i feel very disappointed, need some advice..

Hello,

Lastly, my self esteem's been pretty high, more than usual, but today, i was walking to the locker room, and this guy came close to me, and he was like more handsome than brad pitt, and had a flaccid dick 3 times bigger than mine erect (in length and girth, each) so... whats the point? I think i have little or no chances of pleasing or getting a woman next to that m****** f*****...


Any words of advice?

This is ONE man who you don't know and will never know, why do you care? Be happy for him, and be thankful you KNOW about Penis Enlargement.

Yea i know, thanks for your advice, its just one person, that i probablly wont see again, i cant be so happy for him im afraid... i wanna be better than him... but i think its IMPOSSIBLE for me to get to that flaccid girth...

or maybe with lots of surgery and many years of Penis Enlargement.... (i dont have the money or time for this... guess i will need to work it out somehow)

Take one day at a time. Be consistent with your Penis Enlargement and before you know it 6 months will have rocked on by. You'll see gains you've made and realise that the "impossible" gap between you and this other guy won't seem so huge after all.

You also have to consider the idea that many men are SHOWERS and some are growers. He may in fact be the exact same size when erect. Some men are that way. Some men get very small when flaccid, some stay as large as they are erect, (or close to it) when flaccid. I'm around 5'' long and 5.5'' in girth when flaccid...bigger than many ''average'' men are when erect.

I bet he was a memeber from this site. Just stick around Im sure you'll get whatever you feel youre after in no time honestly.

In fact Im doing as we speak- Thats my Word.

2TheLimit;392916 said:

Hello,

Lastly, my self esteem's been pretty high, more than usual, but today, i was walking to the locker room, and this guy came close to me, and he was like more handsome than brad pitt, and had a flaccid dick 3 times bigger than mine erect (in length and girth, each) so... whats the point? I think i have little or no chances of pleasing or getting a woman next to that m****** f*****...


Any words of advice?

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The only advice I could give you is this:

Don't worry about other guys. Some guys are luck (or absolute freaks of nature) and are born a very big dick. Some people are showers and some people are growers. My whole life I've been comparing myself to others, and all it has done is bring me down. I stopped playing baseball in high school because the other guys were able to gain a lot of muscle mass very easily and it just got to me. 10 years of baseball prior and every year on the all-stars... who knows, had I stuck with it I might have played in college and gone pro.

The point is, you are you. You can sit there and see how fortunate other guys are with how big their dicks are or how big their bodies are and feel inadequate, or you could get off your ass and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stick with Penis Enlargement. You won't get to his size overnight, but when you are able to dedicated yourself to Penis Enlargement and start growing, it's just an awesome feeling. I'm not sure how diligent you have been with Penis Enlargement, but I see you've been a member on these forums for 2 years, a lot longer than me. But I know from my own experience that gaining just the half an inch I have is a fantastic feeling.

Enjoy life for what it is, and try finding a way to get over measuring yourself to everyone else.

The other problem is we compare our insides to the other person's 'outsides'. For all you know the guy could be the biggest Dbag. He may feel like he is too small...or maybe he's too big for girls and they complain it hurts...who knows. Or maybe he's just plain happy where he is in life.

Comparison's never get us anywhere.

I know it means a lot to us guys but women care very little about dick size, they are looking for wallet size.

I'd rather be a grower than a shower. That way when you get an erection, it's like a warewolf / saiyen transforming!
rawr!

Well, the guy next to you is just genetically more lucky, and you're going to have to accept it. Somewhere down the line there's always a guy with a bigger penis, it's time to stop thinking with your dick, and start thinking with your brain. If you're looking to get a girl to bed, you need to learn to play the strategy of scoring a chick, because you can be incredibly good looking, but if you have no strategy in the matter you're going to fail. As far as pleasing, that's a different story, and it's not based on the size of your cock- though it helps, which is why you're here. Keep stretching that thing!

I am rather on the shower side and a friend of mine is an extreme grower.
That means I'm 5.5x5 flaccid while he is 4x4.5.
When erect I am about 7.5x5.5 and he is 8x7.
Just as an example that flaccid size can be very, very deceiving.

Basicly I can only repeat what the guys said before me... Don't try to think of it. That coming from my mouth couldn't be more ironic but that's how it is.

There is one thing I thought of lately but I yet need to internalise: HE will never be YOU. You may be funny, you may be smart, but you definitely have your own amenities. As much as he is geneticly gifted, you have the luck to be yourself and to make the better decisions. You can persue your own goals and noone can take that from you.

Comparing yourself to/with another guy is almost always a negative sum game. Why? Mostly because guys who do that are already predisposed to accentuate the "positive" qualities of the comparison guy while negating the positive qualities of themselves.
Look at what you did: Brad Pitt, big dick, naked in locker room.
If you feel the inexorable need to compare yourself to others then you need to even out the playing field;
Go down to the bus station and compare your appearance and penis size with the homeless, alchoholic, crack head and his 2" hopelessly flaccid semi-necrotic syphilitic dick.

Or

Compare yourself only against the standards you set for yourself.
Who you were yesterday.
Who you are today.
Who you prefer to be tomorrow.

To base your self-worth solely on the mere physical appearance of a total stranger whose life-path crossed yours for only a few, brief moments is pretty freakin' ludicrous, to be honest.

To paraphrase Sun-Tzu, "No true warrior ever fights anyone other than himself."

2TheLimit;392916 said:

Hello,

Lastly, my self esteem's been pretty high, more than usual, but today, i was walking to the locker room, and this guy came close to me, and he was like more handsome than brad pitt, and had a flaccid dick 3 times bigger than mine erect (in length and girth, each) so... whats the point? I think i have little or no chances of pleasing or getting a woman next to that m****** f*****...


Any words of advice?

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My friend, dont worry about whats on someone elses plate, just whats on yours. You are ahead of the majority of the world, and if you are unhappy about the size of your cock, you have taken the positive step of addressing it by joining this brotherhood of Penis Enlargement. Trust me, I have learnt and gained so much from this site and the support and experiences of everyone here - start and stick to the newbie programme and before you know it you will see gains. Be positive about yourself.

Thanks everyone, i feel much better now, i know some day ill be closer to that mofo!

The thing was that he was so good looking, AND he had a big dick, if it was only the big dick i wouldnt care so bad to be better than him... its hard to guess a persons size before seeing it naked... and then only few girls would say "no i dont wanna f*** wit you because your so small" or w/e... but girls talk... a lot, and compare sizes and shit, here in my country at least, you f*** wit someone and everyone knows your size...

Guess they'll have a little big surprise in a few months/years...

In 1982 a friend of mine and I had a threesome with his wife one night. I had noticed that he was better looking and had a bigger cock than me although his wife came way more when I was fucking her then when he was fucking her. I sort of used it as incentive to improve myself and I did just that over the following years. In 1989 I was out getting drinks with my same friend and he revealed to me that he had though I was better looking and had a bigger dick. His wife assured him that we both were hot. It just goes to show you that we always see others as more than ourselves. I saw him better and bigger and he saw me better and bigger. I think most of us guys are somewhat guilty of this sort of thing. My advise to you is to understand that we all think as you do and also to use the whole thing as incentive to improve yourself. I am now working toward a sold 9" cock but I can see a 7" cock and still think the 7" cock is bigger. It is just a thing. Of course, I am still stretching and jelqing away at my cock.

It is strange, the mind....we can think one thing and believe it to be truth only to find out later it was very far from the truth. The mind can really be its own prison.

It's exactly like the grass is greener on the other side. It is just our perception, whether it holds any merit or not, we still perceive it as though other guys are bigger than us. Even with numbers proving it isn't true.

Also don't forget that you looking down on your same dick your whole life, you have a much different perspective than say, someone else looking at it from their point of view. Your own penis will always appear smaller to you, IMO. Hell, that guy might think YOU have a big dick. Who knows? Just don't worry about it. Like DLD said, I don't think most women really care about size, as long as you don't have a micro penis or something. Most women are more emotional than physical.