Would You Share PE with Your Son?

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Hey everybody,

My boy is 11, soon to turn 12. Genes being what they are, I'm guessing he'll end up with what I started with--a penis slightly longer than average, but somewhat less wide than I would want.

My question is, would you ever consider having a father-to-son chat with your boy about Penis Enlargement? If so, at what age? I'm thinking that it might be better for him to begin early, maybe a few years into puberty, like 14-16. I know I wish I had found out about Penis Enlargement much sooner than I did.

The lines of communication are fairly open between us, but I can hardly imagine going over the subject with him. On the other hand, I feel almost a sense of duty here . . . . Of course, if I ever did let him in on it, I would stress using EXTREME CAUTION when it comes to the exercises?

What do you all think?

Thanks,

MoWidth
 
Hey I've thought of this exact same thing that in the future if I had a son that I would probably inform it to him but not give him details... just let him find out teh details on his own.
 
A delicate subject, for sure. I would probably only share it with him if he can to me with the issue. I don't think I would approach him with it. Don't give him a complex if he doesn't have one. If you see that he is truly concerned about it and it's not a passing (developmental) thing, then maybe it would make sense to
somehow present it to him. But I would wait until he is older. He has plenty of time to practice P.E. No rush!!

That's my take on it.
 
I know when I was about 8 yrs old I became obsessed with making my unit bigger. I started at that time to tie a nylon rope to my penis and to my knee while I slept, somletimes I wore it to school as well. I am very fortunate I never suffered any nerve damage but I beleive that got me to just about 8" before I started Penis Enlargement.
I would be inclined to maybe leave some Penis Enlargement literature lying around in a place where he would find it and read it. If he is keen on it maybe he would aproach me on it, if not at least he would be educated on it.
 
Would I tell my son about Penis Enlargement? In a word: abso-fucking-lutely!

Either I would "accidentally" leave some literature lying around for my son to find, or I'd talk with him directly about it. It would really depend on what kind of relationship I had with him. Either way, though, I'd definitely make him aware of it in some way or other- especially if he were anything less than average in size. To have the knowledge and not do so would be downright irresponsible, in my view. All that being said, I wouldn't tell him about it before he hit full bloom puberty. DHT (testosterone) is responsible for penile growth and production of that hormone peaks around the late teens (18-21). Full natural growth is generally reached earlier, by 16-18. So 14-15 would be the absolute minimum age of Penis Enlargement initiation for my son. 16 or even as late as 17 would be preferrable. Size complexes generally develop a little later than that, so starting at that age range would do just fine. That's my take, anyway. And I will definitely practice what I preach once I have a son to teach.

BTW, that last line would make Shakespeare proud. ;):cool:
 
My Son, Armando, knows about my entire collection of work. As a matter of fact, he has helped me with much of ALPHA+BLADE, as he has a superior grasp of mathematics and physics. I told him he should not practice any of the exercises for the penis until he reaches a mature, sexual age but again, I leave that up to him.
 
Kinda off topic I know but what about sharing Penis Enlargement with friends? Seems like a real closeted subject but I know of some friends that could benefit from it; i.e. a buddy who is my age (early-mid twenties) who is considering Viagra. There is no way anyone that young should have to pop a pill to get it up, even basic kegals would help. Anyone care to share their "coming out"/introducing Penis Enlargement to a friend stories?
 
AlbertaBeef said:
I know when I was about 8 yrs old I became obsessed with making my unit bigger. I started at that time to tie a nylon rope to my penis and to my knee while I slept, somletimes I wore it to school as well.
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Holy shit dood, are you for real??
 
This subject has been discussed on other forums and this forum before and I have thought a lot about it. What would I want. First, I am confident that I would have told my boys about Penis Enlargement when they were younger if I had known. Second, I think a father and son should talk about these things. It isn't taboo and it isn't wrong. So, why not. I believe that at around 14 or so would be a good age and just sitting down and bringing up the subject and telling them. I don't think there is any issue involved, because it is a common issue with most boys/men. So, however you feel it is okay, but if I had known what I know now and someone would have given advice and counsel I would have been grateful. I think that just a some jelqs and stretches would have made a "big" difference. GS
 
I would say go for it(what a sensitive subject) You brought him in to this world and in a sense "you could take him out" If talking to him is to uncomfortable, make some kind of manual that gives specific instructions of which are the best excersices to do. Putting to much pressure on him will make him want to distance him self more from you, thinking, well then he's going to want to see it and constantly know how my progress is going. OR you can be that much more upfront with him, like this is how it is son!
OR if you are not as firm with him about it, he might not have the motivation to do it as much, as he shouldn't, and being at his age, he should be enjoying him self playing at friends houses and not spending his hours in his room pulling on his dick..... but, one must do what one must do, IF I have a kid, for sure he will learn the ways of penile heath nice and early. As for me, I have a similar and even more sensitive issue, relating to my father who's in his 60's and his "piece" doesn't seem to be working like it used to,(not like I have asked to see it, or anything) but am sure this is affecting him like it would any man, so this is where my conflict occures! How does a 24 year old start a conversation with his dad who's 3x's his age about his penis???? / or should I mind my own business and let him be as is. I have tryed to drop hints, and although he had never straight out said it, he and my whole family have noticed and observed the life still that I have embrassed of Penis Enlargement. How or should I mention to him or sit down with him and tell him, how fucking unreal would that be:idea: SO, I could imagine how a father would feel pressing this issue on this kid, but being a father ( I am not, but perhaps in the future) I think I could understand your piont of view, although I think being in a higher place, physically an all, that he might take it just as an other lession and learning experience. Thanks, Any thoughts on my issue??
 
sweets said:
I would say go for it(what a sensitive subject) You brought him in to this world and in a sense "you could take him out" If talking to him is to uncomfortable, make some kind of manual that gives specific instructions of which are the best excersices to do. Putting to much pressure on him will make him want to distance him self more from you, thinking, well then he's going to want to see it and constantly know how my progress is going. OR you can be that much more upfront with him, like this is how it is son!
OR if you are not as firm with him about it, he might not have the motivation to do it as much, as he shouldn't, and being at his age, he should be enjoying him self playing at friends houses and not spending his hours in his room pulling on his dick..... but, one must do what one must do, IF I have a kid, for sure he will learn the ways of penile heath nice and early. As for me, I have a similar and even more sensitive issue, relating to my father who's in his 60's and his "piece" doesn't seem to be working like it used to,(not like I have asked to see it, or anything) but am sure this is affecting him like it would any man, so this is where my conflict occures! How does a 24 year old start a conversation with his dad who's 3x's his age about his penis???? / or should I mind my own business and let him be as is. I have tryed to drop hints, and although he had never straight out said it, he and my whole family have noticed and observed the life still that I have embrassed of Penis Enlargement. How or should I mention to him or sit down with him and tell him, how fucking unreal would that be:idea: SO, I could imagine how a father would feel pressing this issue on this kid, but being a father ( I am not, but perhaps in the future) I think I could understand your piont of view, although I think being in a higher place, physically an all, that he might take it just as an other lession and learning experience. Thanks, Any thoughts on my issue??
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Well, you could and should talk to him. I have had serious "problems" in the past with my penis and no one talked to me about it. Wish they had. I had to learn the hard way....by myself. I know many older men who become sexually inactive because they don't know what to do and won't ask. I have stepped out of my comfort zone often to talk to younger men as well as my sibling brothers to give them an open door. Often I see men, who rather than talk about it, withdraw and become recluse. They are the losers. Men who get Peyronies PISS AND MOAN but won't do anything, and everyone loses instead of doing something to help themselves.

How to help your father....sit down with him and tell him to call me, I am his age and older. I can and will help if he wants help. Often, in my experience, it is really a subject of Penis EnlargementNILE HEALTH that needs to be addressed. WE just get out of shape as we get older and some good Penis Enlargement exercises often are all we need. GS
 
I know I wouldn't of minded my dad teaching me a thing or two, get the ball rolling. But on another level maybe it would of giving me a complex or made me feel weird so i guess it probably depends on the son and the father and there relationship they have.

GS I know I could of used some advice early on from my father with my whole foreskin situation but it is coming along nicely anyway thanks again for the help.


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Take it from a son... don't do it. I would be so freaked out if my dad said anything about this to me. If he thinks he needs it I'm pretty sure he'll look for it himself. It's not hard to find, and this site would most likely show up in a search for that kind of information.
 
Schlongsaber said:
Kinda off topic I know but what about sharing Penis Enlargement with friends? Seems like a real closeted subject but I know of some friends that could benefit from it; i.e. a buddy who is my age (early-mid twenties) who is considering Viagra. There is no way anyone that young should have to pop a pill to get it up, even basic kegals would help. Anyone care to share their "coming out"/introducing Penis Enlargement to a friend stories?
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I did that and they tease me about it :s
 
Yeah swolejah, I told a few of my friends and they tease me too. Every time those Dr Sholl's gellin' commercials come on they start laughing because It's similar to when I ask them if they've been jelqing. I told them that it works, but none of them have been dedicated enough to stick with it. Their loss I suppose.
 
:P Ah crap... luckily, I haven't managed to slip it to any of my friends, but the girlfriend knows :O .

I told it to her directly, but later regretted it... it's not that she acts strange around me or anything for it, but I'm sure it lowers her perspective of my confidence somewhat, and also I can't just claim that it happened naturally lol or not even touch the topic of why it grew.

Ah well, she still loves me rofl ... she will be very happy later on regardless of the way I got there...
 
quite funny actually, went to the cinema last night with a girl i used to date (long story), and she mentioned "the perfect penis" which came on tv. so i decided to tell her that i also did pe but missed the show. she just kept asking me why! why would i want to make my penis bigger? its not small! i just said to her that it was something i wanted to do - to rid myself of any self-conciousness. so im sure she thinks im a bit wierd now, lol.
back to topic - i think i would tell my son, maybe say to him - go to this site...... i mean this information can help anybody and everybody (male ;)) so why not.
ive also told my friends about pe, but they just dont seem interested. they dont make fun or anything. im guessing it comes down to what drives you to do pe. if hate the size of your penis, then your gonna try really hard to make it bigger. but if you are quite happy being average then there is nothing to drive you....
 
chuckyjesus said:
:P Ah crap... luckily, I haven't managed to slip it to any of my friends, but the girlfriend knows :O .

I told it to her directly, but later regretted it... it's not that she acts strange around me or anything for it, but I'm sure it lowers her perspective of my confidence somewhat, and also I can't just claim that it happened naturally lol or not even touch the topic of why it grew.

Ah well, she still loves me rofl ... she will be very happy later on regardless of the way I got there...
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Well said, damn right
 
I suspect that this is much like any other part of a parent providing sex information to a child. The child can either get inaccurate or possibly dangerous information "off the street", from friends or from the Internet, or they can get accurate and reputable information from a parent.

If I had a son, I would rather tell him about Penis Enlargement as part of the full spectrum of information that he needs to know as a man. I think the angle of sexual health is a good one: "Son, this is a part of your body that needs care and maintenance to stay healthy, just like any other part of your body." No need to mention the enlargement aspect; send him to the right sources and he'll figure that one out on his own.
 
Well if my dad would have pointed me to this site 1-2 eyars ago I'd be FREAKED OUT completely.

At this age ( 16-17 ), I guess about every guy think their tool is too small, so here comes dad who's telling you to go somewhere like [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]mos[/words], you just got your confirmation that you ARE small.

As some member previously mentionned, if someone really wants to get bigger, he will find what he need pretty easily.
 
AlbertaBeef said:
I know when I was about 8 yrs old I became obsessed with making my unit bigger. I started at that time to tie a nylon rope to my penis and to my knee while I slept, somletimes I wore it to school as well.
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lol And it still works? Guess you know what you're doing.
 
cbarnard said:
Take it from a son... don't do it. I would be so freaked out if my dad said anything about this to me. If he thinks he needs it I'm pretty sure he'll look for it himself. It's not hard to find, and this site would most likely show up in a search for that kind of information.
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Very good point that has been missed here. If you do so, you have to have the right kind of relationship with your son. If he talks and jokes with you about sexual matters, discusses sex drive urges/frustrations and like matters with you, then he's not going to be freaked out about it. However, if the two of you don't have a close relationship....DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT. Penis Enlargement is, at best, advanced level father-son bonding, not entry level father-son bonding.
 
Yeah I would be pretty embarassed if my dad told me about Penis Enlargement and such... I don't think I could do it cuz everytime if I was in the restroom or home alone he would know I'm probably playing with myself.
 
I dunno about this, most of the time like people have said it will really freak them out, i would be freaked if it happened to me. On the other hand alot of people dont start as early as they would of wished and im sure alot could be taken from starting earlier. The problem is you have to really want to do pe for it to work and unless they already want to they may not be dedicated enough to make it work.
 
A lot of people here mentioned they would drop some information where their son could find it, as a way of introduction. This is a good idea as the boy (15+) can then make their own decision based on where they are at in their mind.

It would probably be a great idea if someone could make a small e-book, or one or two page sheet that showed the absolute basics of directional stretching and basic jelq like 200 to do in the shower.

The program could be set out to be done before the boy goes to bed, or when he wakes up for the stretches and the jelqing in the shower. Boys this age find the privacy to masturbate, so it probably would not be hard for them to follow a daily 15 minute routine, that will most likely make a big difference.

Anyone out there skilled in making a basic intro publication that could be passed around for review and then available for the group?

I think I would strategically put this publication in a place where my son would find it.
 
Thanks for all the great replies, everybody. I've still got a lot of thinking to do on this subject and years (thank god) before I have to come to a decision. I like the idea of leaving dome lit around for him to find and letting him make up his own mind, so maybe that's what I'll do when the time comes. Thanks again.

Mo
 
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