Hey guys I'm actually going to be having a little more privacy on my hands for the next two months. I'm looking into getting some sort of Fleshlight or masturbator. Is there any certain brand that is the best out there or feels the best? Also something that isn't going to break the bank
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I had a Chasey Lain cyberskin toy (it was big enough you were supposed to lay it down and go to town). It had extremely similar material so it felt pretty damn similar to the real thing. Really fun way to blast one off or work on stamina.
A Fleshlight would be one of the first things I would buy if I found myself single again. Maybe 2 of them so I could put 1 inside a Bathmate for the ultimate stamina workout.
A Fleshlight would be one of the first things I would buy if I found myself single again. Maybe 2 of them so I could put 1 inside a Bathmate for the ultimate stamina workout.
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huge-girth;761009 said:
It is one of y best purchases! Nothing can give you better practice in preventing premature ejaculation. If you are able to get through a 20 minute session with the FleshLight you will be a super start in bed.
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doublelongdaddy;761034 said:
I'm currently compiling a list of things I need to buy concerning sex toys and PE related stuffs
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huge-girth;761139 said:
The FleshLight is the best tool to practice endurance and longevity during real sex. It feels exactly like the real deal and practicing on a FleshLight is much better the practicing on your wife!
doublelongdaddy;761155 said:
I said it elsewhere a long time ago that blasting off a quick unexpected one in the wife is far more fun. It happened to me the other night. I was able to hold off once but the second time she knew I was going to cum.
She had an orgasm at the same time. Then as soon as I caught my breath enough I gave her another before going fully flaccid. No complaints.
I build stamina pretty quick. In just a few days I can go from quickie to marathon man. Guess I'm lucky I can do that.
Forgot to add....
if you're not in a relationship or you're unable to gain stamina from regular sex then go for the Fleshlight. If I had one and used it regularly the consequences to the vagina would be total annihilation.
if you're not in a relationship or you're unable to gain stamina from regular sex then go for the Fleshlight. If I had one and used it regularly the consequences to the vagina would be total annihilation.
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cladre60;761200 said:
I have always tried to say just this but it never comes out right
It is better to mess up on a FleshLight than a pussy huge-girth;761251 said:
I'm kind of jealous
doublelongdaddy;761303 said:I have always tried to say just this but it never comes out right
I fully agree that there are sex toys we can use as tools. I've done it before. I've also had stone embarrassing moments finishing too quick with a woman. However I'll always rate toys #2 over a partner that's happy and willing to work on stamina with you. You can have amazing intimacy with another person while working on stamina. If your partner isn't willing to work with you they might not be the right partner.
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cladre60;761345 said:I'm kind of jealous
I fully agree that there are sex toys we can use as tools. I've done it before. I've also had stone embarrassing moments finishing too quick with a woman. However I'll always rate toys #2 over a partner that's happy and willing to work on stamina with you. You can have amazing intimacy with another person while working on stamina. If your partner isn't willing to work with you they might not be the right partner.
If the wife is willing to help in the longevity of your endurance then by all means bring her into the mix.
doublelongdaddy;761495 said:
Some women view their man having things like a Fleshlight in a "you'd rather have that than me" way. It's a delicate thing when you're with someone. If you're using it instead of having sex with her there's a bigger issue than stamina.
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cladre60;761555 said:
Yes I get your point. Using something that looks like a vaginal when you are in a relationship should be tagged as a form of cheating. I'd be angry if I am the lady.
huge-girth;761588 said:
I think there's a place for it in a relationship. Your woman is sick but still wants you to be satisfied, she's out of town and wants you to be satisfied, or she simply wants to play with you. It's all fine and dandy when you play with her with a vibrator so it should be okay for her stroke you with a Fleshlight.
At least that's how women SHOULD think. Man's need for ejaculation is a physical and primal need. Women don't understand that.
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huge-girth;761588 said:
But do you think that girls give up on their vibrator once they are in a relationship? I really doubt it, especially since some girls have trouble coming from sex.
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cladre60;761660 said:
Well, after a second thought I realize you have a point. If the lady is in support of it, then it's a welcome development
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Chaoskampf;761666 said:
Even with a monstrous penis most ladies still have trouble from coming from sex?
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huge-girth;761681 said:
This question can only be answered by yourself.
I don't have much experience with girls but I got open ears for all these topics. Since many girls only come from stimulation of the clitoris it is a little bit tricky regardless of how large the penis is. I have heard that many women are not in touch with their sexuality since they didn't invest enough attention in order to learn about their own body. For some reason sexuality is in their talking or channeled through other means. Listen to them when they are alone - they talk sex all the time but don't act it out for some reason.
Ladies need a good lover. A tough guy, someone with status, a good talker or a charismatic man or you name it. If the man represents something it should be helpful for her to come hard.
Obviously not every girl is like that. I never really licked a pussy. I wouldn't know how to do it right. It is very important if one would want to pleasure girls. See how girls stroke a cock? They stand on the opposite side and her hand grabs the penis with the little finger pointing to the tip of the penis. Nobody would masturbate like this. As a result everything is not the same. They also have little idea on how to stroke. I guess that would have to be learned. I would describe masturbation as kneading the shaft, they think about it like stroking up and down.
Huge and Chaos I'll give you my experiences with women.
Some women can orgasm from penetration and some cannot or it is very difficult for them. It all depends on her and they're all different. The clitoris isn't a little thing, the nerves run along the top wall of the vagina and a little ways back it splits, the whole thing is a Y shape. Depending on the tilt of her pelvis and the shape of your penis your head could be rubbing along that with every stroke. Being able to get your penis all the way in can also help as when you're grinding on each other your pubic area is rubbing her clitoris. Again you're penetrating but her clitoris may be the thing gives her an orgasm. So the clitoris can be simulated during penetration.
Personally I've been lucky in that the only women who haven't had orgasms with me also told me they never had an orgasm. Didn't matter what I did to them it just wasn't happening. That was all in their heads and I can't fix that.
Penis size can help during sex. Thicker creates more pressure and simulates more nerves, some of which are the clitoral nerves running along the upper wall. Length can help as well for hitting the anterior and/or posterior fornix. Paying attention and giving her what she wants when she wants it is the most important. Do what feels good to your penis to get things rolling. Our parts are meant to be together so what feels good to one feels good to the other. Follow her reactions to get her screaming.
Eating pussy is beyond fun if she tastes and smells good. You can and should focus on the clitoris. That doesn't mean just use the tip of your tongue and hope for the best. Start licking everywhere to make sure she's getting wet and aroused. Then attack the clitoris. Use the tip of your tongue. Then give it broad, flat licks and add more pressure. Suck on it. Pull your tongue back in and use your lips. Don't ignore the rest of her though. You can do all these things on the rest of her pussy too. The right amount of direct clitoral simulation combined with some anticipation and working the rest of her, if you're doing it right, will have her going nuts.
They're all different though. I've had some women just lay there and their breathing and moaning guided me. Others will grab your head and hold it where they want it. Some will lock their legs around your head so you have to lick their clit. Others will use their hands to spread open and fully expose their clitoris. I prefer working them up slowly and keeping them on the edge. Keep her there long enough and the inner animal will unleash. Then you'll see how wild she can be in bed.
Some women can orgasm from penetration and some cannot or it is very difficult for them. It all depends on her and they're all different. The clitoris isn't a little thing, the nerves run along the top wall of the vagina and a little ways back it splits, the whole thing is a Y shape. Depending on the tilt of her pelvis and the shape of your penis your head could be rubbing along that with every stroke. Being able to get your penis all the way in can also help as when you're grinding on each other your pubic area is rubbing her clitoris. Again you're penetrating but her clitoris may be the thing gives her an orgasm. So the clitoris can be simulated during penetration.
Personally I've been lucky in that the only women who haven't had orgasms with me also told me they never had an orgasm. Didn't matter what I did to them it just wasn't happening. That was all in their heads and I can't fix that.
Penis size can help during sex. Thicker creates more pressure and simulates more nerves, some of which are the clitoral nerves running along the upper wall. Length can help as well for hitting the anterior and/or posterior fornix. Paying attention and giving her what she wants when she wants it is the most important. Do what feels good to your penis to get things rolling. Our parts are meant to be together so what feels good to one feels good to the other. Follow her reactions to get her screaming.
Eating pussy is beyond fun if she tastes and smells good. You can and should focus on the clitoris. That doesn't mean just use the tip of your tongue and hope for the best. Start licking everywhere to make sure she's getting wet and aroused. Then attack the clitoris. Use the tip of your tongue. Then give it broad, flat licks and add more pressure. Suck on it. Pull your tongue back in and use your lips. Don't ignore the rest of her though. You can do all these things on the rest of her pussy too. The right amount of direct clitoral simulation combined with some anticipation and working the rest of her, if you're doing it right, will have her going nuts.
They're all different though. I've had some women just lay there and their breathing and moaning guided me. Others will grab your head and hold it where they want it. Some will lock their legs around your head so you have to lick their clit. Others will use their hands to spread open and fully expose their clitoris. I prefer working them up slowly and keeping them on the edge. Keep her there long enough and the inner animal will unleash. Then you'll see how wild she can be in bed.
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