My PE experience - a journey of insecurity
LONGERDICK7+
Active Member
doublelongdaddy;734022 said:Ahhh, the benefits of having no women
yep i understand u i think lol
LONGERDICK7+;734025 said:
Benefits 101
- Peace and Quiet
- Do what I want when I want
- Answer to no one but God
- Eat and sleep when I want
- Watch what I want on TV
- Save a ton of money
- No bitching and complaining
- No games
- No pussy manipulation
- No arguing
- I can go on for days!
LONGERDICK7+
Active Member
doublelongdaddy;734072 said:
maybe you should its inspiring!
Suction resistance has risen sharply and all of a sudden. Now the skin at the base hurts from the suction when using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] but I can live with that.
My #1 issue, I've slowly come to realize, is ED. I can't get up to 100%. Haven't been able to in months. Erections are rather weak, mostly up to 80%, and they fade away really quickly. This hampers [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] usage where I masturbate to get as hard as I can and quickly pump before I lose my erection. It also affects progress management as I can't judge whether I'm gaining or not without a full erection.
Morning woods do happen sometimes but they're rarely over 70%. I tried stopping adult entertainment/masturbation and relapsed after 20 days as I saw no change at all. Also I couldn't do that now anyway as I have to masturbate in order to get hard enough for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] - I don't know how else you would do that anyway. I kegel every day (soft kegels anyway) and that doesn't seem to help either.
As I'm pretty young and healthy I wouldn't want to indulge in pills and the like (and I'm honestly too shy to get through a prescription and all that). How would you cope with that?
My #1 issue, I've slowly come to realize, is ED. I can't get up to 100%. Haven't been able to in months. Erections are rather weak, mostly up to 80%, and they fade away really quickly. This hampers [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] usage where I masturbate to get as hard as I can and quickly pump before I lose my erection. It also affects progress management as I can't judge whether I'm gaining or not without a full erection.
Morning woods do happen sometimes but they're rarely over 70%. I tried stopping adult entertainment/masturbation and relapsed after 20 days as I saw no change at all. Also I couldn't do that now anyway as I have to masturbate in order to get hard enough for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] - I don't know how else you would do that anyway. I kegel every day (soft kegels anyway) and that doesn't seem to help either.
As I'm pretty young and healthy I wouldn't want to indulge in pills and the like (and I'm honestly too shy to get through a prescription and all that). How would you cope with that?
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
Quetzalcoatl;734133 said:
I found fatigue was my biggest hurdle due to training with as much intensity as I could stand for at least a 30 minute (usually 45 minute) session. I no longer consider myself young, but I'm strong, healthy and in decent shape. I've never experienced any ED issues, but I definitely had difficulty getting to 100%. Now, when I know I'll be engaging in sexual activity, I'll take a 25mg of Vitamin Calis and voila! insta boner! The latent effects last for almost a week, so my EQ during PE is still 90-100%...I also believe having regular sex (with a partner, lol) helps with keeping everything operational
Big Schwanz Acht;734137 said:
Forgot to mention that I had similar EQ prior to PE too so I'd rule out fatigue.
Quetzalcoatl;734150 said:
EQ problems are most of the time weak pelvic floor muscles. Doing the Kegel program in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words] with greatly strengthen the muscles and bring much better EQ. If this is not the case I would look into Viagra or the like to see if theses a psychological issue or a physical one. Physical weakness is usually never the case unless it is temporary fatigue.
doublelongdaddy;734203 said:
I usually do kegels although I never tried the "squeeze as hard as you can" variant. I'll try that one.
Failing that, I wouldn't be against giving the big V a shot, but I'll admit I'd rather ask someone here and pay for shipping and everything rather than going out and getting some myself.
Quetzalcoatl;734133 said:
There's times I've been really tired and wondered if I'd be able to achieve 100% EQ for sex. Doing a quick test alone would sometimes have me discouraged and worried. Yet as soon as we start foreplay I'm suddenly 100% and really eager. Sometimes I simply need my wife's presence and interaction to get completely there.
I'm just wondering if it's a psychological problem for you rather than physical.
I don't have a stable relationship and noone to... test my EQ with in this period, so the matter is in my hands, pun definitely intended. The issue may very well be psychological but I can't rule out other reasons for now.
doublelongdaddy;734515 said:
Nope. Somewhere around 75%, including when reaching the PONR. Bit spongy, not too stiff.
Quetzalcoatl;734546 said:
Have you been to a urologist? Have you tried any medications yet? This is obviously not a psychological issue so being physical, if you have not yet, I would highly recommend seeing a urologist. There are many reason this could be happening but none should cause alarm since you are still able to become 75% erect, impotence would be a complete lack of erection. It may be blockage, it may be weak pelvic floor muscles, it may be a drop in testosterone, it may be many different things. Viagra or Cialis is most likely what the doctor will send you home with.
doublelongdaddy;734573 said:
No medications and yes, I've been to a urologist - two years ago - but for another issue: a small, hard ridge had formed below the corona (which is still there nowadays, just softer), probably due to PE.
I would rule out weak muscles as I can perform dry orgasms but you are right in that I should consult a specialist as that would provide more insight.
What means does a urologist have to diagnose the issue (if any), though? I mean, if it's likely that he just sends me home with a V prescription, we may never know the underlying issue.