stillwantmore

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Seriously though. Too many of us are ''in the closet'' about our Penis Enlargement. It's sad, really. Men all around the world who are Penis Enlargement practitioners. Most of us do this for ourselves first, and foremost to satisfy a desire of some sort. Our partners, spouses, or lovers come next. I have seen many men over the years who keep their Penis Enlargement ''secret'' for whatever the reason...sometimes letting it be known ONLY after making gains. While I do in fact understand somewhat the mentality of this ''toe in the water'' with Penis Enlargement approach, I don't get hiding it from people you care about. This is after all, YOUR body. If you were gauging out your earlobes, or getting a tattoo or changing something surgically about your body, you would let people know, right?

I have dated women in the past who were ''iffy'' about Penis Enlargement. Yes, I always told them up front...usually within a few weeks at longest of us beginning to be 'physical' in our relationships that I in fact was working at making my Penis EnlargementNIS bigger. Some chuckled and shrugged it off, sometimes I would get something like ''....really...making it BIGGER?''. Eventually though, the women I dated for more than a few months got used to the idea. They knew I was serious. If they called or came over and I was (for example) hanging weights, they knew that I was going to finish that FIRST and then we would do whatever. My last girl would come and go as I was hanging weights or clamping pretty frequently. Point is, they have to be shown that Penis Enlargement IS important to you. It does not have to be an all consuming thing though which takes away from your relationship. I feel like if that point is also proven to your significant other, then you have nothing else to worry about really. Let it be known it's your penis, its a part of your body. It's nothing you're ashamed of, and Penis Enlargement is serious as well. Penis Enlargement is also something you are committed to. Once they realize you are committed to your Penis Enlargement just like you would be, with working out for example, I've found (in my cases anyway) they ease off and let you carry about.

My wife who I met 5 years ago also knew about my Penis Enlargement pretty much from ''day one''. I didn't bring it up in first date 'small talk', but after the first time we had sex, I did. We were laying in bed actually from what I recall. Reflecting on how great both of us felt, how great the sex had just been and so on. She was fondling me and happened to comment about my ''tan''. Many men have a ''farmers'' tan from wearing short sleeved shirts in the summer time. She likened the coloring of my penis when flaccid to that. I laughed and then proceeded to tell her WHY it was colored the way it is. She responded in a predictable manner. Wide eyes, then the ''really?....but it's so nice already....'' comments. She's seen me hang the equivalent of a case of beer from my penis, squeeze it in all ways, make a few ''how to'' videos for the community, and clamp. I use my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] in front of her when we shower as well. I even occasionally clamp as part of foreplay. 5 years later, we're as strong as we have ever been and my Penis Enlargement is something she accepts just like everything else about me.

Be proud of what you are doing here gents. Not every man has the privilege of knowing about Penis Enlargement. I'm not advocating that every one of you go out and tell everyone you know about Penis Enlargement and your efforts, but for goodness sake, quit hiding it from those you are involved with in long term sexual relationships.
 
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Bravo....but I am still a chickenshit as I haven't told my wife although to be fair I only started in May this year. She is already feeling the benefits and has made comments as to why I am in the shower for such a long time - she thinks I am jerking off. But I will be telling her - probably today - and I expect I will approach it from the point of wanting to keep my cock healthy and large, as well as the fact that now that I am I of an age where I need to stay on top of my health (40 last birthday!) [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] is part of my mental and physical health. This is all true but I will put less emphasis on wanting to keep a huge weapon in my boxers! The odd thing is, We are both very very close, and even after 10 years being together, we are very much in love and very happy - we can talk about anything - so why I haven't told her is odd!
 
I respect your view point and one day, I will have my own Penis Enlargement community online paid for with my own money, however Penis Enlargement is still a sensitive matter for many men. Any kind of change that will alter someone's life should be met with encouragement along with patience. It's great your wife understands this aspect about your life, but there are a lot of women who will not fully accept what Penis Enlargement is. That's being real. I think the first thing is a man's commitment to this change; yes Penis Enlargement is a life changing situation. Some men lapse or relapse during. Much like weight loss or drugs. Both still have a societal taboo label. I wish any man well throughout his Penis Enlargement journey. Please have patience and expect to lapse or relapse, but you can get focused again, and continue making a positive change in your life. Have patience that others will also see this change as needed for you and if they cannot initially, continue anyway.
 
I really like this thread.
I totally agree with stillwantmore, on telling your partner that you're doing this to yourself, as something for you, not for someone else, since your lovers and partners may come and go, but your penis is here to stay. I had a roommate in college last year who I told about it, and who came to accept it and actually started doing some of the exercises himself after he saw what it could do. It laughed so hard, because my roommate was black, and we had discussed all about genetics referring to penis size and such. He is a little bit shorter than I am (I'm 6'4"), and he told me he was 7" nbpel. From what he knew of genetics, his father is one of the few people I have to look up to, and I'm guessing he's about 6'10"ish, and my roommate had seen his fathers dick once, and was terrified from the size of it. After I did a session, and showed my roommate what you could do with Penis Enlargement, he exclaimed, "holy shit, that looks like my dads dick." Granted, I didnt take it as a potentially weird comment at the time, I just took it in stride and was ridiculously proud of myself.
However, as in telling my current partner/girlfriend, I think I'm just going to let it speak for itself. She already says that she thinks I'm too big, where I think otherwise on that. I think, if I was going to tell my girlfriend about what I do, I would want to get her off JUST ONCE with my cock, and not my hand. Shes got a stupid tight vag, and shes utterly hot, so I can barely last 30 seconds with her :/
 
bluetard117;391896 said:
I really like this thread.
I totally agree with stillwantmore, on telling your partner that you're doing this to yourself, as something for you, not for someone else, since your lovers and partners may come and go, but your penis is here to stay. I had a roommate in college last year who I told about it, and who came to accept it and actually started doing some of the exercises himself after he saw what it could do. It laughed so hard, because my roommate was black, and we had discussed all about genetics referring to penis size and such. He is a little bit shorter than I am (I'm 6'4"), and he told me he was 7" nbpel. From what he knew of genetics, his father is one of the few people I have to look up to, and I'm guessing he's about 6'10"ish, and my roommate had seen his fathers dick once, and was terrified from the size of it. After I did a session, and showed my roommate what you could do with Penis Enlargement, he exclaimed, "holy shit, that looks like my dads dick." Granted, I didnt take it as a potentially weird comment at the time, I just took it in stride and was ridiculously proud of myself.
However, as in telling my current partner/girlfriend, I think I'm just going to let it speak for itself. She already says that she thinks I'm too big, where I think otherwise on that. I think, if I was going to tell my girlfriend about what I do, I would want to get her off JUST ONCE with my cock, and not my hand. Shes got a stupid tight vag, and shes utterly hot, so I can barely last 30 seconds with her :/

Well, something else to consider is the un-predictable part of life. I mean, we never know what will happen to us one day to the next. I'd rather I for example, died with my wife knowing all about myself vs for her to find me dead one day with a hanger and 20lbs hanging from my penis and wonder what the hell I had going on in my life behind her back. ;) Just to put that out there as an example. ''Local man found dead by wife with 20 pounds hanging from his penis....family mourns and wonders WTF??'' Hey, it could happen.
 
I say, if you want to tell the other half that's fine and if not than that's fine. Decide yourself what's the best choice for YOU .. not her or anyone else. Its not weak or stupid keeping it secret. I've known guys who Penis Enlargement and its the one-time true time they get to themselves outside of very hectic schedules, children and the life sentence with the wife haha j/k
 
stillwantmore2;391898 said:
Well, something else to consider is the un-predictable part of life. I mean, we never know what will happen to us one day to the next. I'd rather I for example, died with my wife knowing all about myself vs for her to find me dead one day with a hanger and 20lbs hanging from my penis and wonder what the hell I had going on in my life behind her back. ;) Just to put that out there as an example. ''Local man found dead by wife with 20 pounds hanging from his penis....family mourns and wonders WTF??'' Hey, it could happen.

Probably think you were one kinky dirty bastard. I've known of cases where plenty horny fuckers asphyxiated themselves hanging from the ceiling while wanking, a rather popular fetish I'm lead to believe. They often slip and well .... you know what the ''crime scene'' will look like haha Fuck what others think as well. When your dead they will remember you for the other stuff not the 20ls weights.
 
The whole world knows I do Penis Enlargement. Most are all accepting, some feel uncomfortable. When I tell men about my business always hear the same thing "Oh, I'm all set in that department" but sneakily try to find out where the site it.
 
Sneakily, **snicker**snacker**

I want to laugh that I think if I spend hours a day stretching and edging/jelqing in my room for a year or 2, to gain just 1" or 2", but I understand that all the effort is worth it in the lonnnng runnn, but somebody that I tell may not be as understanding.

It might be important to tell someone in other cases. If you cant tell your partner you watch adult entertainment but not to jack off, just to "Penis Enlargement", that may be the healthy thing for your relationship. I know some days I spend the majority of my day locked away in my room doing Penis Enlargement and my family has no contact with me for those periods of time so it would be a relief to tell them and be honest that Im locked in my room doing that and not some strange perv naked voodoo in my room ?:( :blush:
 
Turnover;392003 said:
Sneakily, **snicker**snacker**

I want to laugh that I think if I spend hours a day stretching and edging/jelqing in my room for a year or 2, to gain just 1" or 2", but I understand that all the effort is worth it in the lonnnng runnn, but somebody that I tell may not be as understanding.

It might be important to tell someone in other cases. If you cant tell your partner you watch adult entertainment but not to jack off, just to "Penis Enlargement", that may be the healthy thing for your relationship. I know some days I spend the majority of my day locked away in my room doing Penis Enlargement and my family has no contact with me for those periods of time so it would be a relief to tell them and be honest that Im locked in my room doing that and not some strange perv naked voodoo in my room ?:( :blush:

You could just tell them you do Yoga and prefer to do so nude to connect better with your inner karma and the universe. ;)
 
I think I just popped my fam's Penis Enlargement bubble: Heres how it went down. I was sitting here typing on another post just a min ago. My mom and sis were in here saying blah blah blah.... right something like there should be a "womens penis museum" , so there would be penis' all different sizes (small and skinny!!! hardy hawr hawr) blah blah blah.... then I said there probably is and googled not finding much. Then I said some are like flat and wide and some have smaller heads than the shaft but thats from surgery. My sis said how do YOU know, and my mom said they cant make it bigger!! I said they have pumps that can make the head bigger. No theres no such thing! I said Yes they can you think in all the history of man all the billions of men in existence havent figured out how to make a pump that pumps their dick bigger over time? NO WAY my mom said. So I just tore it off like a bandaid, I said I HAVE a pump and use it daily and Ill even show you it makes my dick huge! SILENCE

Played a song online and we started singing :) lol

I feel a little awkward right now, but I jsut got off work so Im going to my room to toke a bowl and forget this just happpen!!
 
I'd rather keep it private. Just my opinion. Unless someone sees me doing it, I guess I'll tell them. Somethings are left kept secret
 
All types of penis talk of ALL penis' in one place-- "and not a shrine of dildos".

And you guys wondered why I want to flash them once I get all stretched out, they are practically ripping my pants off to see if its true! GROSS!
 
I had a dream last night that I was checking out shirts and I saw a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] t-shirt, nothing blatant or exagerrated just a cool looking colored picture with a red [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and purple and red flowers around it.

I thought to myself, "This is cool. If I buy it the only ones who would know I Penis Enlargement are other guys doing it."
 
stillwantmore2;392476 said:
Guess they've never heard of the infamous Cynthia ''Plaster Caster''. http://www.plastercaster.com/reviews.html

True story, KISS even did a song about her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hP7o3e_37Gc

Wow what the heck it that!!?

anth1225;392485 said:
I had a dream last night that I was checking out shirts and I saw a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] t-shirt, nothing blatant or exagerrated just a cool looking colored picture with a red [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and purple and red flowers around it.

I thought to myself, "This is cool. If I buy it the only ones who would know I Penis Enlargement are other guys doing it."

Hahaha I want to get an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] tattoo on my left shoulder but then I thought it would be a too similar to DLDs
 
I have been out of the closet for a few years. My wife loves my cock and it is so nice to be able to exercise and do my thing without worrying about someone walking in on me. She knows exactly what I do and she loves my post workout pump filling her pussy!
 
Great so all day my sister and my mom have been teasing me. They dont come right out and say anything but my sister keeps saying in a really high voice when I walk by "d"d"d"d"d"d"d" or some variation of annoying sounds everytime shes been seeing me. I told her to stop like 3 or 4 times. When I told my mom she wouldnt stop she said that she cant walk on egg shells while Im around and she doesnt have to stop.

Im trying to just laugh it off. But its every time we pass each other and she never leaves the goddamn couch shes such a fat lazy fuck! What did I expect by telling them? They arent kind people I dont know what I was thinking. Im sitting here actually crying right now. And you know what Ive been having such a good past few days and now Im going to have to LIVE with this shit.
 
Ok so my mom and I just had a task of talking about this. I got up from here and walked in here room. I said everything I wrote down here. And I was still being emotional. So she said to sit on here bed and I almost walked out but I sat and she told me how mentally ill my sister is. And I know that, shes not the only one in my family. But what my mom also told me was that my dick was "thick" already. I know that it WASNT thick but that now I am confident that I can say thick and I told her I "made it thicker". She told me she thought it was really cool that I used a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words], and she told me all these days Ive been working out locked in my room that my sisters actually the one telling her Im doing "something" important.

So maybe my sister is a little mentally ill. Im doing everything I can to get some space from her and I felt better after talking with my mom and I think Ill be able to laugh it off a lot easier tomorrow. Sorry for the trouble homies.
 
Turnover, I think Stillwantmore kind of ment coming out of the Penis Enlargement closet to your gf/wife/friends etc. I'm not so sure it was the best idea to discuss it with your mom and sister lol
 
They'll get more used to it over time. It takes a while for something to become normal. Just make it like it's no big deal and eventually they'll either quit talking about it or it'll become no big deal to talk about.
 
Eyeknot;392692 said:
Turnover, I think Stillwantmore kind of ment coming out of the Penis Enlargement closet to your gf/wife/friends etc. I'm not so sure it was the best idea to discuss it with your mom and sister lol

I know it really happen as a discussion one day I didnt do it because of SWM2 thread. Its a little awkward but HIGHERONE is exactly right and I was outta weed so some of it was just being agitated but Im glad I posted because it inspired me to go get it taken care of right after I did.
 
Turnover;392719 said:
I know it really happen as a discussion one day I didnt do it because of SWM2 thread. Its a little awkward but HIGHERONE is exactly right and I was outta weed so some of it was just being agitated but Im glad I posted because it inspired me to go get it taken care of right after I did.
The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.
 
higherone;392732 said:
The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.

Like a breath of fresh air :):)
 
higherone;392732 said:
The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.

Not to mention, now everyone THEY know knows. ;)
 
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.
 
Steady;392833 said:
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.

What is in BOLD is SO fucking true man. That is what has been happening but last night I did not give a fuck because I hope they tell everyone and I can get some good pussy cuz this shit really is BIGGER- maybe not huge, but definitely an improved version of what I had and a little phrase I like singing is- No OnEs GoNnA sToP Me nOwWw
 
Let's also not forget in our Western society, most people view the penis as ''taboo'' and ''icky'' or something to poke fun at. Women speak openly about their bodies, vaginal odors and issues and have an open mic per se when it comes to these things. Men, are still on the opposite side of the spectrum, sadly. I'm glad I have a penis, I'm not ashamed of it, and no man should be.
 
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!
 
shavenasian;393009 said:
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!

Good luck!
 
shavenasian;393009 said:
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!

Dude go for it! I remember being in your shoes a few years ago and when I told my wife, she was a little apprehensive/curious about it. She was just concerned about me injuring myself. But once I explained to her what I was doing and showed her some of the exercises, she was fine with it. It is SOOO much nicer to be able to just go and workout without worrying about being caught. I just tell her, 'I'm taking a bath', and she knows what that means. lol! She accepted it and I bet your mate will, too. Plus she loves the larger, thicker size too. hehe!! Do let us know how it goes.
 
Steady;392833 said:
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.

I agree! I'm in the same boat as you. I'm trying to present the true me out there now and my authentic self. Only when you quit worrying what other people think can you truly be free to live without limitations. It's hard at first because we've conditioned ourselves to hold back things we worry people will judge us for. Once you realize those who like you and love you will continue to do so, and the haters will continue to hate, you understand that being honest about yourself liberates you to not care and just be yourself.
 
I had a conversation with Shavenasian. He told me that it went terrible. He and his wife are filing and for divorce and he now resents StillwantMore2 for giving him the courage to do such a silly thing.
 
Of course I was just kidding. I was hoping he would see my post then update the thread with how she really took his revelation. I plan of trickery failed
 
I had like an episode here yesterday because I found out all my history on here hasnt been deleting and I thought it was. My sister said "All I saw was a really small dick"

Fuck at least since Ive gained an inch NBPenis EnlargementL I have that to keep me sane.
 
i was going to create a new thrad called "Post your moral facts about Penis Enlargement"
Where one could go:

-If most people wants to look good in shape, muscles, go to the gym, make a diet, just to look better and be healthier, why not include in those rutines your reproductive system?

-Most women would like to enlarge their breasts, and ass, just to look more "fuckable", and have a better self esteem, so its absolutely comprehensive that men want to improve their reproductive system.

-Most taboos about Penis Enlargement have roots in the cultural system, but for example, there is an aussie tribe, that practice a ritual for the women, where the men rub their cocks with poisonous plants to make it a lot bigger. Wich means that even ancient cultures try to improve the sexual experience.

Etc.. etc..

Anyways i dont want everyone to know about Penis Enlargement, i want it for myself only mwahahaha
 
2TheLimit;393933 said:
i was going to create a new thrad called "Post your moral facts about Penis Enlargement"
Where one could go:

-If most people wants to look good in shape, muscles, go to the gym, make a diet, just to look better and be healthier, why not include in those rutines your reproductive system?

-Most women would like to enlarge their breasts, and ass, just to look more "fuckable", and have a better self esteem, so its absolutely comprehensive that men want to improve their reproductive system.

-Most taboos about Penis Enlargement have roots in the cultural system, but for example, there is an aussie tribe, that practice a ritual for the women, where the men rub their cocks with poisonous plants to make it a lot bigger. Wich means that even ancient cultures try to improve the sexual experience.

Etc.. etc..

Anyways i dont want everyone to know about Penis Enlargement, i want it for myself only mwahahaha

Excellent post!
 
magiksock;393772 said:
I had a conversation with Shavenasian. He told me that it went terrible. He and his wife are filing and for divorce and he now resents StillwantMore2 for giving him the courage to do such a silly thing.

LOL - I started off convinced that I should tell her, but have changed my mind - I am not convinced now is the right time (especially with all the pressures on my shoulders at the moment) . Perhaps I am a yellow belly but I know that I should wait ....for now!
 
You gotta do what's best for you. Just realize when you're honest about who you are and what you do, a lot of times that takes some of the pressures of being stealth and covering up away.
 
higherone;394032 said:
You gotta do what's best for you. Just realize when you're honest about who you are and what you do, a lot of times that takes some of the pressures of being stealth and covering up away.

Sort of. It needs to be stressed that some guys SHOULD keep their Penis Enlargement a secret. In my experience it was a ugly story when Jen found out I did Penis Enlargement. At first she thought it was sexy and it turned her on but after a few months she started to become very envious of my time spent with my penis. She stared to become very confused about things and eventually it got ugly. I think it is sometimes better to tell a small lie than expose a truth that could end a relationship.
 
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