I went to a uk women's site with size discussion linked by somebody here. There was a feeding frenzy and bandwagonning effect which had some of them one-upping and boasting. They didn't know the diff between g-spot and vaginal barrel orgasm. Nobody talked about motion, spots, and lots of other things. Some of them were really trying to be objective, but others trying to stick to an idealogy such as "it doesn't matter". Another bad idealogy is taking up a challenge and becoming confrontational with size and acting out against the sizeable object, perhaps by using quantity against quality/size, meanwhile hey there's a person behind the size object. One who consistently preferred size catches a whim and says,"I really don't like to feel something all the way up in my stomach", but how long did that last. Then there is liking to look but not work with size, typical vicarious, voyeuristic, armchair lifestyle. Walk softly, and carry a big dick. You can always put your leg or a pillow or her butt lobes to keep some dick out, if you have more than you can use.