I am having erection issues that are making me insecure

[bigtyivier]

This whole week ive been cuddled up in bed with a girl that i just started banging and i get hard and stuff all the time but when i put on a condom and start fucking her within 2 minutes my erection lessens from say 95-100% to about 80 maybe and its psychologically making me insecure. im focused on the strokes but feel myself much softer as i pound away. <

 

[DLD]

It is most likely a sensitivity issue from the condom. I think they make very thin condoms now that allow the user to feel more. I also think that they make some with a supplement that intensifies the feelings. You may also be having sex too often that can really reap havoc on EQ.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Sometimes you can get a vicious cycle started; a little EQ lost+ too much focus on that lost EQ=greater EQ loss, leading to deeper focus on EQ loss; EQualling further loss and on, andon, and on.
It might be damn difficult but maybe you just need to relax, in bed and in life, and groove with the flow. I'm sure you've been there before, y'just gotta get it back.
Buy some flavored condoms and have her put 'em on with her mouth; that's a talent worth bringin' home to show Mom n Pop!

 

[bigtyivier]

might the problem be frequent masterbation? ive only masterbated maybe 4 time sin the last 3 days but usually i do a few rounds each day lol im addicted <

 

[DLD]

Back off with the masturbation, make your masturbation sessions more edging than shooting off.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

might the problem be frequent masterbation? ive only masterbated maybe 4 time sin the last 3 days but usually i do a few rounds each day lol im addicted <

AHhhh....see; there's always some kinda detail missing right up front.

 

[All2Real]

Kegeling daily should also help EQ

 

[bigtyivier]

has anyone experienced great erection quality from kegels? how should i structure my kegel workout? reps sets time etc.?
also does wet jelqing give good erections?

 

[bigtyivier]

maybe i should buy a cheap [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words] just to use to help achieve harder and longer lasting erections? somehting like this
http://www.amazon.com/Size-Matters-Erection-Pump/dp/B003FVPH6S/ref=pd_sim_hpc_8 ?? (im not looking to gain size i just need firmer erections that long for a long time without it getting softer during sex)

 

[The Gooch]

Ginseng complex, ginko and getting off masurbation worked for me and makes me 10x hornier which makes the sex 10x better I consistently wear my always horny girlfriend out. and I also take acai and drnk 2 cups of green tea.

 

[DLD]

Erection issues come from 3 sources, mental impotence, physical impotence and fatigue. Mental and Fatigue are 95% of the time the culprit in EQ. It is extremely rare to experience physical impotence and usually stems from a drop in testosterone consistent with older age.

 

[bigtyivier]

Erection issues come from 3 sources, mental impotence, physical impotence and fatigue. Mental and Fatigue are 95% of the time the culprit in EQ. It is extremely rare to experience physical impotence and usually stems from a drop in testosterone consistent with older age.

what do you mean by mental impotence? dld can you recommend me a kegel routine. thanks =)

 

[DLD]

what do you mean by mental impotence? dld can you recommend me a kegel routine. thanks =)

Mental impotence happen when you have a bad situation that causes eq issues and you allow that one situation to dictate your future erection. You mentally hold yourself back from a good erection because of that situation. A situation could be a sexual episode where you were not able to become erect and you start to obsess on this. Bad eq happens to the best of us and it is no reason to obsess, let it go and let the erections to come back.

 

[anth1225]

Mental impotence happen when you have a bad situation that causes eq issues and you allow that one situation to dictate your future erection. You mentally hold yourself back from a good erection because of that situation. A situation could be a sexual episode where you were not able to become erect and you start to obsess on this. Bad eq happens to the best of us and it is no reason to obsess, let it go and let the erections to come back.

This is really good advice! Another way of putting it is that fear breed more fear and it can become irrational causing unneeded stress which only furthers the problem.
In essence you've got to forgive yourself for not being perfect, for not being a machine.

It's like the reliever that's really good but gives up the game winning home run. He's got to get ready to do it all again tomorrow.
It happened: file it and move on!

 

[DLD]

Men allow their past to dictate their now and future...that is highly irrational as the past does not exists. If men could stay in the now and understand that situations do not matter, only state of being matters, their life will be awesome.