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Sometimes it is hard to stay motivated in PE. If you are doing it right there will be a time when you have made gains and you are happy with your size and your partner is too. But why settle for mediocrity? We want to be the BIGGEST and dominate in the bedroom. We don't "above average" we want to be massive!

So what keeps you motivated to keep doing Penis Enlargement everyday? I use music and/or adult entertainment on occasion to stay focused. I also check [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]matters of size[/words] frequently to keep the ideas fresh. I have also been reading a lot on the phalloplasty message boards (surgical enlargement) and It makes me want to be bigger than ever. Reading a horror story about some guy getting necrosis in his dick just makes me want to train even harder. Do it right or don't even bother.

There is no easy way to make gains. you have to dig deep! I know this thread is kind of abstract and silly, but I really want to hear why some guys keep grinding day after day when they know they are good enough. What keeps you motivated?
 
acromegaly;668634 said:
Sometimes it is hard to stay motivated in PE. If you are doing it right there will be a time when you have made gains and you are happy with your size and your partner is too. But why settle for mediocrity? We want to be the BIGGEST and dominate in the bedroom. We don't "above average" we want to be massive!

So what keeps you motivated to keep doing Penis Enlargement everyday? I use music and/or adult entertainment on occasion to stay focused. I also check [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]matters of size[/words] frequently to keep the ideas fresh. I have also been reading a lot on the phalloplasty message boards (surgical enlargement) and It makes me want to be bigger than ever. Reading a horror story about some guy getting necrosis in his dick just makes me want to train even harder. Do it right or don't even bother.

There is no easy way to make gains. you have to dig deep! I know this thread is kind of abstract and silly, but I really want to hear why some guys keep grinding day after day when they know they are good enough. What keeps you motivated?
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Are you and your partner happy with your size? If you are then there's no need to gain. If you're not happy with it then try and gain, but also ask your partner if she wouldn't mind.

But to answer your question, I want to surprise my partner with an 8" dick. I want to be like..."Hey you see this 3 inch flaccid?"-"Want to see it turn to 8 inches?" then I show her the magic trick. That's my motivation.
 
kyomoto;668650 said:
Are you and your partner happy with your size? If you are then there's no need to gain. If you're not happy with it then try and gain, but also ask your partner if she wouldn't mind.

But to answer your question, I want to surprise my partner with an 8" dick. I want to be like..."Hey you see this 3 inch flaccid?"-"Want to see it turn to 8 inches?" then I show her the magic trick. That's my motivation.
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my partner would like it thinner and longer, but i think we should do this for ourselves too. I want to be as thick as possible.
your motivation is pretty awesome actually lol i hope you get 8 soon
 
For me I think it's my nbpel. I have a fat pad that is kind of a downer on my 8.15 bpel. It often covers 2 inches or more when I'm sitting, and I just plain don't like that my head is wider than the rest of the shaft. Never have. I could just lose a lot of weight but I actually kinda want to see if I can sneak in some length under the radar of the lady while the fat pad gives me cover. I put a maximum of 9.5x7 on myself just in case but the odds of getting there aren't very high. Exceeding my ok grip though, that's the real goal. I'm there after a good pump. I want to be there with no pump. If I gain a smidge of length in the meantime then I'm certainly not going to complain.

Really though, I am just hoping to find something relevant to contribute that progresses things in pe as a whole. I feel like it is possible to make things work more efficiently and get people to a spot where it's no longer an obsession. Some guys really are glad to be 6x5. Some guys will never be happy until they're a foot long. I'm good once I lose my fat pad and break the ok grip barrier. If I could make it easier, I'd like to figure out how.

But if I can't find anything at least I will have achieved huge meat for myself. Not the worst consolation prize.
 
Longth;668687 said:
For me I think it's my nbpel. I have a fat pad that is kind of a downer on my 8.15 bpel. It often covers 2 inches or more when I'm sitting, and I just plain don't like that my head is wider than the rest of the shaft. Never have. I could just lose a lot of weight but I actually kinda want to see if I can sneak in some length under the radar of the lady while the fat pad gives me cover. I put a maximum of 9.5x7 on myself just in case but the odds of getting there aren't very high. Exceeding my ok grip though, that's the real goal. I'm there after a good pump. I want to be there with no pump. If I gain a smidge of length in the meantime then I'm certainly not going to complain.

Really though, I am just hoping to find something relevant to contribute that progresses things in pe as a whole. I feel like it is possible to make things work more efficiently and get people to a spot where it's no longer an obsession. Some guys really are glad to be 6x5. Some guys will never be happy until they're a foot long. I'm good once I lose my fat pad and break the ok grip barrier. If I could make it easier, I'd like to figure out how.

But if I can't find anything at least I will have achieved huge meat for myself. Not the worst consolation prize.
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Wow 9.5"! If you want to lose weight there are various methods and we're here to also help in many other health ways besides PE.

acromegaly;668655 said:
my partner would like it thinner and longer, but i think we should do this for ourselves too. I want to be as thick as possible.
your motivation is pretty awesome actually lol i hope you get 8 soon
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Ahh okay. I don't know of a way to get the penis thinner haha. You want to be thicker, lets see how your partner likes it :)
 
acromegaly;668634 said:
So what keeps you motivated to keep doing Penis Enlargement everyday?
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Just motivation to have a big dick..that's it.

You should look at the problem the other way : What is killing your motivation?For me the answer is masturbation,if i masturbate i don't care about anything,i drop PE,i drop diet,i drop everything.When i'm "sober" ( no masturbation ) i have killer motivation for PE.I just know i won't be happy until i hit my goal.I have this quote on my mind always :


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Maybe you are happy with your size,and that's why you don't go hardcore on PE anymore.Listen to your mind.
 
9.5 is like the line where more length is just crazy. I could see 9.5 being handy with a few new angles and positions but that really is time to cut the crap.. Realistically, 8.5 might be more the likely endgame. I can certainly live with 8.15 though. Especially when I depress my fat pad out of the way.
 
Longth;668724 said:
9.5 is like the line where more length is just crazy. I could see 9.5 being handy with a few new angles and positions but that really is time to cut the crap.. Realistically, 8.5 might be more the likely endgame. I can certainly live with 8.15 though. Especially when I depress my fat pad out of the way.
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I'm so jelly of your size :(
 
Every day is a struggle to find motivation, but its just like working out to me. Almost 3 years ago I was at my heaviest (250 lbs). I knew myself! I knew that if I didn't turn this working out stuff into a habbit, that I would just fall into the same patterns (eating like crap, looking like crap, and feeling like crap). looking at the task I had before me from day to day was enough motivation for me. I always knew i would reach my goal. It was just a matter of when. Eventually I got down to 172, and 2 years later I bulked up to 190. Now I look like a greek statue! Believe me when i say my motivation was tested all the time. Some days I just dreaded working out, but now its apart of what I do and who I've become. The biggest motivation these days? Are watching women literally undress me with there eyes. I've never got that attention before that's its intoxicating. I get it so much these days that I feel like Im being eye raped.

Coming from that, I know that muscle gains are slow to come, but so are PE gains. I'm willing to wait for something just as long as I keep moving in the right direction.
 
MoreThanLuck;668753 said:
Every day is a struggle to find motivation, but its just like working out to me. Almost 3 years ago I was at my heaviest (250 lbs). I knew myself! I knew that if I didn't turn this working out stuff into a habbit, that I would just fall into the same patterns (eating like crap, looking like crap, and feeling like crap). looking at the task I had before me from day to day was enough motivation for me. I always knew i would reach my goal. It was just a matter of when. Eventually I got down to 172, and 2 years later I bulked up to 190. Now I look like a greek statue! Believe me when i say my motivation was tested all the time. Some days I just dreaded working out, but now its apart of what I do and who I've become. The biggest motivation these days? Are watching women literally undress me with there eyes. I've never got that attention before that's its intoxicating. I get it so much these days that I feel like Im being eye raped.

Coming from that, I know that muscle gains are slow to come, but so are PE gains. I'm willing to wait for something just as long as I keep moving in the right direction.
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That's awesome bro. Glad to see you've made progress :)
 
I like to browse through old measurement pics from when I first started every once n awhile. That usually works for me. Plus my wifes comments help too. :)
 
Ecclesiastes 1:14
I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.

As you guys know i believe every word in the bible, but many times I just don't want to accept it instead chasing my own desires. The same way I don't accept my body, so I train that's it brahs there's not much to it :blush:
 
Staying motivated is just as big of a job as training, one is physical while the other is mental. We need to grow in both places and this needs to be done in concert to see faster gains. Motivation can come from many places and every man has a different way to inspire himself. When I was actively gaining I used pictures of men who had the size I was shooting for at that time. It started with Rocco and Peter North and when I passed them I put up new pictures until they were pictures of Lex and Mandingo. I also used previous gains to fuel my future gains. In complacency it is easy to lose touch with inspiration, when these moments happen it is vital to get up and get going.
 
It also doesn't hurt when you notice a girl that keeps staring at your dick. A glance is one thing. Continued viewership gets you syndication. ;)
 
Longth;668858 said:
It also doesn't hurt when you notice a girl that keeps staring at your dick. A glance is one thing. Continued viewership gets you syndication. ;)
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Yeahh. When more than one checks you out down there- you get this face--->:cool:
 
yeah is hard i deal whit a negative state of mind sometimes,i get depressed,n i have things to deal whit just like everybody else.to say the least.

The funny part is that i cant get PE off my head LOL n i get frustrated n anxious when i cant have a session..i have to spend some time exercising thats the only way i feel relief.

Anyway i really dont want to waste a day until DEC 31st n i dont want to get interruptions n days off....
 
shortdick;668892 said:
yeah is hard i deal whit a negative state of mind sometimes,i get depressed,n i have things to deal whit just like everybody else.to say the least.

The funny part is that i cant get PE off my head LOL n i get frustrated n anxious when i cant have a session..i have to spend some time exercising thats the only way i feel relief.

Anyway i really dont want to waste a day until DEC 31st n i dont want to get interruptions n days off....
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That was my mentality a year ago until early this year. I stopped thinking about PE seeing as i became more busy. It's great you're thinking of PE a lot because that usually motivates a person. Sometimes you just need to get that off your mind though. Of course I know you'll chill once you're satisfied with your size.
 
shortdick;668892 said:
yeah is hard i deal whit a negative state of mind sometimes,i get depressed,n i have things to deal whit just like everybody else.to say the least.
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We are so alike in this way. I have suffered with depression for so long that it is just a part of my life I need to take care of. When it gets so bad I need help, I get it. The best therapy I get is through the Brotherhood. If it were not for you guys I am not sure I would be around!
 
doublelongdaddy;668994 said:
We are so alike in this way. I have suffered with depression for so long that it is just a part of my life I need to take care of. When it gets so bad I need help, I get it. The best therapy I get is through the Brotherhood. If it were not for you guys I am not sure I would be around!
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Yep i get confused n i just dont know what is going on,most of the bros here are kind n helpful,n they really want to help in any way they can..

I think is a great thing bein part of this one of a kind brotherhood!:)
 
kyomoto;668903 said:
That was my mentality a year ago until early this year. I stopped thinking about PE seeing as i became more busy. It's great you're thinking of PE a lot because that usually motivates a person. Sometimes you just need to get that off your mind though. Of course I know you'll chill once you're satisfied with your size.
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yeah maybe id take things "easier" but being reasonable n using a bit of "logic" would take years to get to 10+inches n being honest i really dont want to stop.

i think PE opened my mind to a new n different world,n allowed me to feel sensations i hadnt felt before.....PE is pure science bro;)

besides the words n testimonials the experiences the brothers share are really great n enjoyable even useful.Every day i enjoy reading the threads n the words the brothers share.thanks to all the bros here:)
 
doublelongdaddy;668994 said:
We are so alike in this way. I have suffered with depression for so long that it is just a part of my life I need to take care of. When it gets so bad I need help, I get it. The best therapy I get is through the Brotherhood. If it were not for you guys I am not sure I would be around!
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yes depression is a bitch, i always focus on the moving forward and try to keep myself busy
 
Ya sometimes i feel a bit depressed as well. I feel comfortable with my size at around 7.3 BPEL but i want more, I want to get that prized 8" BPEL or maybe even 8.25" or 8.5" BPEL if i can. I have also been putting on a lot of weight ever since i broke my ankle back in august, i put on about 12 pounds!!! my ankle is healing up nicely now so once I'm 100% I'm giving it my all to get rid of this extra weight and gonna stretch for the stars! My girl told me that my size is perfect for her but i still want to surprise her with what I'm gonna get! Wish me luck on my journey and i wish all my brothers the best!
 
shortdick;669034 said:
I think is a great thing bein part of this one of a kind brotherhood!:)
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The Brotherhood is like having your own group of therapist!
 
Another good motivation; sharing the knowledge.

I'm an odd guy. I'm not really shy about sharing information on pe whenever the subject of size comes up. On the forums, I feel fine sticking my neck out over pervieved misconceptions and misinformation. I've had plenty of success, and plenty more failures. All of it starts to add up after a while, so while I am not the most knowledgeable, I definitely have plenty to add to the conversation.

The point is getting people on the right path. Or, at least, a better path, statistically speaking. It's such a tricky bitch because everyone is already doing what they think they should be, and everyone has different bottlenecks in the way, time restrictions, likes and dislikes, and financial limitations. There's a ton of crap in the way for all of us. The only way we're all going to get there is by shamelessly throwing out our knowledge, experience, and (sometimes hairbrained) theories.

I'm not talking about huge breakthroughs or mind blowing discoveries either. A TON of guys here don't kegel . Nobody has a real reason not to, and the list of benefits are crazy to ignore. Kegels. I even overlook them time and time again, because I have the libido of a adult entertainment star and the eq to match. And I still see obvious benefits whenever I do them consistently. That's just one example of common knowledge not being taken advantage of.

There's plenty of others, like warm ups, [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words], advanced exercises, wrapping, and just so many things that every newcomer is going to benefit from learning. Everyone who has been here a while constantly pitches in exactly like I do. Just trying to get everyone on the same page. And that's totally worthwhile to be a part of. Dick size literally keeps some people from enjoying life as much. Asking out that girl, taking some dumb risk. Predisposed about the dong. You can pep talk all day but satisfaction only comes with gains there.

That's kind of a big deal for a lot of people.
 
^ Hey man you know how things are you only get what you put in. Some guys are just plain selfish, and that's ok because we all get our pay in the end. I'll never forget how insecure, and helpless I felt back when I thought my cock was never gonna grow. To me this forum is not only about discovering the best PE methods, but also a mental support group, my daily bread you could say. Were all good people despite some of us having anime avatars
 
Longth;669267 said:
Another good motivation; sharing the knowledge.

I'm an odd guy. I'm not really shy about sharing information on pe whenever the subject of size comes up. On the forums, I feel fine sticking my neck out over pervieved misconceptions and misinformation. I've had plenty of success, and plenty more failures. All of it starts to add up after a while, so while I am not the most knowledgeable, I definitely have plenty to add to the conversation.

The point is getting people on the right path. Or, at least, a better path, statistically speaking. It's such a tricky bitch because everyone is already doing what they think they should be, and everyone has different bottlenecks in the way, time restrictions, likes and dislikes, and financial limitations. There's a ton of crap in the way for all of us. The only way we're all going to get there is by shamelessly throwing out our knowledge, experience, and (sometimes hairbrained) theories.

I'm not talking about huge breakthroughs or mind blowing discoveries either. A TON of guys here don't kegel . Nobody has a real reason not to, and the list of benefits are crazy to ignore. Kegels. I even overlook them time and time again, because I have the libido of a adult entertainment star and the eq to match. And I still see obvious benefits whenever I do them consistently. That's just one example of common knowledge not being taken advantage of.

There's plenty of others, like warm ups, [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words], advanced exercises, wrapping, and just so many things that every newcomer is going to benefit from learning. Everyone who has been here a while constantly pitches in exactly like I do. Just trying to get everyone on the same page. And that's totally worthwhile to be a part of. Dick size literally keeps some people from enjoying life as much. Asking out that girl, taking some dumb risk. Predisposed about the dong. You can pep talk all day but satisfaction only comes with gains there.

That's kind of a big deal for a lot of people.
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Agreed. I think we should gather more members to test theories instead of putting them out there. We can't just have 1 individual do a trial while the others wait for results. This will help better confirm results. Of course we do have these tested theories already and it's great. Some remain unanswered to a point where it's just going to sit there. This is why i love these forums, i can talk all i want but there will be someone with the opposite thing in mind. I love being challenged.

We all need to learn the basics, apply them, and come up with new ideas. Share these ideas. Test these ideas with more than 2 people. See the results. More experimentation more ideas more ways of gaining.

Personally I didn't warm up after 8 months of PE, i had a break of 2 months recently, started again and did warm ups again because I needed them. I'll reinforce warm ups and warm downs more now because they're not bad for you they're just time consuming which is why i skipped them. That's one example of what my thoughts are on warm ups/downs, they're unnecessary until you need to restart PE per say.

By the way I really enjoy reading many of your guys' information. It helps me rethink things and try new things
 
This place feels like a family honestly, there is so much support in this community and it just feels so good to know that if there is ever a time that i am having problems i could just come here! DLD is the man he has already helped me with so much in the PE world and i can't thank him enough for being such a role model:)!! I feel big things coming not just in my future but in all the brother's futures!
 
eugine8plz;669280 said:
This place feels like a family honestly, there is so much support in this community and it just feels so good to know that if there is ever a time that i am having problems i could just come here! DLD is the man he has already helped me with so much in the PE world and i can't thank him enough for being such a role model:)!! I feel big things coming not just in my future but in all the brother's futures!
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Awe :) I'm glad you really like this place. I'm happy to help our fellow brothers gain and I'm also happy to learn from you guys :) DLD is the man, but so is everyone else :)
 
kyomoto;669291 said:
Awe :) I'm glad you really like this place. I'm happy to help our fellow brothers gain and I'm also happy to learn from you guys :) DLD is the man, but so is everyone else :)
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yes indeed everyone else is so helpful as well, there have been a handful of people who have helped me so far along my way and I've only been in the brotherhood for about a month!! You guys are the best:)
 
eugine8plz;669304 said:
yes indeed everyone else is so helpful as well, there have been a handful of people who have helped me so far along my way and I've only been in the brotherhood for about a month!! You guys are the best:)
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You're the best. You give it your all in PE and you'll be a big one in no time
 
doublelongdaddy;669232 said:
The Brotherhood is like having your own group of therapist!
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yep i really need my everyday therapy [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] brotherhood therapies!:)
 
Good motivation for me when I have days like today; if you haven't made your goal, you're going to regret not doing it.

My goal is to exceed my ok grip before expansion. Today I was all hand cramped and groggy. Felt shitty and fatigued. The only reason I went ahead was because I have to, because that goal isn't going to change, and skipping a day is only going to add grief to my future.

So it's like having a sub goal of reaching your desired size as fast as you can. We're all going to have down days and fuck it moods. But those are honestly just road blocks you need to bulldoze to achieve the real goal. X measurement in as little time as possible.

A day off takes out the momentum and really can have a major impact on the measurement. One day. You need constant, never ending expansion or elongation to really force the issue on your DICK. One day care get you to default, and while it's not quite like starting over, it definitely causes momentum to be lost.

One day skipped can turn into a week, a week into a month, a month into an entire season or years. You're going to come back dude. Once you've seen gains you know, and once you know you're fucked. You have no choice but to hit those goals because you're going to nag yourself subtly and constantly until you do it. There's going to be that gremlin, up in your ear like, "bro, wtf? Why are you still that size?".

So you have to eventually anyway. Don't drag it on forever. Just get it done as fast as you can. Other people have. Why delay it?
 
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Longth;669499 said:
Good motivation for me when I have days like today; if you haven't made your goal, you're going to regret not doing it.
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This is great and I agree with it so much. There's always regret for not doing something for your goals and you end up back at the beginning. You have to stride for those gains and make sure it's a priority in life. Because if you want to change your goals you'll have to change your life in a way. Adapting things such as PE will need you to provide a lifestyle suitable for it.
 
Yesterday i just wanted to sleep.but i had to start my sess i grab the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] n well i had this 20 some mins session not that bad after all:)
 
shortdick;669546 said:
Yesterday i just wanted to sleep.but i had to start my sess i grab the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] n well i had this 20 some mins session not that bad after all:)
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It should never be bad :)
 
shortdick;669611 said:
Course not even a 15 min session can keep things running!!
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Yeah and thats more of a cementing technique, low intensity/high intesnity but short duration :) never bad, always good.
 
maybe true 15 mins of stretching can keep the temporary gains n turn them into permanent,proper intensity+time =good results
 
Longth;669499 said:
. One day care get you to default, and while it's not quite like starting over, it definitely causes momentum to be lost
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I wish man my cock needs at least two weeks to decondition some<:(. Its ok bro a day off really doesn't feel that bad, and my cock is still hitting acceptable expansion. The weird thing is some days it will bounce back with more expansion, and others will take longer just to reach normal pump ?:(
 
templnite;669632 said:
I wish man my cock needs at least two weeks to decondition some<:(. Its ok bro a day off really doesn't feel that bad, and my cock is still hitting acceptable expansion. The weird thing is some days it will bounce back with more expansion, and others will take longer just to reach normal pump ?:(
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You can only really theorize with that. I've noticed that every step counts and I only get the expansion I'm after if I'm as aroused as possible. That's another point for edging with a ring. I get cumulative expansion day after day because my eq invariably gets to it's maximum state. The only thing that is unpredictable is exactly how much time I can spend that way. The better you get at it, the more frequently you achieve it, and the longer you can stay there. It's like supra slammers on steroids if you can get it right.

Took a lot of logical thinking to get my routine where it is, and I tinker with it constantly. It's like trying to turn a shitty composite car from scraps into a hot rod. Eventually it'll be fast. For now I'm just glad it's running.
 
If one day matters so much to you I guess it really makes a notable difference. I hardly ever edge so I couldn't relate<:(. I thought you were talking about residual expansion bro XD, I though "but the expansion is always gonna be available". I don't usually take days off though because I never get sore, but maybe now that I'm trying to squeeze a second session in there ;).
 
templnite;669667 said:
If one day matters so much to you I guess it really makes a notable difference. I hardly ever edge so I couldn't relate<:(. I thought you were talking about residual expansion bro XD, I though "but the expansion is always gonna be available". I don't usually take days off though because I never get sore, but maybe now that I'm trying to squeeze a second session in there ;).
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Yea, I kinda think if you aren't getting sore you can afford to have a tougher routine. Gets to be a balancing act. I'm never really sure if I should go harder but as long as the expansion keeps improving every day I'm pretty alright with it.
 
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