Analyze my unit - i need to get past my insecurities once and for all!

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Whats up everyone. I've thought about starting a Penis Enlargement routine for the last 6 months now but between work, the gym and other obstacles in life I haven't been able to do so.

A bit about me and my situation

- I'm a big black guy and an average dick. This fact has literally plagued my sex life my entire life. I am always always terrified the first time I am with a woman and we're fooling around because I feel like i dont live up to some kind of standard. Because of this mental block, even though i have hooked up with and many many girls over the years, I have only slept with a handful of women

- Ive never had a complaint or comment about my penis, ever (until yesterday actually lol). In fact my ex girlfriend always thought it was on the big side and another girl i banged comment on big it was compared to the other guys shes slept with. Despite I still always felt shitty and insecure about my dick

anyway, on to the story that brought me here

I recently hooked up with a fairly inexperienced chick a week that is friends with my younger brother. She is 20 (im 24) and i can just tell by the way she kisses, the way she acts and the things she says that she isnt the most sexually experienced broad around.

So we havent really done much, only chilled with her a couple times. Got a couple crappy hand jobs and finger banged her to orgasm, nothing for me and i dont wanna deal with this chick anymore cause i dont see her putting out anytime soon.

Anyway, she has a Twitter account and its completely locked up. Out of curiosity, I decide to check her profile from my brothers twitter account. I looked at her tweets from after the day we hooked up and it was something like "Black guys and big dicks, LOL quite the opposite surprisingly"

I am almost 100% sure she is referring to me. It was literally posted as she left my house and there are almost no black guys in my area. That post hit me so hard....it was the only time i ever heard anything about my penis being small and it completely tied in to the black stereotype which has always caused anxiety for me.

Im thinking maybe my average unit on my large frame (im 6 ft 2, 215 lbs) looks small for my body and her being inexperienced made it seem small in her eyes?

Im never talking to that bitch again as Im not into trashy chicks that post comments about guys dicks for the world to see so i dont really care what she thinks personally but i cant lie, the comment hit close to home.

However, I want to finally put this issue to rest. I plan on starting a Penis Enlargement team for myself but I want to embrace my current dick as it is now. I feel like you gotta be happy with what you got no matter what or you'll never be happy. Im gonna post a few pics from different angles and id like to know if my dick looks small in your opinion

in reality, its around 6.3 inches NBP and 6.7 bone pressed and 5 inches around.

I just want to know where I stand so i can get over this anxiety in the bed room. If it looks small on me please be honest, I want to embrace it. If it looks normal or big please express your opinion too. Whatever you think of my cock, please just state it here. All i want is a non biased opinion on what youd think if you saw it in real life.

thanks guys, i know this is a really weird request but id really appreciate your comments to help me get over this insecurity once and for all...all i want is honesty so i can know where i actually stand

im hard in every pic btw :)

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things to keep in mind im 6'2 and 200+ pounds (depends what football calls for, sometimes i gotta pack on the pounds) i have pretty big hands too
 
Dont blame yourself for what one chick who knows nothing says.

The problem today is that these girls do look up adult entertainment and then they see all these black guys with big dicks banging little white chicks.
The camera lense and angle gives another size boost.
Then they assume that every black dude has a 10 inch cock. If that girl would have that lense instead of her eyes yours would look like a mandingo dick too lol.
I bet the girl you are talking about would scream in pain when mandingo would actualy show up in her pussy.

The thing is she will probably not get many bigger dick in her lifetime then yours.

There is no need for you to get now in panic mood chasing to have a big dick. You have enough to please 99% of all woman vaginaly.
Start slowly with the newbie programm and do some jelqs. Get your dick really fit and then you will see improvement. Never do any heavy exercises the first days and months.
You can certainly reach 7 inches in some months or a year if you stick to it.

Its only your ego that got hurt. You and your dick are intact and enough already. Still you can do some training for your dick as you do for football...
 
dickerschwanz;469420 said:
Dont blame yourself for what one chick who knows nothing says.

The problem today is that these girls do look up adult entertainment and then they see all these black guys with big dicks banging little white chicks.
The camera lense and angle gives another size boost.
Then they assume that every black dude has a 10 inch cock. If that girl would have that lense instead of her eyes yours would look like a mandingo dick too lol.
I bet the girl you are talking about would scream in pain when mandingo would actualy show up in her pussy.

The thing is she will probably not get many bigger dick in her lifetime then yours.

There is no need for you to get now in panic mood chasing to have a big dick. You have enough to please 99% of all woman vaginaly.
Start slowly with the newbie programm and do some jelqs. Get your dick really fit and then you will see improvement. Never do any heavy exercises the first days and months.
You can certainly reach 7 inches in some months or a year if you stick to it.

Its only your ego that got hurt. You and your dick are intact and enough already. Still you can do some training for your dick as you do for football...
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man i really appreciate the kind and true words. what you said is sound and logical and i know it is too.

my dick has always been something ive been self conscious about and having just turned 24, im kicking myself that i havent gotten over this sh!t yet. growing up tall, having size 13 shoes since 7th grade and being black as funny as it sounds, have all put stress on me and made me feel like my dick is small

i look at the numbers. is a 6.5er with an dead centre average girth small? no. its funny cause, as i mentioned in my OP, ive actually gotten positive feedback about my dick in the past and yet i tend to ignore that and get in a funk about what this stupid bitch who i KNOW knows nothing said about me

you speak truth in your post and in my heart i know your right. ive always considered starting up a Penis Enlargement routine because im a perfectionist in every form of life...love working out, being well read and athletic

i just need to get out of this funk. ive missed so many sex opportunities because i pussy out. this needs to stop today

thanks for your post bro, and i hope to hear more from others
 
Mate, dickerschwanz is 100% correct.

I would add that although it is often easier said than done, not to worry about it. Just go have some fun with the chicks whilst you are young and free. Just because you are tall, black etc doesnt mean you need a bigger cock! Get yourself one for yourself ie because you want it! I have had alot of pussy before I Penis Enlargement'ed - and I was way smaller than your measurements. In a way, thanks to DLD and the brotherhood, its easier to Penis Enlargement and improve your cock, than to accept the mental/psychological side that your cock is more than enough for the chicks. I am now 7.25 BPenis EnlargementL and over 6 inches in girth - sometimes I still think my cock is too small when in fact I already have issues fucking in certain positions because its too big for my chick.

So if you want a bigger cock, do it for yourself - use [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] - thats why we are here. And as of right now, accept that your cock and you are good enough for any chick, go and bang some puss man!
 
Forget about her, the shallow whore. She only saw you as a stereotypical hung like a horse black guy, what a fucking bitch. Shameful that women are like this with black men or any race for that matter ... line um up and machine gun the lot. Welcome to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] by the way :)
 
first of all you arent small dude, second if you really need it bigger phase one will bring great length gains and some girth but mostly conditiones your dick for the intense girth exercises coming up, everyone is different but just so you can see that phase one works, i ganied half an inch of bpel in the firsth 26 days and a quarter inch in eg , using the
DLD's phase one! have fun bro! watching gains roll in is awsome!rofl
 
celttank;469460 said:
you sure you're black???
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why do you ask? because of the light skin or cause im not hung like lexington steele ;)


thanks for the kind words. i dunno how to get out of this funk...its like even though im being told im not small by all the penis gurus on here, that one comment from that little skank still hits close to home and makes me feel self conscious
 
bigggg1;469476 said:
Hey bro i'm not a black guy but i'm the same size as you 6'2 big hands size 13 shoes. Everyone thinks i'm hung as a horse but i'm not, might be because i'm italian too. Also the thought of a girl making a comment about my dick being to small has messed me up big time meaning i avoid situations that would lead to it. Anways dude i just wanted to say you are at my goal measurments the way you sit right now. Your dick is big and if i was the same size i'd be lining the girls up no jk. I'm just looking to get to 6 inches nbp and anything that is 5 and up in girth and i'd feel like I won the lotto. You are above average and that girl is a clueless ho if i was your size right now i'd honestly laugh at the dumb ho,then proceed to fuck all of her friends :P
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yea ive heard the Italian stallion stereotype too...these racial stereotypes about dick size need to die once and for all

i feel like this is a legit mental issue. like some sort of variation of body dysmorphic disorder. its funny cause you say my dick looks big but when i look at your avi, i feel like you look way bigger than me. even when i measure myself and see myself sometimes pushing 7 when im really hard, its like i think my dick is still too small for some reason. driving me nuts

jekyllnhyde360;469477 said:
have you started phase 1 yet?
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looking into DLD's [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] but man with school, work and football training im pressed for times these days....maybe ill work it into my evening shower....any other newbie tips you can throw my way?
 
Do you still speak to that girl? If you do, then use that bitch, fuck her really good, make her start to have feelings for you, lick her pussy like nobody has before, give her orgasm after orgasm, then right when she says she wants to have some kind of relationship, dump her without any hesitation.
 
Rooster4889;469507 said:
Do you still speak to that girl? If you do, then use that bitch, fuck her really good, make her start to have feelings for you, lick her pussy like nobody has before, give her orgasm after orgasm, then right when she says she wants to have some kind of relationship, dump her without any hesitation.
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The funny thing is despite my small dick, this chick has been blowing up my phone nonstop the past week and a half. Guess she didn't think I'd ever see that on twitter

At first I was thinking of busting a load in her face and never talking to again but fuk it...cutting all ties with this shit talking skank, got a way cooler chick lined up anyway
 
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