Will Viagra help me?

Hi guys, first post, so I apologize if this has been discussed before.

I was wondering if Viagra would help me with a problem that I have. I'm a healthy 29 year old male. No diseases, complete physical comes back healthy as a horse. I'm 5' 7" and weigh about 175. I could stand to lose 15 lbs. or so, but I'm not overweight according to my doctor, just on the high side of average. I don't work out a ton, but I take a moderately paced martial arts class twice a week that lets me break a small sweat. Resting heart rate is about 75-80 BPM.

My problem is that I can't maintain an erection about 50-75%% of the time. I'll start to make out, grope, and move towards sex; and my penis is hard as a rock. About 1-2 minutes after insertion I'll start to go limp. Most of the time I don't go completely limp, but I'll drop back to probably 70% erect. At this stage, my penis (which points up when hard) will flop to any angle, including nearly straight down. When I'm hard, it will only go perpendicular to my body. My girl really likes it when I'm able to maintain a 95-100% erection and can use the upward pointing penis to push against the upper portion of her vagina. Unfortunately, more than half the time, I drop back to 70% erect, and when I push against her in this manner there is no "spring in my thing" and hence considerably less pleasure on her part.

Position doesn't matter; I go soft from missionary on top and bottom, doggy, etc... I'll also go soft on occasion while she administers oral sex.

I'm very strongly considering ordering some Viagra from one of the sites listed here. Do you guys think it will help me, or is there some other problem I should be looking for?

I just started Penis Enlargement exercises (today was my second day) and for some reason I'm nervous that the exercises will prevent me from being able to maintain an erection at all. I know that's probably ridiculous, but it's a fear that I have. Right now, my penis is about average, with erect and flaccid measurements almost identical at 5 11/16 erect and 5 3/4 flaccid. I haven't measured girth yet, but I expect average numbers (I'm slightly smaller in diameter than a golf ball).

I appreciate any help or thoughts. Thanks in advance.

Sounds like more psycological issues. If you're able to reach 100% then you drop down later after insertion, sounds like you might be worrying too much. Same thing happened to me the first couple of time my wife and I started swinging. Viagra helps give you the confidence to maintain 100%. Just my 2 cents.

I've never had this problem before, and I've only been with the girl for a few weeks, so it could be all in my head.

I'm tired of being embarrassed, so I'm still going to order the Viagra, but I sincerely appreciate the insight.

Viagra will help you but that won't be a permanent fix. Its probably in your head. Are you a big drinker, because that can cause it too. It happens to me sometimes. The morning after drinking I sometimes go limp during sex. I would start adding Arginine and other herbs to improve blood flow down there, thats a good start. If you go with Viagra, start a a high dose, then slowly try to wein yourself off it. each week you have sex try to take less and less of the pill untill you dont need it anymore. Just maintain the same level of confidence all the way through. Its probably all in your head if your dick gets hard when your horney, if you find its not in your head and there is something wrong down there, remember there is no same in seeing a doctor. Docs look at dick all day long in all shapes and sizes, so dont be embarressed if the problem consist.

Also KEGEL!!!!! KEGEL !!!! KEGEL!!!!

WI

Viagra does have some side effects, so I would probably start with a lower dose to find what works. Stuffy nose, headache, and flushing of the skin are normal side effects on a normal doseage. You can get 50 and 100mg tablets (not sure about smaller doseage). I started with the 50 and it worked fine. I tried the 100 and the only real difference was my stuffy nose was a little more intense. 100% erection is still 100% no matter how much viagra you take. Everything else in WI's post is right on.

Viagra fucked my vision up. i need stronger glasses now.

The only side effects I get is a state of euphoria for other guy's cocks in my blow holes. oh yeah, an unbelievable rock hard boner

Yes, it is definitely mental. If you can get a 100% erection at any other time, you can also get 100% in your girl. It's just a matter of believing that you can.

How do I know? I was exactly where you are 8 months ago.

So here's a few things you can do:

-Cut back on �naked people movies�. Way back. Eventually you want to only jerk to pics of your girl or nothing. Jerking it to your girl's pics conditions you to get harder during sex with her. Plus you don't get that icky feeling afterwards, and you're not comparing yourself with some other dude (who is a �naked people movies�star).

-Before you try Viagra, use a cock ring or a Wombat's Ladder/clamp. Just don't put it on very tight, you will mantain 100%. Your girl will like the extra girth too. But that's a crutch and eventually you want to be hard on your own.

-Take up mediation. 10 minutes a day, sit/lie down/whatever and focus on your breathing. If your thoughts wander, bring your mind back to your breathing. I breathe/meditate like this during sex now, it does wonders for stamina and arousal control.

-Notice what you're doing with your breathing during sex. Holding your breath, breathing too fast etc. will cause problems. Focus on easy, even breaths every time you notice your breath is out of whack.

-Pre-sex visualizations. Do them for the fun of it, imagine exactly how you want sex to go. These take a while to start working, but one day you will look at your sex life and say "Wow, it's just like I visualized it all those months ago."

I don't know, I love VIAGRA so much that if I could afford it I would be on it 24/7

Guys, I sincerely appreciate the input.

I do agree that the issue is most likely mental. As I said, I've never had this problem before and the relationship with this girl is still very new. I feel like an idiot for mentioning this, especially after only knowing the girl for 6 weeks, but I am crazy about her. I've never, in my entire life, wanted to please someone as much as I want to please her. That's what got me started on Penis Enlargement, a desire to please her. I think I put so much pressure on myself to perform that I cause problems.

I've managed to get some Levitra from a friend of mine who has a prescription for it. I'm going to do some research on it this week, and if everything looks alright I'll try it out this weekend.

I have noticed, in 3-4 days of Penis Enlargement, that my penis appears slightly healthier. It's slightly more vascular, and I've gained 1/4 an inch in length. I'm sure penis length fluctuates from day to day, so I can't say that the small gain is attributed to Penis Enlargement, but measuring and seeing a definite gain is a great motivator. I'm also hyper sensitive to my penis right now (as I'm in the infancy of Penis Enlargement) so the healthier appearance may just be in my head (or something I never noticed before).

Thanks again for the advice, I sincerely appreciate it.

Thanks again for everything.

ive had this problem my entire life . I hardly ever ever see anyone post with the exact same issues as me. I went to my dr about it and he sent me to a urologist but i skipped out on the appointment and got some generic viagra. I take a little bit less than 25 mg per sex session and every 3 times i have sex i dont take it at all. After 6 months i go off it for about 2-3 months then go back on it. Lately....ive been addicted to taking some for my girth sessions. U get a CRAZZZZZY PUMP