The fact is that most women don't know what size is ideal nor do they know what size they would like... I've been a swinger for some time now and have discucssed the whole penis size thing with alot of women/couples and they just don't know. As long as the guy can satisfy her, in most cases she's fine regardless of his size... There are some women who like anal so they specifically prefer a thinner dick, but from what i've gathered... almost all prefer thickness over length.
What size do women want?
Formysweetie said:I think we're forgetting an important aspect to sex, here. When guy has a big dick, and he shows his girlfriend in the right way, at the right time, she will be greatly impressed, and will want to play with it. It becomes her toy, too. By impressing her, she will want to have it more often.
Then if he can just convince her that it's a "magic wand" that is able to please her in all positions, time after time, for as long as she wants it, as deep or as shallow as she could ever want it, touching all the right spots, then she's just as hooked on a big dick as he is, and at the same time she also knows that the likelihood of her ever finding another one like that is slim, and none.
So the trick is to make your big cock a feature. Let her play with it, let her know that all that is hers for the asking, and she will put two and two together, herself. But if her first experience with it is to get it shoved into her pussy very unceremoniously, without an introduction, she may or may not care much for it, after that. It's all in the presentation.
With women, perception is 90% of the battle. It isn't what really IS. It's all what it appears to be! That's what counts. And if she likes your cock right up front, from the first, then you're "in like Flynn," so to speak.[/QUOTE
I couldn't have said it better!!!
Oh ok. That's easy then.sikdogg said:
Somebody needs to give a whole bunch of different length/width dildoes to a bunch of women and draw graphs. That's the easy way to do it.
Whenever women have a dick in them, there's one thing they feel and it ain't length or girth. It's volume, which is a combination of both at the same time. This has been discussed many times before and its importance can never be stressed enough in terms of satisfying the ladies. In another similar thread, I said how I thought the ideal volume was between 21 and 27 cubic inches, with 21-25 ci as the best for every woman out there, since there are a lot of very small, tight pussies which wouldn't be able to handle even 25 ci, let alone a monstrous 27 ci.
21 cubic inches translates into these very large sizes:
Got it, guys? Good!
21 cubic inches translates into these very large sizes:
- 8 3/4" BP by 5 1/2" EG
- 8" BP by 5 3/4" EG
- 7 3/8 by 6" EG
- 6 3/4" BP by 6 1/4" EG.
- 8 3/4" BP by 6" EG
- 8" BP by 6 1/4" EG
- 7 1/2 by 6 1/2" EG
- 8 3/4" BP by 6 1/4" EG
- 8" BP by 6 1/2" EG
- 7 1/2 by 6 3/4" EG
Got it, guys? Good!
oliver said:
Well, I'm right at 7 NBP x 5.5, I know that Tommy's has to be bigger than mine because of the way it sticks out of his shorts in that one video where he's driving. I'd say he's at least 7.5 maybe close to 8 x 5.75 or more. And he has a big glans and pretty even girth, which makes it look bigger. I'm a firm believer that girth makes much more difference than length. Additionally, for most women the bigger the girth the less length a woman can take. I know some women have deep and/or loose vaginas, but I believe that for the average woman 8 x 6 can be too much. Not that it can't be enjoyable with good technique, but they couldn't take it slamming all the way in.
Look at Ramone from Monsters of Cock, he's about 8 x 6 and I've seen very few of the women who could take him slamming them hard. I'm sure that they aren't professional adult entertainment actresses, I suspect some could be escorts etc. Obviously they took the gig knowing they were going to fuck a guy with a big dick. IMHO, if you can get 6" of girth, even 6" NBP length will be plenty for the average woman. 6 - 7 length and 6 girth would be closest to perfect. 8 is huge, I guess it's an ego thing to know that you have more than they can take but I want to be able to slam it hard without causing pain.
Now I have also seen some amateur adult entertainment where some small women took all of a huge dick. I have heard too that some seem to have a more elastic vagina, they can get stretched by a big cock and "snap" back tight.
wesb
oliver said:
Well, I'm right at 7 NBP x 5.5, I know that Tommy's has to be bigger than mine because of the way it sticks out of his shorts in that one video where he's driving. I'd say he's at least 7.5 maybe close to 8 x 5.75 or more. And he has a big glans and pretty even girth, which makes it look bigger. I'm a firm believer that girth makes much more difference than length. Additionally, for most women the bigger the girth the less length a woman can take. I know some women have deep and/or loose vaginas, but I believe that for the average woman 8 x 6 can be too much. Not that it can't be enjoyable with good technique, but they couldn't take it slamming all the way in.
Look at Ramone from Monsters of Cock, he's about 8 x 6 and I've seen very few of the women who could take him slamming them hard. I'm sure that they aren't professional adult entertainment actresses, I suspect some could be escorts etc. Obviously they took the gig knowing they were going to fuck a guy with a big dick. IMHO, if you can get 6" of girth, even 6" NBP length will be plenty for the average woman. 6 - 7 length and 6 girth would be closest to perfect. 8 is huge, I guess it's an ego thing to know that you have more than they can take but I want to be able to slam it hard without causing pain.
Now I have also seen some amateur adult entertainment where some small women took all of a huge dick. I have heard too that some seem to have a more elastic vagina, they can get stretched by a big cock and "snap" back tight.
wesb
In my experiences this is what I've found. It's all about girth. That is what all the girls I have ever talked to say. I'm only 6.5 length and 4.5 girth and all the girls I've been with have been satisfied. So I'm not sure length is to important. That is why girth is my main focus.
penguinsfan said:
I like that statement.
I'll add my little testimonial about girth. Most women I've been with prefer large girth to miles of length. Part of the reason for this is "cervix boxing," as some women like to call it. One old gf would only let me go in about 2/3 of the way in. "What do you think you're hittin', a kidney?" Another one said it felt like I was punching her in the stomach. SHE had a lot of experience. We were having the "How many partners" discussion, and her answer was, "Well, I'm pretty sure it's under a hundred. About 75 or 80." She had also had 3 kids(no C-sections), and she said that my 6.5" of girth was a lot for her. She said she had seen one longer, though much skinnier, dick than mine. Another slut(I seemed to attract them back then) told me I was the biggest and the best. At that time, her count was about 30 guys or so.
My technique also plays a part, because let's face it, a selfish 2-pump chump gets the same results whether 5 inches or 8 inches. Most girls have told me I spend at least twice as long, usually more, on foreplay as anyone they had been with. It helps that I love to eat pussyrofl . In the end I think decent girth and good technique win the night.
My technique also plays a part, because let's face it, a selfish 2-pump chump gets the same results whether 5 inches or 8 inches. Most girls have told me I spend at least twice as long, usually more, on foreplay as anyone they had been with. It helps that I love to eat pussyrofl . In the end I think decent girth and good technique win the night.
Oh yeah, the first third or so of a woman's vagina is the most sensetive, anyway, so as long as you can get that going you should be good. I also thought Tommy Lee was bigger than that. It looks like he's long as hell.
From a size queen who refuses to go out with smaller guys and only looks for larger guys on AFF and ALT
8x5.5 feels damn good
9-10X6/6.5 IS Penis EnlargementRFECT
this is from a hardcore size queen rofl
she said nemore girth is not fun and length too
fvck that I still wanna reach 13X 9 or 8 lol
8x5.5 feels damn good
9-10X6/6.5 IS Penis EnlargementRFECT
this is from a hardcore size queen rofl
she said nemore girth is not fun and length too
fvck that I still wanna reach 13X 9 or 8 lol
She cant find her hole...wow...hey ill tell you what give me her number and ill be sure when you get her back shell have a hole. j/k wow she must be tight.
8 Inches can be too long for some women and that same 8 inches can be fine with some women. 9.5 inches is what I think is too long for women. For girth, 6.5 inches can be too thick for many women. My goal still stands at 9 x 7 inches.
My last measurement was 8.25 x 6.