What are you afraid of?

Hey I thought this would fit pretty well under mental health.

Has anyone else had a fear of getting kicked in the nuts? I've pissed off quite a few women and they've come at me but only one has landed a hit. The idea still makes me cringe. I got hit by a softball once when I was younger and ever since then the idea has bothered me. The main part that bothers me about it is that society thinks it's funny or socially acceptable for a woman to attack a guy like that.

I also had a dog bite the seat off my pants before so let's just say "Does anyone else have a fear of things attacking their junk?" >___< Every time a dog comes up to me with a grumpy look on its face I feel the urge to punt it.


Probably the only fears I can think of...well probably major angers as well.
1) Creatures(People included) attacking my nuts
2) Some asshole keying my car and I can't do anything about it. Fucking hate cowardly shit like this.
3) I don't like clowns or people with lots of make up because they remind me of clowns..

I mean it doesn't make sense. Big ass snake bites me in the arm, hurts a little bit but it doesn't bother me. Bat flies down the chimney, I catch it in a dish and throw it outside. Bees, scorpions, sharks when diving, public speaking- all of that no problem.

I am very adverse to mayonnaise and the court system. No fear really, just a general distain. I guess I also fear airplanes and midgets

Very large open spaces with nothing in them or when looking up at the sky with no clouds and in an open space. Feels like I will be taken up into the sky, terrible feeling.

demophobia: crowds/lots of people
agoraphobia: open spaces
gynephobia: women (this one sucks the big one)

Nothing.
Literally, nothing.

But I do have a good, healthy fear of anything involves my kids which I have no control over.

doublelongdaddy;477573 said:

I am very adverse to mayonnaise and the court system. No fear really, just a general distain. I guess I also fear airplanes and midgets

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The court system is a joke at best, I don't fear it but I also don't trust it. I'm glad I'm white when it comes to that 1.

You must be one of those miracle whip people

DoctorDoomCock;477636 said:

demophobia: crowds/lots of people
agoraphobia: open spaces
gynephobia: women (this one sucks the big one)

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I think I used to have the 1st thing somewhat when I was younger. I'd get anxious and jittery just standing in a grocery line. I'm doing public speaking/seminars now though It does get better.

I started by reading a few books on speaking & persuasion/chatting online to people/then I said hello to everyone I met out in public/started up random conversations/did some video shoots/small crowds/big crowds.

Good luck with that.

Phire;477671 said:

The court system is a joke at best, I don't fear it but I also don't trust it. I'm glad I'm white when it comes to that 1.

You must be one of those miracle whip people

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Hate that too I have always had a distain for chicken cum and oil

I'm not afraid of getting kicked there, but I've been hit by other things, like during sports. Didn't feel too good, but it isn't excruciating or anything. By the way, a common misconception, for some reason, is that kicking females in the same way doesn't hurt as bad. It actually does hurt pretty bad, enough for women soccer players or martial arts to fall over into a fetal position in the same way.

I wouldn't really say I have any phobias or any specific fears that I obsess over, like the usual animals or darkness.

Im afraid of giving something my all and coming up short and just not making it

Open bone fractures.
My wife cheating.

K.

1. Human "society" devolving into an insect-like society over time as the scourge of collectivism and totalitarianism seem to be "modern societies" driving forces and ideologies.

2. Losing my illusion of "self" when "I" die, knowing that "I" never actually existed.

3. Never finding out if anything was ever real or if it was merely an interpretation or creation of sili little electrical impulses to stimuli which "I" never actually perceived.

4. Knowing that I will never be able to know if my internal universe is anything like that of another's if "they" even exist.

5. That the pain of existence was endured for no reason other than to simply suffer within this plane. (Perhaps to entertain a sadistic God :D LOL)

6. That I will never experience this thing that humans call "happiness" for myself.

Those are a few of the myriad horrors that blow around in my internal storms never to be answered.

i fear our society will collaps. there will be 1 ruler. which will be money. 1 currency that is completely controlled by a small group the rest of us living in something best compared to kz camps.

and i fear it is to late for us people to wake up and do something about it.

personal fears i have worked out all of. i had some. but always thought them through.

afraid of deep water. so started swimming.

afraid of talking on the phone (wtf is up with that one) so i got a job as a phone salesman. hated the job but got rid of the fear

i dont have kids.

and i have accepted the fact that one cannot be valued by his or hers short comings. i always do my best. i win or lose. i always learn something and i never regret.

i dont want to sound as a brag but if people have any fears i would suggest going toe to toe with this. as it will give you a huge personal development. and you become awesome in the end.

take the small ones first and build up. and write them down. this is an amazing inner journey

Aimingforthetop;478310 said:

i fear our society will collaps. there will be 1 ruler. which will be money. 1 currency that is completely controlled by a small group the rest of us living in something best compared to kz camps.

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That already happened when DLD was born

Aimingforthetop;478310 said:

i fear our society will collaps. there will be 1 ruler. which will be money. 1 currency that is completely controlled by a small group the rest of us living in something best compared to kz camps.

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Hmm now there's an idea. DLD bootcamp.

when i'm driving i am talking in myself in my head and i say to myself i control this car i can go to the right and crash it and sometimes it gets serious and i have to stop at a pump drink some coffee and cool my head or if i hold my little brother i am affraid i might let him out of my hands then i fast put him back on the couch and ask myself wtf is wrong with my head and when i am somewhere high i am not affraid of the height but that someone will push me

When I really consider this question with great introspection I can say, honestly, I fear for myself and I fear God. I think my faith makes me strong and powerful in my enemies attacks, I never suffer any loss, I am very protected. I also believe that fearing God alone gives me great control and discipline around things that bring me pleasure. I find much relief here because I reflect so much on "No man can serve more than 1 God" and this helps me see that nothing can become powerful over me or my will but God. I fear myself for the simple fact that lest to my own devices I am a miserable, terrible, greedy creature that only wants, but when I live in the Commandments I am so much better because of it. I love the idea of having rules to follow and keeping my face towards the light where I am doing good in the world and being more of a creator than a creature.

To the people who do not believe, I still believe for you and if you can at least succumb to the "No man can serve more than 1 God" you will find so much greater control over habits and practices that become addictions, obsessions or wasted desensitized applications that will destroy the GOOD things in our lives. The statement truly empowers a man to take greater control of his life and spend more time correcting himself and putting himself in line to receive the things he desires.

I am afraid of being alone for the rest of my life.

My wife died in February quite suddenly and very unexpectedly. We had known each other since high school and had been married 10 years.

I am afraid that I am going to start smoking again after having quit some 11 years ago.

I am afraid of letting my son down even though I am trying my best to raise him all by myself now.

I think, after really thinking on this question, my biggest fear is abandonment. I have very big issues with trust and this has become a fear of abandonment and it makes me fearful. I have pushed many people away from me in my life simply for the fact that it is easier to push them away then have them leave me eventually.

I always find myself fearing for my parents, my siblings and my family. Also, a little strange but when I was a kid I saw a scene in a tv movie where a guy got raped in a prison shower. Since that day ive always been wary of people touching me and of course of being pinned down powerless and raped.