My girlfriend said one of her prior boyfriends "was just too huge" (this statement was more or less out of the blue, we hadn't been talking about her exes or their size) Later, I read some old emails sent between her and this ex (she had left the computer without logging out of her email and I couldn't resist the temptation to read her old emails) In one of the emails, she said she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy. She's never sent me any emails like this. (unfortunately, I still see her ex at social functiions because he is now seeing a woman who is in my gf's circle of friends)(no fun)

She tells me I have a nice sized penis and so on (I'm a little over 6" NBEL, about 5.75" girth), but she was either lying to me when she said her ex was just too huge, or she lying to him when she said she couldn't wait to have him ram it in her.

I asked her awhille back if I was too big, and she said "no" without hesitation. Hence, I'm pretty sure I could get at least a bit bigger without it being a problem, but I have no idea what her actual size preference is. Any idea how to get an honest answer out of her?

Part of the reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement is due to insecurity from reading her old emails, but I'm also doing it to hopefully increase how tight she feels to me so I get more sensation during intercourse. For those who've been able to increase your girth significantly while with the same woman, did it result in noticably more friction/sensation during intercourse?
 
Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.

Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] because your worth it :)
 
There is no reason for her to say these things but to make you feel badly. It is totally fucked up, it is like you telling her that your ex had a much tighter pussy, bad taste! Women do this to gain power in the relationship and when it works they have you in a really shitty position. Turn the tables and gain control or ask her politely to get on with her life elsewhere.
 
Yeah I bet she will start trying to see this ex again and its tempting to chop off his legs isn't it? don't do that :) just phone her and say hey I need to have an important talk later, she will insist on it than but you say no its better in person so meet me such a time and place and phone goes off. You tell her things aren't rosy like she thinks and you've become bored with it all, its not what you want. You could even be nasty if you like and say you've found someone else with a great sense of humour, fantastic career and the best toned body ever along with a fucking great tight pussy unlike her loose flaps bucket hole so fuck off and kick her ass out the front door into the street, have and show NO MERCY it isn't being bad, evil or cruel because you have to be like this mate you really do otherwise feel hurt and pain like men such as myself do, we were nice guys and got stamped all over but we learned ... don't learn just KNOW and get shut of this slut because she loves huge cocks, has a taste for them with the ex, has hinted it to you, saved old big cock emails and the ex is still nearby ... nah its a fire waiting to become a blaze nad unless you want to play some nasty mind games EJECT EJECT EJECT.
 
I don't know you or her so I will not give any advice on relationships or anything like that but I would suggest that you use this as a motivation for Penis Enlargement..Always try to find something positive no matter the situation :)
 
Too much humiliation, what happened to a man of pride?

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REDZULU2003;418855 said:
Yeah I bet she will start trying to see this ex again and its tempting to chop off his legs isn't it? don't do that :) just phone her and say hey I need to have an important talk later, she will insist on it than but you say no its better in person so meet me such a time and place and phone goes off. You tell her things aren't rosy like she thinks and you've become bored with it all, its not what you want. You could even be nasty if you like and say you've found someone else with a great sense of humour, fantastic career and the best toned body ever along with a fucking great tight pussy unlike her loose flaps bucket hole so fuck off and kick her ass out the front door into the street, have and show NO MERCY it isn't being bad, evil or cruel because you have to be like this mate you really do otherwise feel hurt and pain like men such as myself do, we were nice guys and got stamped all over but we learned ... don't learn just KNOW and get shut of this slut because she loves huge cocks, has a taste for them with the ex, has hinted it to you, saved old big cock emails and the ex is still nearby ... nah its a fire waiting to become a blaze nad unless you want to play some nasty mind games EJECT EJECT EJECT.

I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult :)
 
Alex DeLarge;418858 said:
I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult :)

See this is your problem, this kind of attitude will give you sympathy in church circles or some high class company, but women simply do not respect men who do not stand up to humiliation, they stamp them over, and will replace them with guys who react!
They want drama, and will start drama just to test a man!

You are on a downhill slope and being nice is going to get you hurt,betrayed, and cheated over and over again!
Your self esteem is everything, not reacting is worse than going against her and loosing the relationship!
IF you leave this uncontested she will brake you apart, and no Penis Enlargement will help, she will eat all your soul away, and leave you to another woman to strap on a dildo and finish you off!

Bro give your soul a gift, give to yourself, it's better to be alone that with a person that devalues you!
 
Alex78;418860 said:
See this is your problem, this kind of attitude will give you sympathy in church circles or some high class company, but women simply do not respect men who do not stand up to humiliation, they stamp them over, and will replace them with guys who react!
They want drama, and will start drama just to test a man!

You are on a downhill slope and being nice is going to get you hurt,betrayed, and cheated over and over again!
Your self esteem is everything, not reacting is worse than going against her and loosing the relationship!
IF you leave this uncontested she will brake you apart, and no Penis Enlargement will help, she will eat all your soul away, and leave you to another woman to strap on a dildo and finish you off!

Bro give your soul a gift, give to yourself, it's better to be alone that with a person that devalues you!

Man I understand everything you're saying,and believe me I do not expect or care for sympathy from others,this is something I feel is right thing to do.And I never said I don't react or I put up with humiliation,I just said I refuse to hurt other people.If a girl hurts me or cheats on me I will break up with her and will never and under no conditions go back to her,but I will also not hurt her in any way.
 
REDZULU2003;418843 said:
Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.

Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] because your worth it :)

Thanks for the input. She hadn't saved the emails, I found them in her sent folder. When I asked her about the emails, her response was that it was just BS to spice up ther relationship. She broke up with him because he was a swinger, and he was tryign to get her to have sex with other men. My impression is that he wanted to use her for sex, and as a bargaining chip to have sex with other couples.

For what it's worth, I also found an email exchange between my gf and the woman who is currently seeing her ex. It was a pissing contest of sorts, so I don't know how much stock to put into it, but my gf basically said I kicked her exe's ass in every way shape and form (better person, better looking, better career, and, in her words "best of all he has a beautiful body")

At the risk of turnign this into a soap opera, my situation is somewhat complicated because I've had an on and off relationship with my gf for almost 8 years and we have a 6 year old daughter together. She had wanted to get married to me very, very badly for several years but I dumped her. I found a diary of hers (yes, I am nosey) in which she said she cried buckets of tears over me.

Yea, it's a mess! Hopefully you'all will feel better now knowing you're not in my situation!
 
For what it's worth, the "he was just too huge" comment was in response to me saying to her that I wondered at times if she just likes me because I have money. Her response was "No, that's what my friends say, but that's not it. They thought I liked my ex because they knew he had a big penis, but that wasn't it, he was just too huge". I do think she was trying to let me know her ex had a big unit as a way to play games with me. In yet another for what it's worth, she had said in her emails that he was 8". But, I know from prior conversations that she had thought I was 7".
 
Alex DeLarge;418858 said:
I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult :)

I'm me and your you :)
 
Mr._Clark;418878 said:
Thanks for the input. She hadn't saved the emails, I found them in her sent folder. When I asked her about the emails, her response was that it was just BS to spice up ther relationship. She broke up with him because he was a swinger, and he was tryign to get her to have sex with other men. My impression is that he wanted to use her for sex, and as a bargaining chip to have sex with other couples.

For what it's worth, I also found an email exchange between my gf and the woman who is currently seeing her ex. It was a pissing contest of sorts, so I don't know how much stock to put into it, but my gf basically said I kicked her exe's ass in every way shape and form (better person, better looking, better career, and, in her words "best of all he has a beautiful body")

At the risk of turnign this into a soap opera, my situation is somewhat complicated because I've had an on and off relationship with my gf for almost 8 years and we have a 6 year old daughter together. She had wanted to get married to me very, very badly for several years but I dumped her. I found a diary of hers (yes, I am nosey) in which she said she cried buckets of tears over me.

Yea, it's a mess! Hopefully you'all will feel better now knowing you're not in my situation!

At least things sound better from reading this post and with a young daughter you cant do as I said before :) That what I said isnt word for word as I'm sure you know. Never have I literally kicked someone in the gutter and its an expression of term that non-English speakers on these forums dont grasp and take literally sometimes.

I'm pleased actually and perhaps you can work into something more formal one day. A child certainly is special and means you both have to act mature and not think about your own desires which is what you must have been doing anyway.

Keep us informed on it all buddy.
 
She was just horny when she wrote that to the guy.. I have a buddy who Im guessing isnt that big *due to his ethnicity* and he showed me a text of when his at time girlfriend said she wanted to suck his big cock.

Honestly dude, dont worry or think about if she had bigger guys before, bigger doesnt always mean the best experience.
 
mr. clark,
She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private. And you repeatedly read what should remain private.

Personally I don't see a lot of integrity or compassion from either of you. Not to mention honesty or trust.
I'd say call it a draw, cut yer losses and each of you move on.
 
You guys do know the insecurity thing works both ways. I never approach the subject anymore because honestly I don't care if her previous lovers were bigger than me.

If I was there I would have immediately asked what brought that up since you weren't talking about ex's. But if she wants to go that route why not mention the crazy wild sex you and an ex used to have. She might have just been trying to get a reaction from you. I've had to do it before, "I don't want to hear this shit, I don't talk about the gymnast I dated that I could fold up like a pretzel" or "Did I ever tell you about the girl that would have actual orgasms from blowing me? Can you imagine the skills a girl would have if she came from giving oral? No because I don't tell you these things out of respect for you and because I'm not concerned about that anymore. I'm concerned with us."

I wouldn't approach it like Redzulu said because to me thats just something an insecure guy would do. There was a time when I would have done the same thing, like he said I was a nice guy that was hurt but I don't think thats the best route to go. This route would only show that your past wounds have not healed and you still have taken some of the hurt from a past women and generalized it to all women. I'm not saying to be a pussified nice guy. All you have to do is show her that there is a boundary about the subjects of ex's and you find it disrespectful and hurtful for her to talk about it like that. She already knows this so like others have said this is showing some true colors and insecurities in her.

*Edit* I saw your post why you think she said that and it does put it in a different light. I would say work on your own insecurities. Learn to evoke a playful relationship instead of snooping through her emails and journal and worrying about if you're good enough or not. "I wonder if you like me for my money or my devilish wit". Right now you're both displaying signs of insecurity and lack of trust with each other. These things seem to naturally come up in relationships from time to time so you need to work on developing and strengthening your relationship. If her last boyfriend was a swinger I'm assuming he gave her more freedom than you do, based on your reading through emails, diary and obsessing on her ex boyfriend's dick more than she might be.
 
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There has been a lot of good insight in people's responses, but I hadn't actually asked if people think I should stay with my gf, what people think of my gf, what people think of me reading her emails, etc. Assume for the sake of discussion that I have decided to stay with this woman for the rest of my life come hell or high water. Given that, I would like to optimize our sex life as much as possible. If increasing the size of my unit will help, then I'd like to do it. But, I don't want to do it if it's counterproductive.

I'd asked my gf if she thought I was too small, and her respons was "Oh my lord Jesus Christ! What in the world would make you think that?!?" (She almost fell off the sofa. I don't think the current size of my unit is a huge problem or anything, but I'd still like to improve our sex if possible (yes, I do read as much as possible about oral, positions, getting a woman in the mood, etc.). But, odds are my unit is not absoutely perfect for her as-is in every respect, and I highly doubt she will give me a completely honest answer if I ask.

Thus, the original question: does anyone have any ideas on how to get an honest answer out of her with respect to her size preferences? I'm considering just telling her I'm doing Penis Enlargement and ask her if she wants me to continue. Given that she said "no" without hesitation when I'd asked her if I was too big, my current plan is to just keep doing Penis Enlargement and stop if she starts to make comments that I'm getting too big (I'm at about 6.375" NBPenis EnlargementL and 5.75" girth right now).

Another reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement is because my gf is not quite as tight as I'd like, and I don't get quite as much stimulation as I'd like during intercourse. I tried very gently suggesting that she do kegals, but she didn't seem too interested in it and I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is. Here's the second question: for those who have substantially increased your girth while being with the same woman during the period of time in which your girth increased, did you notice a difference in terms of how tight your woman felt? Did it increase the sensation you felt during intercourse, or did she just stretch bit by bit over time so it didn't really make much difference?
 
I would say then you're not ready for what I think, but I'll tell you anyway.

I say do Penis Enlargement 1st for you. Her satisfaction should only be icing on the cake. Girls will adjust and love you for the way you are and the way you become if she truly loves you. And yes the thicker you are the more the both of you will feel it. I'm sure the longer you Penis Enlargement the more you will realize this and experience it on the gut level. The girlfriend that I had that I did tell kept telling me to stop but she didn't seem to mind being stretched a little more each time.

Tell her your doing kegels and ask her if she can feel your cock muscles squeeze, it'll at least get her thinking about it.
 
MAXAMEYES;418931 said:
mr. clark,
She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private. And you repeatedly read what should remain private.

Personally I don't see a lot of integrity or compassion from either of you. Not to mention honesty or trust.
I'd say call it a draw, cut yer losses and each of you move on.
 
Ok so I have a couple of points to raise:
1) the email that said "she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy" I think many girls send these kind of emails to all guys they are dating; I know you said she has never sent you one like that yet, but just because she sent a guy an email like this doesn't necessarily mean he had a huge cock; some girls have sent me these kind of emails or txts and my cock is def not huge!
2) even if this guy does have a huge cock it might well be true that he was too big. And her telling you this doesn't mean she's trying to make you feel bad. I don't think girls realise that us guys have this 'bigger is better' mentality and that many of us don't care if we're the best she's ever had, we just want to be the biggest! So her saying this guy was too huge is not necessarily a diss to you. The email she sent might not have reflected what she was really thinking, perhaps she was just trying to make him feel good while actually thinking the sex is not that great.
3) You say " I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is" - why not? Let her worry! She's got you having insecurities about your size; all of us here have these insecurities! So put the shoe on the other foot. "I'm not too small, you're too loose" is a mantra that we should all have whenever a woman tries to belittle us in this manner. And anyway, maybe she'll start the kegels which can only be a good thing
4) Finally going back to your main question, how do you get an honest answer from her regarding her size preference? I really don't know but one suggestion is to watch adult entertainment with her, comparing male performers who are different sizes, and ask her what she thinks is ideal (though bear in mind her answer is likely to be somewhat skewed if you do this!)
 
Rude_God;419165 said:
Ok so I have a couple of points to raise:
1) the email that said "she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy" I think many girls send these kind of emails to all guys they are dating; I know you said she has never sent you one like that yet, but just because she sent a guy an email like this doesn't necessarily mean he had a huge cock; some girls have sent me these kind of emails or txts and my cock is def not huge!
2) even if this guy does have a huge cock it might well be true that he was too big. And her telling you this doesn't mean she's trying to make you feel bad. I don't think girls realise that us guys have this 'bigger is better' mentality and that many of us don't care if we're the best she's ever had, we just want to be the biggest! So her saying this guy was too huge is not necessarily a diss to you. The email she sent might not have reflected what she was really thinking, perhaps she was just trying to make him feel good while actually thinking the sex is not that great.
3) You say " I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is" - why not? Let her worry! She's got you having insecurities about your size; all of us here have these insecurities! So put the shoe on the other foot. "I'm not too small, you're too loose" is a mantra that we should all have whenever a woman tries to belittle us in this manner. And anyway, maybe she'll start the kegels which can only be a good thing
4) Finally going back to your main question, how do you get an honest answer from her regarding her size preference? I really don't know but one suggestion is to watch adult entertainment with her, comparing male performers who are different sizes, and ask her what she thinks is ideal (though bear in mind her answer is likely to be somewhat skewed if you do this!)

Rude_God, You always have the best advice on these issues, thank you for posting!
 
Rude_God;419165 said:
Ok so I have a couple of points to raise:
1) the email that said "she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy" I think many girls send these kind of emails to all guys they are dating; I know you said she has never sent you one like that yet, but just because she sent a guy an email like this doesn't necessarily mean he had a huge cock; some girls have sent me these kind of emails or txts and my cock is def not huge!
2) even if this guy does have a huge cock it might well be true that he was too big. And her telling you this doesn't mean she's trying to make you feel bad. I don't think girls realise that us guys have this 'bigger is better' mentality and that many of us don't care if we're the best she's ever had, we just want to be the biggest! So her saying this guy was too huge is not necessarily a diss to you. The email she sent might not have reflected what she was really thinking, perhaps she was just trying to make him feel good while actually thinking the sex is not that great.
3) You say " I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is" - why not? Let her worry! She's got you having insecurities about your size; all of us here have these insecurities! So put the shoe on the other foot. "I'm not too small, you're too loose" is a mantra that we should all have whenever a woman tries to belittle us in this manner. And anyway, maybe she'll start the kegels which can only be a good thing
4) Finally going back to your main question, how do you get an honest answer from her regarding her size preference? I really don't know but one suggestion is to watch adult entertainment with her, comparing male performers who are different sizes, and ask her what she thinks is ideal (though bear in mind her answer is likely to be somewhat skewed if you do this!)

RG, thanks, that was helpful and you actually answered my question!

Just an FYI, her email actually said she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge 8 inch cock into her wet pussy. She had asked me awhile back how big I was and I told her a little over 6 inches, and she said "No, you're 7 inches!" and she proceeded to measure me with her hand and insisted again that I was 7 inches. I doubt the other guy was actually all that much bigger than me, but reading her email was not much fun.

We went out for happy hour with several of her female coworkers a few weeks ago, and her coworkers started talking about how the boyfriend of one of them had a huge penis. My impression is that some women like to brag about how big their man is as a way to puff themselves up and to play head games with other men. All of these women (except my girlfriend) were WAY overweight, and not at all attractive. I found myself wondering why this woman's boyfriend hadn't been able to do any better than her if his unit was such a "huge" asset.
 
MAXAMEYES;418931 said:
mr. clark,
She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private. And you repeatedly read what should remain private.

Personally I don't see a lot of integrity or compassion from either of you. Not to mention honesty or trust.
I'd say call it a draw, cut yer losses and each of you move on.

I don't understand why you said "She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private"? Like I said in my prior post, the email to her ex was in her sent folder. She hadn't deleted any of her sent emails for quite some time. Are you saying that because she doesn't regularly delete the emails in her sent folder that she is "saving" them? You are also willling to say that she lacks integrity, compassion, honesty and trust ? This is a woman you have never met, yet you're willing to make those accusations based on a couple sentences posted on a penis enlargement forum by someone other than her?

Do you believe that sweeping judgements of people you don't know based on the tiniest knowledge of the facts demonstrates integrity and compassion on your part?
 
jojaanbutt;419330 said:
Do you really believe that we should follow the way of Cuba, Russia, China and Iran?
Do you actually believe their health care is better overall than here in the US
depends on how they exercise their penises
 
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jojaanbutt;419330 said:
Do you really believe that we should follow the way of Cuba, Russia, China and Iran?
Do you actually believe their health care is better overall than here in the US

jojannbutt is a jojann-"bot"

Aside from that attack of the machines, I'm going to reiterate what others have said and suggest you do Penis Enlargement for yourself. Not to fix an insecurity, but to help you cope with it. Be objective about your gains and what to expect. It's hard to get lost in the size distortions we see in adult entertainment all the time, or what our girlfriend's have in their sent message box or what they've had in their box before. You need to be comfortable with yourself before you embark on this journey for yourself, not for her. Otherwise, if things go sour down the line in either Penis Enlargement, the relationship or both, the gains you achieve will not be as satisfying as if you did them for yourself.

Change yourself for yourself, not for others. That's something that I took me a while to realize and I'm now using it to change my life.
 
Quite simple: If she is still in possession of those e-mails then she is, by definition, keeping them.
Then, I'm not labelling your or your "girlfriend", anything; I just said that I don't see any honesty, integrity, trust or compassion based on the information you chose to make public.

It's your life; live it as you choose, with whomever you choose in whatever fashion you choose.

Mr._Clark;419320 said:
I don't understand why you said "She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private"? Like I said in my prior post, the email to her ex was in her sent folder. She hadn't deleted any of her sent emails for quite some time. Are you saying that because she doesn't regularly delete the emails in her sent folder that she is "saving" them? You are also willling to say that she lacks integrity, compassion, honesty and trust ? This is a woman you have never met, yet you're willing to make those accusations based on a couple sentences posted on a penis enlargement forum by someone other than her?

Do you believe that sweeping judgements of people you don't know based on the tiniest knowledge of the facts demonstrates integrity and compassion on your part?
 
Whenever you dig up the past you get dirty! Simple thing to remember.
 
MAXAMEYES;419419 said:
Well said, old man, well said!

I am a man of few words but I think this sums up this thread:)
 
So well hes 8" you can be that in like a few months Mr. Clark- just make it happen, and she will be sending you emails that she is still too sore from the other night and can she reschedule your date. Then when you break up we can read about her new boyfriend finding her emails to you and wanting revenge because you broke that ass in half, and we will offer him a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words].
 
Mr._Clark;418825 said:
My girlfriend said one of her prior boyfriends "was just too huge" (this statement was more or less out of the blue, we hadn't been talking about her exes or their size) Later, I read some old emails sent between her and this ex (she had left the computer without logging out of her email and I couldn't resist the temptation to read her old emails) In one of the emails, she said she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy. She's never sent me any emails like this. (unfortunately, I still see her ex at social functiions because he is now seeing a woman who is in my gf's circle of friends)(no fun)

She tells me I have a nice sized penis and so on (I'm a little over 6" NBEL, about 5.75" girth), but she was either lying to me when she said her ex was just too huge, or she lying to him when she said she couldn't wait to have him ram it in her.

I asked her awhille back if I was too big, and she said "no" without hesitation. Hence, I'm pretty sure I could get at least a bit bigger without it being a problem, but I have no idea what her actual size preference is. Any idea how to get an honest answer out of her?

Part of the reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement is due to insecurity from reading her old emails, but I'm also doing it to hopefully increase how tight she feels to me so I get more sensation during intercourse. For those who've been able to increase your girth significantly while with the same woman, did it result in noticably more friction/sensation during intercourse?

I've read old emails. I've gotten myself all spun up over them. It's a bad place to be and you put yourself there.

My only real comment about the ex is this: do you talk dirty to her? if you had sent her an email telling her you couldn't wait to eat her tight little pussy, she might have sent one back to you just as dirty. But instead you confronted her on it. Wait a little while and send her a dirty email to see if she responds in the same way. Tell her you were at work and you were thinking about her when you got a huge hard on and couldn't get up to go to the bathroom because you thought people would notice. You may be surprised at her response.

Your size is definitely not small. You are above average especially in girth. So with that starting point for your Penis Enlargement you can expect really good results in the coming six months. Most of your early gains will be in your suspensory ligament. Search for pictures and see where this is. I developed my own stretch for my ligs even before I knew about Penis Enlargement and was able to gain 1.5" fairly quickly. It was based around gripping my cock as close to where the base goes into your body and pulling down. Try doing this and you're going to get length fast.

Girth is easy to gain my man. DLD came up with the squash jelk and it's the pipeline to having a really thick pipe. I gained at least a half an inch in mid shaft girth in a year of doing these.

Since doing Penis Enlargement I have had a few interesting experiences...

Experience #1 I was with a woman, married to her actually, and she had old emails and old boyfriends everywhere. It made me crazy. She would even tell me things like, "I don't like big cocks they hurt, I'm glad yours doesn't hurt." Gee thanks for the compliment. She also told me graphic detials about guys she'd been with. It ate at me.

After we separated we'd get together once a week, then once every few weeks, until it had been a while since we'd seen each other. One day she came over and as she was giving me a blow job she did the old measure the cock trick that girls secretly do. They hold your cock in one hand and then grip it with the other so that whatever is left sticks out the top. Her eyes got big. she looked confused. What used to be 6" long was now 7.5" long. It was priceless. Now that we aren't together her imagination will fill in the blanks and she'll tell all her friends I had a 9" cock. I'm the big one that got away.

Another girl I slept with once, after I had gotten some Pe gains, but was still under 8", was a complete slut. She'd take a different guy home from the bar every other night. but after we slept together I ran into her and she looked me in the eye and said, "You're a really nice piece of meat". I figure she probably had slept with around a hundred guys in the past year alone, so if you look at it statistically, she'd seen it all, and only 5 of the cocks she'd seen were as big as mine or bigger.

I know for myself that once I gained more length I could feel the difference. I don't think it matters where you start lengthwise, any guy is going to notice he's just getting it in deeper and it feels good. I wish more guys on here would comment about how they feel about their gains and not worry about being good enough for their girl based on some giant penis myth. It's a fact, only 5% have one bigger than 8", and only 1% are in the 9+ range. That's one in twenty are 8" and one in one hundred is 9". Girls who brag about having had lots of giant cock are lying, or they are visually measuring from the front and including part of the shaft that is attached, this is good for all us guys as we all seem bigger than we are.

What you really wanted to know about was Girth. Girth is a different matter entirely. Pussies are made to stretch so that something with a 12" girth can come out of them. the women I dated recently have all had babies. One had a cunt so stretched that when I would look at it, it was this dark gaping hole you could fit just about anything into. She had also been a real slut since she was about 14, so her gaper had gotten a lot of working out. For the record, it was nice and wet and soft and I loved it.

Another girl I was with had a tiny physique, small tits and nice tight ass, but her pussy felt really loose. Thankfully the girl had learned to deep throat somewhere along the way and I always made sure to put my knob deep down her throat at some point when we got together.

All of these larger pussies were just enough bigger than my girth that when they were wet I honestly couldn't feel much friction on my shaft.

There were some others in there and none of them struck me as really tight. Unless you're one of the guys on here with a 7" girth I think most pussies will feel a little loose.

My new girl is a rarity. she is tall with wide hips but has the sweetest little pussy I've every seen. It's so tight that it can grip one finger when I go down on her. She hasn't told me much about her past, but she has said she's slept with less than 15 guys and she's almost forty. She hasn't squeezed out a baby either, so that must be part of it too. This girl, bless her heart, has told me, "you may be the biggest one I've ever had". She could be lying through her teeth, but it was a nice gift to say that, and I'm sticking to it.

Since I've been with this one I've noticed a tiny bit of stretching on her hole. I fuck her really hard and her pussy is stretching out a little. It's still vice like and I love it, but pussies are made to fit bigger things than our cocks, so they are bound to loosen up a bit.

From my experience, what you will notice more is your length gains. Girth will not increase so drastically as to be immediately noticeable. It really depends on how big your girl is.

So judging by the comment she made about her ex. He probably had a longer penis with some girth, but when girls say it's too huge they usually mean that it's going in and hitting their cervix. Some girls like to feel their cervix banged, others don't.

So enough about pussy and dick talk. Does this girl love you? do you love her? when you think of her do you feel good inside? If so, do you do little things like take the trash out or leave her a little note in her pocket telling her how glad you are that she is in your life? If not, you need to get her thinking that she is special. Don't go over the top with it. Just remind her that you think of her and only her. She may talk trash with her girlfriends about this guy or that guy, but after the trash talk is done it's the passion that really matters. Show her some passion about who she is and she'll come crawling to you for everything else.

It's really about passion. Kiss her for a long time. Make her wait for it instead of just shoving it in her. Making a girl want it really bad is so much hotter than anything having to do with how big or little things are. I put my arms around my girl and kiss her for a long time till she can barely stand, and then walk away to do something. Or I just look her in the face and tell her, "you are so beautiful to me".

The other night when the moon was the closest it would be: I looked at it and thought to myself, damn I wish my girl was here to see this with me. I got on the phone and told her about it and she said she'd seen it too. We didn't say anything about fucking, but girls are like that. You have to talk to their feeling side and then they want to fuck you and only you. After a bit of talking about the moon, things got really dirty on the phone.

So my advice to you my friend, is to get your mind off your cock and get your mind to thinking about how you feel and telling her how you feel about her. Women aren't so complicated, they just want to be special.

Good luck!
 
Instead of digging up the past you could create your NOW. Too many guys give off so much energy to their past and future that they miss everything in the now. And with all of the energy expended to the past an future you got no energy for the now.
 
And there really is only NOW.
Past is gone forever, unalterable.
Future may never happen, whatever we may wish.

There is only NOW & HERE.


doublelongdaddy;421794 said:
Instead of digging up the past you could create your NOW. Too many guys give off so much energy to their past and future that they miss everything in the now. And with all of the energy expended to the past an future you got no energy for the now.
 
That is really it. Everything is happening now! The car you want, you have it now, you just can't see it. The only way to see it is to pretend so hard you believe it and like magic BAM! it is there!
 
REDZULU2003;418843 said:
Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.

Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] because your worth it :)

I agree-but I think he should get his cock to a monster first-so get yourself something huge-and when she finally says the truth "wow, you're even BIGGER than my ex" DUMP HER. bwa ha ha
 
AdmiralLongDong;422687 said:
Visualize and manifest it! Strange how that works.

Very strange but it works. What I think about and feel about I bring about....good or bad.
 
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