Premature Ejaculation Journey
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Pineapplesavage;747509 said:
Sorry I missed your question Pine. I have had my PF since the end of September. I am not sure about any gains yet as I will not measure until this month. I feel that I have made some gains but it is hard to estimate what may have come from the PF as I use the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words], [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] and some manual stretches as well. I have done a little hanging with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] and it works well for this exercise. I still have trouble with my wrap sometimes but I think it is because I have not found the right padding yet. The main thing I like about the PF is I can wear it all day long only taking it off for bathroom breaks. I am averaging 8 hours or so a day excluding rest days.
Lookn4girth;747664 said:
With all you are doing I am sure you have gained but pegging it down to how is difficult when using different tools together. But really, if you have gained, does really mater where it came from if your routine is solid and gainful? It would be very hard for me to determine where all of my gains came from as I did so many different things.
archstanton1666;740699 said:
this was my main problem removing my frenulum has help a bit in that department.. the thing also is i can edge for a good 30-40 but i get inside my girl because she tight it use to pull on my frenulum so much that i had to cum to not get cut.Now a bit better with condom..
doublelongdaddy;747688 said:
I am of the mindset that it does not matter where the gains come from as long as I make them.
Lookn4girth;747761 said:
I agree and I never put too much thought into what worked and what did not, back in my day there was not the same equipment available so I was using many exercises I created (all are here on the forums) so there was never a way to peg down what was working as it all seemed to be working. So I agree, who cares how or where they come as long as they come!
Lookn4girth;747664 said:
Good to hear. Looking forward till I get one
Been edging couple months and I don't feel any improvements. I'm going to put my efforts into enlarging.
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Can you identify your 'point-of-no-return'? That's the key to solving the premature ejaculation puzzle
Big Schwanz Acht;749391 said:
I can identify point of no return.
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Pineapplesavage;749413 said:
that's 90% of the battle...once you feel you're at PONR, back-off a bit
I can't last long in bed,but before i was taking medicine I was bipolar i could last as long i want it. My wife decided that i buy a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words].I ask her how long some guys she been with and they lasted 30 minutes some times longer. My wife got frustrated one day and said i can't fuck. In my younger day like in my 20's I did not have this problem i am now
38. Also how you put your current penis size in your post. without typing it all the time.
38. Also how you put your current penis size in your post. without typing it all the time.
rlue11;750421 said:
Hey my Brother, thanks for the post. Lasting 30 minutes in bed is 6 times longer than the average intercourse time of about 4-5 minutes. Lasting 30 minutes is amazing and something that can be attained with great practice and patience. Your medication may be causing this too, it did for me so I have changed my meds many times to get a cocktail that dealt with my mental issues without killing the sex drive and duration. I finally got the perfect combination 3 years ago and since then my life has vastly improved. I would see the doctor and try a different medication. What is the medication you are taking now, perhaps I can advise?
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@Big Schwanz Acht
I truly believe in what Yogi Berra said (but it wasn't about PE or PE)...'half this game is 90% mental'
Yup the mental piece is even more important than the physical as without believe there can be no gain. How do you get something that you do not believe you can have? You don't. Believing is essential to all gains in life! I wrote a sermon on this in one of my ministries. I will put it here for those who are interested.
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
this is verbatim but a women said something like “I pray that you be healed immediately in Jesus name“ I immediately doubled that and replied “ May God’s will be done”. The big Holy doubt!👶 She immediately rebuked me saying something’s along the lines of “have faith and it will be done” I returned saying “pray for my faith” and she did.
This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
this is verbatim but a women said something like “I pray that you be healed immediately in Jesus name“ I immediately doubled that and replied “ May God’s will be done”. The big Holy doubt!👶 She immediately rebuked me saying something’s along the lines of “have faith and it will be done” I returned saying “pray for my faith” and she did.This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
doublelongdaddy;750566 said:Yup the mental piece is even more important than the physical as without believe there can be no gain. How do you get something that you do not believe you can have? You don't. Believing is essential to all gains in life! I wrote a sermon on this in one of my ministries. I will put it here for those who are interested.
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
Awesome to hear.
I've been edging. No adult entertainment. My sessions have been short around 10-15min. Haven't had a ponr for 2 weeks. Saving for some equipment hopefully I can get it in couple of months
doublelongdaddy;750701 said:
Taking the edging slow and not like a jack rabbit, focusing on my breathing, relaxing, when the point of no return starts creeping up. Reverse kegel.
I need help with my metal game!?
Now I know how strong the metal game is. When I was younger in my teens I would fap till ponr, then in a matter of 20-30mins I would force myself to get an erection by fapping when it was soft and stroking like a jack rabbit. I would tense up my stomach and when I was doing that I would kegel hard the whole time so my head would feel sensitive. I would think about the feeling of cumming. Then boom ponr. I made myself like this to cum quickly, very quick less than 3mins and I really hope I can undo this mess.
It's really frustrating. No sex life cuz being a two pump chump is not fun. Now I'm in my 30s. Hope to improve one day at a time. I got a partner but I feel for her cuz I can't last at least 5mins.
Crazy, I just was thinking today what made me like this. Trying to pin point my problem and I found the problem, so now I know I'm getting somewhere just chipping away.
Any advice by anyone is very appreciated.
Pineapplesavage;750862 said:
The [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] is a very good piece of equipment that is fun to use and will bring you lasting power. It feels so much like the real thing that you can practice endurance. It was a great buy for me and helped me. There are also many manual ways to improve here. My main point was we can practice these things without adult entertainment.
doublelongdaddy;750907 said:
I'll give that a try.
Pineapplesavage;750925 said:
Please do! It is the smallest investment to teach men how to last as long as they like. It is better to practice on a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] than the woife!
Pineapplesavage;750862 said:
I am not sure if I can give you any advice other than to not be hard on yourself. You said that you have found the problem and this alone should put you on the path to getting it corrected. It often takes longer to fix something than it did to break it so take it one day at a time and keep a positive outlook
Man that [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words] ain't no joke y'all.Man,has anybody on here who has fuck a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words] for 30 minutes are more without stopping are slowing down?I was like man, i am aleast going to last 10 minutes could not do it was so intense i had to bust a nut.
doublelongdaddy;750997 said:
Have to give this a try. I had to take days off cause I was having blisters.
Pineapplesavage;751118 said:
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has anyone heard about putting Colgate toothpaste on their penis for longer sex? I just herd about it today on youtube.I tried it, and man it is powerful numb feeling,going to try this with the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words] for a double endurance training.
rlue11;751274 said:
That will most likely cause some burning in the vagina, I would not do this. It is far better to master yourself and learn endurance. The [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] is the best way to practice endurance as it feels just like the real thing. If you can last in the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] that will translate to lasting longer in sex.
doublelongdaddy;751315 said:
I see the benefits of edging. What was the timeframe you, for example when you started edging to the time you noticed you could cum on command. I know everyone is different. Just want to hear some success stories. Anyone chime in.
I'm still consistent with edging 10-15mins with no adult entertainment.
Lookn4girth;750959 said:
Thanks bro.
Pineapplesavage;751732 said:
No problem at all Pine. It looks like you are making progress
doublelongdaddy;751775 said:Not really sure as so much time has gone by. I think I spent about a year practicing many methods. Today I can simply go forever and cum on command, well thats where I was 10 years ago
Good to hear.
doublelongdaddy;751871 said:
Thanks for the support. I can see it improving a little like a minute or 2 and I have working at this since august/September. I see the small progress. Having sex now for 4-5min going slow is better then 1-2min when I started.
Working diligently at it. Flashlight soon, hopefully in couple of days.
Pineapplesavage;751984 said:
You doubled up your time, that is a huge accomplishment. The [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] will help[ you go even more, it feels so real that it is the best way to practice. Keep up the good work!
Keeping up with edging. 10 min every other day. Let y'all know when the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] is used
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on the subject of controlling the urge to ejaculate, I personally through control have not ejaculated in a quite a long time. I only do so through uncontrollable nocturnal emmisions once every few months
in the past when i got hooked on adult entertainment i started ejaculating faster because of the excitement and quick masterbation technique
at some point a few years ago i became very good at kegels and reverse kegels. that's where the whole control thing started for me. from there on i developed extra techniques and here they are:
1. so the kegels i mostly used as a warm-up girth and eq exercise. BUT then i discovered that i loved holding kegels and edging. and since i wanted to edge longer because of the great feeling, i gradually learned to back off stimulating glans and below-glans and also too much stroking before PONR.
2. next i learned through experimentation a way to stop PONR right at its beginning. basically I do a TUCK CRUNCH when i feel i stimulated too far and felt that initial urge of PONR. the muscles during that crunch completely subdue the sensation. this is in a seated position u basically do a stomach crunch forward and lift knees to chest. it doesn't have to be full range of motion, even half way works for me. then i ease off for a bit, could be 15secs, 30secs, whatever, and then continue.
3. similar to 1 and 2, know when to back off and relax for a bit. overstimulating the urge to cum from any variety of ways is what needs to be controlled. u have to KEEP the mindset that u will not ejaculate. so that means controlling the urge from a variety of maneuvers: how u stroke, how much u stimulate the glans, not doing too much at once like holding a kegel while almost at PONR. holding the kegel is more useful before the PONR. at PONR it will actually trigger the ejaculation.. so these are some of the little things to learn through practice. they become intuitive and almost automatic once u practice more
in the past when i got hooked on adult entertainment i started ejaculating faster because of the excitement and quick masterbation technique
at some point a few years ago i became very good at kegels and reverse kegels. that's where the whole control thing started for me. from there on i developed extra techniques and here they are:
1. so the kegels i mostly used as a warm-up girth and eq exercise. BUT then i discovered that i loved holding kegels and edging. and since i wanted to edge longer because of the great feeling, i gradually learned to back off stimulating glans and below-glans and also too much stroking before PONR.
2. next i learned through experimentation a way to stop PONR right at its beginning. basically I do a TUCK CRUNCH when i feel i stimulated too far and felt that initial urge of PONR. the muscles during that crunch completely subdue the sensation. this is in a seated position u basically do a stomach crunch forward and lift knees to chest. it doesn't have to be full range of motion, even half way works for me. then i ease off for a bit, could be 15secs, 30secs, whatever, and then continue.
3. similar to 1 and 2, know when to back off and relax for a bit. overstimulating the urge to cum from any variety of ways is what needs to be controlled. u have to KEEP the mindset that u will not ejaculate. so that means controlling the urge from a variety of maneuvers: how u stroke, how much u stimulate the glans, not doing too much at once like holding a kegel while almost at PONR. holding the kegel is more useful before the PONR. at PONR it will actually trigger the ejaculation.. so these are some of the little things to learn through practice. they become intuitive and almost automatic once u practice more