feel more confident about themselves if they've done something about it.

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I totally agree Big AL although women are sometimes as bad as men for too much bravado when they are with there friends. An interesting point though is that all the size queens I know are lonely and miserable.

bigjim7;282212 said:

I totally agree Big AL although women are sometimes as bad as men for too much bravado when they are with there friends. An interesting point though is that all the size queens I know are lonely and miserable.

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You're right- women do get down and dirty when they get together with their friends They'll talk about and do things that they normally wouldn't do alone.

Big Al;282228 said:

You're right- women do get down and dirty when they get together with their friends They'll talk about and do things that they normally wouldn't do alone.

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Last night, I was watching a program on sexuality on the discovery channel and they were interviewing women about what turns them on and what attracted them to their man. It was the first time a heard a woman say (under her breath and with a giggle), "his large penis."

We have the largest penises for our size of all the primates. There has to be an evolutionary reason for it. That also explains the attraction.

yeah but really its just like if you had the choice youd have a girl with a nice tight pussy rather than a loose bucket

Good point!! Either that or no gag reflex!!

My wife always said size didn't matter to her, but when she saw (and felt) that I was making gains through pe she changed her tune. Now she says that 7.5" x about 5.5" would be nice. I'm still working on that.

In a study done a few years ago, 2/3 of women preferred girth while 1/3 preferred length. Just food for thought.

I absolutely hate size queens. They make the rest of women and all of men look bad.

I just wish that women were more open to guys about what they really prefer. There's nothing more ridiculous than a woman telling her man she doesn't care about size and then bringing it up in a casual conversation with her girlfriends like that doesn't hurt the guy at all, because then her friends make unnecessary judgments about him.
Of course I know that women tell men they don't care because the women love them and don't want them to feel bad, but lying to them is even worse. Being "cute" about a subject that pains men to the core is also a big turnoff.

If we have the largest dicks of all primates then why the hell doesn't everybody have a large dick?

What I don't understand is why gay men would want a bigger penis on their partner. I mean, wouldn't it be more comfortable with a smaller one? The vagina is meant to stretch (births and such) but the anus, well...

size does matter. if a girl says "size doesn't matter", generally i hear them say "but my ex was too small".....go figure. my girl likes my size, but if i work on it she loves it more. it's not like it's the only thing that defines me...like one of those women said. or like janet jackson who "fakes a backach"....that's bullshit. size does matter in a way, but in others it's how you use it. you can have a monster cock and lay there letting your girl ride it, but a 7 incher poundin away at her pussy and making her scream in pleasure...who is better?

but yes, size matters to women

Shion;293695 said:

If we have the largest dicks of all primates then why the hell doesn't everybody have a large dick?

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Compared to other primates, we do. Penis size has a genetic component.

Here's an interesting article on evolutionary psychology that discusses how sperm competition has played a role in the evolution of the human penis: http://www.epjournal.net/filestore/ep021223.pdf .

Given the relatively high percentage of paternity fraud (see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternity_fraud and its links and references), the overall size of the human penis may indeed be increasing.

Just re-reading this article and some of the comments by those female celebrities.
So, most women admit that size matters and they like a big one. But the thing is, what constitutes 'big' varies from woman to woman. Furthermore, their perception of size might vary. It's possible that a woman may think that 7" is really big. It may also be that she overestimates penis size by about an inch. Therefore she could be with a 6" guy and class him as 'really big'. By the same token a different woman may only class 8" or above as big. While they all say they like big ones, each woman's definition of a big one may differ.

As an example back in uni I remember two girls discussing this one guy that one of them slept with. Apparently he was huge and they referred to him as King Kong (ironic since apparently gorillas have really small penises!) so I asked how big he was - the reply was 'at least 6 or 7 inches'. So, that was huge in her eyes.

How does paternity fraud indicate increased penis size?

The best indication of future penis size is sperm count, smaller testes are correlated with larger penises.

Nice thread find Rakas.

I was actually talking to my girlfriend about this today. She said I 'enlightened her'. I asked what she meant and she said 'Sex is so much better with a bigger penis, and it actually does fit well if I'm turned on'. She was very tight when we met over a year ago, and she has definitely stretched out since I've been with her.

Now she's been with a guy who was apparently small and couldn't use it at all, and a guy who was big who couldn't use it either. The small guy didn't satisfy her and the big guy hurt her. She said I'm bigger than he was and that I can easily hurt her, but the way I move is exactly what she needs. She says it's a cross between a big cock and the 'motion in the ocean'. Seems like the motion in the ocean is key, and a big cock is a big bonus, provided you can use it right.

My partners don't care too much about size...My left hand is more of a size queen than my right