How to get hard as steel, and cumming faster..

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Hey guys,

so i had sex with this girl the other night... it was veryyyyy nice...

Mind you i have a few concerns...

K well first, it was my first time... i was hard, but not like STEEL hard like i get when masterbating... As i was fucking her i could feel my dick going up and down, up and down in erection level, it was really upsetting me.. after she came twice, and i had been humpin away for like 40 fuckin minutes, she wanted me to come cause she was getting too sore... but i couldn't .. i think mainly because i couldnt get FULL out hard as i normally do when beating off... i was SOO diseartened...

Has anyone else had a similiar problem??? and how can i fix this??? normal?? :(
 
Hmm...Not sure why. When I fuck a girl (that looks decent) i'm harder than I get when I masturbate. Get a nice BJ or HJ from her before you fuck her. Do you do kegels daily? Try taking some L-Arganine and/or Tribulus ... those 2 supplements have really helped me as far as cum volume and harder erections.
 
In my experience, Kegels should help this kind of thing.

I always get more turned on, harder erections, etc when my PC muscle is in good shape.
 
havent been keeping up with the kegels... i'll do a routine before bed everynight from now on...

the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]... 100 - quick, 50 -5 seconds, and 1 - 1 minute should be ok right?
 
That sounds good. I think Kegels are often overlooked in Penis Enlargement. They're very effective in my opinion.
 
i am thinking just the fact that it was my first time and i was unsure and shit woulda been a contributing factor to.
 
Yeah, definately. I wouldn't get hung up on it. It's all practice. Nail a Kegel routine, regroup, and then do battle again! LOL. rofl
 
M3721 said:
i am thinking just the fact that it was my first time and i was unsure and shit woulda been a contributing factor to.
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That could be it. Once you get into the double digits you'll be fine rofl
 
M3721 said:
i hope so i felt SOO bad about it.. she was upset with me.
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Just tell her you'll make it up to her next time and that you had a bad day. In the mean time do about 1000 kegels a day and load up on that L-arganine / tribulus rofl
 
First things first: Let me get this straight, it was your first time ever...and she came...twice?!? Take a fuckin' bow, man !! Sounds like you were just a little nervous about getting it right, and that's natural. But if she came twice, believe me; you were getting it right! Gotta get rid of the nerves, though, doubt is the killer of just about everything. And with a roaring start like that you got nothing to worry about. You just need more practice. And always remember, there's only three ways to get better at anything: 1. Practice, 2. Practice, 3. Practice. Now git back on it ! And good luck.
 
M3721 said:
i hope so i felt SOO bad about it.. she was upset with me.
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For me the only way I can really cum is by fucking as fast as I can like a jack rabbit until I blow. My girl likes it, but some don't try it and see if she likes it.
 
crazyed27 said:
For me the only way I can really cum is by fucking as fast as I can like a jack rabbit until I blow. My girl likes it, but some don't try it and see if she likes it.
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Why don't you just pull out and let her blow you until you pop a load down her throat. That's my preference.
 
digster said:
Why don't you just pull out and let her blow you until you pop a load down her throat. That's my preference.
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I wish I could cum from a blowjob. I never have really been able to nut like that. Her head can't bounce up and down fast enough.

But I do pull out and stick it in her mouth when I cum! That is so special, gulp, gulp!
 
Remember too that sex takes place in your head. Your genitals and nervous system are just them means to get the right signals up there to it. What your brain does with 'em once they arrive is all up to you.
 
Yea, It takes me the same to cum as crazyed.

If you made this girl cum twice the first time you had sex then she has no reason to get upset cause that is an awesome achievement. You were probably just a little tense and not relaxed enough to let go and cum since it was your first time. I also couldn't get fully erect or sometimes erect at all with girls because I was nervous about what I was doing. I think once you get some more experience under your belt you will be fine. No need to worry about it, just get in as much practice as you can. And if she wants you to cum in her, try not jacking off for a week then fucking her and I bet you cum no problem lol.
 
yes i was a lil' nervous... i wanted to to feel it FULL BLOWN... and i want to come! Hydromaxm... do you think edging prior would help?
 
It was the same for me the first time. We went at it 3 times 45 mins each time without me cumming. It's really strange but the only advice I can give is take it easy and it will come. For me it took about 6-10 times before I could cum. I still don't cum very easy but I can cum both HJ and BJ. It can be really frustrating but keep at is and explain to your girl what you really like and it will come.
 
M3721 said:
havent been keeping up with the kegels... i'll do a routine before bed everynight from now on...

the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]... 100 - quick, 50 -5 seconds, and 1 - 1 minute should be ok right?
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I do 2000 a day. I'm in the car a lot to and from work. I do them so much sometimes I'm not even conscious of doing them.

The end result for me is erections that are so hard they hurt (that good hurt you know?) and I can split my orgasms. I split my load into several spurts, which is hot for the lady if I'm pumping her. I tell her I'm goign to spurt and I let go a nice big gooey rope hard and fast right inside her cunt. I do this like 8 times till I'm just having dry contractions, then I let it go and have a mind fuckign bending orgasm, usually dry, but sometimes a little more comes out.

So yes, do ya fucking kegels, and no, your not doing nearly enough. I started with a high number. I do quick flexes. Start off with 1000 a day, 500 a pop. YOur dick will thank you. Add some L-argenine in with that, 500mg 3x a day and 3 500mg hour before sex with no food and you'll be rammin that lil slut with a fucking 2x4 stickin off your pelvis :lol:

Kevin
 
k well i've hit it 3 more times... and no problems any more !!!!!! i'm locked and loaded :cool: BUT, i'm definitely going to starts the kegals!
 
twincross said:
do u have to be erect to kegle correctly?
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No. You can do them completely flaccid. Flexing you PC muscle while erect will strengthen the muscle even more, and putting a towel on top of that will strengthen your PC muscles even MORE.
 
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