Bad news hits home - a bigger guy

My girlfriend is the sweetest, most wonderful, most honest person ever. She would never try to intimidate me or control me. Anyways, after almost a year she finally asked me how many other girls I'd been with, which was quite a few. I asked her the same, and she said 3 others, one being forced. Even though I've been with other women, it still hurts to think about her with someone else.

I also had the nerve to ask if she'd been with anyone bigger. She said yes, girth-wise. She mentioned how he was ungodly huge, and it hurt and she would never want one that big. I don't know how to interpret that - I'm 5.2" EG and usually have to work her up a little bit for it. How big could he have been? I don't know.

One of my goals for being with her was to have the biggest penis she's ever been had. I thought I was getting close, or already there. She talk constantly about how big it is and how much she likes it. But now that I know she's been with some Shane-esque dude, it really beats down on my confidence.

I don't know, I don't want to get so big that she doesn't enjoy having sex with me, but I'll be damned if I let her have been with someone bigger. I want to be the biggest and best in every way of any man she's ever been with. Including the penis. It's difficult.

"but I'll be damned if I let her have been with someone bigger." .. Sugar , you have no choice, its already been done. And if she stated she did not like it , then why try to out do it ? your headed to break up alley you keep going there. Why not look at the other side and make sure your the best LOVER she has ever in a million years had sex with ??? make it so she is ruined for wanting sex with any other man. now thats the way to make a impression ( just my humble opinion )

AlloyCG said:

My girlfriend is the sweetest, most wonderful, most honest person ever. She would never try to intimidate me or control me. Anyways, after almost a year she finally asked me how many other girls I'd been with, which was quite a few. I asked her the same, and she said 3 others, one being forced. Even though I've been with other women, it still hurts to think about her with someone else.

I also had the nerve to ask if she'd been with anyone bigger. She said yes, girth-wise. She mentioned how he was ungodly huge, and it hurt and she would never want one that big. I don't know how to interpret that - I'm 5.2" EG and usually have to work her up a little bit for it. How big could he have been? I don't know.

One of my goals for being with her was to have the biggest penis she's ever been had. I thought I was getting close, or already there. She talk constantly about how big it is and how much she likes it. But now that I know she's been with some Shane-esque dude, it really beats down on my confidence.

I don't know, I don't want to get so big that she doesn't enjoy having sex with me, but I'll be damned if I let her have been with someone bigger. I want to be the biggest and best in every way of any man she's ever been with. Including the penis. It's difficult.

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Lol, such is a man's plight. Damn difficult and especially the penis in most cases is what most men would say there. Man, she's with you. And I know you realize what that means. Keep your chin up you massive bastard

Dont worry about it.
This is a man thing, and a slight kock to the confidence.
Its NORMAL for a male to feel like you do when and if he finds that certain info out, he feels kinda inferior to that last 'man'.
I have been there myself, my long parted Ex used to have a BF who was over 10 inches in length, and she can measure as shes a cop and knows the trunction size ect ect and told me it was the LONGEST cock she ever had, but myn was the thickest and best and better still cos she LOVED ME. You sound like you have a good thing going with this lass, and you love eachother.....so it dunt matter about thicker dicks. I mean look at it like this, it WORKS FOR ME and MAKES SENSE.
I'm going out with a new girl now, shes REALLY sexy and has Latin roots. Shes got the face, body, tan, ass, and the inside too....yet her breasts aint large, infact they are TINY....I have seen ALOT bigger, and I enjoy big boobs to suck and fuck, but it dunt matter cos I feel I LOVE thos girl, so it dunt matter. I'm 110% sure you have seen a girl with bigger boobs or ass than ya girl now? or a sexyer one? Its the same comparison, and if you said to you girl that your ex was HUGE infront, than she'd feel similer to you, albeit woman dont show the emotions the same as us males.
Dont worry about it, most of us have been their. Just think about it, you love her...she loves you.....that was in the past.....she said it wasnt great.....she has moved on.....she says she likes your cock.....you CAN get BIGGER, so GO FOR IT.
Use the knock as further motivation to move even further forward.
More to life than the size of a penis, and I know girls love a GOOD LOVER in bed than a monster useless cock ANYDAY and I happen to be a STALLION in bed lol

Does your girlfriend know that you Penis Enlargement? Maybe she secretly loves your new size and is trying to make you feel jealous by creating an imaginary cockzilla ex so that you will keep gaining.

As much as those statements can truly crush a guy, they dont have to mean much. If you let them, they will ruin you and your relationship. You seem much too level headed and intelligent to let that happen. If you dont allow her statement to totally be released from your thoughts, then only bad things can happen.

PLUS you now have a HUGE advantage. Penis Enlargement is the best tool for any guy who has had issues with "the Ex's size". I recently had one of my ex girlfriends tell me that her current guy was longer than I was. I was rather surprised at my reaction. In the past I would have mentally freaked out and asked a million questions trying to figure out just how big he was. When she said it recently I just thought "SO WHAT, that wont be the case for very long, if it even is still true". My mindset has totally changed.

Good luck man.

Dude, I had the EXACT same issue with my wife. She had been with 3 previous. One was evidently really thick. It hurt. She didn't like it. EXACT same story. I did not deal with it very well (that's an understatement). It's a wonder we made it through all that (because of me). It still hurts me, but it hasn't been an issue for us in nearly a year (which is by far the longest we've ever gone without fighting about it). That said, I still think about it frequently. This is my torture and my reason for Penis Enlargement.

Dude, if you want to talk, I've been there.

Every guy asks The Question, and every single guy gets the same fucking answer. I've been married ten years. I asked The Question ten years ago and got the same fucking answer. First of all, I can tell you from having sex like a zillion times that a woman's perception of size is based upon both her partner's actual size and a dozen other things like how lubed she is, how sober she is, how turned on she is, how much she likes the guy, etc. etc. etc. She may even be lying to you about it for some reason, tho you will never find that out for sure. Although my wife tells me that I am now the biggest she has ever been with, I will never ever know for sure...and you will never know the truth for sure either, no matter how many times you ask and how long you Penis Enlargement. For all I know (and you know) she may have been with just 1 guy or 100. The best thing for any man mentally is to just not worry about it too much. Do your Penis Enlargement, fuck her as good as you can, and for God's sake make sure you are getting yours too. Enjoy that pussy, brother! It's yours now! If she's loving it and you're loving it, then there's not gonna be a problem. All the worrying about the past BS will just ruin your sex life...and maybe even damage your relationship.

I also think its kinda funny how every guy's woman has only been with 3 men. I think there is a "Three Guy Rule" with experienced women. I guess they figure 3 is enough for their current guy to not call bullshit without looking like a slut! :D

There is always "the bigger guy" like damn I wanna know who this "guy" is. Just like Kong said no matter what there will always be a bigger dude.

Maybe women say this purposely to bust our confidence so that they feel we will have to work harder. They want us to work harder to leave a better impression than this "bigger guy" so that means in the bedroom and out of the bedroom since we have to make up for the fact that we are not this "bigger guy". Im no longer worried when women tell me this unless they can back it up with some action pictures or something.

Let me guess...you asked her who the guy is and she was like, "Ooh, I don't feel comfortable talking about that!" If I'm right, then chill. It's BS. If I'm wrong and she said an actual person you know, just Penis Enlargement harder and don't worry about it. You'll have him beat soon enough. Took me about six months of Penis Enlargement before my wife finally started saying, "Yours is the biggest dick I ever had now!"

Thanks for the feedback guys. She knows I Penis Enlargement, but she doesn't know the extent of my penis envy. I think a lot of you hit on good points, if the sex is good, rock on. And is it ever. Even so, I've got that lingering thought she's been with someone bigger.

I'm above that. I can knock it out like nobody's business. And goddamnit, I'm cool, loving, sensitive... but a perfectionist. And she's been with someone bigger.

Just aked her how big. She said "How big is yours?" "5.2 or so." "Oh, probably twice that." I feel pretty fucking bad.

the more you think about it, the more it'll fuck you up, even if your thinking about ways to reduce envy or whatever. best bet is to not care and not think about it.

AlloyCG said:

"Oh, probably twice that."

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That should tell you something right there. I'd be willing to bet a good chunk of cash that he couldn't have been much thicker than 6. If he was then he was definitely a rare bird, and more than likely, really was too big for her and it hurt.

9cyclops9 said:

That should tell you something right there. I'd be willing to bet a good chunk of cash that he couldn't have been much thicker than 6. If he was then he was definitely a rare bird, and more than likely, really was too big for her and it hurt.

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I was thinking the same thing. She also mentioned that he had no length. So, worst case scenario - he may have been 6x6.5. I'd wager a 9x6 would look tremendously bigger any day. It may be over a year down the road, but anything between 8x5.5 for me is money. I think I can feel good about myself around that time.

I agree though, it's RARE to find a dude starting over 6" EG. Maybe I will have the oppurtunity to pass him up soon enough, and actually give it to her right. Like she deserves to have it.

9cyclops9 said:

That should tell you something right there. I'd be willing to bet a good chunk of cash that he couldn't have been much thicker than 6. If he was then he was definitely a rare bird, and more than likely, really was too big for her and it hurt.

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I was thinking the same thing. She also mentioned that he had no length. So, worst case scenario - he may have been 6x6.5. I'd wager a 9x6 would look tremendously bigger any day. It may be over a year down the road, but anything between 8x5.5 for me is money. I think I can feel good about myself around that time.

I agree though, it's RARE to find a dude starting over 6" EG. Maybe I will have the oppurtunity to pass him up soon enough, and actually give it to her right. Like she deserves to have it.

kong1971 said:

I also think its kinda funny how every guy's woman has only been with 3 men. I think there is a "Three Guy Rule" with experienced women. I guess they figure 3 is enough for their current guy to not call bullshit without looking like a slut! :D

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haha wtf my girl has been with 3 other guys and one was forced. I think we are on to somthing

Have you thought about this.When she said that he`s was probably twice that,she actualy might be very close!In my country there is a mathematic formula(i dont know if the same letters are used in U.S.A) p=r*2 x pi.
My girth surface before i started Penis Enlargement was 1.65*2 x 3.14=8.54cm2 ,and now is 2*2 x 3.14 =12.56cm2. 12.56-8.54=about 4 cm2.That leads to conclusion that i have increased my girth surface area for around 50%.

If he is realy close to "twice your size" his girth should be around 6.5 inches!

Ok so he was way too big girth-wise and not enough (it sounds like) length-wise, so he was no good in both departments, yet that's bad news?? Lol you can beat him where he was lacking, and keep increasing your girth to the perfect size, you should be glad!