Would you keep PE a secret from your GF or significant other?

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Hello Guys,

My question for you guys is would you keep PE a secret from your GF or significant other? Please give me honest responses!

My dilemma is that I am in a long distance relationship and I haven't seen her since I started PE a month ago, and I want to tell her when she notices a big difference in a few months! The problem is I told her I got a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x30[/words] back in January 2015 because I wanted to make my penis thicker so I could fill her up and stretch her out more. Well that didn't go to well and she said it was weird, creepy, and that it turned her off.

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I wish men would just be men and tell people they're in a relationship with about their PE. It's your penis. If you want to make it bigger, you don't need her approval.
 
People usually don't have a problem with a guy wanting to lift weights and build up his muscles but because it is the penis they think it is weird or wrong to want to make it bigger. I agree, if you want to make your penis bigger then do it.
 
Girls love a big cock, they just don't like insecurity. Be happy and confident with what you have, and make it bigger. I am doing this for me, my wife gets the bonus. She does not know, but I am tired of hearing "You are perfect the way you are." Then I hit the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] right before sex and her eyes go crossed. Ha yeah right dear.
 
Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls.

I have been in a relationship with the same woman for 3 years and I've been doing pe for about 6 months and she doesn't know know but she totally knows something is up. She LOVES my dick after a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] session. She refers to it as big and fat and that it's "her dick" and all that good stuff but I don't know how she'd feel if she knew it was from pe. If she ever asks me for real or catches me in the act I'll tell her but otherwise I want to keep it my secret. Because GIRLS WILL ABSOLUTELY TELL EVERYONE YOU DO PE when you break up. That's just how they are.
 
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tb007;640301 said:
Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls.

I have been in a relationship with the same woman for 3 years and I've been doing pe for about 6 months and she doesn't know know but she totally knows something is up. She LOVES my dick after a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] session. She refers to it as big and fat and that it's "her dick" and all that good stuff but I don't know how she'd feel if she knew it was from pe. If she ever asks me for real or catches me in the act I'll tell her but otherwise I want to keep it my secret. Because girls WILL ABSOLUTELY TELL EVERYONE YOU DO PE when you break up. That's just how they are.
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Thank you for me bringing me todays first real laughter, yep they´re really emotionally stupid like no others, well maybe 3-5 yr old children;) Off topic and on a side note about women. My best friend his ex gf has told people that my friend held her at home. The thing is she is passive, submissive and not as crazy & unique personality that she in her universe beliefs. So instead of owning up/admitting, she´s emotionally blaming him however she could have left anytime she wanted to go outside more, meet friends etc etc. The danger, the danger, can you see in front of you when she has said that to 5 - 6 different people? Since it´s slightly altered from ear to ear he´s now the neighborhoods Josef Fritzl who kept her against her will in the basement yada yada.

Conclusion: If you break up she will definitely tell EVERYONE that you´re doing PE, EVERYONE;)

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Women cant live with them cant live without them.
 
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The ladies wouldnt even know how to explain this to her friends,and very few guys will be able to keep pace whit this PE stuff,i have been exercising for years using my hands only i have had dissapointments,frustrations,downers,evenso i think about PE and i want to get bigger,I remember D words when i let him know about my gains when i started whit this 5.2incher to 7+bpel he was like wtf

Now i want to get way bigger took me years to get 7, i have had breaks,and didnt have enough understanding of how to have a good routine,its been trial and error,besides most of my routines were quite simple and still they are IMO,women how would they explain what is this PE stuff,They have no clue..We do this because we want to impress them we want them to enjoy a bigger dick,but if i had a lady and she tries to hurt me by letting her friend or whatevr know about PE,nothing could happen because PE is not that simple..its not only grabbing your penis and pulling forward until you get elongated because thats the way they understand it ......
 
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Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls. True........
 
I have seen threads asking this same question a few times... it seems like the general consensus is don't rub PE in their face because it is not attractive, but if you are in a long term relationship you shouldn't be hiding things either. Basically its YOUR body do what YOU want, but don't look for the females approval its for YOU.
 
PE is a Personal Endeavor for Personal Enhancement which will eventually affect others you are involved with intimately.

Two of the most common reasons that people keep secrets from their spouse or significant other is fear of losing or hurting their partner(s); or both. I don't think that's the case with your dilemma. You might want to think about your motivation for giving full-disclosure of doing PE before revealing your secret endeavor.
 
It's generally not advised to attempt education a chip munk in rocket science.

On a serious note. They don't have a cock. They don't know how and why we do what we do.

And to admit that she wants a bigger penis is a betrayal of you. I have never had a girl who said she wasnt happy with my size. But i never heard complains about my size increase either.

I never had a girl who told me to workout more. But when i took a period of 3 mobth with hardcore training and dieting the most hippie girl with all these "i don't care about looks" statements. Started to get really freaky with me.

So ye don't tell them what you do. And when they notice it has grown just sot back smile and tell her it is happy to see her (chicks love that :) )
 
Besides look up a female magazine:

"How do you make him want you more?"

"These exercises makes you tight as a virgin"

"How to make your boobs look 2 sizes bigger"

"How to get a flat tommy"

"Does he know you are cheating on him?"

Most articles for women is about sex temptation around sex or preparation to sex.

And yet they not understanding our need for improvement?

But then again. I don't wanna know the girls make up secrets. Why should i tell them mine
 
Most articles for women is about sex temptation around sex or preparation to sex.

And yet they not understanding our need for improvement?

But then again. I don't wanna know the girls make up secrets. Why should i tell them mine

yep I love PE even at the end of the day im depleted stressed ntired i need some Exercise sometimes i have energy for 25 mins only and i cant say no...If the ladies r getting mad because we are getting bigger screw them (literally)LOL
 
If they hid the fact they modified their body from you, would you be upset? If they wanted breast implants, but you didn't think they needed it, would you protest ?
 
stillwantmore2;640370 said:
If they hid the fact they modified their body from you, would you be upset? If they wanted breast implants, but you didn't think they needed it, would you protest ?
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Yeah, but that's not quite equivalent. No one is looking to spend big on a cock 'enlargement' operation, or to get a cock-implant.

Now if my woman was spending hours making her boobs larger. Up to her. And two, that would be great... if it wasn't a move to get other sexual partners...
mmm...
that may be what is causing disquiet in the minds of a lot of partners when their man starts doing PE. What is he planning with this new cock?...

And on that point their concerns may yet prove valid.
 
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Personally I would keep it completely secretive. The last relationship I was in ended largely because of PE. In the beginning she loved it but eventually she became completely jealous and resentful and the woman I loved left me for good.
 
owmaballs;640376 said:
Yeah, but that's not quite equivalent. No one is looking to spend big ona cock op, or to get a cock-implant.

Now if my woman was spending hours making her boobs larger. Up to her. And two, that would be great... if it wasn't a move to get other sexual partners...
mmm...
that may be what is causing disquiet in the minds of a lot of partners when their man starts doing PE. What is he planning with this new cock?...

And on that point their concerns may yet prove valid.
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Actually many men spend $8,000-+$20,000 on plalloplasty including implants.

What is she planning with the new boobs, facelift, tummy tuck, etc? Moot argument, really.
 
stillwantmore2;640413 said:
Actually many men spend $8,000-+$20,000 on plalloplasty including implants.

What is she planning with the new boobs, facelift, tummy tuck, etc? Moot argument, really.
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Plastic surgery in both genders is on the rise, but we are discussing a guy doing PE revealing it to his partner.

You agreeing that if a woman is getting work done she's maintaining her viability to get more lovers? She could be doing it to defend her position against younger or in better shape potential lovers of her man.
 
stillwantmore2;640370 said:
If they hid the fact they modified their body from you, would you be upset? If they wanted breast implants, but you didn't think they needed it, would you protest ?
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if she could make her tits bigger and more firm by natural exercises while she made sure she didnt have cancer etc. i would encourage it 100%.

however implants is unnatural and should be compared to a guy getting a penis operation (which is a drastic measure)

however i did have 1 girl who wanted to get a boob job while we where dating. and what i told her is my opinion.

if you get bigger tits i will be playing with them and love them. but i will do the very same with your tits now.

if you do it to make me happy we need to have a talk. something is wrong. if you do it to make other people happy. then you need to talk with someone else, as something is wrong.

if you do it for your self. and you want it for yourself. then do it. and i will support you. it is your body not mine.

basicly i am giving her the same freedom over her body as i expect to get over mine.

i expect my girlfriend to stay in shape.

not in six pack abs shape. but i don't want a girl who becomes one with the couch and starts talking the hut language "jamungujava!!!"

so. i stay in shape and have the same demands to myself.

give what you expect to get.
 
CreampieLover89;640538 said:
Thanks everyone for your answers!

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Thanks for asking the question, this thread has helped many men.
 
doublelongdaddy;640397 said:
Personally I would keep it completely secretive. The last relationship I was in ended largely because of PE. In the beginning she loved it but eventually she became completely jealous and resentful and the woman I loved left me for good.
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Pretty much same thing happened to me except she never left me. But it did cause big problems for me which help caused us to break up. I suggest not telling her unless she catches you in the act. If your in the bathroom for a long time doing PE just make excuses. Most woman don't like PE and even if they like it they could be pretending or could turn to bad!
 
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Damn jealous women wonder why they dont let their men get bigger they would get something good out of that dumb people...
 
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Dude, never tell her that you are doing PE. That is a huge mistake. Just grow your shit, keep it to yourself, and make her take it... deeeeeeep.

Do not reveal your insecurities to a woman unless she reveals them first. But do not, do not ever talk about your dick. She will not understand. She'll talk about how she's insecure about her beasts, her loose ass pussy, whatever, but you never ever bring up your dick and you especially if you're doing PE. Just don't do it man. Tell her some bullshit to relate like, "Yeah, I wish my hair grew this way or I wish I was in better shape too blah blah blah". Then she'll think you're normal cause that's the stuff in men's magazines that tell us what we're supposed to be insecure about. It doesn't matter if you're honest, just emotionally relate - that's good enough.
 
if you live with a woman it's kinda impossible to hide PE. Personally my wife usually comes in while I'm pumping to watch for a little bit, or if she's taking a bath I sometimes come in the bathroom and do a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bath mate[/words] session. Some women think it's hot, some don't. All women have the potential to be jealous of you bettering yourself so it's something to watch out for. Also if you do it all day long they might think you are just playing with yourself or obsessing which is s turn off.
 
acromegaly;642382 said:
if you live with a woman it's kinda impossible to hide PE. Personally my wife usually comes in while I'm pumping to watch for a little bit, or if she's taking a bath I sometimes come in the bathroom and do a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bath mate[/words] session. Some women think it's hot, some don't. All women have the potential to be jealous of you bettering yourself so it's something to watch out for. Also if you do it all day long they might think you are just playing with yourself or obsessing which is s turn off.
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I had this myself for a long while, my ex-girl loved watching and peeking in on me but eventually that turned to hate and resentment. When she left me, in her letter, she said PE was part of why she left me.
 
GirthGains;642453 said:
I don't think she was the right one for you dld. No woman's gonna stop me from doing PE! PE for Life! Lol
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Word! You are so right!
 
GirthGains;642453 said:
I don't think she was the right one for you dld. No woman's gonna stop me from doing PE! PE for Life! Lol
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No Woman, or Nobody should have the right to stop you from living your life or hinder your happiness ...unless they own you.
 
Threak-X;642523 said:
No Woman, or Nobody should have the right to stop you from living your life or hinder your happiness ...unless they own you.
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Yup, this is the truth and if someone you are with is holding you back from your happiness they need to be let go.
 
The GF commented that I felt bigger inside her :cool: while it wasn't a big difference to me I guess getting to 5.5 MEG and 6 BEG is a bigger accomplishment than I thought! After she said that, I told her it was because of Kegels and Reverse Kegels lol but then I told her I would use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] for one month to see if it works... She then got excited and said she still thinks the pump is weird but now wants to see if it works...WOMEN! She still has no idea about DLD Phase 1 routine and the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words]. Cant wait to get more encouraging comments on May 6 till May 10 such as "Baby your cock feels huge inside me"

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I had a dream I was having sex with a girl and she was super wet and I could not even fit half of my length in and my girth was so huge she was in pain:) Ahhhh sweet dreams:)
 
doublelongdaddy;642584 said:
Yup, this is the truth and if someone you are with is holding you back from your happiness they need to be let go.
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most women would get jealous because of the amazing potential we can develop a bigger penis happier n more confident...:)
 
if you are conscious about it and consider it a weakness then you would want to make alterations and changes and turn it into your strength......plastic surgery and PE are only examples.....
 
pogzee;642636 said:
if you are conscious about it and consider it a weakness then you would want to make alterations and changes and turn it into your strength......plastic surgery and PE are only examples.....
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I think there's a big difference between plastic surgery and PE. At [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] we're doing everything but surgery, which some of the brothers would actually qualify for. With surgery you get some ligs cut and lo and behold you're 2 inches longer. But we're putting in the work to grow that shit naturally, and some of us, with a little chemical engineering ;)
 
all of these years i have been a hands guy using hands only,now i hd the chance to get the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] n the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] n its great they have been helping me out a lot,i need a bit more experience whit the lenghmaster but its an amazing device
 
shortdick;642659 said:
all of these years i have been a hands guy using hands only,now i hd the chance to get the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] n the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] n its great they have been helping me out a lot,i need a bit more experience whit the lenghmaster but its an amazing device
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I think many of us were resistant to the change from manual to device. I am so happy we made this leap of faith as it has turned out that the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words], [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]SizeGenetics[/words], [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LengthMaster[/words], [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]Phallosan[/words], etc. all have been a tremendous help in gaining and keeping things fun.
 
Tahir Aqbar;642648 said:
I think there's a big difference between plastic surgery and PE. At [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] But we're putting in the work to grow that shit naturally, and some of us, with a little chemical engineering ;)
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What do you mean by chemical engineering?
 
stillwantmore2;640291 said:
I wish men would just be men and tell people they're in a relationship with about their PE. It's your penis. If you want to make it bigger, you don't need her approval.
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You know, unless the girl is really supportive of you and your endeavors, that almost never goes over well, right?

Voice of experience here, only one of the last 6 girls I've dated was okay with it. The others all found it either really weird, or were concerned that I was going to get too big for them, which led to half of them thinking I was going to cheat on them with my new big dick.
 
bluetard117;642847 said:
You know, unless the girl is really supportive of you and your endeavors, that almost never goes over well, right?

Voice of experience here, only one of the last 6 girls I've dated was okay with it. The others all found it either really weird, or were concerned that I was going to get too big for them, which led to half of them thinking I was going to cheat on them with my new big dick.
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definitely thats the kind of girl or women or whatever we all look for because most of them are insecure n they dont know what to do n they end up doing something stupid most of the time..a supportive girl would be ideal besides shes gonna be the one enjoying the results we want to share whit..Even an amazing guy like DLD dealt whit that situation...i think we all look for that kind of girl..:)
 
Guess it depends if we are talking about a girl you dated a little bit or somebody you live with and are in a long term relationship with... If you are trying to get laid or impress a girl you sure as fuck shouldn't bring up PE, or God forbid do it infront of them. But if it's your long term partner I think they should try to be understanding of sex exercises.
 
shortdick;642863 said:
DLD dealt whit that situation...
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Yup, I girl I loved with all my heard left me because of PE....Crazy. She was so against the sexuality of PE but after she was gone for a month and she had no paper she started to strip....Fucking Hypocrite
 
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