Hi all

I've started the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] Penis Enlargement program for a bout a month now. I found some difficulties in my case that I would like to share and ask for your help.

My initial measures:
length = 4.9"
length (bone-pressed) = 5.3"
girth (erect) = 3.9"

After a month of phase 1, I gained a very small gain in length... but not considerable. I don't know if it's possible, but my goal is 7".

Well, the problems are:
- My penis usually shrinks completely while flaccid (it retracts). So, practically I cannot do any measurement while flaccid.
- When attempting to start the Penis Enlargement, soon I become erect. That doesn't mean that I get horny or such. But as soon as I pay some attention to it, it becomes fully erect. So, many of the exercises, in fact become impossible... (unless I want to break it!).
- My testicles are very close to my body. So, I cannot get good grip of them to stretch them.
- More than the size, my problem is with the premature ejaculation that actually ruined my marriage :(
It is just a matter of seconds that it takes to lose it. At first when I was starting the wet jelqing, after about 150-200 strokes, I came. I's so so embarrassing. This seriously made me a totally unconfident person. I have no self esteem and no sex life for 2 years.

So, my main concern is to fix this stupid ejaculation problem. I don't know which part of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] Penis Enlargement program is useful for my case. Anyone knows?

It would be very kind of you to help me. I also want to know what should I do with the body conditions that I have when it come to doing the exercises.

Thank you so much

Peace
 
Hey Pianist, Welcome here!

I read your post and the first thing I wanted to say is don't lose confidence in yourself or don't be embarrassed by premature ejaculation or taking the time needed to get the exercises and routine right. I personally say stick with that routine, and make sure you do kegels to help build and strengthen the PC muscle. I used to have a problem with premature ejaculation, and my case sounded a lot like what happened. Over time the more and more I jelqued the less it became stimulating and turned more into an exercise.

I understand that the Penis Enlargement problems ruined your marriage, and I'm very sorry to hear that, but with time and dedication you can beat that problem. The most important fact is to never lose faith, belief, or confidence in yourself.

My personal advice is just to keep at it... Stick with the routine... add some serious kegels... and just have faith in yourself and you can beat that problem. Im sure many other brothers in this [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] brotherhood have been through the same thing and you will get some great advice!

Keep up the work! Your goals are very possible if you work the system
 
Thank you so much Johnny. Very nice of you to say so.
Obviously, I always try to keep it positive, but you know that sometimes you lose to the dark, sad and gloomy side.
But hopefully, I'll continue with the routine (although I don't know what to do with the limitations). That's the only thing I can do... though nothing brings back my wife!

Thanks again for your warm words.

Cheers
 
Pianist,

You said your limit was like 150-200 jelqs before you cum.. Have you ever tried starting with a lower number? like maybe only doing smaller sets and then if you get too hard let it go down a little and start again? i know that it is a seriously time consuming process, but I think if you keep with the routine, add some kegels, you will be able to tolerate more.

I know what you mean about that dark hole and gloomy side, but you have now joined a brotherhood of people who are here to help and pick you back up when you are down.

I dont know if it will work either, but over time I have tried to think about it more like a workout, focus on the moves and try not to think about the feeling so much. I know when I start to realize that i am paying attention to my penis, it gets hard too. But I just breathe and try to relax a little.

Keep hope alive! You can do anything
 
Pianist;524280 said:
Hi all

I've started the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] Penis Enlargement program for a bout a month now. I found some difficulties in my case that I would like to share and ask for your help.

My initial measures:
length = 4.9"
length (bone-pressed) = 5.3"
girth (erect) = 3.9"

After a month of phase 1, I gained a very small gain in length... but not considerable. I don't know if it's possible, but my goal is 7".

Well, the problems are:
- My penis usually shrinks completely while flaccid (it retracts). So, practically I cannot do any measurement while flaccid.
- When attempting to start the Penis Enlargement, soon I become erect. That doesn't mean that I get horny or such. But as soon as I pay some attention to it, it becomes fully erect. So, many of the exercises, in fact become impossible... (unless I want to break it!).
- My testicles are very close to my body. So, I cannot get good grip of them to stretch them.
- More than the size, my problem is with the premature ejaculation that actually ruined my marriage :(
It is just a matter of seconds that it takes to lose it. At first when I was starting the wet jelqing, after about 150-200 strokes, I came. I's so so embarrassing. This seriously made me a totally unconfident person. I have no self esteem and no sex life for 2 years.

So, my main concern is to fix this stupid ejaculation problem. I don't know which part of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] Penis Enlargement program is useful for my case. Anyone knows?

It would be very kind of you to help me. I also want to know what should I do with the body conditions that I have when it come to doing the exercises.

Thank you so much

Peace

If it makes you feel any better, I haven't had any of the problems you described and I STILL went 2 years with no sex at one point. Hi five, brother, lol!
 
Pianist;524280 said:
After a month of phase 1, I gained a very small gain in length... but not considerable. I don't know if it's possible, but my goal is 7".

Gains will come at varying rates, I am happy you have made some progress so far. I sincerely believe you can make it to the size you desire. It will take time and dedication but it is attainable in a reasonable amount of time.

Pianist;524280 said:
- My penis usually shrinks completely while flaccid (it retracts). So, practically I cannot do any measurement while flaccid.

Pay little attention to flaccid measurements in the beginning, there is much new exercise happening and the penis, while in it's relaxed position, may retract more than usual in the beginning. Over time you will train the penis to remaincloser to your erect length. Many of these ideas around flaccid size and the training of that area SRT has much to say.

Pianist;524280 said:
- When attempting to start the Penis Enlargement, soon I become erect. That doesn't mean that I get horny or such. But as soon as I pay some attention to it, it becomes fully erect. So, many of the exercises, in fact become impossible... (unless I want to break it!).

I would suggest that all length exercises could be performed after ejaculation, or sex and this would allow you to train flaccid easily. When doing girth work you can do it while erect.

Pianist;524280 said:
- My testicles are very close to my body. So, I cannot get good grip of them to stretch them.

Put much effort into the Testicle health massage and stretch,this will create a greater separation between the penis and the scrotum. The easiest part of the penis to stretch is the skin and after a short time this tightness will become relieved.

Pianist;524280 said:
- More than the size, my problem is with the premature ejaculation that actually ruined my marriage :(

It is just a matter of seconds that it takes to lose it. At first when I was starting the wet jelqing, after about 150-200 strokes, I came. I's so so embarrassing. This seriously made me a totally unconfident person. I have no self esteem and no sex life for 2 years.

I feel for you and can offer advice to practice some of the mental exercises contained within the Premature Ejaculation section. Practice, practice, practice but I promise you it can be corrected. I like how you have already seen that it is controllable within the Penis Enlargement routine and jelqing, that must give you hope in your quest to master this.
 
like dld said, unless you are taking cialis or viagra you are probably not going to be "ready to go" agian right after orgasm. if you are single and not saving it for your lady.. well, you knwo you are going to cum during Penis Enlargement so jsut get that part out of the way in the begining. do your jelqs ect and then stretch after cumming!

to work on premature ejacs, do kegels everyday. learn to clamp down and deny orgasm. practice edging while jacking off too. then you will be able to go as long as you want.
 
Arginine and l-citrulline dl-malate can also keep erection through ejaculation.

I could always keep going if what I was feeling kept on, like if yang didn't change to yin, and the girl was hot, I could go on. Then I met one who had rules, so I couldn't "cheat" like that, and I had to give up the whole drive to squirt in order to instead "kick ass", as she and her compadres call it. They also say,"he's not going to like me", meaning, she's going to kick his ass a.k.a. squirt the weak b a punk and move on. Just don't play in that league and then you can squirt to get ready--actually adult entertainment guys do that with oral sex early in their vids and that's pro league. Street game is different, it's more about getting the girls to talk on the street, curse you, and plot their revenge--it's about learning!
 
We learn that what we thought we wanted is not what we want, but our body might not learn without training. We thought we just wanted to squirt. Then women called us "just a jerk", useless to them, disappointing. Then we wanted something else. I think about her thing. She thinks about my thing. She can think about her thing. We can think about her thing, our thing, but I just can't think about my thing for a while.

Some women are hot, don't have a quick orgasm, and they're not done if they squirt guys in 30 seconds by all that heat. Some women aren't that hot, have a vaginal barrel orgasm in 1-3 minutes, and they want to be done, so essentially they'd like a guy who would seem premature to the hot ones who need longer. Different strokes for different fucks.
 
@ JohnnySisco: Thank you so much for the suggestions man. I'm trying to make them a habit workout.

@neognostic: Hi Five man ... but your huge comparing to me ;) It's time to find someone...

@doublelongdaddy: Thanks a lot for the detailed response. I really appreciate it. I try my best :)

@b.d.d.: Thanks, but I guess you didn't read my post. I was married for 7 years and I don't use any kind of drugs. And this weakness was a big reason in losing my wife.

@pnoewbe: The same comment as b.d.d. ... come on man, my problem is not the women. This shortcoming will have a vast effect in all your relationships... even if some girls are different and like it some other way.
 
Pianist;525817 said:
@ JohnnySisco: Thank you so much for the suggestions man. I'm trying to make them a habit workout.

@neognostic: Hi Five man ... but your huge comparing to me ;) It's time to find someone...

@doublelongdaddy: Thanks a lot for the detailed response. I really appreciate it. I try my best :)

@b.d.d.: Thanks, but I guess you didn't read my post. I was married for 7 years and I don't use any kind of drugs. And this weakness was a big reason in losing my wife.

@pnoewbe: The same comment as b.d.d. ... come on man, my problem is not the women. This shortcoming will have a vast effect in all your relationships... even if some girls are different and like it some other way.

I've found someone. We're working it. Soon:)
 
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