I feel hopeless about my penis and its size

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I'm 22 and I have severe penis anxiety about my penis size this is hard to talk about but when I so happen to look at adult entertainment or see pictures of regular people with a penis bigger than mine I can't help but feel depressed and wondering what wrong with my penis why didn't it grow anymore. I would say I'm 6 inches bp I try to jelqing and stretch then I feel like it's not working then I give up and start back up I'm going on two years doing this I dont want to bring in the new year still going through this mess.
 
It sounds to me that you are about average size. You have to change the way you think! If you are unhappy with your penis size do something about it. I would suggest that you get on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and stick with it. You will make gains, it has been proven but you have to be consistent.
 
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Granted we all go through feelings of inadequacy but keepingitbig: posts like that don't help the OP's ego when you've got 3 inches on him.

tef1 is completely right. For starters you're average if not a little bit above, which puts you on at least a level playing field as everyone else.
But here's what puts you on a new level to those guys: YOU KNOW ABOUT Penis Enlargement!
Imagine your gains had you been consistent since November last year when you joined!
You've been here long enough to know that gains don't always come quickly, Penis Enlargement is something you have to WORK at. Yes it's not always easy but the fact is it's real and you could have had 1 inch+ had you been consistent.

Just start now and keep at it!
Good luck.
 
So true!
The only thing we can count on is time moving forward...we can either Penis Enlargement or not .In one year from time will have passed again .If you keep up your Penis Enlargement you will have gained and be one year older .
If you don t Penis Enlargement you won't gain but you will still be a year older !
aidan784;409068 said:
Granted we all go through feelings of inadequacy but keepingitbig: posts like that don't help the OP's ego when you've got 3 inches on him.

tef1 is completely right. For starters you're average if not a little bit above, which puts you on at least a level playing field as everyone else.
But here's what puts you on a new level to those guys: YOU KNOW ABOUT Penis Enlargement!
Imagine your gains had you been consistent since November last year when you joined!
You've been here long enough to know that gains don't always come quickly, Penis Enlargement is something you have to WORK at. Yes it's not always easy but the fact is it's real and you could have had 1 inch+ had you been consistent.

Just start now and keep at it!
Good luck.
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College;409042 said:
when I so happen to look at adult entertainment or see pictures of regular people with a penis bigger than mine I can't help but feel depressed
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That is your problem right there. You have to realize that people in adult entertainment are not "regular people". And I could write for an hour on the differences but you can find that elsewhere on this forum(reposting is rude). If you can't realize that difference, then do NOT watch adult entertainment.

And about that whole thing regarding you feel like Penis Enlargement is not working. Bullshit. If you have been doing the same thing for 2 years and haven't seen any improvement. Change it up.

I have read numerous surveys putting you in the "above average" category. Maybe you should read a bunch of those instead...
 
so start practise...don't be depressed ...streching....dld [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]...jerk off before and then do strong streches...buy [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] wear it for 8 hours and after that come and tell me if u have average dick..p.s your dick is average.
 
Either Penis Enlargement or don't Penis Enlargement. Your choice.
But sniveling about your angst on this forum won't change one fuckin' thing, one way or the other.

If what yer doin' ain't workin'; get workin' on what yer doin'.
 
You just gotta keep working at it nad start to think differently. I haven't been consistent with P.E. lately due to school and my heating pad blowing out on me, but i'm still gonna try to work at it.
 
First as others stated you are above average size so your penis is equal or greater than 80% of men...nothing to feel badly about. This is not your problem though, your problem is of the obsessive quality. This is a prison you have decided to be enslaved to and the only way out is by changing your thoughts. It will make no difference if your penis is 4" or 10" when you have this toxic thinking, I know, I went through it. This negative thinking may also play a role in way you are finding it difficult to gain. It seems like your general thought process is that Penis Enlargement will not work for you as you stated " I try to jelqing and stretch then I feel like it's not working then I give up". It is vital that you work on positive affirmations and strengthen your positive beliefs about yourself. For instance, change "I try to jelqing and stretch then I feel like it's not working then I give up" to "I jelq and stretch everyday and I am gaining with each day". You can do this with every negative thought and make it positive. "That guy has a bigger penis than me" to "I admire his penis and I am getting closer to that size with every passing day", etc. Here is a few threads that will definitely help you get over these things:

Is Everything Really What it Seems? A Study on adult entertainment

Mandingo Complex

Obsessive Thought and Penis Enlargement

Mind Over Penis..Intensity vs. Belief

Does Size Matter

Penis Enlargement is SPAM BULLSHIT...Don't Believe the Hype!

Do you see your penis as larger or smaller?

Does the world deserve to know about Penis Enlargement?

Sexuality as Motivation

Visual, Spiritual and Mental Penis Enlargement Process

A Closer Look at Depression

Obessive Thinking and Some Theory
 
Bro your normal size. NEVER! look at adult entertainment to judge what size you should be. There in adult entertainment cause their HUGE. Its like picking up a basketball and being pissed cause your not good as lebron james.

Start with a newbie program and grow the size your after. I wish you the best. Me personal, I started with clamping after I realized I was quickly bored of jelqing. My penis is okay but I really could have ruined my unit. Start easy and work up to more advance stuff.
 
Girth Hammer;409183 said:
Its like picking up a basketball and being pissed cause your not good as lebron james. [/B]
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Nice analogy
 
Or like hitting the gym and getting discouraged because you're not Arnie. It's easy to get discouraged, not least from being here and seeing some of the monsters like DLD, Red, Kingsnake, SWM, Supra, the list goes on. But remember, these guys are to penis size what guys like Arnie are to gym and weight training; the zenith. It's ok to not be at the level they are. In fact, you may be quite happy to not be at that level. Just as some people may find the Arnie physique too extreme, while others find it awe-inspiring, so it is with enormous penises - may be too much for some. It's whatever works for you, and the person(s) you're sharing it with.
 
Rude_God;409394 said:
Or like hitting the gym and getting discouraged because you're not Arnie. It's easy to get discouraged, not least from being here and seeing some of the monsters like DLD, Red, Kingsnake, SWM, Supra, the list goes on. But remember, these guys are to penis size what guys like Arnie are to gym and weight training; the zenith. It's ok to not be at the level they are. In fact, you may be quite happy to not be at that level. Just as some people may find the Arnie physique too extreme, while others find it awe-inspiring, so it is with enormous penises - may be too much for some. It's whatever works for you, and the person(s) you're sharing it with.
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This is true, I started way back with about a 6 x 5er, today, almost doubled:)
 
you gotta stay focused and determined in every aspect of your life, you can't forget what youre aiming for even if it's not convenient to you at the moment.
when you stick with that attitude you will find that sticking to your goals is much more fun than just sitting on your lazy ass and feeling bad about yourself. cause what I've learnt in life is that no one is gonna help you but yourself. you gotta push things forward in life!!
not just talking about Penis Enlargement, talking about everything! stay persistent and don't be easy on yourself, but don't go too hard either!
Good luck with your goals
 
The very inspiration you need is inside of you, you found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and asked for help and if you use wisely you will have what you desire.
 
anger is a great motivator!

I think you need to feel bad at first once you start you will see growth and you can relax!
 
Alex78;455246 said:
anger is a great motivator!

I think you need to feel bad at first once you start you will see growth and you can relax!
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Anger and frustration are sometimes the only motivators I can find, they are very powerful emotions and can be used to make mountains move! Take hold of your energy and focus it in a way that benefits you. In the end it is your happiness that matters and being upset certainly is not happy!
 
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