Intro: kdogg101

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Hey guys this is my first post. I am a 19 year old east Indian Asian guy with a NP EL6.5, bpel6.8 not sure my girth right now. I feel small and it doesn't help that I have the stereotype above me. I haven't had a gf before or done anything with a girl. (I know that this whole 1st post is off-topic for this thread) I have been seriously depressed about my size in the past,and lack of girls in my life. Anyway thats my introduction (sorry if I put it in the wrong thread)

kdogg
 
Welcome, kdogg. I split your post off into its own thread in the newbie section as it is more an introduction. I don't think you have any reason to be depressed about your size, as you are actually on the big side. Average penis size is somewhere in the vicinity of 5.5 to 6 inches, and you're past that, so don't be depressed, be proud of that big pecker of yours! I'd be more depressed about the lack of women in your life, but there are plenty of discussions here about getting with women and confidence building, so make sure you explore the sexuality and dating sections, too. Being a good lay involves much more than just a big dick, so take advantage of all aspects of our forum, and the many experienced members here who can give you tips and tricks to help make you an impressive lover.
 
has anyone ever made a comment about this stereotype? if they do and its a female just say something like would you like me to prove the stereotype wrong and then go from there. this probably dosnt work but its a cool fantasy anyway.

if your size is preventing you from pursuing girls then im reassuring you know that you arent small and i think about 80% of girls wil consider you a good size and if you want to get bigger then heres the place to do it but you will have to convince yourself the size you have know is a good size.
 
And yes I have gotten comments about the stereotype. I got called the "little asian" because of that dumb stereotype and they have never seen my dick. >:( I'm moving to a different city I hope my luck changes with both friends and girls.
 
Consider yourself lucky kd0gg101. I'm also an East Indian male 21 yrs of age and unfortunatley my stats are at 5.75 NBP and 6 1/3 BP. For an Asian guy, your pretty well endowed, as its quite rare for us to have anything over 6.
 
ozzy83 said:
Consider yourself lucky kd0gg101. I'm also an East Indian male 21 yrs of age and unfortunatley my stats are at 5.75 NBP and 6 1/3 BP. For an Asian guy, your pretty well endowed, as its quite rare for us to have anything over 6.
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Ya, but we can't compete when it comes to the white girls (if your interested in them) or other races other than our own. I have noticed this anyway. Well I think its because most of the girls are used to those "big ones" and we have that stereotype above us no matter how hard we try to get out of them.
 
Dont' obsess so much with size man. You have got more than enough length and average girth to satisfy a woman. Just work on your self esteem and confidence and forget what the stereotypes are. I know it affects you adversely but you don't want to be with a girl that makes her decision to go out with you or not based on her preconcieved notions. I've been with all types of women and the last thing you want is to get ED problems because of anxiety and depression.
 
kdogg101 said:
Ya, but we can't compete when it comes to the white girls (if your interested in them) or other races other than our own. I have noticed this anyway. Well I think its because most of the girls are used to those "big ones" and we have that stereotype above us no matter how hard we try to get out of them.
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Don't think that man. Iam jealous and never have gotten with a asian chick but would love to, can't even get enough courage to hit on one. Think its just natural to think you can't compare b/c of the girls different ethnicity As for the whole "Big Ones" comment let me just say its B.S When u walk down the street and see 20 beautiful girls who arn't virgins i can almost guarantee 50 percent of them haven even gotten a dick as big as yours. Remember average is 5.5 even less in my opinion, also most chicks arn't size queens most gals are more intrested in you not your dick, with exception to sluts and well don't think u wanna marry a slut just fuck um. You beat one sterotype of asians all having small dicks, so i'll put a asian sterotype on ya i bet your smart, keen, classy, intelligent, and a strait up gentleman those qualities in it self are enough to land u 1 million beatiful girls of any ethnicity. Give yourself more credit brotha
 
originally posted by kong 1971
so don't be depressed, be proud of that big pecker of yours! I'd be more depressed about the lack of women in your life,
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O man kong, what a great moral booster!
 
ozzy83 said:
Dont' obsess so much with size man. You have got more than enough length and average girth to satisfy a woman. Just work on your self esteem and confidence and forget what the stereotypes are. I know it affects you adversely but you don't want to be with a girl that makes her decision to go out with you or not based on her preconcieved notions. I've been with all types of women and the last thing you want is to get ED problems because of anxiety and depression.
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Hey ozzy83 what were the reactions from the girls to your size? did you get them to "O". I did suffer ED for 3 months but it was because of depression though.(Also slowly receding) I am slowly gaining my self-esteem and confidence with my leaving my town. (it was a big cause of my depression as I found the depression receded when I left for a month in the summer) Thanks very much for sharing your experience and showing that guys like us can have a chance with girls even if We think we aren't big enough for these girls.
 
Kal-el said:
O man kong, what a great moral booster!
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I think what kong meant was that his penis is more than enough for most women and that when kdogg realizes that it will lead to him getting more women.

By the way, welcome kdogg. I know the way that you feel but I think that when you understand that the size of your penis and the amount of women in your life is all down to you and is not set in stone and constant then you will begin to become happier.

You can change both of these things and if you stick to a good program at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] then you will do. If you work hard consistently then it will pay off. I doubt that any woman will believe the stereotype when you having a bulging 8"x6" in your trousers.

Personally [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] has changed my life. It has allowed me to take control of it a lot more. For every person that believes that they are better than me because of a stereotype or something else I pull just a bit harder in manual stretching or jelq one more time. That's a good way to change the negative energy into positive and it will make you feel better about yourself.

Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
 
Hey guys, I was wondering what everyone's thoughts are on this situation? I was recently offered a 3some with her husband and her. (keep in mind I am a virgin still) She offered me this oppurtunity but I would have to let a guy suck me off to get to fuck her, and for her to blow me. Big question is did I make a mistake by saying no? I'm not really comfortable with the whole guy on guy thing at all. I've been really scraped for oppurtunities for sex in college.( I know college should be one big fuckfest with some hotties and some books added in of course but hasn't been so far= 0 hookups) Also does anyone have any college experience that they would like to share about hooking up with some chicks in school? I'm turning 20 soon, and I'm kinda looking to lose this virgin thing.<:( Anyway thanks for replies
 
i think you were right to say no. never do anything that you are not comfortable with - you will only regret it later on!
as far as women go - its totally a confidence thing (bit of a vicious circle). girls love guys who show that they have confidence. my advice to you is this - dont worry about being turned down. IT WILL HAPPenis EnlargementN. even if they are attracted to you they could still turn you down - wrong timing etc. so you never know what will happen, next time you see a girl you like (in college etc) find a way of initiating conversation, and talk about various things, if she mentions her bf - dont bother. just find someone else. eventually you will find someone whos willing to give you a shot. p.s. stay away from the slutty type ;)
 
6.5 is big in most girls books. You can get a 3/4 of an inch in your first newbie gains. It wont take that long if you stay dedicated and use intensity. That would put you at 7.25 NBP and that is considered Pretty big. That is about the size of tommy lee and everyone thinks hes huge. I wish i woulda started out at 6.5 NBP, i would be at 7.5 by now. So, Kdogg dont sweat it man. You just need a lil bit and you will be considered HUGE.
 
BODY BUILDER 05 said:
6.5 is big in most girls books. You can get a 3/4 of an inch in your first newbie gains. It wont take that long if you stay dedicated and use intensity. That would put you at 7.25 NBP and that is considered Pretty big. That is about the size of tommy lee and everyone thinks hes huge. I wish i woulda started out at 6.5 NBP, i would be at 7.5 by now. So, Kdogg dont sweat it man. You just need a lil bit and you will be considered HUGE.
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Hey bro thanks for the post but can you read my previous post about the 3 some? And throw your 2 cents in? Thanks kdogg
 
Personally i wouldnt have done the 3 some, i wouldnt want some guy suckin my nobin. That is disgusting in my oppion, you will get other opportunities to score with girls without having to get head from a guy. So beat yourself up for not doing it. Like someone said in this forum, its good that you didnt do it cause you might have regreted it.
 
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