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hey all Penis Enlargement'ers

im 18yrs old. so hopefully i still have some natural growth in me. as im still growing.

basically i am still self confident about my size. i have never had sex and i have someone who is getting close to me and wants a relationship. but i keep sliding by as i think she will laugh at my size

i am about 6.7 NBPenis EnlargementL when erect. but days it can go to 6.8 if im horney. and my girth mid base is about 4.8ish

i went from 6.2 to 6.7 length
and went from 4.5 to 4.8ish girth all in 3months so gains have been excellent thanx [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] ;)

need some help. i feel small especially because im a grower and times my penis is about 3inch flacid so it grows pretty big from its size.

i just dont feel ready until im 7x5 then i would be confident about my size.

help guys please than.
 
I know what you're saying. You don't wanna have sex until you've got a hemi under the trunk. But in reality, 6.7 inches is probably bigger than what some girls have ever had, and right on the money of what 90% have had in the past. Don't let having an average (actually above average) sized penis affect you getting pussy. Use that thing, and be proud of it.
 
mate, just go for it!
for two years, when i was 17 to 19yo, i had the same attitude.
I actually did nothing for those two years, despite being at uni, planning to do pe and gym work.
I have since left uni, i was doing engineering, and returned after analysing what i wanted to do with my life, im now studying business with the aim of getting an MBA. I am peing every day and have gained about an inch in two months, from 6.25 el to 7.25 el aprox. I'm also going to the gym three times perweek and have gone from 70kg's to 82kg's and lost body fat, im now at 9%.
I'm 22yo as im talking now and ive only just lost my virginity, about six months ago.
I was very apprehensive to say the least as its a young gal that ive known for about four years and she knows everyone i know.
After i got the easy one off, we were at it for about 2 hours, no shit. I couldnt walk the next day, my hammies were killing me from thrusting ;p.
Since that fateful night, my whole view on life has changed, i actually attack things that need doing and i wake up looking to the day exiced at what i can achieve. I've never felt like that before. I am totally energised.

My advice to you would be simply this.... go for it and stress less. If it aint happened yet dont worry about it.
 
jubei said:
My advice to you would be simply this.... go for it and stress less. If it aint happened yet dont worry about it.
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Just wanted to say thanks on behalf of those you've encouraged through the forums.. I know it's appreciated but not always expressed... thanks bro :D
 
thanx guys i have until the end of nov so i really want to go with this girl. we work together. i dont think shes a slutty type more of a nice quiet girl. just hope she hasnt got much experience.

i just feel small at 6.7 i know in reality its not far of 7 but i just wont feel big until i get to 7.

i have dont the same as you i work as a fitness instructor so i have kept my head down and focused on work and training. and i now want a relationship but i feel she might laugh when it came down to me pulling it out.

and what is even more strange i am only 5ft 7 but i have a good natural build i think my bodt size makes it look smaller.
 
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icecam said:
thanx guys i have until the end of nov so i really want to go with this girl. we work together. i dont think shes a slutty type more of a nice quiet girl. just hope she hasnt got much experience.

i just feel small at 6.7 i know in reality its not far of 7 but i just wont feel big until i get to 7.

i have dont the same as you i work as a fitness instructor so i have kept my head down and focused on work and training. and i now want a relationship but i feel she might laugh when it came down to me pulling it out.

and what is even more strange i am only 5ft 7 but i have a good natural build i think my bodt size makes it look smaller.
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At 5 7 shje'll think your about 8 no doubt! Forgrt the worry 99% of girls will be happy with a 6.7 incher! Take advantge of the moment, you might never get to tap that ass ever again!
 
Na, you don't feel big at seven! You feel big when you are eight. I'm sure of it!.....

Dud, You're big enoguh! You've got da extra girth i would want ;)
 
I was nbp 6x5 when I started having sex at age 16 or so and every girl said I was big. You're gonna be fine with what you have, so go for it! The worst thing to do here (and in life in general) is to never find out. At 18 you should be getting your insecure, awkward, and generally bad, sex out of the way so by you're in your 20s you're laying pipe like a pro. I totally sympathize with you, though. I had no idea how my first girls would react to my penis, but fortunately they were good. You're bigger than average, you just need to learn to accept that, and you'll be happier.
 
hey thanx very much everyone yous have been great help. i asked the girl out last night so where going out together for the first time tonight just to get something to eat and catch a movie.

i really thank you all for the support. and will keep yous all updated on the what happens ;)
 
If you think your body makes it look small at 5'7", imagine how small mine looks at 6'6". To give you a little persepective, I can hold a 12" ruler between my pinkey and my thumb. If anything your body makes it look bigger.
 
but im saying it looks small because of my build. especially my legs. im a weight lifter. so my quads qwarf it.

but anyway thanx for the reply man ;)
 
Hey bro I feel you with being a weight lifter. Im not a skinny 6'6" either, I weigh 265 with around 10% body fat. Just imagine the what the girls expect me to be packing.
 
my legs are just under 24inches which is pretty big for someone only 5ft7.

it just my overall body is in decent shape. they would just expect something big down there too.
 
I'm shaking my head reading this. First off, you're above average. Most guys are no more than 6.5 and if it looks bigger it's probably from girth. Let me tell you my story to make you feel better. I'm a gay man and if you think it's hard worrying about penis size when you're straight, imagine comparing yourself constantly to all your partners. I'm only 5.5 and not that thick. Most guys are bigger than me and it makes me feel tremendously insecure. I've no doubt relationships haven't worked out because I'm not in the same league as some of them. Recently I was with someone who literally looked like they were twice my length and double my thickness. As exciting as it is in one respect, it doesn't do a lot for the self esteem in the long run. I'm a really successful 30 year old, good looking, in good shape and have a lot of friends. But this is a painful secret that I live with every day. I haven't started any Penis Enlargement, just looking on this site, but I definitely want to. Anyway, long way to say...YOU'RE FINE. Go fuck her and be secure -- you're a lot bigger than most guys and probably bigger than anyone she's been with.
 
I find it funny how male mind works.... I am only5.4 inches long and i lost my virginity when i was 15... i was always aware of my small size and hated it.... but dude u cant stop it from having a normal sexual life, its not all about the size u know. Plus i wish i was 6.7, you should kick your own ass for doubting yourself. LOL U r way bigger then average at this point... what are you complaining about ?
 
its a mental problem i have. i am aware of the average size penis but in my head its saying to me you have a small penis.

its an mental problem i need to get laid and here her say you have a nice cock or something like that.

but anyway im now dating the girl and im a shy guy and she is shy so we are taking it slow. but you guys will be the first to here when i lose my V card.

as you guys are legend i have gained from 6.2 to 6.8ish to date. so thank you ;)
 
bigsack said:
I was nbp 6x5 when I started having sex at age 16 or so and every girl said I was big. You're gonna be fine with what you have, so go for it! The worst thing to do here (and in life in general) is to never find out. At 18 you should be getting your insecure, awkward, and generally bad, sex out of the way so by you're in your 20s you're laying pipe like a pro. I totally sympathize with you, though. I had no idea how my first girls would react to my penis, but fortunately they were good. You're bigger than average, you just need to learn to accept that, and you'll be happier.
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Excellent post man.
 
icecam said:
its a mental problem i have. i am aware of the average size penis but in my head its saying to me you have a small penis.

its an mental problem i need to get laid and here her say you have a nice cock or something like that.

but anyway im now dating the girl and im a shy guy and she is shy so we are taking it slow. but you guys will be the first to here when i lose my V card.

as you guys are legend i have gained from 6.2 to 6.8ish to date. so thank you ;)
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good call dude
 
well guys i just found out last night this girl has never been in a relationship. or had sex. so this had me feel even better.

so hopefully she will like my rod eh ;)

but i think i will be waiting a while before we get down to it as she is really really shy. and i am coming very close to my 7"mark :D need to work on my girth just
 
have had a terrible day today.

i thought we got on well. this girl is 17and pretty shy. well turns out her parents dont really allow her dating yet and she no longer wants to be with me.

this is like a kick in the balls guys. i feel depressed i really liked this girls and this happens. my confidence has really dropped. my first relationship and this happens

ive tried speaking to her and she said she is having family probs and it would be best if she didnt date her mum said.

:(:(
 
hey don't worry about that. im sure everybody on here has had the same type of experince dating a younger girl. just think, she will get older and be allowed to date and you can be there for her.
 
fuck tht shit im not gonna hang around waiting on her to make her mind up. im gonna hit up on some new chick. fuck this shit im ready for it.

fuck the confidence im gonna try and get a gfriend now instead of hiding in my box.

i fucking really liked her and she did tht to me. so fuck it guys

thanx for the help and support esecpially you drew thanx man ;)
 
sorry to post up again.

BUT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

i am going back out with the girl and have been for about 2weeks now. so hopefully things will go well.

and i have a new size in my pants 7.2el x 4.9eg when rock hard. :O

thank you [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]
 
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COngrats man:cool: But hey just wondering how did you get past the parents for dating this girl?
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i met them and they really thought i was a nice guy :D

so it went well. going surfing next week with her dad :O lol
 
still going strong guys. i went surfing with her dad hes a cool dude. and thinks im a nice guy too.

but onto her. we were chatting on the phone and just asking shit about sex etc, and then she brought up about dld programme tht came on chl4 few weeks back i was like wtf. anyway she was saying about penis size etc and i said do you not wat average is.

she said yeh its about 5inches. and size does not matter lol, i was like pffft sure it does the grin on my face was unbelievable lol. anyway we continued to chat and she was like do you know yours. so i said yes i do.

she said to me is it above average and i said yes a good bit. and she turned around and said 'i thought you would of been small' because i get bullshit about i take steroids in our work. (never touched them) and my boss skinny lanky dude and he said weight training shrinks your dick. lmao jealous bastard.

so i said to her grab a ruler babes. so she got one and i said to her mark out just over 7.2 and youve got me. she was like very nice lmao.

but she will be even more shocked wen it comes to it as my bp hits about 7.6+ so i will kinda dig it in wen i show her ;) lol
 
icecam said:
but im saying it looks small because of my build. especially my legs. im a weight lifter. so my quads qwarf it.

but anyway thanx for the reply man ;)
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Dude i just saw this and i TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. I to weight lift, powerlift actually, and of course heavy weights build blocks of muscle. My legs are over 30 inches in circumfrence and i often think the same thing, it just doesnt look big to me. Im 7.5 nbp now and it still doesnt look big to me. I look at the ruler and go no way its that long, but it is, so i have come to accept it and i feel way better. I know if i was alot smaller in terms of other measurements, mostly in the legs and having a way smaller fatpad, it would look huge, but i like being well built and not being a skinny little twat, so ill keep my build and just focus on losing bodyfat to lose the fatpad and to keep peing. I also have never had problems while having sex, never have gotten once complaint, and i was about 6.5 when i started having sex and i was told i was big. I know your bigger than that now though, just thought id give some insight on the situation.
 
icecam said:
its a mental problem i have. i am aware of the average size penis but in my head its saying to me you have a small penis.

its an mental problem i need to get laid and here her say you have a nice cock or something like that.

but anyway im now dating the girl and im a shy guy and she is shy so we are taking it slow. but you guys will be the first to here when i lose my V card.

as you guys are legend i have gained from 6.2 to 6.8ish to date. so thank you ;)
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ok heres what it is man.

On your body, you have a 6.5 inch dick. now your penis is average length, and compared to your body it is normal to, but the thing is it is very thin. if you get your girth up, you will be ok. And since your a stocky big guy, it looks fucked up cause everything else on your body is pumped up and built.
See im the opposite, im a tall thin guy, with a nbpl of 8.50 and girth is 6.25, and because im naruraly thin and long, my cock, being big no matter who you put it on, ....looks massive. Bottom line is....your a virgin, ur dick is normal, and only reason your still a virgin is cause you gotta just do it...get it done with, swallow ur fear, and i garentee after that first time, all you will do is fuck......many many girls. Shit i know i do. GOod luck man.....you gotta work with what you got....GO FOR GIRTH.....
 
desiel_dick said:
ok heres what it is man.

On your body, you have a 6.5 inch dick. now your penis is average length, and compared to your body it is normal to, but the thing is it is very thin. if you get your girth up, you will be ok. And since your a stocky big guy, it looks fucked up cause everything else on your body is pumped up and built.
See im the opposite, im a tall thin guy, with a nbpl of 8.50 and girth is 6.25, and because im naruraly thin and long, my cock, being big no matter who you put it on, ....looks massive. Bottom line is....your a virgin, ur dick is normal, and only reason your still a virgin is cause you gotta just do it...get it done with, swallow ur fear, and i garentee after that first time, all you will do is fuck......many many girls. Shit i know i do. GOod luck man.....you gotta work with what you got....GO FOR GIRTH.....
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dude im not 6.5 anymore im 7.2 x 5 tht is an old post if you look at it ;)
 
plus im only 5ft 7 so a 7.6 bpel on me looks big im just trying to gain more length now and have added light pumping and dry jelqs ;)
 
icecam said:
plus im only 5ft 7 so a 7.6 bpel on me looks big im just trying to gain more length now and have added light pumping and dry jelqs ;)
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Originally Posted by icecam
but im saying it looks small because of my build. especially my legs. im a weight lifter. so my quads qwarf it.

Make up your mind, does it look big or small, you keep contradicting yourself:O ?:( ?:( ?:( :P
 
desiel_dick said:
ok heres what it is man.

On your body, you have a 6.5 inch dick. now your penis is average length, and compared to your body it is normal to, but the thing is it is very thin.[...] you gotta work with what you got....GO FOR GIRTH.....
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That was pretty harsh... your size is fine, way above average, even girth :s
 
ggogeta said:
That was pretty harsh... your size is fine, way above average, even girth :s
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thanx man ;)

i know my length is well above average. at 7.3 nbpel
and i know my girth is around average if not just over at 5eg

my goal is 8x6 and i will get there soon. thanx for the comment dude ;)
 
Hey buddy,

I have an intense size complex so i feel you. BUT remember if your with a girl around 18 years old she HAS NO IDEA WHATSOEVER really about size or penises, or preferences of penises. She's still just as obsessed with her body and the whole act of letting some guy put his penis into the most delicate, and private part of her body. She probably might put on a big show but a girl that is very experienced with big 9 inchers and rest AND secure enough with herself to actually have the capacity to judge you is about as rare as the 9 inchers themselves.

Heres a secret.

Judge her. Judge her down to the bone. Judge her height, her boobs, her lips, her eyes, her nose, her face, her hair, her hands, her feet, her legs, her ass, her skin, her puss, her personality. She has many more things to deal with than you do. And it takes the pressure off your mind about yourself. This helps me with confidence in bed or meeting ladys elsewhere. You are a self judger like me. Stop IT! Remember to judge others AT LEAST, not your self. Preferably you should not judge but that is a practise we all still need to master.

P.S. Keep your thoughts about her ugly toes to yourself. ;)


Then just fuck her and be happy.

Riley
 
Yeah as he said, just don't be a dick, and don't look insecure when " judging" her. Gotta make her laugh at the same time.
 
yeh thanx guys.

well we had a chat on the phone last night. basically she said she wants to have sex but doesnt as she thinks im really gonna hurt her :(

now because she has a pic of my size she is now kinda scared to have sex with me now :( this is a new barrier ive to now overcome.

i really want to have sex with her but i also really want my 8x6 and im gettin there i can sense it in the waters.

but she has never had sex before so average would hurt her. an im working on girth a lot more now :eek:

any suggestions guys? ;) thanx
 
Stop making it about a cock. Its about you as a wonerful, caring, considerate person. A comforting warm male to confide in. Its not about your cock. Leave that behind.

Then fuck her.
 
Just make sure you take it slow, and it would help to have a good lube. Most women care more about body then dick size anyway, she would have been happy with your pre-pe size. Most woman would choose to be with brad pit with even a 4" cock, then John Candy with a 9".
 
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