Back to MattersofSize(+ a few questions)

[Phire]

Hey guys

I started P.E a few years ago when I got DLD's [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words]. I wound up gaining about an inch in length and about 1/4th inch in girth. I did it for about 4-5 months using the beginner routine then one thing led to another and I got off routine. I still enjoy doing kegals/testicle massage nearly every day though.

I'm currently 7 1/2" bone press and 4 1/2" girth. I'm very happy with my length but I'd really like to get girth over the 5" mark. I'd like to start a girth routine, maybe just break out the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words] again and start over. I'm not one for stretchers or anything mechanical like that, just seems a awkward to use/have lying around the house.(I already have [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLights[/words]/aneros/gf's toys sitting around all over the place anyway)

I'm hoping I can get some advice from you guys on something. I've been having a bit of problems lately with my penis/sex and 1 problem that I've always had and can't seem to fix.

1: I masturbate 3-5x a day on average and it seems more like routine than anything else. It's not enjoyable at all, the orgasms are completely weak and unsatisfying unless I do edging and prolong them until it builds up a good amount. If I do edging I feel satisfied but otherwise I feel like it's routine and just wind up losing energy/feeling depressed and tired.

2: It seems like whatever adult entertainment I'm watching keeps getting more and more intense to have any decent orgasm at all. For example I went from liking spanking women to full on domination/bdsm.

3: Because I masturbate so much my sex drive is unusually low(I used to get extreme hardons all of the time) so now when I have sex, at first I can pound the shit out of her for about 10minutes but then after a while my erection just wanes and she winds up jacking me off to finish after she finishes.

4: (Biggest problem) I can't cum during sex! It's absolutely annoying as hell. It's like without the condom I'm too sensitive to maintain enjoyment/erection but with condom it feels really good but can't seem to finish because by that point she's complaining that her pussy hurts/is sore. I've only came inside a vagina ONE TIME in my entire life and that was after mustering all my willpower and not masturbating for 2 entire days straight. I really want this to work. It was an awesome feeling to take her from behind, fuck the hell out of her, then use her box for storage. There has to be something I can do about this.

It's like there's this cycle of having fucking awful sex, which causes me to masturbate, which causes me to have more awful sex. I just want to have amazing erection quality and cum buckets!

DLD, please help. Share your wisdom.

 

[DLD]

As simple as this sounds it is solid advice, limit masturbation to once per day or maybe even 3 times a week. Excessive masturbation will kill sex drive, deliver weak erection, bring less good feeling during orgasm, load size will decrease and eventually it will bring desensitization to masturbation in full. You will also notice it takes more an more twisted fantasies to achieve the same results so eventually adult entertainment will do little to nothing for you. I think the most important thing for you now is to limit the masturbation and in it's place do a Penis Enlargement routine. Become obsessed with Penis Enlargement as you have with masturbation. Make masturbation part of your daily routine but make it so it is only available to you after Penis Enlargement...like a reward. You can even use edging and ballooning as part of your routine and this will help satisfy some of the sexual experience you need.

I look at masturbation like I do heroin, it is the best feeling in the world but eventually it stops working if it is abused. And, just like heroin, the more you do it the more you need to do it! Time to kick the habit!

 

[Phire]

As simple as this sounds it is solid advice, limit masturbation to once per day or maybe even 3 times a week. Excessive masturbation will kill sex drive, deliver weak erection, bring less good feeling during orgasm, load size will decrease and eventually it will bring desensitization to masturbation in full. You will also notice it takes more an more twisted fantasies to achieve the same results so eventually adult entertainment will do little to nothing for you. I think the most important thing for you now is to limit the masturbation and in it's place do a Penis Enlargement routine. Become obsessed with Penis Enlargement as you have with masturbation. Make masturbation part of your daily routine but make it so it is only available to you after Penis Enlargement...like a reward. You can even use edging and ballooning as part of your routine and this will help satisfy some of the sexual experience you need.

I look at masturbation like I do heroin, it is the best feeling in the world but eventually it stops working if it is abused. And, just like heroin, the more you do it the more you need to do it! Time to kick the habit!

You're right DLD. That's exactly what I was thinking but I guess I wanted some type of confirmation. There's people all over the internet saying how healthy masturbation is and how it's fine to do it 3x a day or whatever but it seems like it's ruining my life. Lol

Thanks, I'm going to try to give up masturbation in favor of sex/Penis Enlargement.

 

[Phire]

You masturbate thrice a day? Lol. What the hell! Why? You gonna reach a point when you cant even ejaculate anymore. Give it a rest son. thrice a week is more than enough.

Force of habit, I guess. I've been doing it since I was 11 for the most part of the time. It really is too much though.

 

[DLD]

You're right DLD. That's exactly what I was thinking but I guess I wanted some type of confirmation. There's people all over the internet saying how healthy masturbation is and how it's fine to do it 3x a day or whatever but it seems like it's ruining my life. Lol

Thanks, I'm going to try to give up masturbation in favor of sex/Penis Enlargement.

Do not give up, put in its right place. Masturbation is fine with restraint and control, what you need most now is discipline. Make masturbation a reward for Penis Enlargement done. As I said, keep it to a few days a week, never more than once per day in your case.

 

[Phire]

Reporting back: I didn't masturbate for 2 days straight. I felt a lot more energy/stronger erections. After that I just did it once a day with [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] instead of hand after doing my Penis Enlargement session.

I noticed something. Maybe the reason I'm too sensitive when it comes to sex without condom is because of the way I masturbated, maybe I was doing it wrong? I was just sliding skin up and down in the middle, not really messing with the head at all. [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] seemed really sensitive to begin with(main reason I stopped using it to begin with) but it got easier over the days.

Lately I've been trying to transfer sexual energy into my business rather than just masturbating/messing up sex.

 

[Phire]

Update: I figured out that I was literally squeezing the life out of my cock for many years. The "harshness" of the masturbation leads to a lack of friction in real sex. Which leads to a lack of pleasure, resulting in a lack of an erection.

I told my gf I wanted a month without sex then I stopped masturbation cold turkey, didn't do it for about a week straight. Then 2x a week for the next 3 weeks I used a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] instead of my hand. Now I'm down to 1x a week and having sex regular. Dick works fine and I feel like Super Man.

Morale of the story: Not fapping 3x a day will give you super powers

 

[DLD]

Update: I figured out that I was literally squeezing the life out of my cock for many years. The "harshness" of the masturbation leads to a lack of friction in real sex. Which leads to a lack of pleasure, resulting in a lack of an erection.

I told my gf I wanted a month without sex then I stopped masturbation cold turkey, didn't do it for about a week straight. Then 2x a week for the next 3 weeks I used a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] instead of my hand. Now I'm down to 1x a week and having sex regular. Dick works fine and I feel like Super Man.

Morale of the story: Not fapping 3x a day will give you super powers

Refraining from masturbation can be very positive especially for the orgasms and load size. Too much handling of the penis can lead to desensitization. Your advice is very good and I am happy you have gotten your sex life under control. Too much masturbation is bad and not enough will be just as bad, the happy medium is what needs to be realized.