Hi all,
My name is Andrew and I just joined this forum. For many years now, I have felt that I come up short downstairs. Being gay, I have gotten to see many different penises firsthand over the years. Typically, I have gotten to see other guys erect but not flaccid. I've only seen a few flaccid. I would say that I have been shorter than at least 75% of the other guys when erect. Of all of the serious relationships that I've had, I've been shorter than every guy when flaccid and erect. I've had one boyfriend who was the same length as me when erect but he was still noticeably larger than me when flaccid (he was a true shower). The only thing I've had going for me is that my penis, when erect, is on the thick side, at least compared to its length. As such, my erect cock has been thicker than about half of my previous boyfriends.
The bottomline is that, given that I am gay, I feel this sort of competition with whoemever I am with. Since we both have dicks, I naturally compare. Since I usually come up short in comparsion, it kinda brings me down.
My stats are:
Flaccid length: 3"
Flaccid girth: 4"
Erect length: 5.5" (non-bone pressed), 6.5" (bone pressed)
Erect girth: 5.5"
Here's my current situation. I have been married to this wonderful guy for nearly 3 years. He acknowledges that I have a small dick (especially compared to his--more on that in a moment) but he also recently told me that he understands my insecurity and would support me in trying to make my penis bigger. I'm 5'9" in height and have fairly proportional extremities (arms/hands). My foot size is on the small side for a guy (10.5" shoe size) and my hands are definitely small for a guy...my hand feels like it is the smaller of the two 95%+ of the time when I shake another guy's hand. My husband is 6'5" and has proportional extremenities He has big feet (12" shoe size) and nice long fingers...big hands. As for the really important part of him...well, I'll put it this way...he's got what I call a "locker room cock"--it definitely is the size penis that can easily be shown off. I've never measured him flaccid but he is probably a good 5" long and 4.5" in girth. I have measured him when erect...he is 7.75" long and 4.5"" in girth. Yes, that's right...it seems kind of weird--his penis doesn't change girth from fully flaccid to fully erect. When he is semi-erect, his dick is pretty thick...probably about 5"-5.5" in girth. Is this unusual?
So, yes, my dick is thicker than my husband's when erect. We both jokingly refer to his dick as a "pencil dick" given how long and narrow it is, especially compared to mine.
I've always been happy with my girth when erect. I certainly would like to be longer, however, when erect.
My main issue, given my husband's dimensions, though, is my size when flaccid. When we are home alone together, my husband and I spend much of our time naked, which be both enjoy. We sleep naked, we watch TV naked, etc. So, I constantly get to see my husband's huge flaccid dick. It is a constant reminder of how small I am when flaccid. My husband recently confided to me that I am very small when flaccid based on the guys he has been with previously. He told me that of all the guys he's been with, maybe one of them was shorter than me when flaccid.
So, I have been looking into penis enlargement recently. My goal is to "catch up" to my husband. I want to have a nice, long flaccid penis with some decent girth...perhaps 5" long by 4.5" girth. As for my erect state, I would like to be at least 7.5" long. As for my erect girth, I would happy if it stays right where it is. I certainly wouldn't complain if it gets thicker, though. My husband loves that I have a (relatively) thick cock. I fear that if it weren't for my erect girth, he wouldn't be turned on by my dick at all.
OK, with all that said, I am looking for advice on penis enlargement. I originally thought I would go with either pills or a patch but it seems like neither of these work very well based on what I have read. I recently read up on the "Fastsize" stretcher and it seems promising.
So, given that my primary goal is to increase my flaccid size, what would you recommend? Would the "Fastsize" stretcher be good for that goal? What about pills/patch? Any other suggestions?
I'm ideally looking for something that does not involve much, if any, exercises.
Thanks so much!
Andrew
My name is Andrew and I just joined this forum. For many years now, I have felt that I come up short downstairs. Being gay, I have gotten to see many different penises firsthand over the years. Typically, I have gotten to see other guys erect but not flaccid. I've only seen a few flaccid. I would say that I have been shorter than at least 75% of the other guys when erect. Of all of the serious relationships that I've had, I've been shorter than every guy when flaccid and erect. I've had one boyfriend who was the same length as me when erect but he was still noticeably larger than me when flaccid (he was a true shower). The only thing I've had going for me is that my penis, when erect, is on the thick side, at least compared to its length. As such, my erect cock has been thicker than about half of my previous boyfriends.
The bottomline is that, given that I am gay, I feel this sort of competition with whoemever I am with. Since we both have dicks, I naturally compare. Since I usually come up short in comparsion, it kinda brings me down.
My stats are:
Flaccid length: 3"
Flaccid girth: 4"
Erect length: 5.5" (non-bone pressed), 6.5" (bone pressed)
Erect girth: 5.5"
Here's my current situation. I have been married to this wonderful guy for nearly 3 years. He acknowledges that I have a small dick (especially compared to his--more on that in a moment) but he also recently told me that he understands my insecurity and would support me in trying to make my penis bigger. I'm 5'9" in height and have fairly proportional extremities (arms/hands). My foot size is on the small side for a guy (10.5" shoe size) and my hands are definitely small for a guy...my hand feels like it is the smaller of the two 95%+ of the time when I shake another guy's hand. My husband is 6'5" and has proportional extremenities He has big feet (12" shoe size) and nice long fingers...big hands. As for the really important part of him...well, I'll put it this way...he's got what I call a "locker room cock"--it definitely is the size penis that can easily be shown off. I've never measured him flaccid but he is probably a good 5" long and 4.5" in girth. I have measured him when erect...he is 7.75" long and 4.5"" in girth. Yes, that's right...it seems kind of weird--his penis doesn't change girth from fully flaccid to fully erect. When he is semi-erect, his dick is pretty thick...probably about 5"-5.5" in girth. Is this unusual?
So, yes, my dick is thicker than my husband's when erect. We both jokingly refer to his dick as a "pencil dick" given how long and narrow it is, especially compared to mine.
I've always been happy with my girth when erect. I certainly would like to be longer, however, when erect.
My main issue, given my husband's dimensions, though, is my size when flaccid. When we are home alone together, my husband and I spend much of our time naked, which be both enjoy. We sleep naked, we watch TV naked, etc. So, I constantly get to see my husband's huge flaccid dick. It is a constant reminder of how small I am when flaccid. My husband recently confided to me that I am very small when flaccid based on the guys he has been with previously. He told me that of all the guys he's been with, maybe one of them was shorter than me when flaccid.
So, I have been looking into penis enlargement recently. My goal is to "catch up" to my husband. I want to have a nice, long flaccid penis with some decent girth...perhaps 5" long by 4.5" girth. As for my erect state, I would like to be at least 7.5" long. As for my erect girth, I would happy if it stays right where it is. I certainly wouldn't complain if it gets thicker, though. My husband loves that I have a (relatively) thick cock. I fear that if it weren't for my erect girth, he wouldn't be turned on by my dick at all.
OK, with all that said, I am looking for advice on penis enlargement. I originally thought I would go with either pills or a patch but it seems like neither of these work very well based on what I have read. I recently read up on the "Fastsize" stretcher and it seems promising.
So, given that my primary goal is to increase my flaccid size, what would you recommend? Would the "Fastsize" stretcher be good for that goal? What about pills/patch? Any other suggestions?
I'm ideally looking for something that does not involve much, if any, exercises.
Thanks so much!
Andrew
