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fdj1990

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Hi guys, im new..
21 years of age, still a virgin, very insecure of my penis, stats:
4" length
4" girth

really skinny and thin...
what makes it worse is im a 6'1 and have pretty big calves, looks so out of proportionate.

I've never had a girlfriend, and i believe i can, (im a pretty good looking guy), but i fear intimacy and sex, and the humiliation when she sees my dick.

Condoms are a joke, they keep coming off, cant even secure it tight...
sigh...

Im thankful i found about Penis Enlargement, but im also cranky and impatient..(i believe its to do with my virginity). Will see where the road takes me
 
Your set. No girls to fuck with you....no kids to worry with. Just you and your dick. Pull on it as much as possible. Having time is the most important part of Penis Enlargement....that and motivation. The more you put into Penis Enlargement the more you will get out. Work hard every day and you will get bigger.
 
Rebel is exactly right no hassles no privacy issues no kids running around stopping you doing Penis Enlargement.

Time and effort are the key here ;)
 
Are your stats while erect of flaccid? You can get small condoms. Easy to say, but don't let your size stop you from meeting the right girl. I was under 4.5 erect and I have been happily married for over 40 years. If she is the right girl, 4" is not a problem. If it turns out to be a problem, she wasn't the one and at least you gained experience to please the right one latter on.
 
don't worry fdj1990 I'm right there with you except for the whole being tall and skinny thing you got a better deal then me but for the size thing I'm right there with you. let's just make big gains bro
 
I think you can achieve a 6 inch dick at least but you will need patience(dont start too much too fast = injury). check out dlds [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]srt[/words] theory, read the forums and try to get the stuff.

regarding the girls:
I dont want to make it more complicated for you but try to get shorter thin girls with not such a big wide ass(lol).
They tend to have smaller pussy and will be satisfied by your size(!!!!!!!!!). hit her hard and fast like crazy and she will go to ecstasy. you miss much(more then a fuck) when you dont get a girl just because of your dick.
 
Welcome to the forums! 4 x 4 is a bit under average and I wonder why this is the case in every situation I have experienced. What were your masturbatory habits like growing up? Did you masturbate often, did you use a lot of intensity when jerking off? What type of underwear have your worn? Strange questions but it helps me with directing you. Have no fears, you have found the one site on the net that will help you grow larger. In most cases, where men are under average, they get to an average size very quickly. In your case we want to get you to a solid average first. That will mean adding girth and length. Your measurements, are they properly measured? Your 4" length, is that bone pressed (where the ruler is firmly pushed into the fat pad against the pubic bone) or did you measure non bone pressed? I am assuming your 4" of girth was measure erect. Let me know the answers to these questions an I can help further.
 
doublelongdaddy;459976 said:
Your 4" length, is that bone pressed (where the ruler is firmly pushed into the fat pad against the pubic bone) or did you measure non bone pressed? I am assuming your 4" of girth was measure erect. Let me know the answers to these questions an I can help further.
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Yes this is correct length erect presed , I am asian.. I was circumcised when i was 8 years old.. I started masturbating when i was 10-11... on and off, when i hit 12,13 i had adult entertainment.. been masturbating really hard since now.. (probs once a day, and sometimes 2-3 times a day).... I sometimes think this was the reason... For the past year, i've been trying to quit adult entertainment and masturbation.. I lasted 2-3 weeks, feel massive clarity.. but then when i think about my problems like my relationship side and my penis, i go all emo and jack to adult entertainment.. After quitting adult entertainment for 2-3 weeks, i feel massive blood flow to penis, and whole body in general.

This is probably one of the biggest insecurities im having massive trouble dealing with since i was young

EDIT: even the doctor who circumcised my penis said i was below average...(ILL Start taking photos of my penis soon)
 
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Gains are inevitable for the dedicated. Start working and you will see results in a relatively short time frame. With each gain your confidence will rise. Good luck!
 
fdj1990;460025 said:
Yes this is correct length erect presed , I am asian.. I was circumcised when i was 8 years old.. I started masturbating when i was 10-11... on and off, when i hit 12,13 i had adult entertainment.. been masturbating really hard since now.. (probs once a day, and sometimes 2-3 times a day).... I sometimes think this was the reason... For the past year, i've been trying to quit adult entertainment and masturbation.. I lasted 2-3 weeks, feel massive clarity.. but then when i think about my problems like my relationship side and my penis, i go all emo and jack to adult entertainment.. After quitting adult entertainment for 2-3 weeks, i feel massive blood flow to penis, and whole body in general.

This is probably one of the biggest insecurities im having massive trouble dealing with since i was young

EDIT: even the doctor who circumcised my penis said i was below average...(ILL Start taking photos of my penis soon)
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It is what it is, right so lets start from there. First, it seems that men who had daily, strong gripped, masturbation through puberty, for the most part, ended up above average. It also seems that men who wear constricting underwear through puberty also stunt the full potential of natural growth. Men who did not practice frequent masturbation and that wore tight underwear ended up smaller than his counterpart. This is not true in all situations but it does happen in most. Saying that, from this point forward it makes little difference of the past, you have found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Matters of Size[/words] and you will become average very quickly. I suggest starting with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words], read it over, practice, learn and master it. This will be your first step towards the first inch. I have faith in you and know you can make this happen quickly.
 
Good luck to you fdj1990, I hope you make great gains, and isn't it so nice that people and especially DLD takes an interest in us and is willing to help.
 
fdj1990;460106 said:
Thank you all guys for your advice and support. I will start researching and apply the excercises. can't wait
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You are very welcome, please keep us up to date on your gains, progress, routines an any questions you may have.
 
I had the constricting underwear problem growing up and wore my dick straight up too. I started thinking about it a few years back before I knew that [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] and penis enlargement even existed, that doing that to my penis over the puberty years must have given me a shorter one, than if I had worn it down in lose fitting boxers. I can blame it on my Mother for buying and making me wear that kind of crap growing up. Of course she had no way of knowing any different so I forgive her. :)

So now the damage already done must be undone, so I have a lot of catching up to do with Penis Enlargement and [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]SG[/words]+VLC and maybe it will turn out to be better gains than if I had not been constricted from the beginning and if I had not got peyronie's this year which made my dick shrink a fucking inch. So I will have my plate full in 2012 keeping my penis from shrinking anymore than it already has.

I never thought it was possible to really enlarge your penis with permanent gains until I came to this site and found DLD and his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] testimony to a real life changing experience about the sport of penis enlargement. I finally found a sport that I really like playing and I gain and win every game. Thanks again DLD. :)
 
ADF;460924 said:
I had the constricting underwear problem growing up and wore my dick straight up too. I started thinking about it a few years back before I knew that [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] and penis enlargement even existed, that doing that to my penis over the puberty years must have given me a shorter one, than if I had worn it down in lose fitting boxers. I can blame it on my Mother for buying and making me wear that kind of crap growing up. Of course she had no way of knowing any different so I forgive her. :)

So now the damage already done must be undone, so I have a lot of catching up to do with Penis Enlargement and [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]SG[/words]+VLC and maybe it will turn out to be better gains than if I had not been constricted from the beginning and if I had not got peyronie's this year which made my dick shrink a fucking inch. So I will have my plate full in 2012 keeping my penis from shrinking anymore than it already has.

I never thought it was possible to really enlarge your penis with permanent gains until I came to this site and found DLD and his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] testimony to a real life changing experience about the sport of penis enlargement. I finally found a sport that I really like playing and I gain and win every game. Thanks again DLD. :)
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I had a sub average penis for over 50 years. In my opinion, based on extensive reading on the subject, a sub average penis has nothing to do with masturbating technique or tight under wear. It is the unluck of the genetic draw. I too was not a believer in Penis Enlargement. However, I am now 1/2 in. longer and girthier than I was two years ago. I attribute the length gain to manual Penis Enlargement and the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and the gain in girth to pumping. I don't have peyronie's disease but have read that an [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] is a medically approved treatment to correct the problem.
 
makemebig;461033 said:
I had a sub average penis for over 50 years. In my opinion, based on extensive reading on the subject, a sub average penis has nothing to do with masturbating technique or tight under wear. It is the unluck of the genetic draw. I too was not a believer in Penis Enlargement. However, I am now 1/2 in. longer and girthier than I was two years ago. I attribute the length gain to manual Penis Enlargement and the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and the gain in girth to pumping. I don't have peyronie's disease but have read that an [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] is a medically approved treatment to correct the problem.
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Masturbation and Underwear have a massive effect on growth. If a child does not masturbate an wears constricting undergarments it will stunt the full growth of the penis. Try growing a tree with a tight cloth over it an never letting it extend....what will we have? A normal tree effected by genetics? Or a tree who's growth was stunted because of restriction and lack of extension?
 
doublelongdaddy;461040 said:
Masturbation and Underwear have a massive effect on growth. If a child does not masturbate an wears constricting undergarments it will stunt the full growth of the penis. Try growing a tree with a tight cloth over it an never letting it extend....what will we have? A normal tree effected by genetics? Or a tree who's growth was stunted because of restriction and lack of extension?
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Whether your penis sticks straight up in Jockey shorts or hangs down in boxers, its eventual length will not be altered by the type of under garments you wear. Also, whether you sleep naked or sleep in Jockey shorts, you are going to have night wood at its full potential, which is nature's way of keeping your dick healthy and growing. My brother and I grew up together and we both wore jockey shorts during puberty. Yet, my brother has an average to above average dick, while I am left with Penis Enlargement to bring it into the range of average.

I aso do not feel a tree will be stunted by being covered with a tight cloth, provided the cloth is readjusted periodically to allow the branches to stretch to their potential length before fitting the cover back on tightly. If you have ever worn Jockey shorts while getting an erection. you know the routine of squirming and fondling you do to get the erection to fit in comfortably and at its foll potential.
 
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