Injury / Feeling terrified.. help

neatdude;719462 said:
No but seriously, thank you guys for your support. I'm honestly scared shitless that I've permanently damaged myself. I have an appt w/ the urologist on Thurs where I will ask for an ultrasound to be done. I hope whatever has been damaged can be fixed. Looking up info on trauma induced ED can be very disheartening.
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I truly pray everything is ok but anytime you have to urge to masterbate I'd suggest coming up with something you do instead like when the urge hits commit to yourself you'll do stretches instead, or jelqs maybe kegels anything that will occupy your mind instead of the urge. I say this because this is what worked for me anytime I have it I went and did a intense stretch session or if in a situation where time did not allow for that I'd just kegel. I know it's annoying but after a month or two I promise you will come back and thank us for this. You'll have stronger erecrikna then before, be in more control of yourself and your dick. I just say it's a great feeling bro. Best wishes keep us updated we are here to help.
 
Use topical oils and heat wraps and take LARGINE and dont jerk off. Do all of this for 30days. Good luck.
 
kyomoto;719446 said:
master ourselves too
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That is called self-discipline but in ourselves we can do nothing, this discipline comes from above!
 
acromegaly;719483 said:
Stay patient my dude, god has a plan. This type of injury can take a long time to heal. Stay strong.
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Exactly. It is so important to see the grace behind the suffering, it is there if you truly search. We are given obstacles so we learn to get around them, we fall so we can get up again and learn from the fall, we do wrong and sin but we learn to correct ourselves in these issues. This world is all about getting through this exile with as much grace as possible. When we overcome these things we become stronger because of it.
 
I went to see the urologist today. He said they don't do Doppler ultrasounds there and that he'll have to ask around for people that do. I didn't know this was such a rare thing to do. He said my issue is probably a torn tunica. He said it's a time thing. I really hope everything heals. I got an etection today after not masterbating for four days. He said not to masterbate for a month. It's so fucking difficult for me not to touch my Johnson. I don't get it, isn't PE's goal to tear the tunica?
 
neatdude;719820 said:
I went to see the urologist today. He said they don't do Doppler ultrasounds there and that he'll have to ask around for people that do. I didn't know this was such a rare thing to do. He said my issue is probably a torn tunica. He said it's a time thing. I really hope everything heals. I got an etection today after not masterbating for four days. He said not to masterbate for a month. It's so fucking difficult for me not to touch my Johnson. I don't get it, isn't PE's goal to tear the tunica?
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Good job bro 4 days you are doing great. The doctor is right let yourself heal and you will be fine. Then you can continue PE safely.
 
neatdude;719820 said:
I went to see the urologist today. He said they don't do Doppler ultrasounds there and that he'll have to ask around for people that do. I didn't know this was such a rare thing to do. He said my issue is probably a torn tunica. He said it's a time thing. I really hope everything heals. I got an etection today after not masterbating for four days. He said not to masterbate for a month. It's so fucking difficult for me not to touch my Johnson. I don't get it, isn't PE's goal to tear the tunica?
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Woot woot 4 days is a great achievement. Keep it up brother you can do it the longer you can refrain the better it will be for your healing. We're all here cheering you on.
 
neatdude;719820 said:
I went to see the urologist today. He said they don't do Doppler ultrasounds there and that he'll have to ask around for people that do. I didn't know this was such a rare thing to do. He said my issue is probably a torn tunica. He said it's a time thing. I really hope everything heals. I got an etection today after not masterbating for four days. He said not to masterbate for a month. It's so fucking difficult for me not to touch my Johnson. I don't get it, isn't PE's goal to tear the tunica?
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30 days will completely eliminate masturbation if you so desire. The mind takes about 28 days to change a habit. After a month you will have much more discipline and a much better outlook on other issues. I am glad my advice was in line with your doctors advice. A torn Tunica is very, very rare and usually only happens through great trauma to the penis.

First things first and we can add as you heal.
 
doublelongdaddy;719851 said:
30 days will completely eliminate masturbation if you so desire. The mind takes about 28 days to change a habit. After a month you will have much more discipline and a much better outlook on other issues. I am glad my advice was in line with your doctors advice. A torn Tunica is very, very rare and usually only happens through great trauma to the penis.

First things first and we can add as you heal.
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If one gives up adult entertainment, what's the best way to get/keep yourself hard during erect work?
And yes imagine something is one way, but doesn't that take away the focus
 
doublelongdaddy;718501 said:
Not sure how long it has been for me, I will find the confessional thread to see. I know that it rarely enters my mind anymore, I feel such freedom from adult entertainment and masturbation!
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Personally, I'm trying to abstain from Masturbation for 90 days which should be from now till my birthday March 29th. If I can do this, I will be very confident of my self-control ability.
 
Munto;719987 said:
If one gives up adult entertainment, what's the best way to get/keep yourself hard during erect work?
And yes imagine something is one way, but doesn't that take away the focus
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I'm glad the forum is gradually kicking against masturbation. I believe if we hold back from masturbating, we can use that sexual energy to achieve other things in life. If you don't ejaculate at all, you can use Viagra to get an erection for girth work without watching adult entertainment. Just imagine yourself having sex with that favorite chick of yours and you will notice the erection coming gradually.
 
huge-girth;720041 said:
Personally, I'm trying to abstain from Masturbation for 90 days which should be from now till my birthday March 29th. If I can do this, I will be very confident of my self-control ability.
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Take it slow. Make 1 month a goal. Then the next time 2 months and so on.
 
huge-girth;720042 said:
I'm glad the forum is gradually kicking against masturbation. I believe if we hold back from masturbating, we can use that sexual energy to achieve other things in life. If you don't ejaculate at all, you can use Viagra to get an erection for girth work without watching adult entertainment. Just imagine yourself having sex with that favorite chick of yours and you will notice the erection coming gradually.
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Big time! There is so much addiction in this area it is pathetic! And the driving force behind this is adult entertainment. We are really taking a huge stand here and I LOVE how everyone is onboard. I thought I would be attacked in this but it was quite the opposite. Freedom from masturbation is a freedom that can only be felt in abstinence.
 
doublelongdaddy;720130 said:
Big time! There is so much addiction in this area it is pathetic! And the driving force behind this is adult entertainment. We are really taking a huge stand here and I LOVE how everyone is onboard. I thought I would be attacked in this but it was quite the opposite. Freedom from masturbation is a freedom that can only be felt in abstinence.
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Essential!!!
 
kyomoto;720179 said:
Damn bro. That's real tough there. 1 week is tough enough!
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It is difficult when you are doing PE especially girth work. I can hold myself from ejaculation while training length, maybe for few days though. But for girth, you just need to ejaculate due to the urge. It's best to have a pussy to smash right after the session. I'm seriously searching for that lady now.
 
So after a week of not masterbating, some color came back in the glans, some sensitivity came back, better erections, I even got morning wood yesterday. Anyways, last night a girl hit me up. My erections felt basically normal again. Long story short, I broke my abstinence and we had sex a couple times. I thought just sex might be okay. Afterwards, I felt some pain along the top of my penis. Tonight, my glans have slightly paled, some sensitivity has decreased. But the most disturbing thing is this blockage feeling. Like something is stuck in the glans of my penis. I wish I could understand what this is. I wish my health insurance would help me get imaging done instead of just guessing. I truly believe it might be some kind of artery problem. I could be wrong, but I need to know what the problem is. Almost 10 months of this nightmare. On Tuesday I'll be almost normal, and on Friday it's just as bad as a few days after the injury. My mental health is truly being affected. I'm 25, I've had to tell both my mom and dad about this problem. They've talked to the doctors with me. I found a doctor that might be able to help me:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wlQB23osRU
 
neatdude;720224 said:
So after a week of not masterbating, some color came back in the glans, some sensitivity came back, better erections, I even got morning wood yesterday. Anyways, last night a girl hit me up. My erections felt basically normal again. Long story short, I broke my abstinence and we had sex a couple times. I thought just sex might be okay. Afterwards, I felt some pain along the top of my penis. Tonight, my glans have slightly paled, some sensitivity has decreased. But the most disturbing thing is this blockage feeling. Like something is stuck in the glans of my penis. I wish I could understand what this is. I wish my health insurance would help me get imaging done instead of just guessing. I truly believe it might be some kind of artery problem. I could be wrong, but I need to know what the problem is. Almost 10 months of this nightmare. On Tuesday I'll be almost normal, and on Friday it's just as bad as a few days after the injury. My mental health is truly being affected. I'm 25, I've had to tell both my mom and dad about this problem. They've talked to the doctors with me. I found a doctor that might be able to help me:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wlQB23osRU
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Why would insurance not cover something so important? That is pathetic and you should push to have these tests done. If they do not do them find someone who will at a free clinic, every city has one. If not that, find the cost and set up a fund-me account and perhaps gather the funds that way. Having your parents help is great and I think they will help you. I will pray for you to get a doctor to check you out properly and find a definitive solution.

A week of no masturbation? Pat yourself on the back and shoot for a month! I used to tell men it was important to ejaculate regularly but my opinion on this has changed since I have stopped as I have wet dreams when the release is needed. Having freedom from adult entertainment and masturbation is one of the best feelings I have had in a long time.

Keep your head up and things will work out. I encourage my other Brothers to pray for you too!
 
the boss!;716877 said:
I agree too haha dont get me wrong.
only "time"! so give time to the time.

But i think somebody who has healthy lifestyle heals waay faster and way stronger than somebody that does not.
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yep a healthy lifestyle is key,penis injuries are a pain i have this burn mark or something on my shaft is quite small but dont like it at all.

I used the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] for almost a month non stop and i did jerked my dick off a lot too maybe that was the cause lol
 
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LONGERDICK7+;720231 said:
yep a healthy lifestyle is key,penis injuries are a pain i have this burn mark or something on my shaft is quite small but dont like it at all.

I used the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words] for almost a month non stop and i did jerked my dick off a lot too maybe that was the cause lol
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All that fatigue combined with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LengthMaster[/words] must have been great.
 
I don't understand this shunning of masturbation that's going on. I understand it's bad to do anything too much but we need to ejac regularly for peace of mind as well as keeping the prostate healthy.

I read somewhere that doctors recommend cumming 21 times a month for prostate health. I think that's a little high. I "shoot" (get it) for 3 or 4 times a week, mostly from sex with my gf but occasionally by myself.

Nothing wrong with bleeding the pump every now and then. If you don't use it you lose it! Lol.
 
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JB007;720676 said:
I don't understand this shunning of masturbation that's going on. I understand it's bad to do anything too much but we need to ejac regularly for peace of mind as well as keeping the prostate healthy.

I read somewhere that doctors recommend cumming 21 times a month for prostate health. I think that's a little high. I "shoot" (get it) for 3 or 4 times a week, mostly from sex with my gf but occasionally by myself.

Nothing wrong with bleeding the pump every now and then. If you don't use it you lose it! Lol.
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lol mfw knowing that the prostate is what reabsorbs and recycles unused sperm and just detected another masturbator
 
JB007;720676 said:
I don't understand this shunning of masturbation that's going on. I understand it's bad to do anything too much but we need to ejac regularly for peace of mind as well as keeping the prostate healthy.

I read somewhere that doctors recommend cumming 21 times a month for prostate health. I think that's a little high. I "shoot" (get it) for 3 or 4 times a week, mostly from sex with my gf but occasionally by myself.

Nothing wrong with bleeding the pump every now and then. If you don't use it you lose it! Lol.
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you might have missed the earlier part of his story, he got an injury that caused all the issues. sometimes an injury like this can take a very long time to heal and frequent masturbation wont help
 
templnite;720677 said:
lol mfw knowing that the prostate is what reabsorbs and recycles unused sperm and just detected another masturbator
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Everybody masturbates. And I said I rarely cum by myself. My girl likes to get down almost as much as I do.
 
acromegaly;720678 said:
you might have missed the earlier part of his story, he got an injury that caused all the issues. sometimes an injury like this can take a very long time to heal and frequent masturbation wont help
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Totally agree. Don't be a deviant about it by doing it all the time. I just meant here and there to keep your sanity, good hormone levels and healthy prostate.
 
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doublelongdaddy;720636 said:
All that fatigue combined with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LengthMaster[/words] must have been great.
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yep getting bigger is my fecking goal!:cool:

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JB007;720679 said:
Everybody masturbates. And I said I rarely cum by myself. My girl likes to get down almost as much as I do.
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Great
 
JB007;720676 said:
I don't understand this shunning of masturbation that's going on. I understand it's bad to do anything too much but we need to ejac regularly for peace of mind as well as keeping the prostate healthy.

I read somewhere that doctors recommend cumming 21 times a month for prostate health. I think that's a little high. I "shoot" (get it) for 3 or 4 times a week, mostly from sex with my gf but occasionally by myself.

Nothing wrong with bleeding the pump every now and then. If you don't use it you lose it! Lol.
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There are many men here who either have addictions to masturbation and or adult entertainment. In this way, the Brotherhood is offering help to the who want it. I am not anyones conscious nor do I try to be. I respond to the needs of the Brotherhood as I should. In this case this Brother caused issues trough compulsive masturbation. In many other areas it is similar in the sense of compulsion. If I were to let this go by without doing my best to help what kind of a leader would I be to the Brotherhood? I think a very poor example. I do not care what is afflicting my Brothers, I will always do everything in my power to help alleviate these afflictions whether it be drugs, alcohol, adult entertainment, masturbation, overeating, etc. Anyone who is suffering with addiction is suffering and it is our duty, as a loving family, to help those in need or we would be like every other bullshit forum out there.
 
templnite;720695 said:
Ok you guys stop trying to justify your nasty habits
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So true in my case, last night my justifications landed me in a place I did not want to go!
 
JB007;720680 said:
Totally agree. Don't be a deviant about it by doing it all the time. I just meant here and there to keep your sanity, good hormone levels and healthy prostate.
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The thing is, I do masturbate on a daily basis and this will eventually lead to depression for most of us who do this. Ejaculating once in 5 days seems to be okay. I got the point, no more daily masturbation.
 
huge-girth;720822 said:
The thing is, I do masturbate on a daily basis and this will eventually lead to depression for most of us who do this. Ejaculating once in 5 days seems to be okay. I got the point, no more daily masturbation.
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Other things that happen when masturbation and adult entertainment are abused
• EQ Issues
• Lack of Libido
• Subjugating women
• If in a relationship it can be very damaging
• Loss of inspiration
• Addiction and Guilt
• Low eq will result in poor girth work
 
I masterbated a couple of days ago and my glans became more reddish, less pale (this is good). At this point, I have no idea what the fuck is going on with my penis. I usually have no morning wood now (used to have morning wood every morning before the injury). I can get 'ok' erections and cum. I hate Lakeside & Kaiser. In fact, fuck all HMOs. No help at all. I'm currently fighting with Kaiser to get them to cover a transfer over to a university hospital. My fucking urologist refused to write me a referral to a university hospital so I could get a proper diagnosis. Really Kaiser? No one has an MRI and/or Doppler Ultrasound in your whole entire system? Fuck heads. I might have to pay outta pocket just to make sure I don't have a venous leak and/or arterial block. My urologist wouldn't even prescribe me some Viagra. Fuck man..
 
neatdude;721104 said:
I masterbated a couple of days ago and my glans became more reddish, less pale (this is good). At this point, I have no idea what the fuck is going on with my penis. I usually have no morning wood now (used to have morning wood every morning before the injury). I can get 'ok' erections and cum. I hate Lakeside & Kaiser. In fact, fuck all HMOs. No help at all. I'm currently fighting with Kaiser to get them to cover a transfer over to a university hospital. My fucking urologist refused to write me a referral to a university hospital so I could get a proper diagnosis. Really Kaiser? No one has an MRI and/or Doppler Ultrasound in your whole entire system? Fuck heads. I might have to pay outta pocket just to make sure I don't have a venous leak and/or arterial block. My urologist wouldn't even prescribe me some Viagra. Fuck man..
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Have you considered incorporating [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] or something similar that's known to help increase eq and blood flow? I'm no doctor was so don't know if this would be smart but it will help with blood circulation and eq. Dld or some of the other vets can chime in and say if this would be a good option for you, it was just a thought that it may help with everything your going through.
 
You know what's crazy? I wrote that post about 24 hours ago. My glans are pale again and I'm having weak erections again. I'm slowly going insane..
 
doublelongdaddy;721055 said:
Other things that happen when masturbation and adult entertainment are abused
• EQ Issues
• Lack of Libido
• Subjugating women
• If in a relationship it can be very damaging
• Loss of inspiration
• Addiction and Guilt
• Low eq will result in poor girth work
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In that case, we all should get a girlfriend. There is no way those of us on this forum without a girlfriend can carry on for 1 month without ejaculating through masturbation. Its possible but difficult. Having a girlfriend is indeed the best option.
 
huge-girth;721131 said:
In that case, we all should get a girlfriend. There is no way those of us on this forum without a girlfriend can carry on for 1 month without ejaculating through masturbation. Its possible but difficult. Having a girlfriend is indeed the best option.
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I am speaking on obsessive masturbation...men who are jerking off 5 times day and can't help themselves.
 
doublelongdaddy;721162 said:
I am speaking on obsessive masturbation...men who are jerking off 5 times day and can't help themselves.
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Loneliness is another reason for this.
 
huge-girth;721222 said:
Loneliness is another reason for this.
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Big time! I have a few things to say on this. First, what I find most important for every Brother, if possible, is to spend a couple years by yourself and learn to live with yourself. This brings so much growth to the mind and so much more self confidence not relying on others to feel good about ourselves. I believe a woman is most impressed with the independence a man exhibits as this shows her that he does not 'need' someone to care for himself as he can do this himself and this is a very attractive quality.

Loneliness is a tough thing and for me I got through this by putting all my trust in Jesus. Once I was able to do this completely I no longer felt the sting of loneliness as I has my Master to speak with whenever I need. I also keep a very close relationship with my Son, who understands me in every way. Even though we duo not live with each other we desperately seek time to spend together. My time with The Brotherhood, my Family, Children and Grandchildren is my joy in this world. With this and Christ I am free of any loneliness.
 
doublelongdaddy;721265 said:
First, what I find most important for every Brother, if possible, is to spend a couple years by yourself and learn to live with yourself. This brings so much growth to the mind and so much more self confidence not relying on others to feel good about ourselves. I believe a woman is most impressed with the independence a man exhibits as this shows her that he does not 'need' someone to care for himself as he can do this himself and this is a very attractive quality.
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Hit the nail on the proverbial head with this one, Mike. If I may add...be excellent in something. Women are attracted to men because of their 'maleness' so don't become 'vaginatized' when you start engaging with women
 
neatdude;721337 said:
I can't get erections anymore :) thinking about suicide
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Get a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] bro it will help with ed, blood flow, overall [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] plus helps gain.
 
neatdude;721345 said:
I own a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words]. I don't even get morning wood anymore..
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Damn man was hoping it would help out your eq. You've still been using it during all this going on?
 
I only used it a few times. I'm in pain and I have no idea what it is. It could be a blood vessel problem. [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] would make it worst.
 
neatdude;721347 said:
I only used it a few times. I'm in pain and I have no idea what it is. It could be a blood vessel problem. [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] would make it worst.
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Understood my man I was just trying to help with the circulation and eq. So where do you live at state wise? I ask because you may have to consider seeing a specialist in this field in another town or state if you cannot get the proper help where your located.
 
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