Cat is out of the bag... the wife knows

cladre60;726710 said:
This is a little long so here's a summary - we're still sleeping in the same bed lol.

I wasn't sure if there's a better sub-forum for this. I think it belongs here but if not please move it.


There was no way to hide signing for the delivery of a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words]. She's heard me say before that I wish I was bigger (and had my foreskin) and she always says there's no need. She has never complained about my size. Well need and want are 2 different things.

I reminded her that I'm getting older (almost 40) and told her I've been doing some things to try to get back to the erections of my teenage self. She just kind of looked at me funny and I informed her how my penis ALWAYS used to look up at me with every erection and I miss that.

The conversation basically ended, or so I thought, with me saying that if the pump or anything else makes me bigger then that's great. I'm merely trying to keep everything working properly.

I'm partially in the doghouse though. I wasn't able to give the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] a try until hours later (and only for a few minutes). When I did she got irritated saying it was just a toy to jerk off with and I had to inform her that this feels NOTHING like rubbing one out, it's hard intense suction and it will have zero negative effect on my sexual performance.

I did get a chance to wear it for about 15 minutes in the shower last night. I didn't tell her about it. Unfortunately we didn't go to bed until well over 30 minutes after my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] session was over (I think it was 45 minutes). By that time the massive flaccid size I was toting around was starting to go away. I'm not sure how much of it was still remaining by the time we had sex. I think there was still some extra girth but not a noticeable amount.

She hasn't seen my whole stretching routine yet and since the kids are here this weekend she won't. Within the next week she's going to end up seeing me do all of it while she shakes her head at me and calls me an idiot half seriously half joking.

I've still got some work to do on her to get her fully okay with this. I didn't want to hide it from her in the first place but I was always planning on telling her. It just happened sooner than I wanted. Maybe I'll get lucky and she'll start fully supporting me on this and even help with measurements and edging. Time will tell.

But I'm still in the doghouse. Need to scrounge up some money somehow and get her flowers or something in the next few days.
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Take before and after pictures to show her it's real.
 
cladre60;726710 said:
This is a little long so here's a summary - we're still sleeping in the same bed lol.

I wasn't sure if there's a better sub-forum for this. I think it belongs here but if not please move it.


There was no way to hide signing for the delivery of a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words]. She's heard me say before that I wish I was bigger (and had my foreskin) and she always says there's no need. She has never complained about my size. Well need and want are 2 different things.

I reminded her that I'm getting older (almost 40) and told her I've been doing some things to try to get back to the erections of my teenage self. She just kind of looked at me funny and I informed her how my penis ALWAYS used to look up at me with every erection and I miss that.

The conversation basically ended, or so I thought, with me saying that if the pump or anything else makes me bigger then that's great. I'm merely trying to keep everything working properly.

I'm partially in the doghouse though. I wasn't able to give the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] a try until hours later (and only for a few minutes). When I did she got irritated saying it was just a toy to jerk off with and I had to inform her that this feels NOTHING like rubbing one out, it's hard intense suction and it will have zero negative effect on my sexual performance.

I did get a chance to wear it for about 15 minutes in the shower last night. I didn't tell her about it. Unfortunately we didn't go to bed until well over 30 minutes after my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] session was over (I think it was 45 minutes). By that time the massive flaccid size I was toting around was starting to go away. I'm not sure how much of it was still remaining by the time we had sex. I think there was still some extra girth but not a noticeable amount.

She hasn't seen my whole stretching routine yet and since the kids are here this weekend she won't. Within the next week she's going to end up seeing me do all of it while she shakes her head at me and calls me an idiot half seriously half joking.

I've still got some work to do on her to get her fully okay with this. I didn't want to hide it from her in the first place but I was always planning on telling her. It just happened sooner than I wanted. Maybe I'll get lucky and she'll start fully supporting me on this and even help with measurements and edging. Time will tell.

But I'm still in the doghouse. Need to scrounge up some money somehow and get her flowers or something in the next few days.
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LOL mine knows about what I do, hell she purchased my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] for me, at first she was a little against it, but after seeing the effects of the use of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words], she cant get enough, I remember a time when we was lucky to have sex once a month, now it seems like a every night thing.
 
I made the comment last night that, she was addicted to my dick, and she pretty much admitted it.
 
bandit2010;727720 said:
LOL mine knows about what I do, hell she purchased my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] for me, at first she was a little against it, but after seeing the effects of the use of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words], she cant get enough, I remember a time when we was lucky to have sex once a month, now it seems like a every night thing.
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bandit2010;727721 said:
I made the comment last night that, she was addicted to my dick, and she pretty much admitted it.
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There's nothing wrong with doing things to improve your sex life and make it healthier. So far we haven't had sex after I've had an extremely productive [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] session but when we do she's going to notice and she's going to love it. Then I'll get the screams of approval.

I wonder if some women are against it because they don't want to seem shallow when they say "I love your penis even more now that it's larger." Maybe some of them are worried we'll turn around and say "oh so it wasn't good enough for you before but now that it's bigger it's great..." That kinda seems like female thinking.

Like when they lose weight and you tell them you love their body their insecurities kick into "so NOW I'm good enough for you." They might think we think like them.
 
well me and her have been together for 5 years, shes a little on the heavy side, and we always had a issue with me slipping out, she has a brain anyuerism which was taken care of back in November, right around the same time that she got me the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words], we didnt have sex for 3 months because she couldn't, but that first time we did, she noticed the difference, and now encourages me to continue, I need to add more to my routine.
 
bandit2010;727732 said:
well me and her have been together for 5 years, shes a little on the heavy side, and we always had a issue with me slipping out, she has a brain anyuerism which was taken care of back in November, right around the same time that she got me the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words], we didnt have sex for 3 months because she couldn't, but that first time we did, she noticed the difference, and now encourages me to continue, I need to add more to my routine.
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Wow, 3 months. At least she's better now.

My wife has a beautiful, plump ass. I've used it as a pillow. No joke, I've taken a nap with my head on her ass. Doesn't matter if she's at her "ideal weight" of about 115, under, or over it. Her ass always has a beautiful shape.

She's white. One place she worked years ago she had a number of black and Puerto Rican female coworkers. They were always slapping and grabbing her ass and telling her how awesome it is. They were jealous of her ass. That should really say something for how nice it is.

If we try to have sex in the spoon position I can't stay inside her if there's any movement. That beautiful ass is in my way. It's the only position it happens and it sucks because it's a very intimate, close position. When we try to do it we end up in somewhat of a T shape with our heads far apart. I hate it because when I'm in her from behind I love the feeling of pressing my body into her ass. With a few more inches we could spoon and I'd be able to stay inside her. I wouldn't be all the way in obviously but we'd be able to enjoy that closeness.

I'm sure there's other positions that would benefit greatly from a few extra inches. I can't wait to get there and find out which they are.
 
cladre60;727741 said:
Wow, 3 months. At least she's better now.

My wife has a beautiful, plump ass. I've used it as a pillow. No joke, I've taken a nap with my head on her ass. Doesn't matter if she's at her "ideal weight" of about 115, under, or over it. Her ass always has a beautiful shape.

She's white. One place she worked years ago she had a number of black and Puerto Rican female coworkers. They were always slapping and grabbing her ass and telling her how awesome it is. They were jealous of her ass. That should really say something for how nice it is.

If we try to have sex in the spoon position I can't stay inside her if there's any movement. That beautiful ass is in my way. It's the only position it happens and it sucks because it's a very intimate, close position. When we try to do it we end up in somewhat of a T shape with our heads far apart. I hate it because when I'm in her from behind I love the feeling of pressing my body into her ass. With a few more inches we could spoon and I'd be able to stay inside her. I wouldn't be all the way in obviously but we'd be able to enjoy that closeness.

I'm sure there's other positions that would benefit greatly from a few extra inches. I can't wait to get there and find out which they are.
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shes weighs 290, has no ass, but for her weight she looks good, and here recently she cant get enough, I about died laughing when she admitted she couldnt get enough of my dick the other night,
 
bandit2010;727743 said:
shes weighs 290, has no ass, but for her weight she looks good, and here recently she cant get enough, I about died laughing when she admitted she couldnt get enough of my dick the other night,
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That is the only thing that matters - you think she looks good.

One of the biggest mistakes of my life was being too self conscious about someone's size. I'm 5'6". In high school my senior year we had a Dutch foreign exchange student. She was so pretty, super sweet, totally into me, but she was 6' or 6'1" and while she had all the curves of a woman they were proportionate to her height. She was close to 200lbs but she looked good. Real good.

I was so insecure over the height difference that we never went beyond being friends even though we were pretty much in love with each other. Who knows, maybe she would've stayed in the states longer or maybe I would've moved to Holland with her or maybe we just would've had a wonderful year together and that's it.

Live and learn. Who gives a shit that other people think about what makes you happy.
 
cladre60;727762 said:
That is the only thing that matters - you think she looks good.

One of the biggest mistakes of my life was being too self conscious about someone's size. I'm 5'6". In high school my senior year we had a Dutch foreign exchange student. She was so pretty, super sweet, totally into me, but she was 6' or 6'1" and while she had all the curves of a woman they were proportionate to her height. She was close to 200lbs but she looked good. Real good.

I was so insecure over the height difference that we never went beyond being friends even though we were pretty much in love with each other. Who knows, maybe she would've stayed in the states longer or maybe I would've moved to Holland with her or maybe we just would've had a wonderful year together and that's it.

Live and learn. Who gives a shit that other people think about what makes you happy.
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Wow great story,Those love stories that didnt go well are pretty interesting...LOL
 
One of the biggest mistakes of my life was being too self conscious about someone's size.

yeah that is a terrible mstake wasting time and enrgy thinking about stuff that might be meaningless
 
LONGERDICK7+;727774 said:
Wow great story,Those love stories that didnt go well are pretty interesting...LOL
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It's not even close to a great story! It sucks that I was so stupid and hung up on something that didn't matter. She had huge breasts and super long legs... my god the things I could've done to her.

Nope, I was too hung up on my friends teasing me over the height difference. If I would have gotten a clue about what does and doesn't matter back then I could've repeatedly responded to their teasing with "well I'm getting laid 11 times a week while you're jerking off and wishing you were getting laid" until they realized who was happier and sexuality fulfilled.

Just messing with you about the "not a good story" part.

I've tried to find her on Facebook and MySpace (back when that was active), even got in touch with the family she lived with for that year and no luck. I'm not trying to rekindle a romance because I'm a married man and that would be wrong. I just want to be in contact with her again. She was a great friend, one of the few people I actually considered a friend back then, and I miss talking to her.
 
cladre60;727779 said:
It's not even close to a great story! It sucks that I was so stupid and hung up on something that didn't matter. She had huge breasts and super long legs... my god the things I could've done to her.

Nope, I was too hung up on my friends teasing me over the height difference. If I would have gotten a clue about what does and doesn't matter back then I could've repeatedly responded to their teasing with "well I'm getting laid 11 times a week while you're jerking off and wishing you were getting laid" until they realized who was happier and sexuality fulfilled.

Just messing with you about the "not a good story" part.

I've tried to find her on Facebook and MySpace (back when that was active), even got in touch with the family she lived with for that year and no luck. I'm not trying to rekindle a romance because I'm a married man and that would be wrong. I just want to be in contact with her again. She was a great friend, one of the few people I actually considered a friend back then, and I miss talking to her.
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The truth is that prejudice can keep people away from good experiences whatever they are into,But yeah having a female friend that was so into you,well you didnt take it.i understand maybe shes still alive on your toughts..jmo:s
 
bandit2010;727721 said:
I made the comment last night that, she was addicted to my dick, and she pretty much admitted it.
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Slave to the dick? :)
 
LONGERDICK7+;727781 said:
The truth is that prejudice can keep people away from good experiences whatever they are into,But yeah having a female friend that was so into you,well you didnt take it.i understand maybe shes still alive on your toughts..jmo:s
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It certainly can. What's really sad is years later I had sex with a woman just as tall and a bit bigger and enjoyed every aspect of it.

Sounds like we've both been there. I know I learned the hard way and it sounds like you have too. At least we know better now... hopefully.
 
Having my future wife finding out I'm doing is no big deal. As a matter of fact, I don't even want any woman in my life from now till 2021 December. That's when I will be ready to go into a serious relationship knowing fully well that I must have gotten to my dream size by that time.
 
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