Perspective

[irafreak1]

So the other night my wife made a passing comment about vibrators (this was after a failed oral sex attempt way too late at night after a wild day of child care...in my defense this is a rare occurence and she said it's my fingernails scraping...now that I've defended myself )...

I was at a local adult store shopping around for one...I never thought about using these things before because I felt I would be replaced...blah blah...not true. No man loves his hand more than a pussy.

Anyway...I'm shopping for a vibrator, being sure not to get one larger than my real dick and I see one that says it's 6 1/2 inches. I pull it out and it looks rather thick. < I compare other below 7 inchers and find one that looks thinner...I place the two close and realize the one only looks bigger because it has a larger head. Cover up the head...same size.

Well then I take that bad boy over to the cock rings to see how thick it really is. Turns out it looks just like the 1 1/2 inch rings which should be my measurement. I buy that one plus a much thinner one just in case the wife has a hard time with it.

I get home and pull out the tape measure. Sure enough that thing is exactly 5.5 inches...that's me fully erect! I just sit there in awe at the realization that my penis actually looks that good. Turns out it's about 1/4 inch longer than advertised but suddenly my perspective has changed. My desire for 8x6 doesn't seem so desireable. I was looking at those monsters in the store. DLD you are a beast man! So I try this sucker out and it's one of the hottest things I've ever seen. There is nothing like watching an almost exact replica of you penis just drilling your woman. Everytime we're having sex, this is what she's really taking in! I'm impressed! All these years I never realized just what my penis looked like.

My brother-in-law claims 7 3/4 inch but feels like he's too thin. In comparison, he may be. His long dick needs a thicker girth to look balanced. I just can't get over how nice that 6 3/4 x 5 1/2 looked. I really feel like that size should be my goal plus maybe some added head size.

For those wanting bigger, that's great. Do all you can if that's your desire. I simply want to encourage others to get a true look at your penis because you may be surprised. I have a high metabolism so gaining weight takes some doing. I'm not lanky or anything but I'll never be a bulky guy unless I want to pack in 4-5000 calories a day and put a lot of fat on. I could but I like my body cut instead. It's a preference. My cousin packed on a lot of weight and looks good...with clothes on...I have more definition and that's my choice of look as well as my wife's. She also prefers my size the way it is. She loves that I can hammer in almost any position without ramming walls. She's also pleased about the added girth.

I guess I would advise anyone to just take a look at their local adult store and find your size. Don't be discouraged by the monsters cause a lot of women can't handle that. DLD even said he has to make some adjustments for Jen. There's also an item called clone a willy. It allows you to make a mold of your dick for about 50 bucks and will work as a vibrator. I may still get one to see for myself my exact replica, head size and all. I'm not giving up Penis Enlargement or encouraging others to even be content as much as I am tyring to point out that until you've seen your penis from a woman's view, you're probably being too hard on yourself.

 

[longhorns87]

I think I have the equivalent of anorexia for my penis...No matter what it looks like, it appears 2" smaller in the mirror

I'm sure using adult entertainment as a guideline doesn't help, either.

Despite the poor view at it, I prefer looking at it from above, than up close lol

 

[Alpha Effusion]

Encouraging words!

 

[Alpha Effusion]

Irafreak, what sort of routine were you on to get the .5" girth gains in so little time? Just the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]?

 

[irafreak1]

Yes. I just did major jelqing and I did it with purpose. I wanted to see red spots and I believed it would work. I was shocked too. The more I read around here and realized how difficult girth gains were to come by compared to length for most people amazed me further. I do have a low LOT and gain length slower it appears. Some say you get a swelling early on and that may have impacted things but they are definitely cemented (at least the first .5 is...I'm never less than 5 1/4).

Afterwards I started doing pumping and that was a bust. I took a few weeks off and started clamping and that's when I started hitting that extra 1/4 of an inch most of the time. I'm really just hoping to cement that for now. Oh I also do a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]slow squash jelq[/words] or two after my clamping session.

 

[longhorns87]

That is soem huge girth gain, inspiring

 

[seekngirth]

You know. .. I recently went to a sex shop and thought the same thing as well. I'm 6 3/4 x 5.5 inches and I know this is "ok".

But it IS perspective. And I think to most of us here, whether we have a 5" penis, 7" or 9" .. we just want more. For me it's mostly the want of not wanting to be average, or even "just above " average. In fact I was at a wedding this weekend ... I danced with a co-worker and she did a little grindage ... it was a lil surprising when she said "at least I know you're not small". But ...in my head I thought "boy would I have liked to hear "goddamn you're big".

Then today ... I was doing the girl I'm dating ... had her legs up on my shoulders and proceeded to get into a serious poundage position ... only to have her say "ow" and push on my hips as I was going too deep apparently. Yet I wouldn't mind some more length (though my priority is in girth and I plan to start clamping soon).

Like someone said above ... we are all mostly here not because we want average or just above ... but because we want beasts. Even if people start small and their goals are just to be average ... in the long run ... everyone here wants to be a beast, wants girls to say "you're the biggest I've had" and essentially simply wants pussy splitting power. The anorexia of penis indeed ...

 

[homelesswombat]

Yea, I've thought a lot about this. I can genuinely say that I don't want length any more, just girth. I like Asian girls. They tend to be small (not always) and I really don't want to 'bottom out' on any of them. When I find a girl I really like I want to be able to plug her all the way, feel her thighs on my hips, be able to concentrate fully on the passion of the lovemaking, the fucking, no thought about my size or whatever, just holy god that feels great.

I don't want to be the biggest she's had, I want to be the BEST rofl

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

everyone here wants to be a beast, wants girls to say "you're the biggest I've had" and essentially simply wants pussy splitting power. The anorexia of penis indeed ...

Well said. I want to do some beaver splitting even if they do all come with a slit.

 

[irafreak1]

I'm not into hurting my woman. That's barbaric to me. Some dudes take way too much pleasure in ramming walls. They believe they're big stuff and they are in that sense but what man really wants to hurt (in a bad way) his partner? I want sex to feel better. That's my first goal. I want moans of pleasure not cries of pain. I would much rather have the story "he's really good in bed" floating around instead of "he's so big it hurts."

 

[seekngirth]

I agree ira ... I just gave the extreme as an example.

my dream comment from a girl would be "he has a fat dick and knows how to use it!"

 

[irafreak1]

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

LOL it's no fun when a girl is in pain. i'm not into that either, but it's fun to clown around and talk smack. i'm in my 40's going on about 14.

 

[irafreak1]

Not saying there's not some enjoyment in knowing you push your girl to the limits. Just heard too many guys brag about pain and that just seems cruel to me. Of course to keep that in perspective, the dildo hurt my wife in just a regular position because it doesn't bend as well as my penis does inside her and I've hit walls on several occassions due to bad positioning so sometimes it's not that we're too big...

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

Back to the original discussion. I do something similar as far as positive visualization. Sometimes when I'm just hanging out I'll get a ruller and mark where my length is on it with my finger just to get an idea of how long it would look if it wasn't attached to me. I also mark my starting length and look at that and compare it. It helps me keep positive and motivates me to go for more with an attitude of, "If I can get that... Well a extra 1/4" should be easy."

I know what you mean about the dildos looking so big. I used to look at suasages and other penis shaped things and think they were big. Even before Pe I think mine was as big as those sausages that looked so big. They just looked bigger than mine because they weren't up next to my hips.

I think I may have to go measure some bananas for girth just to see how I measure up to the fruit world. LOL

 

[irafreak1]

Nice. I've really began to look at my penis in a whole new way. Since I now know what it really looks like, it's a lot easier to just enjoy my workouts. My wife wasn't just trying to make me feel good when she constantly told me my penis was nice. Now that we're both satisfied...

 

[seekngirth]

I know what you mean about the dildos looking so big. I used to look at suasages and other penis shaped things and think they were big. Even before Pe I think mine was as big as those sausages that looked so big. They just looked bigger than mine because they weren't up next to my hips.

I think I may have to go measure some bananas for girth just to see how I measure up to the fruit world. LOL

SO ...

it's not weird if I walked through the frozen section wrapping my fingers around the sausages to see which ones wouldn't allow my index and thumb to touch ... or middle finger and thumb ... (same thing with the bananas for that matter ... and cucumbers)??

Yeah I did it. And what.