Condom Leakage; need input

My girl who was a virgin until last week or so, may have gotten some more love juice in her.

The first time was when I went bareback on her for a while due to it being so tight. I was afraid a little may have gotten in so I picked up Plan B from the local Family Planning office which was free.

Now last night after having sex I noticed that my **** was somewhat slippery after sex. I thought it was natural lubrication at first then discovered some come had escaped from the bottom of the condom, it wasn't a large amount, but when it comes to this any amount is too much.

It will cost me $35 to go get that Plan B again since it's no longer my first time there. So I'm sort of worried I might spend $35 on something that might not even happen.

Anyone ever have condom leakage, not breakage?

Lets see. $35 vs a child that costs thousands over the course of its life? Spend th money. i dont belive in abortion, but if you can stop it before it developes...then do it.

Lets see. $35 vs a child that costs thousands over the course of its life? Spend the money. i dont belive in abortion, but if you can stop it before it developes...then do it.

Better safe than sorry. Get a better condom next time, too.

dude i get scares like this every 3 or 4 months. i feel your pain. its always in the back of yor mind did i slip. I going to try an help. depending on the condom used you can relax, if the condom contains minoxadel 9 it will kill sperm leakage. its a spermaside. did the seamen touch air cause if it did its dead. sperm cant last that long in our atmosphere only 6 sec.
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Had another scare a few nights ago.

I was having sex and would pull out every 2-3 minutes to check on the condom. Around the 7th or 8th pull out I felt the sex really feeling great and I was nearing climax. So I pulled out and discovered my condom was ripped. I told her that it ripped and had her whack me off while I found a new one.

We finished up sex with a new condom that I believe said it contained spermicide on the wrapper.

I'm not too scared about this one due to the fact she was on her period (least likely time to get pregnant), I didn't cum inside of her (precum may be an issue), I finished up sex with a condom containing spermicide and after sex I put a condom on my finger and rubbed around in her vagina to kill any remaining sperm.

joey_styles said:

dude i get scares like this every 3 or 4 months. i feel your pain. its always in the back of yor mind did i slip. I going to try an help. depending on the condom used you can relax, if the condom contains minoxadel 9 it will kill sperm leakage. its a spermaside. did the seamen touch air cause if it did its dead. sperm cant last that long in our atmosphere only 6 sec.
hope i helped

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That's not completely true... the sperm itself may not live long in air but the fact that it's in seminal fluid changes everything. Think about this... sperm donors shoot into an open cup which exposes the ejaculate to air. The sperm stays alive long enough for doctors to do sperm counts and tests for STDs before it is frozen for later use.

bonerballs;275640 said:

Had another scare a few nights ago.

I was having sex and would pull out every 2-3 minutes to check on the condom. Around the 7th or 8th pull out I felt the sex really feeling great and I was nearing climax. So I pulled out and discovered my condom was ripped. I told her that it ripped and had her whack me off while I found a new one.

We finished up sex with a new condom that I believe said it contained spermicide on the wrapper.

I'm not too scared about this one due to the fact she was on her period (least likely time to get pregnant), I didn't cum inside of her (precum may be an issue), I finished up sex with a condom containing spermicide and after sex I put a condom on my finger and rubbed around in her vagina to kill any remaining sperm.

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I think that if you guys plan on sticking together, then it would be best to put HER on some kind of BC. Being worried is alright a couple times, but when it seems to be getting routine like this, quit taking chances and double your safety.

Also, leakage? I've been around the block a few times already and the ONE time I've seen leakage, it was because the smart ass bought condoms that were too big! Go with a better fitting condom, which I'm sure seems to be a contradiction about the break. The damn thing's breaking was probably a fault of your own. Here's what it could be, and how to fix it.

-Improper use. Relearn how to put a condom on, preferably doing so without her even in the same ROOM, much less having sex. When you roll that little bugger over your "friend", you should squeeze the resevoir so that the WHOLE pocket is completely deflated and left hanging from your tip, not stretched at all.
-Too much stretching. This happens when, even though the right size condom is worn properly, the latex is stretched and ripped by excess friction. Ever heard the myth about "double wrapping?" NEVER DO IT! It causes too much friction, which in turn makes it more likely for both condoms to rip. Friction is caused by lack of lubrication. So next time, use a water-based lubricant with the condom to keep it from breaking. (just make sure that it is WATER-based, has no warnings about condoms, and is a specially formulated Penis EnlargementRSONAL lubricant)

There's also the chance of a just plain faulty condom. Which, in that case, should make you awful happy that you took my first piece of advice about putting HER on some kind of (non-vaginal) birth control!

She started the pill a week or two ago, but it takes a while to work.

I don't buy magnums or anything and I have a average size penis, so I don't know why cum keeps leaking out.

I think that the morning-after pill is stupid. Being responsible is key when it comes to things like sex and to put things in perspective, sex was designed for one thing only....reproduction. I think that wearing a condom is good and all and if the girl's on BC that's cool too, but once the sperm enters into the egg, no matter what point, I think that it is wrong to kill it and taking the pill is the same to me. If you really don't want kids, then don't take the risk of having sex and remain abstinent until you are ready to assume the responsibility of being a parent.

I think that all of your views on having children are distorted somewhat and that if you aren't willing to be fathers to a child, then don't have sex, plain and simple. And remember, NEVER leave condoms in the heat, for instance your car, and DON'T put them in your back pocket or wallet, pretty much anywhere that will weaken the condom, that is probably a HUGE factor.

Ninja77;277943 said:

I think that the morning-after pill is stupid. Being responsible is key when it comes to things like sex and to put things in perspective, sex was designed for one thing only....reproduction. I think that wearing a condom is good and all and if the girl's on BC that's cool too, but once the sperm enters into the egg, no matter what point, I think that it is wrong to kill it and taking the pill is the same to me. If you really don't want kids, then don't take the risk of having sex and remain abstinent until you are ready to assume the responsibility of being a parent.

I think that all of your views on having children are distorted somewhat and that if you aren't willing to be fathers to a child, then don't have sex, plain and simple.

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First of all, don't give an uninformed opinion, it makes you sound sili. EC birth control does not "abort" a pregnancy. Many pregnancies can take as much as a whole week just for the sperm to meet egg. How EC works is to prevent the sperm and egg from fusing, and should they do so, they can't attach to a uterine wall. Meaning, no wall = no blood supply = no baby in the very first place.
And in his case, yes, the thought of continuously using EC as a problem solver was irresponsible, but have you thought of the OTHER hundreds of thousands of women who need EC? If it had been available to me when I was 13, I wouldn't have suffered the trauma of not only getting pregnant due to a condom breaking MY FIRST TIME, but also losing the baby later because my body couldn't handle the pregnancy. My sister recently had the same problem and cried herself to sleep on my shoulder every night because at 15, also only her second time, the condom broke and in my state, minors have to have a legal guardian present and a prescription to get EC. Even of age women can't get it over the counter yet. And what about the victims of rape? Wouldn't it be better to PREVENT a pregnancy from occuring and save herself the pain and torture of having to carry a child for 9 months, then having to either live with that child being with it's foster/adoptive parents, or even in her own home, to remind her every day of one assholes need to abuse her?

You see, I'm VERY left wing about the pill, because it PREVENTS pregnancies from occuring, but I am terribly right wing about abortion. You should NEVER mix the two up.

Fuck condoms!!!! if you are eating pussy or she is blowing you they don't help for fighting desise, and as far as stoping pregnancy they suck. Take her to planned parenthood and get her on the pill asap!!!! then you can just relax and make love with out freaking out. I know I have been through a few pregnancy scares in my life and when you finaly go to the pill its the best piece of mind ever

I think someone needs to look into "anal sex."

robjeremy;277947 said:

Fuck condoms!!!! if you are eating pussy or she is blowing you they don't help for fighting desise, and as far as stoping pregnancy they suck. Take her to planned parenthood and get her on the pill asap!!!! then you can just relax and make love with out freaking out. I know I have been through a few pregnancy scares in my life and when you finaly go to the pill its the best piece of mind ever

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The hell is WRONG with you?! Are you totally ignorant? I don't mean to be a cunt or anything, but jeeze-louis man, get a fucking education! As I started before, making an uminformed statement only makes you look like an ass. As a matter of fact, I'll dive in with the worst STD known to all mankind, HIV and the usually resulting AIDS.

Any qualified doctor (and even most high school students, abstinent or not) will tell you that the transmission of HIV occurs when any bodily fluid, be it blood, piss, pus, breastmilk or sexual fluids, etc, comes into contact with a mucous membrane or open sore. Just about the whole penis (not counting the scrotum) is made up of a mucous membrane, as well as the whole of a woman's vulva, except for the labia majora. Other mucous membranes are present in the nostrils, anus, ears, and a good portion of the mouth.

What does this mean? Any unprotected sexual activity can result in HIV transmission. Hell, FINGERING a chick with HIV while you have a PAPenis EnlargementR CUT can give you HIV.

The only effective measures against HIV? Abstinence and condoms. The only way to kill HIV? Bleach, which by, the way, is not drinkable.

Now that I've given a full case on why condoms are a nessecary to prevent diseases, I feel I should mention that, besides abstinence, condoms are also the most effective way to prevent pregnancy.

Closing statement? USE A CONDOM OR ENJOY YOUR AIDS!

Yes, try fucking her arse.
Nothing feels better than droping a load up a females shit shoot.

WaterNymph;277946 said:

First of all, don't give an uninformed opinion, it makes you sound sili. EC birth control does not "abort" a pregnancy. Many pregnancies can take as much as a whole week just for the sperm to meet egg. How EC works is to prevent the sperm and egg from fusing, and should they do so, they can't attach to a uterine wall. Meaning, no wall = no blood supply = no baby in the very first place.
And in his case, yes, the thought of continuously using EC as a problem solver was irresponsible, but have you thought of the OTHER hundreds of thousands of women who need EC? If it had been available to me when I was 13, I wouldn't have suffered the trauma of not only getting pregnant due to a condom breaking MY FIRST TIME, but also losing the baby later because my body couldn't handle the pregnancy. My sister recently had the same problem and cried herself to sleep on my shoulder every night because at 15, also only her second time, the condom broke and in my state, minors have to have a legal guardian present and a prescription to get EC. Even of age women can't get it over the counter yet. And what about the victims of rape? Wouldn't it be better to PREVENT a pregnancy from occuring and save herself the pain and torture of having to carry a child for 9 months, then having to either live with that child being with it's foster/adoptive parents, or even in her own home, to remind her every day of one assholes need to abuse her?

You see, I'm VERY left wing about the pill, because it PREVENTS pregnancies from occuring, but I am terribly right wing about abortion. You should NEVER mix the two up.

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Ok, I NEVER said anything about rape in the first place, I was talking about consensual sex. I believe whole-heartedly that if a woman is raped by any means that it is an entire different story. Secondly, 13 year old girls shouldn't be having sex in the first place, as you said, your body could not handle the pregnancy and it was due to you being too young which means that if you are TOO young to handle a baby, you are TOO young to be having sex, plain and simple. My point is that there is a lot of responsibility when it comes to sex. You can't just go out fuc*ing whoever you want and not expect things like pregnancy to occur or even worse things such as STDs.

Most people these days take things like sex with a grain of salt until they either become pregnant or to a more serious point, when they end up with HIV or some other irreversible, life-threatening disease. Many people use the old "I was drunk" excuse as to why they had sex with a person and my views on it are, you should have never been so irresponsible to have put yourself in that position in the first place. STDs and pregnancy are 100% preventable and if you feel like you have to have sex, then you need to have already prepared yourself mentally for those responsibilities. This is why there are statutory rape laws in place anyhow, even if BOTH parties are under age, it is considered statutory rape on BOTH, even if consensual.

WaterNymph;278075 said:

The hell is WRONG with you?! Are you totally ignorant? I don't mean to be a cunt or anything, but jeeze-louis man, get a fucking education! As I started before, making an uminformed statement only makes you look like an ass. As a matter of fact, I'll dive in with the worst STD known to all mankind, HIV and the usually resulting AIDS.

Any qualified doctor (and even most high school students, abstinent or not) will tell you that the transmission of HIV occurs when any bodily fluid, be it blood, piss, pus, breastmilk or sexual fluids, etc, comes into contact with a mucous membrane or open sore. Just about the whole penis (not counting the scrotum) is made up of a mucous membrane, as well as the whole of a woman's vulva, except for the labia majora. Other mucous membranes are present in the nostrils, anus, ears, and a good portion of the mouth.

What does this mean? Any unprotected sexual activity can result in HIV transmission. Hell, FINGERING a chick with HIV while you have a PAPenis EnlargementR CUT can give you HIV.

The only effective measures against HIV? Abstinence and condoms. The only way to kill HIV? Bleach, which by, the way, is not drinkable.

Now that I've given a full case on why condoms are a nessecary to prevent diseases, I feel I should mention that, besides abstinence, condoms are also the most effective way to prevent pregnancy.

Closing statement? USE A CONDOM OR ENJOY YOUR AIDS!

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Okay, you make me laugh, lol. To say that the entire penis is a "mucous membrane"? That is the most uneducated statement I ever heard anybody say. Being as educated as you try to make yourself out to be, you should know that women are 10 times more likely to contract HIV than males. Condoms are not 100% effective on preventing any STD. And for a little education for you, drinking bleach would not kill an STD and it is not that you can't drink bleach, because you can, it's that you can't inject bleach into your veins without dying. There was a story about two kids about the ages of 9 and 10 who's stepfather would make them drink a cup of bleach a day for about 2 weeks and then hung them in a closet by their feet. By the time they were found, they were extremely sick and had a few other health problems, but the moral of the story is that they survived with no life-threatening damage. The worst-case scenario of drinking large amounts of bleach would really do would eat your esophagus, but not necessarily kill you, because you can survive without your esophagus if they extend your small intestine which basically becomes your new intestine (actually happened in real life). Anyway, enough of all that crap. The point is that you sound young and don't really know what you're talking about, so please, if you're going to make statements on here, make sure you know if they are true or not.

Forgot to add that the ONLY part of the penis that is a mucous membrane is the glans, or head of the penis, and in uncircumsized men, the inside of the foreskin, which is nowhere near the entire length of the penis.

Oh and waternymph, condoms, besides abstinence, are NOT the most effective way to prevent pregnancy, as a matter of fact, condoms are like the 3rd or 4th most effective method of preventing pregnancy, I think the number was like 85-90% effective I think that diaphragms are even more-so and there are a few others. You should go into a OB office, they have a list of all the different ways to prevent pregnancy and tell exactly how effective they are at preventing it. GAH educate yourself woman, I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here or something.