Re-evaluating Goals

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Last night, i found that i was entirely too much for my petite framed GF.


i am not particularily long, but at 7.25 bpel, she couldn't handle me fully doggy style.

kind of disheartening.

Any one else have to rethink goals due to similar reason?
 
tyandhisrod;327398 said:
Last night, i found that i was entirely too much for my petite framed GF.


i am not particularily long, but at 7.25 bpel, she couldn't handle me fully doggy style.

kind of disheartening.

Any one else have to rethink goals due to similar reason?
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Does she know you Penis Enlargement?
 
yeah, she knows that i dabble.

its never really been a problem b4, but kinda sucked having to take it gentle to avoid her pain.

could just be a one time thing, i guess.
 
Well if you want to make it to 8 you need to get used to it. Sometimes girls who can't take me can and sometimes girls who usually can take me can't. A lot of it has to do with their excitement levels because it affects lubrication and how far the cervix rises. It can take a while for a "tight" girl to be able to accomadate you but she will eventually. It also depends on the girl. And to a lot 8 will be in the huge to too big range but they still love it. Reminds them of their virginity and they like having that stretched out feeling and being sore the next day.

If I was you, and this is only if I was you I'm not telling you what you need to do, I would reach for 7.5 and then re-evaluate goals. That way your still making a little bit of progress and just in case she is able to loosen up your be there to rip her a new one! ; )

I know it sucks going slow but eventually they get used to it. I mean it hurt her her first time having sex but now she can. Women can push babies out of thier snatches, though it probably isn't enjoyable, they still are capable of a massive stretch.
 
True dat ^^^

Next time when you are at it ... Let her guide u in ... let her handle how much she can take in. Let her be the decider and accordingly make love to her upto that depth. When she really get all heated up from it try to habitually and slowly increase the depth of your penetration in a very calm manner (Dont jab it in her) and see how she reacts.

Penis Enlargementace :D
 
My GF had some health issues that made sex difficult. I just did partial insertion so she wouldn't hate me and not want to have sex.

Having a big cock is not all about shiving the whole thing in all the time. That extra length gives you more to work with. Get creative.

During missionary sex, since you have a 7.5 one, you can put it in only half way. This allows you to lower yourself between her legs so that the underside of your penis is rubbing her perineum giving her a low stretch and your head is actually rubbing on the G spot area behind her pubic bone. On the outside your pubic area can rub on her clit. Girls love it.

As to doggie... hey if it's too long, just go easy on her most of the time. That's what I had to do. Then let her have it full bore maybe once a week just as a reminder of who owns the cock in your relationship. he he he

About your original topic regarding goals. Go for it. You won't regret it.
 
yeah, i have discussed with her time to time some goals, but still not too sure.

she is not really one to loosen up at all, and we've been together about 2 years.

she's still so tight that occasionally i can only get a finger in at first, but she's never really had problems with my length.

funny, becuase my length is, in my mind, more impressive than my girth.

i understand that excitement has a lot to do with it on both our parts, but i don't want to always have to invest an hour of warm up b4 i can fuck her really hard, you know?

kinda takes hard hot quickies out of the equation.

one goal i still desire to achieve is a higher erection quality and angle.
 
A vagina can expand greatly so I think it can take a pretty large cock. The matter here is if she wants to take a larger cock. If you are hurting her now you may want to go into Penis Enlargement maintenance for a while.
 
^^^^^

If you're with her long-term, you should probably stop making gains. If you break up later you can always start back the Penis Enlargement.

The Kama Sutra describes three sizes of 'yoni' for women, she might just be of the smaller size.

There are also dozens of reasons for vaginal pain that could have nothing to do with your or her sizes ... here's a site off Google:

http://symptoms.wrongdiagnosis.com/cosymptoms/vaginal-pain-all.htm

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yeah, she's defitiely just a tiny girl, and i think i might switch to just light girth and maintenance.

its a serious long term relation.

thanks guys.
 
i never thought about changing any goals for my partner...when i first started pe i was with the same girl for three years and then after that i've been with my current for two and half...neither never had a problem...but i guess if i saw i was causing her some discomfort...i would really have to think about how big did i want to get...but for most of us we seldom end up with the same partner for the rest of our lives so to curb your routine might be a little difficult but if you feel like this is a long lasting relationship and could be "the one" then i would say you probably need to slow down...but then again a woman can push a 7lbs baby out of there..they should be able to take you LMAO
 
tyandhisrod;327652 said:
yeah, she's defitiely just a tiny girl, and i think i might switch to just light girth and maintenance.

its a serious long term relation.

thanks guys.
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Mature decision.
 
thanks dld.

i like to keep my partner in mind,

a bigger cock would physically affect me very little, in bed,

but too big could mean quite a bit to her, so best keep it ideal.
 
Sometimes knowing you could anytime you wanted is just as good as doing it.
 
If i was you id just keep focusing on your girth for now... =]

really plug her up! :)
x
 
yeah, thats kind of a similar situation though. she's quite tight, and no matter how aroused she is, i stretch her quite a bit as is.

we have a toy that is at most 5"-5.5" around, and she never uses it, due to it being too big.

i also fear that we would have to abandon anal if i got too big.

i realize that she is capable of stretching out to an unlimited amount, but i want sex to be enjoyable for her too, not just me.
 
I think you're making a wise decision here, Ty. It makes no sense to get larger if she's having trouble already and you want to continue anal, etc. I agree that you should leave well enough alone and just practice a light routine for maintenance. P.E. is not all about selfishly trying to get larger for one's own sake. You have to think of your significant other as well. Good luck.
 
thanks goinfor, glad to know im making a good choice.

thanks everyone else for input, as well.
 
tyandhisrod;327917 said:
we have a toy that is at most 5"-5.5" around, and she never uses it, due to it being too big.
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Sounds like a dream:)
 
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