I edge to where I feel like have to cum, then I put the bm on with warm water and pump to full pressure. I leave it on for 20-22 min (start with less time unless you want a purple weener) Then I do a warm down with jelqing and gently erect bends. Then usually half an hour to 2 hours later I have sex.
the best bathmate routine is DLDs bathmate girth blasters, where you pump for roughly 5 minutes then do SSJs for 5 minutes and repeat 3 times so 5x5x3. try this mate it put the some in awesome lol
My problem is I can't use it erect as I use it in the gym shower. I have an air pump at home I use for erect pumping. I alternate Bathmate fours days week and air pump 3days week.
I also air clamp 4days week and wet jelq every day for 20-30minutes at 50% erection
ok mate i do bathmate stretches and they are intense and feel great so maybe you could try them.
i pump up to full pressure then stretch in each direction for 30 seconds then i do rotarys 10 cranks clock wise, 10 cranks anti clock wise then i repeat this which takes between 6 - 7 minutes all together then i realease pressure n take off my bathmate n rest for 5 minutes then go threw the process again, i usually do 3 sets of this and its really good mate give it a go.
this is the stretches i do:
left - 30 secs
straight out - 30 secs
right - 30 secs
up - 30 secs
down - 30 seconds
20 rotaries - 10 CW, 10 ACW
x2 = 1 set
also a little tip as your stretching the bathmate with one hand, use your other hand to hold the bottom of the gator tight to your body so you dont lose suction.