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gayron36;606708 said:
so i know you are usually a top...to me this means you are the one doing the fucking. now what about when it comes to oral sex in your relationships? do you give also?
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gayron36;606752 said:
are you as turned off if you think about licking pussy as i am thinking about sucking cock?
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Interesting thread, as a gay man myself it would be good to compare and contrast experiences. I'd like to expand on a question asked earlier, about roles "who is the man and who is the woman?" gayron36 is welcome to disagree with me here but...
I would characterise the gay world as having no set stereotype for its relationship types. With straight guys, its expected that you find a woman, you have a baby or many together, you settle down, you get married, grow old together. The gay world has no typical "way things are done" as such, so you get a huge variety of all different types of relationship models. For example, most guys in their teens, twenties and even early thirties have an interest in more than one partner. There are exceptions, where they might meet the love of their life, but on the whole, a guy just wants to have some fun in his youth. Straight guys are restricted though - they have to fight their stereotype and pretend that "oh yes babe, your the only one" just to get what he wants. Gay guys don't have that restriction and are free to find others that like to do what they want to do.
I myself am a dom top - I get into that kinky bdsm shit. I wouldn't want a lovey-lovey relationship - and there are guys out there for me just like everyone else though
I would characterise the gay world as having no set stereotype for its relationship types. With straight guys, its expected that you find a woman, you have a baby or many together, you settle down, you get married, grow old together. The gay world has no typical "way things are done" as such, so you get a huge variety of all different types of relationship models. For example, most guys in their teens, twenties and even early thirties have an interest in more than one partner. There are exceptions, where they might meet the love of their life, but on the whole, a guy just wants to have some fun in his youth. Straight guys are restricted though - they have to fight their stereotype and pretend that "oh yes babe, your the only one" just to get what he wants. Gay guys don't have that restriction and are free to find others that like to do what they want to do.
I myself am a dom top - I get into that kinky bdsm shit. I wouldn't want a lovey-lovey relationship - and there are guys out there for me just like everyone else though
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Me and my lady used to hang out in gay/drag clubs frequently for good electronic dance music scenes. She had the time of her life because there was no pressure with guys constantly hitting on her when I walked away and gay men knew right away I was not gay. She could dance with guys all night and not worry (I don't dance). We use to go to allot of drag shows and they were quite entertaining and drags are really talented with makeup, hair, style and performances. Back in the days I used to manage a really well known drag recording artist and he was one of the most coolest down to earth people I've ever met.
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Satyr;605673 said:
Great question Satyr, this is a very relevant question to these forums that I haven't seen answered yet.
Gayron, as a gay man, do you worry about penis size? Do you run into men with bigger penises than you and feel inferior if they are the submissive type and you are suppose to be the dominate one? It would seem like if a man ran into a women that had a bigger clit than his penis he would feel inferior.
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LIGHTNING;618023 said:
i would feel so grossed out!!!!! at that point you don't call it a clit...it's a penis lol
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LIGHTNING;618022 said:
yea any woman i have ever known who went to a gay club or drag shows LOVED it b/c they just got to have fun. and not only do they not have to worry about being hit on by guys, they also don;t have to think about other girls being jealous or bitchy for whatever the reason. I've been to drag shows. they are fun. as a guy you have to be comfortable with your sexuality b/c you are going to get hit on and flirted with even if they know you arent gay. ass will probably get grabbed. this doesnt happen all the time but be prepared. also wont happen if you are ugly. if you are ugly I'm sorry
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doublelongdaddy;618068 said:I appreciate your apologies
hahahahahaha that made me laugh for real
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