Closing the deal.... :(

Alright not sure if this is the right place to post and haven't had much time to check on here but heres the deal...

I been seeing this girl lately and things have gotten intimate now the problem w/ me is I can't finish up. I have but it can take an hour to hours at times. The problem with her is: I'm not monster huge but on the larger side I have gotten a lil bigger but attribute that to leaning down. I'm currently around 8.25-8.5 depending and just a tad under 6 in girth she can only take about 20mins then she starts to get really sore. Do you guys know of anything that would help me finish? Shes starting to feel like she is'nt good enough when I know thats not the problem?

WAAAAAH! my penis is too big! WAAAAAAAH!!!

WAAAAAAH! I can have sex for hours and not cum! WAAAAAAAAAAH!

Not a valid post. A woman can take what every you give her. The vagina is a marvelous thing and can stretch. Getting sore is a problem of lubricant. Quit the trying to do with without and get some astroglide. GS

Damn dude her pussy is broken, you need to get her more aroused, or both.

Your problem is very real, and is not so much a matter of your size. It appears she can take your size, but she probably reaches a vaginal orgasm which will lead to oversensitivity and temporary dryness. Most girls are completely satisfied at this point, and continue on, only to please their partner, which it looks like she is trying to do. Her mind is now switched off of the pleasure button, and continuing to pump her will only be for you, and yes it will make her sore.

There are two options.

1) Stop thrusting, and move into other actions, like kissing her whole body, oral or other things which get her arroused in foreplay. You have to get her to want it again, and to do this you have to step back and focus on her again.

2) Work your self into cumming. Lube up, focus your mind 100% on your penis and your orgasm, increase your breathing, and most importantly start squeezing (pumping) your pc muscles. This will drive you to a very powerful orgasm and both of you will be satisfied that you satisfied the other as well as your self.

Good Luck!!

You can go for hours having sex. Yea sure throw it in our faces and rub it in!:s Yea but really focus on sexual thought and turn yourself on more in your mind and that should help. Of course we'd love to have your problem.

I'm not trying to be arrogant thats not me and never has. I'm not try to get into some foolish internet argument here. I'm not trying to say I'm big because theres always gonna be someone out there bigger and better. I'm new to this stuff and just came for help with this problem. I just looked in to the delayed ejactulation problem and think thats what I might have. I'm just way to embrassed to get actual help on it, but thanks for useful info guys

brisland said:

I'm not trying to be arrogant thats not me and never has. I'm not try to get into some foolish internet argument here. I'm not trying to say I'm big because theres always gonna be someone out there bigger and better. I'm new to this stuff and just came for help with this problem. I just looked in to the delayed ejactulation problem and think thats what I might have. I'm just way to embrassed to get actual help on it, but thanks for useful info guys

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lol

Don't worry, we're just joking (at least I am)

As for your actual problem.. can't give ya much help on that.. sorry brotha

no problem man

Definitely spend a little money on some lubricant. But it is to do with how wet she is... Maybe more foreplay is required?