Hi ever time I have sex as soon as I start after a few seconds I feel I need to cum and I have to keep pulling it out and putting it back in and repeating it.

Can someone help me or maybe give me a good routine please.

I done kegels but only done them for a week or 2,
I have done edging didn't really help me.
 
So I found that doing something I call Stabilizing really helps me. I basically masturbate for 20-40 minutes and focus on keeping a 100% erection while staying at 50% arousal. Kegals, Reverse Kegals and Edging help, but Stabilizing really helped me.

Also I find if I ejaculate too often (say, 1-2 times a day) or even 6-12 hours before sex, it really makes my dick hypersensitive. Stabilizing + moderating ejaculation does the trick for me. I'd love to know if it works for you too, or anyone for that matter.

Another trick I discovered while Stabilizing is really relaxing your lower abdomen. I noticed that I was unconsciously tightening my lower abdomen when I was stimulated. Just relaxing everything below my bellybutton really helps me.
 
homelesswombat;332591 said:
So I found that doing something I call Stabilizing really helps me. I basically masturbate for 20-40 minutes and focus on keeping a 100% erection while staying at 50% arousal. Kegals, Reverse Kegals and Edging help, but Stabilizing really helped me.

Also I find if I ejaculate too often (say, 1-2 times a day) or even 6-12 hours before sex, it really makes my dick hypersensitive. Stabilizing + moderating ejaculation does the trick for me. I'd love to know if it works for you too, or anyone for that matter.

Another trick I discovered while Stabilizing is really relaxing your lower abdomen. I noticed that I was unconsciously tightening my lower abdomen when I was stimulated. Just relaxing everything below my bellybutton really helps me.

The lower abdomen? I ' ll try that :) .:homelesswombat:. : How many times per week you do the "Edging and Stabilizing " ?
 
Do what I do when that happens...

Just come and then kiss her all over and go down on her till you're ready to do it again. Even when I was just normal sized, the one thing that seemed to really impress girls was the fact that I never just shot my wad and rolled over to go to sleep. I'd always touch them and kiss them and hold them afterwards. Besides, girls love head as much as guys do.
 
antlovesteph;332577 said:
Hi ever time I have sex as soon as I start after a few seconds I feel I need to cum and I have to keep pulling it out and putting it back in and repeating it.

Can someone help me or maybe give me a good routine please.

I done kegels but only done them for a week or 2,
I have done edging didn't really help me.

Here is a post from my site:

Pre-Mature Ejaculation



Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. In the mean time here are some great techniques. Some are my own techniques, others I found around the web.

Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
 
I tryed the reverse Kegel I cumed a tiny bit but after I orgasamed i felt that I still wanted to carry on but I lost my erection.

How can I keep my erection after I orgasam but use the reverse Kegel to stop cuming.
 
antlovesteph;332764 said:
I tryed the reverse Kegel I cumed a tiny bit but after I orgasamed i felt that I still wanted to carry on but I lost my erection.

How can I keep my erection after I orgasam but use the reverse Kegel to stop cuming.


As much as it is physical it is mental. Tons and tons of practice and making that mind-body connection will get you into this position.
 
I seem to be better in masterbating but when it comes to intercourse I seem to put it in for 10 seconds then I have take it out and that keeps happening why is this and how can I improve this?
 
antlovesteph;333030 said:
I seem to be better in masterbating but when it comes to intercourse I seem to put it in for 10 seconds then I have take it out and that keeps happening why is this and how can I improve this?

This happened to me during a brief point in my life, probably about 5-10 times with the same girl. We just kept at it and eventually subsided. It really is all in your head.

Try having a beer or two before you have sex next time.
 
Dude i really now how it feels, my Penis Enlargement cost ended up costing me a three year long relationship, just didn't deal with it and things went south. Really puts your self-esteem down the drain. I bought a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] "training device" and have been working with that, same exercises as with masturbating just with this thing instead. There is a huge differences between using this and flying completely solo, close your eyes and its not far from the real deal. Im in a new realationship now and things are alot better, not perfekt just alot better, for me the trick is to get past the first 5 min then its kinda alright. For me pulling out and tapping the head, or running over the palm of my hand kinda fast really calms "little-me" down, finger her during and she really wont mind!!!
This takes time, expect tw- three months this is was the sex therapist told me about the masturbation exercises
The thing is that the exertion is parasympatic (calm down, relax) and the ejaculation is sympaticly (fight/fligh, nervus = adrenalin) released the trick is to relax. Have read some articles in major medical papers that yoga has a really good effect on Penis Enlargement, I now go 2 times a week!
If you want more tips feel free to contact me mate!
 
parafter;333047 said:
Quick reply to alpha effusion:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7657092.stm

can always blame it on the genes ha ha na im with you alpha, or mind can play tricks on us!

haha! They are saying there is a fat gene too. I am sure soon they will have a "lazy" gene as well so people can put their blame somewhere else. It is really just the nerves.

And another way to cure premature ejaculation is to simply jack off 15-30 minutes beforehand. Works every time.
 
Alpha Effusion;333054 said:
haha! They are saying there is a fat gene too. I am sure soon they will have a "lazy" gene as well so people can put their blame somewhere else. It is really just the nerves.

I hope so that way my laziness could have a face.
 
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