How the fuck do you guys meet girls..
I might take you up on that
Just go out there with confidence and approach these women. Be ready for rejection and also, be ready to see rejection as part of the game. Asking women out is a game of numbers. The more women you approach, the more your confidence build up.
Not just the confidence. It's also about the quality of discussion and communication. You can be as confident as Mr. Casanova, and still come out as Mr. Dick and Egotistical Prick. Learning how to be an extrovert while understanding how to talk to ladies are the keys.
As.an introvert, I'm cooked. Up till this day, my pickup game is wack. I just focus on myself and only approach women who show interest in me.
beinngerjelqer
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I don't know if you already workout but go to the gym everyday for at least 60-90min start with weights then get on treadmill and run and last 6 minutes to 15 minutes power walk down to a slow walk. The running will give you the most insane confidence boost of your life I just started a little over two years ago at age 33 and never thought I could because of asthma if you have asthma just use inhaler or nebulizer before you leave for gym. It actually makes breathing BETTER afterwards it expands your lungs. You don't have to do every single thing in gym I recommend not focus on a few things only for weights then save energy and run like shit. I only do on arm days arm curls, seated chest press, then ab cruncher then treadmill run about 2minpiwer walk and walk about 1mi. Leg days leg press back extension and ab cruncher then same for treadmill. I do come home each day indoor bike 60-90 minutes just for a little extra leg strengthening and mild cardio lighter paced. This though is the least of the confidence boost it mainly comes from the running and weights the running push it out it pushes you to be a guy you aren't afraid to approach women when you want and also makes you think what to say properly. For weights I do strength training not so much body building where you go slow as fuck and highest weight you can do. Go to the machines test them out and when that pin is on like the absolute highest you can do 3 or so reps of, put that pin down about 3 notches. This make this your sets. If you never ran I'd say start walking 3.5mph maybe only this power walk a week or two and then try 3.8mph sprints try a few minutes then try 4mph after a week or so. I got up to 5.5mph it took me around 6-8 months before that just was at 5mph. Now I start everyday walk 30-50 sec on 3.5mph then boost it 5.5mph for 8-9 minutes, drop 5.2moh for 2 minutes, drop to 5mph 2 minutes, drop to 4.7moh 6 minutes then drop to 4.5mph for 5 minutes this puts slightly over 2mi. The confidence boost and energy slowly goes away throughout the rest of the day but not fully and still keep confidence from the weight gains. It is really unbelievable the drive if confidence running gives you it's more than any drug I have abused Adderall for 6 days many many binges nothing will give you the confidence running does it won't give you as much sexual boost but it does give that, not as much multy task ability as stimulants but does do it, but the confidence and knowing what to say it blows stimulants away like crap.
I've been there before. Sometimes when we focus and worry about chasing women, they don't tend to come our way. Focus on yourself, your dreams and aspiration,, you will attract a woman faster this way.
You can meet tons of women online without even trying… Facebook, instagram evem X, I been with my girlfriend 6 years and I had to erase all my social media because of women messaging me, most women just want to fuck , online is 100% your best bet
It's super easy to get women on Social media. Just be visible, dress well and post good quality pictures. The pussy will come to you.
Here's something for the brothers to think about. This is mainly for single brothers. Married brothers, or brothers in long-term relationships, do your best to maintain a good connection with your ladies, but do stay out of toxic relationships.
If you're pursuing women just to spread your semen into their pussies, your chance of landing a lucky pounding is only 10%. As brother huge-girth said, it's about maintaining a clean appearance, without the over-the-top dressing. Presentation is 1/3 of the battle. The other is the way you talk. Smooth talkers will be rejected immediately. Women in today's society have too much time on their hands to watch too many social media platforms, and the so-called "feminist movement" is not helping them either. They reject everything that may have a hint of "I'm here to hit on you", because of their brainwashing mindset of "we don't need men" and "we have equal rights and privileges". Their expectation is "we want knights in shining armor to pay for everything, while we benefit from everything and need not return anything." If you do a survey now, females with a feminist mindset are not in a relationship, looking to fill the voids with desperation, or 90% are either in their 2nd, 3rd, or even 6th toxic relationship. Be truly careful of these relationships.
If you're looking for just pussy pounding, old ladies are willing to enjoy comforting nights in bed without the relationship attachment, although they really want long-term relationships. The moment you're sticking your penis into them, it's an emotional and physical connection they yearn for. So, there's no sex without an expectation of a relationship.
As for younger females, an act of kindness will get them wrapped around your waist and your crotch wet. Here's an example. I was working in the field, evaluating issues. A young, probably college-age female, was walking her large dog. She was being dragged by her dog as she was screaming at the dog to slow down. As she approached me, she was trying to steer the dog away from me, in fear that the dog could lunge at me. I stood up, smiled at them, and placed my hand out for the dog to recognize that I'm a friend. The dog sniffed and started to enjoy my presence. The female got a breather. I gave her a few pointers to control her dog for proper walking, and she enjoyed the conversation. She glanced down at my hand, saw my ring, and hesitated to ask if she could offer a refreshment at her place or a place of meeting later. I refused, but I could see she was turning on the charm. I excused myself, offered my sincere wish that she could further train her dog to behave afterward, and she walked off a bit disappointed. Imagine this scenario going forward. She was literally wearing skin-tight yoga pants with a sports bra on a very toned body. Could you just let that sink in?
Same deal at the parking lot. A young mom was putting her groceries away while pushing a child in a shopping cart. The cart was rolling off without her knowing. Worst mistake ever: not putting the kid away before the groceries. I stopped the cart, smiled at both, and told her to put her kids into the car first. I asked her if she needed me to put the groceries away while she placed her kid into the car seat. She smiled and requested me to do so. Same as the previous scenario, as she asked me to get refreshments across the shopping district. Think about this. a 55-year-old guy with a 20-something young mom, in her skin-tight shorts and a loose t-shirt, without a bra.
Both scenarios were within the same week. So, let that sink in: how easy a male-to-female interaction can be that leads to something real fast. It's about how you present yourself. You first need to develop a personality with a sliver of charisma. You can't be a vulgar or prideful idiot and expect pussy on the first meet-and-greet. There are not enough hit lines to get women interested in you.
If you're pursuing women just to spread your semen into their pussies, your chance of landing a lucky pounding is only 10%. As brother huge-girth said, it's about maintaining a clean appearance, without the over-the-top dressing. Presentation is 1/3 of the battle. The other is the way you talk. Smooth talkers will be rejected immediately. Women in today's society have too much time on their hands to watch too many social media platforms, and the so-called "feminist movement" is not helping them either. They reject everything that may have a hint of "I'm here to hit on you", because of their brainwashing mindset of "we don't need men" and "we have equal rights and privileges". Their expectation is "we want knights in shining armor to pay for everything, while we benefit from everything and need not return anything." If you do a survey now, females with a feminist mindset are not in a relationship, looking to fill the voids with desperation, or 90% are either in their 2nd, 3rd, or even 6th toxic relationship. Be truly careful of these relationships.
If you're looking for just pussy pounding, old ladies are willing to enjoy comforting nights in bed without the relationship attachment, although they really want long-term relationships. The moment you're sticking your penis into them, it's an emotional and physical connection they yearn for. So, there's no sex without an expectation of a relationship.
As for younger females, an act of kindness will get them wrapped around your waist and your crotch wet. Here's an example. I was working in the field, evaluating issues. A young, probably college-age female, was walking her large dog. She was being dragged by her dog as she was screaming at the dog to slow down. As she approached me, she was trying to steer the dog away from me, in fear that the dog could lunge at me. I stood up, smiled at them, and placed my hand out for the dog to recognize that I'm a friend. The dog sniffed and started to enjoy my presence. The female got a breather. I gave her a few pointers to control her dog for proper walking, and she enjoyed the conversation. She glanced down at my hand, saw my ring, and hesitated to ask if she could offer a refreshment at her place or a place of meeting later. I refused, but I could see she was turning on the charm. I excused myself, offered my sincere wish that she could further train her dog to behave afterward, and she walked off a bit disappointed. Imagine this scenario going forward. She was literally wearing skin-tight yoga pants with a sports bra on a very toned body. Could you just let that sink in?
Same deal at the parking lot. A young mom was putting her groceries away while pushing a child in a shopping cart. The cart was rolling off without her knowing. Worst mistake ever: not putting the kid away before the groceries. I stopped the cart, smiled at both, and told her to put her kids into the car first. I asked her if she needed me to put the groceries away while she placed her kid into the car seat. She smiled and requested me to do so. Same as the previous scenario, as she asked me to get refreshments across the shopping district. Think about this. a 55-year-old guy with a 20-something young mom, in her skin-tight shorts and a loose t-shirt, without a bra.
Both scenarios were within the same week. So, let that sink in: how easy a male-to-female interaction can be that leads to something real fast. It's about how you present yourself. You first need to develop a personality with a sliver of charisma. You can't be a vulgar or prideful idiot and expect pussy on the first meet-and-greet. There are not enough hit lines to get women interested in you.