How to get over penis size?

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Steph19875

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Hey guys, just wanted to know how some of you become comfortable with your penis size? I recently fell on one of those big penis forums were evreybody post pics of the biggest dicks found on the internet. And it made me very uncomfortable. Its as if I cant accept that others might have a bigger penis than me. Or worse yet, that the girls I get with have been with way bigger ones than mine...

What are ways to get over this constant fear of running into a girl that has been with a 9 1/2 by 7 thick?

I dont know why I see the penis as the ultimate rating tool for how much value I have to the women? I know I have a problem with fear of getting judged by others in general, but the way I feel is as if I could have evreything perfect with me, but if my dick is small, it brings me back to a 0 on a scale of 1 to 10.

I understand that this statement does not make sense but how do I get this out of my head?

Its been a problem in all of my relationships where I avoid the "whats the biggest you had" conversation with my girlfrends to the point were I have trouble enjoying a connection.

Im beggining to wonder if Id want to continue this life if I cant let go of this..
 
Guys care more about size than most women do. Chicks can only have sensation about 4 inches deep into their vag. This would mean girth is more of what a woman can feel. Don't be so worried about what a woman will think of your dick. A good woman that you want will love you for you. No one is perfect and woman have many insecurities and similar fears. Most women haven been with a 9 inch man. Over 90% of guys fall into the average size range. I've known some girls who have had that and they didn't enjoy it, it caused pain. Anyway don't worry about it and learn all you can on here if you want to gain size. I'm up an inch in length and a half inch in girth so it is posible
 
if you play the strict odds, chances of a girl ever coming in contact with a 9.5x7 dick is slim to nil, as that is fucking huge. overall, you just have to learn to let go of the things that you dont have control of. say she was with someone who had a monster dick, she is either no longer with him, or is cheating on him with you. Either way, that means that there is more to the equation than dick size.
 
Steph19875;524163 said:
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Im beggining to wonder if Id want to continue this life if I cant let go of this..
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Dude snap out of it! It makes me sad and angry that poor men like yourself contemplate suicide just because that you are afraid some bitch will tell you you have a small dick and cant please her royally loose pussy. Dont ever even think about taking your life over some bitch! Or grab the damned bull by the horns and go get a big penis yourself!
 
A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.

Steph19875 as a person in a system of human organization (society), we have a tendency to compare ourselves to others for a rating of where one stand among the peers. Whether it be grades in school, accomplishment in sports, amount of earning potential, number of possessions acquired, or the size of stature. First, you have to accept what you have, know your limitations, work on what you can improve, be confident, and never-mind what you have no-control over. Count your blessings, you could be smaller than you are now. You can only go forward from here...

"No matter what size the tool (penis) may be, you still have to know how to use it properly."

Usually women will take a man with an average size penis and confident over a man with a big penis and no confidence in the long run. One of the beauties of this world is having options... not all women want a huge dick to have sex with. So, enjoy those type until you out-grow them (LoL)
 
two rules.

1. never care what anyone (man or woman) thinks about your penis.. its a mental and emotional black hole. you will never win this argument if you engage in it mentally. its a battle in your mind, not in reality.

2. never, under any circumstance, ever ever ever think negative thoughts about your own penis. like they say "how can you love if you can't love yourself?". if you think negative and engage in this you will also never win. it will never be good enough. i cant "prove" it but i 100% believe that having negative thoughts about your penis will effect your Penis Enlargement negatively and you won't "see gains" even if the ruler tells you its getting bigger. i believe having a positive attitude about your penis will improve your Penis Enlargement and help you to engage in the long haul. its a lifetime of experience, not a short term quick fix. enjoy it.

sex is more than dick size. if you think that dick size matters for your sex then you will never "measure up". im telling you, your dick is fine. and no matter how big your dick is you need to know more skills. focus on the woman during sex, not your own cock. women complaint is that guys with a "big dick" think that just having a "big dick" is all it takes. if you can know her and get her off she wil never have a complaint. if she wants it bigger go to a adult entertainment shop and get her a Mandingo size dildo. $30, problem solved. guarantee she will cry at the sight.

for me, Penis Enlargement is a personal thing and not really about sex with my partner. sure, thats a bonus but honestly my girl doesnt really enjoy my size as it is (it hurts balls deep and going hard) and she wouldn't be happier with it bigger. honestly she tells me she likes it best when Im kinda 80% hard and not fully rock hard. i think rock hard jabs her too much. she loves anal, or the idea of it, but my dick wont go in really easy and it takes time. she can only "deep throat" when I'm limpish. she is an average woman. the vast majority of women have only been with average men, 5-6 inches. everyonce in awhile thye had one bigger or smaller. being bigger wont make much difference to the majority of women. they dont care. they only act liek they do because they think men care.

one more rule.... talking about past relationships should be off the table if you want to be serious. grow up. there is no reason at all to ask her about "whats the biggest" or how many men she has had. who cares if she got DP'ed while sucking a guy and jacking off two others??? does it really matter? thats not a conversation you need to engage in, it is 100% ONLY about your insecurity and you will gain NOTHING from this conversation.

your last sentence seems suicidal. honestly, your problem is not your dick size and unless you get your mind right you will never be happy 5 inches or 25. real talk. wake up.
 
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I have never gotten comfortable with my size, I guess that's why I keep doing Penis Enlargement after 6 years. I think about giving it up sometimes, I've made some great gains over the years but I just can't do it. I keep looking for that next 1/4 inch. Don't believe a lot of the pics you see on the internet; a lot of it is fake. If you are unhappy about your penis size, do something about it. You won't find a better place than this to get started.
 
Threak-X;524187 said:
A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.
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Come on, dude.... That's a foolish thing to say..
 
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Threak-X;524187 said:
A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.
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MikeShlort;524215 said:
Come on, dude.... That's a foolish thing to say..
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It's only one aspect of it all, otherwords, natural size and beautiful alone isn't enough.
 
Yeah but everyone knows that. The "a big penis is useless if the guy doesn't know how to use it" line is a cop out. He knows how to use it. And probably more than a guy with a smaller penis, because he has more sex and girls will be more honest with him. In general.
 
A gf actually told me I was big but didn't know how to use it. Another one asked why we couldn't do what other people do. Pretty useless clues, but they were both talking about stuff you learn here about how to work their areas.
 
Back then I wasn't "just laying there depending on the other person", like Threak-X said, so a third gf said,"Why do you have to move? Why don't you just lay there and let me do what I want?". She wanted to spend more time in her first two inches, and I learned to sense that. She still like to do it herself, though.
 
pnoewbe;524366 said:
Back then I wasn't "just laying there depending on the other person", like Threak-X said, so a third gf said,"Why do you have to move? Why don't you just lay there and let me do what I want?". She wanted to spend more time in her first two inches, and I learned to sense that. She still like to do it herself, though.
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Gold.
 
MikeShlort;524345 said:
Yeah but everyone knows that. The "a big penis is useless if the guy doesn't know how to use it" line is a cop out. He knows how to use it. And probably more than a guy with a smaller penis, because he has more sex and girls will be more honest with him. In general.
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LMAO ... it's a generalization.
Probably ...?
 
Okay il tell you both sides of the story so you can calm down a little with your assumptions ( cmon now Threak-X really?). When I was 6.5x6 I got laid only about 2 times since I was only 15-16, but it was mostly because I learned overtime how to lure girls into my mind game and make them my own for the night. But when I got to 10x7 I didnt only get them for the night, but for the whole freaking year. My point is in a one night stand a big penis isnt that important I agree, but if you want to be able to cope with multiple fuck buddies you better have something big mofo cause the girl wont be staying with you just because you were royally nice with her. Now Im a truth teller so dont go calling bullshit on this cause Im telling you the biggest players do have bigger dicks, cause you know why most of the time big dick= subconscient confidence. Im sure you know girls like confidence alot more than some boozo with a meat clubber.
 
I know some of you will tell me I should shut the fuck up I started with a 6inch girth. But I am entitled to an opinion same as you, atleast Im backing up my opinion with trail-error based facts and not covering it up with "poetic sentences" and a ton of discourse markers.
 
Anyways, back to some more important stuff. How are you doing Steph, I hope you will consider our advice and go live a fuller life instead of thinking about suicide.There's no excuse for the need to take your own life away, everyone passes through some rough obstacles if life, just face them as they come along, there's always a way to overcome those obstacles, and learn from your experiences.
 
It's logical that guys with big dicks get lots of sluts. Not really sure what the argument is. If anything, it's a reason to not respect women. Not sit and try to argue with points that don't make sense. Women are cocksluts. Think about how it was in high school. It's still the same, except they try harder to hide it.

Nothing to really feel badly over. Sex is an instinctual craving, like hunger or thirst. Nothing to put any meaning into. Once you learn to stop caring about what female humans think of you, and start focusing on things that matter, you win. Let them spend their time taking big dick. If that's the legacy they'd like to leave on this earth, cool!
 
RUBY10";524185 said:
Dude snap out of it! It makes me sad and angry that poor men like yourself contemplate suicide just because that you are afraid some bitch will tell you you have a small dick and cant please her royally loose pussy. Dont ever even think about taking your life over some bitch! Or grab the damned bull by the horns and go get a big penis yourself!
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Couldn't have said it better myself!
 
Threak x, what is your point exactly?
That people with large dicks cannot fuck properly?
There are people across the board who don't fuck properly. Some people are zombies, some are too fuckin tender. Has nothing to do with the measurementt of dick.
Regardless, I think your point has no basis to it. A crock if you may, and I say this with respect.
You just do not prove this to me.
 
RUBY10";524471 said:
I know some of you will tell me I should shut the fuck up I started with a 6inch girth. But I am entitled to an opinion same as you, atleast Im backing up my opinion with trail-error based facts and not covering it up with "poetic sentences" and a ton of discourse markers.
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that and your story is complete bullshit. there is no way in hell you gained 4 inches and then lost it all. yep, everyone was the star quarterback in highschool, i know i know..
 
Dapper Dan;524516 said:
Threak x, what is your point exactly?
That people with large dicks cannot fuck properly?
There are people across the board who don't fuck properly. Some people are zombies, some are too fuckin tender. Has nothing to do with the measurementt of dick.
Regardless, I think your point has no basis to it. A crock if you may, and I say this with respect.
You just do not prove this to me.
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Obviously, the words I choose hit some sensitive nerves with a few members here for some reason. It side-tracked the main topic from Steph19875 initial issue, which he never came back since. I think he was scared off by all the "I have a big capable proper fucking dick" chatter. It was a generalization, meaning because it's naturally big or beautiful doesn't mean it's 100% better for you. In other-words, other circumstances seem more desirable than one's own but in reality are often not.

The point is the same as yours, "Has nothing to do with the measurement of dick."...take action.
 
Threak-X;524568 said:
...because it's naturally big or beautiful doesn't mean it's 100% better for you.
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No shit.

The way you were talkin though, you were makin it seem like people who are naturally big or good looking don't do shit well. That's a load of sheeit.

What's the matter with a little real talk?
Aren't we trying to be the best we can be?
Having a big fuckin dick, and the experience to use it well?
And, most importantly, pertaining to our friend steph, not giving a fuck what others thinkb about you?

Cmon dude.
 
b.d.d.;524566 said:
that and your story is complete bullshit. there is no way in hell you gained 4 inches and then lost it all. yep, everyone was the star quarterback in highschool, i know i know..
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Dude first off all I didn't lose it all I lost 2.5 inches. Maybe if you weren't such a little dumb fuck you would've read about me a little before accusing me. Plus I wasn't the starting quarterback for gods sake I suck at American football, always preferred euro foot.
 
b.d.d.;524565 said:
nothing you said was verifiable at all. it was your generalization and opinion.
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It's not really my opinion that guys with bigger dicks have the chance to get laid more and it's not my opinion that guys who get laid more are better at sex.. It's the opinion of logic.

I just think the "a big dick is useless if he doesn't know how to use it" line is a cop out. In reality, if a guy has a big dick but doesn't know how to have sex, that isn't what girls are saying. They are saying "he didn't know how to use his big dick, so I hopped on top of it and showed him how to use it."

If you're going to argue with logic, you're only fighting yourself.
 
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Seriously.
Why the fuck are you on this forum then?
If having a big dick somehow makes you worse at fucking, then why the fuck do you want one?
We all know having a big dick is totally rad, stop making lame excuses.
B.d.d, calling ruby*s story bullshit was pretty weak dude. Why you like that? Maybe this forum isn't the right place for you?
 
And to answer the million dollar question, "How to get over penis size"".
Well it goes like this. Since you aren't only a penis, but a human being. You should look to improve yourself as such. Work on your personality, your confidence, goals, dreams, whatever. Be a well rounded person that does rad shit that people wish they could do.
Your character is lacking if you're so so hung up over the size of your dick, especially since you can make it larger. Quit moping and get to work, in all aspects of your life, so maybe you can be a haappy person.

I didn't have to write this down, but I did. Because I care.
You can say everything is great, and live doing nothing, or fuckin do something

Peace.
 
Dapper Dan;524592 said:
Seriously.
Why the fuck are you on this forum then?
If having a big dick somehow makes you worse at fucking, then why the fuck do you want one?
We all know having a big dick is totally rad, stop making lame excuses.
B.d.d, calling ruby*s story bullshit was pretty weak dude. Why you like that? Maybe this forum isn't the right place for you?
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Agree, agree, agree. Bdd you should listen to this man he's far wiser than you could ever be. And on a side note Bdd I expect understanding and compassion from my [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] brothers, not some little bitch attitude of disbelief. It seems I quickly see who is here to grow and who is here to bash people who make them insecure.
 
RUBY10";524603 said:
Agree, agree, agree. Bdd you should listen to this man he's far wiser than you could ever be. And on a side note Bdd I expect understanding and compassion from my [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] brothers, not some little bitch attitude of disbelief. It seems I quickly see who is here to grow and who is here to bash people who make them insecure.
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Go to pegym and talk about big dicks. You'll see how much better [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is
 
I don't have to justify myself for what I wrote. It's a generalization, not directed at any one individual, besides, it doesn't carry much merit. IMO, it didn't deserve the attention it got, sometimes, it better to let it go and progress forward. It's really pointless, it takes away from the real reason each one of us is here. Dan Dapper stated it nicely, self-improvement in Penis Enlargement, plus becoming a well rounded person in all. Which takes positive thinking and action without the impedance of pointless debates and sensitive insecure egos. Learn to take it for what it is, use what you can to make it work for you and keep learning from each other and continue to move forward for self-improvement and growth.

Personally, I don't care for reading through all the B.S. just to get to those golden nuggets of information from any of the members here. It's all part of the process, whether you're panning for real gold or digital gold of information.
 
MikeShlort;524606 said:
Go to pegym and talk about big dicks. You'll see how much better [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is
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[words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is full of dicks! Some really big dicks!
 
MikeShlort;524577 said:
It's not really my opinion that guys with bigger dicks have the chance to get laid more and it's not my opinion that guys who get laid more are better at sex.. It's the opinion of logic.
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ok, sorry, i thought you were saying that bigger dicks is gonna get laid more. plenty of dudes are getting laid everyday and they arent packing anymore than average. hell, a fat wallet probably means you would get laid quicker.
 
RUBY10";524574 said:
Dude first off all I didn't lose it all I lost 2.5 inches. Maybe if you weren't such a little dumb fuck you would've read about me a little before accusing me. Plus I wasn't the starting quarterback for gods sake I suck at American football, always preferred euro foot.
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a wide man once said "pics or it didnt happen."

i dont even see how its possible to gain and then lose 3 inches. thats crazy talk dude. if thats the case you should be able to get it back instantly.
 
b.d.d.;524641 said:
ok, sorry, i thought you were saying that bigger dicks is gonna get laid more. plenty of dudes are getting laid everyday and they arent packing anymore than average. hell, a fat wallet probably means you would get laid quicker.
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Statistically, more average guys are getting laid every day because there are more of them. My neighbor and friend supposedly has a big one though I've never seen it and have no idea what "big" means in this case. He seems to get laid a lot but most of the girls aren't high quality though some are. He certainly gets laid more than I have. Then again, my girlfriend is way better looking than any of his girls I've seen.

I think attitude usually beats dick size.
 
You're losing your fucking mind if you think big dicks get you laid. Mine's huge...I never get laid. EVERYONE thought my friend who was "only" 7.5" from high school was huge because he pulled it out at a party and guys spread the rumor...he never got laid. I'm 5"11, muscular, lean, and have no physical deformities of any kind. If huge guys got laid all the time I would be drowning in pussy. I'm not. My nickname is Mandingo, & I still don't get laid (my guy friends have seen it :I). If it's true big dicks get you laid, how can I use my size to my advantage (no girl I've gone after has known about my size)? Not like I can pull out my boner at the club...it's honestly depressing never getting girls. I'm a senior in a shitty private hs...so that doesn't help either. Any advice?
 
MFOMNI;524675 said:
You're losing your fucking mind if you think big dicks get you laid. Mine's huge...I never get laid. EVERYONE thought my friend who was "only" 7.5" from high school was huge because he pulled it out at a party and guys spread the rumor...he never got laid. I'm 5"11, muscular, lean, and have no physical deformities of any kind. If huge guys got laid all the time I would be drowning in pussy. I'm not. My nickname is Mandingo, & I still don't get laid (my guy friends have seen it :I). If it's true big dicks get you laid, how can I use my size to my advantage (no girl I've gone after has known about my size)? Not like I can pull out my boner at the club...it's honestly depressing never getting girls. I'm a senior in a shitty private hs...so that doesn't help either. Any advice?
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You have to fuck a girl. Then she will tell her social circle, the rumour will spread, and more girls will want to have sex with you. You just have to get your "foot" in the door.

Take a picture of it on your cellphone and show it to the biggest slut at your school. Or send it to her. Bet you will be getting pussy shortly after.
 
MFOMNI;524675 said:
You're losing your fucking mind if you think big dicks get you laid. Mine's huge...I never get laid. EVERYONE thought my friend who was "only" 7.5" from high school was huge because he pulled it out at a party and guys spread the rumor...he never got laid. I'm 5"11, muscular, lean, and have no physical deformities of any kind. If huge guys got laid all the time I would be drowning in pussy. I'm not. My nickname is Mandingo, & I still don't get laid (my guy friends have seen it :I). If it's true big dicks get you laid, how can I use my size to my advantage (no girl I've gone after has known about my size)? Not like I can pull out my boner at the club...it's honestly depressing never getting girls. I'm a senior in a shitty private hs...so that doesn't help either. Any advice?
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craigslist casual encounters.
 
Actually thats a rlly good idea, i mean ive obviously never hooked up with a girl from school before, but if the cocksluts know it's huge I'll be able to just run thru all the cocksluts. Thanks Mike!
 
MFOMNI;524687 said:
Actually thats a rlly good idea, i mean ive obviously never hooked up with a girl from school before, but if the cocksluts know it's huge I'll be able to just run thru all the cocksluts. Thanks Mike!
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Atta boy
 
MFOMNI;524687 said:
Actually thats a rlly good idea, i mean ive obviously never hooked up with a girl from school before, but if the cocksluts know it's huge I'll be able to just run thru all the cocksluts. Thanks Mike!
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You should definitely be wearing a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Matters of Size[/words] T-Shirt!
 
Ok fellas. When it comes to penis size and what women want it's the girth that matters. Most women are fine with 6 to 7 inches of length but with extra or above average thickness is what most women want. Trust me I know. I've fucked well over 100 women and the majority of them are all about girth. Yes you do have women that like a super long and thick cock but most women care more importantley about thickness. When I say thick Im talking about anything over 6 inches in girth at midshaft. Not at the base but at midshaft with a nice fat mushroom head.

Most of the women that I've talked to about this say that skill is important but for guys that have thick/wide girths don't have to work as hard because if he's thick enough, his dick will be putting a lot of pressure on the vaginals walls and hitting all the neccassary spots without much effort.

Now Im not saying this to put down anyone that's not 6 inches or more in girth. Im simply stating what tons of women that I've fucked and not fucked have told me what they like when it comes to a man's penis. 6 to 7 inches of length is fine but girth is what they want. Enough girth to stretch there walls.
 
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