Injury / Feeling terrified.. help

doublelongdaddy;721265 said:
Big time! I have a few things to say on this. First, what I find most important for every Brother, if possible, is to spend a couple years by yourself and learn to live with yourself. This brings so much growth to the mind and so much more self confidence not relying on others to feel good about ourselves. I believe a woman is most impressed with the independence a man exhibits as this shows her that he does not 'need' someone to care for himself as he can do this himself and this is a very attractive quality.

Loneliness is a tough thing and for me I got through this by putting all my trust in Jesus. Once I was able to do this completely I no longer felt the sting of loneliness as I has my Master to speak with whenever I need. I also keep a very close relationship with my Son, who understands me in every way. Even though we duo not live with each other we desperately seek time to spend together. My time with The Brotherhood, my Family, Children and Grandchildren is my joy in this world. With this and Christ I am free of any loneliness.
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Well. let's say your case is different. There are many of us here who don't mix up that much with people on a daily basis due to the amount of time we spend alone. When you are alone and you keep visualizing that dream size, sex thoughts will start flowing in. But it all boils down to self control too.
 
huge-girth;721361 said:
Well. let's say your case is different. There are many of us here who don't mix up that much with people on a daily basis due to the amount of time we spend alone. When you are alone and you keep visualizing that dream size, sex thoughts will start flowing in. But it all boils down to self control too.
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I never feel lonely and that is due to many things I have conquered in my life. I truly wish all could experience this but it did not come easy, I paid a great price to attain this. It took me the better side of 12 years to get myself to the point I am happy to be alone and enjoy my now company. I am not looking for friends, I have them here. I am not looking for a woman, nothing but trouble. I am content and happy with everything in my life. But I get your point, everyone has a different situation. I am only giving my own experience.
 
neatdude;721337 said:
I can't get erections anymore :) thinking about suicide
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dude please dont talk like this, try to convince yourself that this can be beaten naturally.
I'm still reading posts about masturbating and seeing doctors and xrays and bla bla bla. im not trying to be rude but you need to commit yourself to the process of healing yourself naturally instead of staying in denial. Give up jacking off and let your injury heal fully. herbs, good nutrition, good sleep and some basic PE or even a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] (NOT MASTURBATING) can help with the bloodflow. stay strong man we want you to feel better.
 
acromegaly;721756 said:
dude please dont talk like this, try to convince yourself that this can be beaten naturally.
I'm still reading posts about masturbating and seeing doctors and xrays and bla bla bla. im not trying to be rude but you need to commit yourself to the process of healing yourself naturally instead of staying in denial. Give up jacking off and let your injury heal fully. herbs, good nutrition, good sleep and some basic PE or even a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] (NOT MASTURBATING) can help with the bloodflow. stay strong man we want you to feel better.
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Take the advice my Brother, this is coming from his heart!
 
neatdude;721337 said:
I can't get erections anymore :) thinking about suicide
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lol funny, erections are easy to fix, do kegels, slap your penis do whatever it takes to get slightly hard, get a bj do something. Start to edge and you'll soon see yourself have longer lasting erections.
 
kyomoto;721843 said:
lol funny, erections are easy to fix, do kegels, slap your penis do whatever it takes to get slightly hard, get a bj do something. Start to edge and you'll soon see yourself have longer lasting erections.
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Don't think it's the time to poke fun or joke kyo. I'm sure you were being harmless but the op is most likely being serious right now in this situation. Hate to break it to you but it's not always just that easy for everyone and ed is def something that will mess with a mans mind and bring him to dark places. Again I read most of your stuff and know you weren't trying to but it comes off the wrong way making light of this situation as the op is struggling with a lot from this unreasolved injury.

To neatdude please take acro and dld advice along with the others here giving encouragement and support. This sucks I understand we're close in age and I can imagine how your feeling and what your going through mentally. With that being said a lot of this could be a mental issue not saying it is but when you worry and stress over the injury and other shit it takes a toll on your mind which can take a toll on performance causing stress induced ed. I know none of us know exactly what your going through but try to relax, seriously take the good advice given and focus on healing your body and mind. Look forward to reading some positive updates.
 
smitty2590;721864 said:
Don't think it's the time to poke fun or joke kyo. I'm sure you were being harmless but the op is most likely being serious right now in this situation. Hate to break it to you but it's not always just that easy for everyone and ed is def something that will mess with a mans mind and bring him to dark places. Again I read most of your stuff and know you weren't trying to but it comes off the wrong way making light of this situation as the op is struggling with a lot from this unreasolved injury.

To neatdude please take acro and dld advice along with the others here giving encouragement and support. This sucks I understand we're close in age and I can imagine how your feeling and what your going through mentally. With that being said a lot of this could be a mental issue not saying it is but when you worry and stress over the injury and other shit it takes a toll on your mind which can take a toll on performance causing stress induced ed. I know none of us know exactly what your going through but try to relax, seriously take the good advice given and focus on healing your body and mind. Look forward to reading some positive updates.
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He wasn't being serious. Ask him yourself. And if he was serious im sure erectile dysfunction would not be enough for suicidal attempt, there has to be other factors besides that. Aside from that attempt at being funny the most natural ways to get hard again are what we mentioned. I know neatdude is humble, check his previous posts, he's just not being given a good amount of a guide in order to follow step by step every day.

"I realize this is nerve damage. I'm depressed as fuck. Why did I do this to myself? Some days it'll feel like I'm getting better (more color, feeling. And then, days like today, it gets worse again. I will say that on the hole, sensitivity and color have slightly improved over the course of 9months. I have found a correlation to masterbation and haulting my improvement. When I masterbate too much, I'll get worse. I'll even feel pain deep at the base of my dick. Some of you might be thinking, why the fuck would you masterbate if you're injured. To that I say, blood flow. I am just guessing though. Who really knows what's going on with me? I realize I'm a fool, you don't have to reiterate that" -neatdude

First of all nerve damage may have been possible, but you said you felt you gained sensitivity back. First question I have really is if your foreskin covers your head or if it doesn't. If it doesn't you'll need to start doing foreskin restoration so it covers the head again and the penis head can become sensitive again IF its true your nerve damage indication was false. One way to improve bloodflow is by just doing jelqs, do these even at a flaccid state so not to hurt your penis anymore. Don't masturbate anymore just quit it because it does make erections harder to produce. I don't believe you have nerve damage but this is what I suggest you inform us with first.

So answer this:
Does your foreskin cover your head?
How often do you masturbate (say how much a day and how much a week)?
 
neatdude;718292 said:
Hey guys just got back from the neurologist. He confirmed I have a dorsal nerve injury. He said this injury should clear itself up over time. The biggest thing I'm dealing with is this glove feeling every time I ejaculate. He prescribed Alpha Lipoic Acid to stop that busy feeling. As for the lack of sensitivity, he said it's a waiting game. He said I should be able to masterbate occasionally. What do you guys think?
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Perfect! Here's what you can do first of all. Stop masturbating because erections become less hard every time. Also start jelqing to produce bloodflow to the penis this will add a little bit better efficiency for erections as well.

So answer this:
Does your foreskin cover your head?
How often do you masturbate (say how much a day and how much a week)?

Also be patient. One thing I don't suggest is not to masturbate because it goes in hand with sensitivity being restored and could also slow down the healing process for the nerve damage. Let your penis heal, rarely touch if it possible, and please try to resist masturbation even if your doctor says you should be able to masturbate occasionally because next thing you know you'll do it too often and you wont let your penis heal and thats the last thing you want.
 
Thanks for your responses guys. I'm dealing with a lot. My grandpa passed away today, my brother got arrested and now has a dui, my grandma fell and hit her head, and two days ago I was rushed to the ER to make sure the intense pain I was enduring wasn't a testicular torsion. Last week I spoke with Dr. Goldstein, look him up, well known sex medicine doc. He thinks I have "penile scarring". My interpretation of this is "corpora cavernosa fibrosis"; we do not believe I have Peyronnie's. I am currently taking 5mg of daily Cialas, in hopes that this will break down any fibrosis. I've been noticing penile shortening. Today I measured 1 inch less in length and 0.7 inch less in girth. I believe I have a hard flaccid. I still am waiting for my ultrasound. I cry everyday, wishing I could go back in time and stop myself. I've been trying to look up ways on how to create more smooth muscle tissue and less scarring. I have found DMSO cream & PABA pills so far. Again, this is all speculation. I'm very afraid. It's difficult for me to go without masterbating for more than a week. Recently, I've been masterbating like once a day. At least the Cialas helps maintain my shortened erection. I will take another one week break starting now. I shouldn't have to live like this.. suffering
 
Sorry to hear about the family hopefully she feels better soon. Maybe you should get therapy for why you can't stop jacking off. Sorry dude but your post makes no sense to me if you are having chronic pain of your dick and balls why the hell are you jacking off "like once a day". Get counseling and heal naturally. And a doctor got you taking cialis even though you are probably just having stress.... mind over matter stop fixating on jacking off get counseling and commit to healing. I would stop the cialis ASAP and don't start torturing your dick with other chemicals
 
acromegaly;722296 said:
Sorry to hear about the family hopefully she feels better soon. Maybe you should get therapy for why you can't stop jacking off. Sorry dude but your post makes no sense to me if you are having chronic pain of your dick and balls why the hell are you jacking off "like once a day". Get counseling and heal naturally. And a doctor got you taking cialis even though you are probably just having stress.... mind over matter stop fixating on jacking off get counseling and commit to healing. I would stop the cialis ASAP and don't start torturing your dick with other chemicals
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Addiction is a tough monster to conquer. This Thread on keeping each other, who struggle with adult entertainment and masturbation, accountable and to hep with discipline and control. I found the thread to be one of my biggest helps in my success from abstaining now for over 40 days! Self discipline if not a free gift, it is earned through constant practice. Never giving up. Always looking at a fall as a new way to rise. Self control is one of the most admirable virtues a man can possess.
 
doublelongdaddy;722299 said:
Addiction is a tough monster to conquer. This Thread on keeping each other, who struggle with adult entertainment and masturbation, accountable and to hep with discipline and control. I found the thread to be one of my biggest helps in my success from abstaining now for over 40 days! Self discipline if not a free gift, it is earned through constant practice. Never giving up. Always looking at a fall as a new way to rise. Self control is one of the most admirable virtues a man can possess.
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Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
 
neatdude;722349 said:
Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
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Asking/receiving advice from a forum, albeit a very well-informed one, will always be anecdotal to the responders experience and may not be geared to your specific issue. Following a physicians advice after he/she has had a chance to thoroughly interview/examine you would be the best course of action IMO. Exploring your feelings and having a safe place to give/receive support would be [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]'s part...we're only here to help
 
neatdude;722349 said:
Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
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We say no masturbation because your EQ (erection quality) can mess up the ability to get hard consistently or be at your hardest. That's why I suggested to start jelqing to restore bloodflow which will give you back the color you seen through masturbation. It's a better way and it improves your size at the same time. You need to understand that we say the same thing because we know whats best for your situation as of now. Even if we haven't been in your position we understand the difficulties penises can go through and ways to improve it without damaging it.

So like I said, again, please do not masturbate or masturbate too frequently. I say 2 times a week max. INSTEAD do jelqing. It will give you "color", it'll improve circulation (which aids healing), and it'll help you grow your penis at the same time. This will not do much to affect the injured part.
 
neatdude;722349 said:
Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
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i do repeat myself a lot, but in my opinion you have two ways of dealing this:
1) take the doctors word. you are damaged and only medication/surgery/$$$$ thrown at doctors will fix this. keep masterbating.
2) the other advice. you hurt yourself. you need time to heal. you need healthy bloodflow, but you have to stop your masterbation addiction. eat healthy, get good sleep, take herbs and vitamins.

i suppose the second option takes more effort and does not give instant gratification, but what if it is the best option for your overall well being?

there was a time in my life where i had a groin injury so bad i could not walk for almost a year and I did not have any sexual gratification either i was very fucked up. it was a different situation but i have learned it is possible to heal yourself naturally but you have to stay positive (somehow) and believe in the journey god is putting you through. stay strong and try to heal naturally, i really hope it works out for you.
 
neatdude;722349 said:
Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
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I'm sorry man i dont think so... What has helped you was the erection.. That's why you experienced recoloration and feeling better and few hours later you are posting "it hurts and its pale,i wanna suicide"

c'mon neat it has been more than a month and you're trying to fix your dick by jerking and having sex ?

I really really i am sorry about it, your dick, your family
But you are just addicted and making excuses...
First step it's to acknowledge it.

Try sleeping for long periods, drink water before...
8 hrs sleeping it's 5 " sleeping cycles" in which trust me you are having erections. Its very common that if you woke with no morning wood its because you already had it before waking up.

Acknowledge masturbation its making worst, once free of it.. You can get to the point of self inducing erections all day by the touch.. And the more the erections is crucial to heaaaal bro!

Its Oxygenated,high in minerals blood that goes straight to your glans.. Think about it.. Sounds like something you would want in order to help your dick out! Isn it?
 
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neatdude;722349 said:
Sorry to say but your advice seems kinda impersonal, some of you are like a broken record player "no masterbation, no masterbation". In a few instances masterbation actually helped my head get some color. There's a bigger issue at play here, I'm dealing with an injury from hanging.
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Sorry you feel this way, you seemed to be suffering in the way you were presenting yourself and I only wanted to help.\

God Bless
 
Why not abstain from masturbating for a week? The problem here is that he doesn't take any of the advice here.
 
huge-girth;722520 said:
Why not abstain from masturbating for a week? The problem here is that he doesn't take any of the advice here.
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wondering if ip address is used already
 
I realize I am a adult entertainment addict and I think this is god's way of saying stop jacking off so much. Just last night I have to fight the urge to look up Asian adult entertainment.. its bad. I'm on my 3rd day of not fapping. I posted my problem on pegym.com and got and interesting response. Would love to here what you guys think. Here's my post:

"10+ months ago I used the bib starter. After a month, I sustained an injury that would make my glans white, no feeling, and no erections. Since then, it's been a rollercoaster ride. Sometimes, I could get normal rock hard erections. Other times, no blood flow would happen and would lose most sensation. I've just seen my 5th urologist to finally agree to get me an ultrasound; it'll be performed 2 months from now. Today, I look down at my penis.. hard flaccid, pale, and very painful. The painful, hard flaccidness is a new progression in this nightmare. I wish I knew exactly wtf is wrong. My erections are smaller, yet more firm. Very painful. Why is my head almost white?? Driving me crazy"


This was a response from a user:

"May you by any chances have done a kegel or being just slightest erect when you hanged and got this injury?

we're you tense in your pelvic floor Before you got the injury?

It sounds to me like its Another case of pelvic floor injury since these are no symptoms of a lig-injury

restricted erection
pale Cold deflated glans
CS not filling
hard flaccid.

The first thing i recommend is rest, but this has been going on for 10 months which means rest isnt going to do it, you need to start doing reverse kegels and hindi squats, your BC muscle is clenched.

I assume you have noticed urinary Changes, as weaker flow, dribbling perhaps?

You have injured your bulbocavernosus muscle.

What makes it certain in these hard flaccid issues is that, when you really notice that your glans gets fucked up
(Cold, deflated, numb) Its Always the bulbocavernosus, the BC is responsible for the artery that leads to your CS and glans ( which explains the hard flaccid, no blood flow, smooth muscle cant relax, bc also clamps at the pudendal nerve causing Cold and numb sensations.)"


This was my response (he has yet to response back):

"You seem to have a lot of knowledge. Currently I have been prescribed 5mg of daily Cialas & 3000mg of daily L-Citrulline. I'm being seen at UCLA, #3 urology facility in America. My penile ultrasound is in two weeks. I also spoke with dr Irwin Goldstein, look him up. He said he thinks I have penile scarring. I'm assuming that means fibrosis. Oh boy. I was looking up DMSO cream and PABA pills for that. Any advice?

And just to be clear, I was erect when this happened (stupid, I know). The head of my penis was purple and bulging right before I noticed and took the BIB hanger (8lbs) off. I don't recall my pelvic floor being tense before the injury. What is 'CS'?

restricted erection
pale Cold deflated glans
CS not filling
hard flaccid.

This describes my injury perfectly. I have noticed that there is now a delay right before I pee.

"reverse kegels and hindi squats"

I don't know what these are. Any extra info would be great.

A "bulbocavernousus muscle" injury sounds a lot like what I have. I've done some reading on this and it seems like testosterone therapy is the fix for this injury. Maybe physical therapy? Not even sure where I would go for a pelvic floor injury.

I have noticed masterbation/sex plays a huge role with my injury. Whenever I leave it alone for a week and a half, it starts to look and feel like my old penis. The color in my glans will come back, the pain will subside, bigger erections, more feeling. But after engaging in sex/masterbation a few times, I'm back to pale glans, pain in what seems to be the "bulbocavernousus muscle" area, constricted erections, hard flaccid, and just overall bad blood circulation in the penis.

I'm thinking this can't be fibrosis because that would be more of a constant issue. My issue seems to drastically fluctuate day by day.

A few days ago I was rushed to the ER for testicular pain. I thought I might have a testicular torsion. I got an ultrasound for the testicals and the doc said nothing was wrong.

Thank you for providing me with this possibility. I will definitely bring this up to the urologist when I see him."
 
Dude I'm happy you know you have a problem and its matter of motivation, not will power.
Whats your motivation, the fact you have almost lost your dick. fuck..t's motivation enough.. 3rd day congrats I'll join you right now as my first day.


Dude the response you got on PEGYM sounds valid, at this point you got nothing to loose, try everything.
Reverse kegels http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...l-penile-health.html?highlight=reverse+kegels here's a great thread on the topic, But search on google too, tons and tons of info what is it, how to, etc.. Hindu squats no idea but research.

reverse kegels this is hard at first, be still don't move, try different body positions will activate or feel easier, and if you smoke weed try it high.
Read carefully that thread is very well explained.

I think you should totally try this out,TODAY don't procrastinate.
Good luck my brother,please please reflect your outcome onto your actions. I know you can get through this nightmare.
 
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"And just to be clear, I was erect when this happened (stupid, I know). The head of my penis was purple and bulging right before I noticed and took the BIB hanger (8lbs) off. I don't recall my pelvic floor being tense before the injury. What is 'CS'?"

Dude, first of all, you left out the single most important detail, and probably the only contributing factor of your injury, in your post here! You hung ERECT.......??.......!! Honestly, it's hard for me to even imagine that being possible!! I guess it is though........PLEASE, don't ever question, for even a minute, whether or not "PE" in general, is what caused this injury!! I can say, with almost 100% certainty, that that one detail, was totally the cause!! And I know you see what these guys are all telling you to do......and they're not wrong........but, reading it, and doing it, are two different things!! You can't pick and choose......you've got to either take what these guys are saying, and apply it, all of it, or just leave it alone! If you don't try even one single suggestion, and then come back here, taking about still having the problem, because you didn't think it was important, or would help, then you can't honestly say you tried!!! I mean come on......If nothing else, please, learn this one lesson........these guys, know their shit, and won't steer you wrong.....so I know, that nobody told you, to hang with a boner.....in fact, I'm sure if any advice was given, or if you did any research....you had to know, the number one rule, is to hang flaccid!!! So, I really hope, that if nothing else, you learn the importance, of not just picking and choosing, what you want to do, or what you want to try, when all the vets are telling you, and all the information here, says it's not safe!! These guys are trying to help, but you gotta just say...."ok, the way I'm doing it isn't working, and regardless of if it makes sense to me, or not, I'm gonna try it!" I'm sorry, but nothing here, is about a quick change, quick gain, or quick fix!!! It all takes patience, and hard work!! I quit smoking.....loved to smoke.......and I tell others trying, that it takes willpower!! That you're not just gonna magically lose the urge.....that you have to put a ton of effort into it!! It does get easier as you go though!!! Good luck.....you'll be ok........just listen to advice, and commit to fixing this problem!!! Oh, and to answer your question......CS is corpus spongiosum. The spongy chamber, on the bottom, that runs the length of your penis.
 
Adamtf1982;722744 said:
"And just to be clear, I was erect when this happened (stupid, I know). The head of my penis was purple and bulging right before I noticed and took the BIB hanger (8lbs) off. I don't recall my pelvic floor being tense before the injury. What is 'CS'?"

Dude, first of all, you left out the single most important detail, and probably the only contributing factor of your injury, in your post here! You hung ERECT.......??.......!! Honestly, it's hard for me to even imagine that being possible!! I guess it is though........PLEASE, don't ever question, for even a minute, whether or not "PE" in general, is what caused this injury!! I can say, with almost 100% certainty, that that one detail, was totally the cause!! And I know you see what these guys are all telling you to do......and they're not wrong........but, reading it, and doing it, are two different things!! You can't pick and choose......you've got to either take what these guys are saying, and apply it, all of it, or just leave it alone! If you don't try even one single suggestion, and then come back here, taking about still having the problem, because you didn't think it was important, or would help, then you can't honestly say you tried!!! I mean come on......If nothing else, please, learn this one lesson........these guys, know their shit, and won't steer you wrong.....so I know, that nobody told you, to hang with a boner.....in fact, I'm sure if any advice was given, or if you did any research....you had to know, the number one rule, is to hang flaccid!!! So, I really hope, that if nothing else, you learn the importance, of not just picking and choosing, what you want to do, or what you want to try, when all the vets are telling you, and all the information here, says it's not safe!! These guys are trying to help, but you gotta just say...."ok, the way I'm doing it isn't working, and regardless of if it makes sense to me, or not, I'm gonna try it!" I'm sorry, but nothing here, is about a quick change, quick gain, or quick fix!!! It all takes patience, and hard work!! I quit smoking.....loved to smoke.......and I tell others trying, that it takes willpower!! That you're not just gonna magically lose the urge.....that you have to put a ton of effort into it!! It does get easier as you go though!!! Good luck.....you'll be ok........just listen to advice, and commit to fixing this problem!!! Oh, and to answer your question......CS is corpus spongiosum. The spongy chamber, on the bottom, that runs the length of your penis.
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When I was hanging, it was very difficult for me to stay flaccid and hang. I always ended up getting a semi erection. It was frustrating, it was very difficult to get flaccid enough to hang. What if I have a ruptured artery? Will time heal that? I doubt a lot of these guys giving me advice has dealt with such a severe injury. I don't care how not masterbating will clear my head and get me more motivated at work. How will not masterbating heal me? If there's scar tissue, will it dissolve it? I would like to have answers that are SPECIFIC to my injury. I feel completely alone with this injury. As if no one has ever gone thru this. Every morning I wake up crying, thinking I'll never be able to have a wife or even a girlfriend for that matter. My erect penis has lost almost an inch of length and 0.4inches of girth. Do you realize how fucking terrifying this is for me?
 
Dude, I'm not the most knowledgeable, out of all these guys here......I can't tell you exactly how masturbating, is gonna effect your injury, for better, or worse.....but wake the Fuck up man!!! I'm not trying to be mean.....but you've plainly said, a hundred times.....well, it was looking better, has more feeling......then I masturbated, and now the color is gone, and all the other symptoms you've been having!! YOU HAVE SAID IT!! OVER AND OVER!!! I don't think anybody here, has specifically told you, do it, or don't do it, because it will help, or hurt, your injury........wake up dude.....all they're saying, and I'll tell you the same......use some common sense, and until you get this resolved, if doing it, causes negative symptoms, or makes the symptoms worse.......DON'T FUCKING DO IT!!! I think the other point that DLD especially was trying to get through, totally unrelated physically to your injury, was that there's nothing wrong with rubbing one out every now and then....but that it's not good physically, mentally, or spiritually, for it to control you like that!!! So....in a nutshell.....get help, if you have to see 100 doctors, or try the advice here, and in the meantime, since it causes your issues to get worse, don't wack off, till you get it fixed!! I mean, if you had a broke leg, would you go running every day......even if the doc said it wouldn't kill you.......?? Think about it......good luck, ava remember, your dick, is affected more, by your attitude, and outlook, than any other part of your body!! Probably the only part, directly affected! You're gonna be ok!!
 
neatdude;722802 said:
When I was hanging, it was very difficult for me to stay flaccid and hang. I always ended up getting a semi erection. It was frustrating, it was very difficult to get flaccid enough to hang. What if I have a ruptured artery? Will time heal that? I doubt a lot of these guys giving me advice has dealt with such a severe injury. I don't care how not masterbating will clear my head and get me more motivated at work. How will not masterbating heal me? If there's scar tissue, will it dissolve it? I would like to have answers that are SPECIFIC to my injury. I feel completely alone with this injury. As if no one has ever gone thru this. Every morning I wake up crying, thinking I'll never be able to have a wife or even a girlfriend for that matter. My erect penis has lost almost an inch of length and 0.4inches of girth. Do you realize how fucking terrifying this is for me?
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That's what caused the problem. Great you found your problem. Now let it heal. You keep asking the same questions and it is getting to a point where you're just asking just to ask but don't want to get things done. I've given you a simple task to do in order for you to heal while making progress on size. You choose to just come back and ask the same questions.

So if you just do the task I've given you. To do jelq and even kegel throughout the day while not masturbating then you'll be fine. If you want to keep asking the same questions instead of focusing on healing it then so be it. I will not assist you any longer the more you just ask instead of telling us whether or not you're trying to heal your penis.
 
Adamtf1982;722804 said:
Dude, I'm not the most knowledgeable, out of all these guys here......I can't tell you exactly how masturbating, is gonna effect your injury, for better, or worse.....but wake the Fuck up man!!! I'm not trying to be mean.....but you've plainly said, a hundred times.....well, it was looking better, has more feeling......then I masturbated, and now the color is gone, and all the other symptoms you've been having!! YOU HAVE SAID IT!! OVER AND OVER!!! I don't think anybody here, has specifically told you, do it, or don't do it, because it will help, or hurt, your injury........wake up dude.....all they're saying, and I'll tell you the same......use some common sense, and until you get this resolved, if doing it, causes negative symptoms, or makes the symptoms worse.......DON'T FUCKING DO IT!!! I think the other point that DLD especially was trying to get through, totally unrelated physically to your injury, was that there's nothing wrong with rubbing one out every now and then....but that it's not good physically, mentally, or spiritually, for it to control you like that!!! So....in a nutshell.....get help, if you have to see 100 doctors, or try the advice here, and in the meantime, since it causes your issues to get worse, don't wack off, till you get it fixed!! I mean, if you had a broke leg, would you go running every day......even if the doc said it wouldn't kill you.......?? Think about it......good luck, ava remember, your dick, is affected more, by your attitude, and outlook, than any other part of your body!! Probably the only part, directly affected! You're gonna be ok!!
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I made a similar plea and was shot down. I too feel frustrated.
 
doublelongdaddy;722955 said:
I made a similar plea and was shot down. I too feel frustrated.
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Yeah.....I've never understood that......I'm just not the type, to ask for advice, of any kind, and then whine and complain, that I've still got the problem.....knowing that I haven't fully followed the advice, even if I didn't totally understand why on part of it.........I mean....isn't that the reason one seeks advice........because they don't know how to address the problem......they don't know how to fix it.........they don't understand fully, the issues....?? I can't stand for someone to ask me something, and then argue with my answer!!! And I know what you mean, about feeling frustrated! Lol......Damn.
 
Adamtf1982;723029 said:
Yeah.....I've never understood that......I'm just not the type, to ask for advice, of any kind, and then whine and complain, that I've still got the problem.....knowing that I haven't fully followed the advice, even if I didn't totally understand why on part of it.........I mean....isn't that the reason one seeks advice........because they don't know how to address the problem......they don't know how to fix it.........they don't understand fully, the issues....?? I can't stand for someone to ask me something, and then argue with my answer!!! And I know what you mean, about feeling frustrated! Lol......Damn.
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I give advice out of complete love, if it offends or if the truth hurts I am sorry, but I will never lie to my Brothers to make them feel better, they will always get the truth and what I believe will help most. My blunt honesty should never be taken as anything but Love for my Brothers.
 
doublelongdaddy;723167 said:
I give advice out of complete love, if it offends or if the truth hurts I am sorry, but I will never lie to my Brothers to make them feel better, they will always get the truth and what I believe will help most. My blunt honesty should never be taken as anything but Love for my Brothers.
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I think it's very rarely taken any other way!! And when it is......it's only because that person, just has no clue.......! Much respect DLD!!! Gotta big fan, and life long friend here!!
 
Adamtf1982;723205 said:
I think it's very rarely taken any other way!! And when it is......it's only because that person, just has no clue.......! Much respect DLD!!! Gotta big fan, and life long friend here!!
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Thank my Brother. I just want everyone to know that I am here for one reason and one reason only, to give back what I have gained.
 
The funny things is the OP have been told many times by not to overdo it when don't listen to other people's advice which he have caused a serious injury.

When I have injured my penis, I have been advised not to overdo it and I must give myself a chance to recover when I have been listened to other people's advice without get told many times. I have never cause any serious injury when my penis got fully healed. The only injuries that I have caused on my penis was bleeding, cuts, turlting and swelling but nothing was bad.

I am always listening to DLD's advice as I do trust him more than others on this forum, he is a true PE teacher who knows his own stuff very well. He only teach you with the stuff of what you need to do when you do the exercises and the workout just like when you go to the GYM. I can see a big difference on my penis as it has started to grow very slowly. I can't thanks him enough for all of the help what he have done when he was very patience and understood the difficult time of what I went through. I was very frustrated when I was trying to find the solution under any circumstances so now I am on a progress. Without get any of his help I would be screwed. He is the top star! :)
 
badboy2011;723459 said:
I am always listening to DLD's advice as I do trust him more than others on this forum, he is a true PE teacher who knows his own stuff very well. He only teach you with the stuff of what you need to do when you do the exercises and the workout just like when you go to the GYM. I can see a big difference on my penis as it has started to grow very slowly. I can't thanks him enough for all of the help what he have done when he was very patience and understood the difficult time of what I went through. I was very frustrated when I was trying to find the solution under any circumstances so now I am on a progress. Without get any of his help I would be screwed. He is the top star! :)
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:) Much Love my Brother!
 
Big Schwanz Acht;723544 said:
you can lead a horse to water...
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Yeah, and sometime you gotta cut the head off and drown the bitch!
 
doublelongdaddy;723645 said:
Yeah, and sometime you gotta cut the head off and drown the bitch!
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neatdude;1321262 said:
Thank you guys for your responses. Just to be clear, kegels are essentially pelvic contractions. And reverse kegels are pelvic expansions (like filling your lower abdomen with air and pushing; like when you push while peeing to make yourself pee harder, right?)
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Ok so I just got back from the ultrasound. Doc says no venous leak, no penile scarring. However, artery inflow is low, it's in the 20s (good inflow is in the 30s). Could this be the constricted PC pushing on the arteries? I also feel numbness that goes away if I don't masterbate. They injected me with tri mix and my penis feels constricted, numb. My doc says it might be a pelvic floor issue, but he's not sure. He says "use it or lose it". However, I will abstain from masterbation for one month, and do Hindi squats/reverse kegels. Would love to hear a comment back from you guys
 
Do your Hindi squats and reverse kegels. Make sure you are working out, lift heavy weights and get enough cardio. Fix your diet. You might as well fix your whole body, the quality of your erections is a good indicator of your overall health. But leave your dick alone.

Right now you're in recovery mode, focus on getting better and don't even think about Penis Enlargement until you've gotten better.
 
neatdude;723715 said:
Ok so I just got back from the ultrasound. Doc says no venous leak, no penile scarring. However, artery inflow is low, it's in the 20s (good inflow is in the 30s). Could this be the constricted PC pushing on the arteries? I also feel numbness that goes away if I don't masterbate. They injected me with tri mix and my penis feels constricted, numb. My doc says it might be a pelvic floor issue, but he's not sure. He says "use it or lose it". However, I will abstain from masterbation for one month, and do Hindi squats/reverse kegels. Would love to hear a comment back from you guys
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I hope you will strive to stick to what you have said.
 
neatdude;723715 said:
Ok so I just got back from the ultrasound. Doc says no venous leak, no penile scarring. However, artery inflow is low, it's in the 20s (good inflow is in the 30s). Could this be the constricted PC pushing on the arteries? I also feel numbness that goes away if I don't masterbate. They injected me with tri mix and my penis feels constricted, numb. My doc says it might be a pelvic floor issue, but he's not sure. He says "use it or lose it". However, I will abstain from masterbation for one month, and do Hindi squats/reverse kegels. Would love to hear a comment back from you guys
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Getting back to my original suggestion, refrain from masturbation and work on building the pelvic floor muscles. You need major strength in gaining the best erections. Your inflow will be greatly effected by kegel work and this is what your doctor meds with "use it or lose it" Work solely on improving eq and once you have corrected this you can move on.
 
doublelongdaddy;723739 said:
Getting back to my original suggestion, refrain from masturbation and work on building the pelvic floor muscles. You need major strength in gaining the best erections. Your inflow will be greatly effected by kegel work and this is what your doctor meds with "use it or lose it" Work solely on improving eq and once you have corrected this you can move on.
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I think my pelvic area is very tense. So I'm gunna refrain from kegels for the time being. Thoughts?
 
neatdude;723715 said:
Ok so I just got back from the ultrasound. Doc says no venous leak, no penile scarring. However, artery inflow is low, it's in the 20s (good inflow is in the 30s). Could this be the constricted PC pushing on the arteries? I also feel numbness that goes away if I don't masterbate. They injected me with tri mix and my penis feels constricted, numb. My doc says it might be a pelvic floor issue, but he's not sure. He says "use it or lose it". However, I will abstain from masterbation for one month, and do Hindi squats/reverse kegels. Would love to hear a comment back from you guys
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Praise the lord he is finally following advice we gave him. It only took him forever.
 
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