strap-ons

Im buying my wife a strap on to use on me. Im getting a 5 inch dick and a 4 inch anal plug. Its all from Doc Johnson. Anyone else here do this with there wife and any advice??

3lee said:

Im buying my wife a strap on to use on me. Im getting a 5 inch dick and a 4 inch anal plug. Its all from Doc Johnson. Anyone else here do this with there wife and any advice??

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I've heard stories of this kind of thing making girls leave the men who wanted it. But, whatever floats your boat. They only thing I've ever considered and tried shoving up my ass was the Aneros because it's actually to promote prostate health and people report of AMAZING prostate orgasms. But, I tried it once and it doesn't seem like something I'd want to try again.

PenilePersist said:

I've heard stories of this kind of thing making girls leave the men who wanted it. But, whatever floats your boat. They only thing I've ever considered and tried shoving up my ass was the Aneros because it's actually to promote prostate health and people report of AMAZING prostate orgasms. But, I tried it once and it doesn't seem like something I'd want to try again.

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She brought it up though. I was relutant at first. But with some finger stimulation from her, it was pretty fun and good. She seemed to like it.

3lee said:

She brought it up though. I was relutant at first. But with some finger stimulation from her, it was pretty fun and good. She seemed to like it.

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Hmm. That would be an interesting proposition to have from a GF or wife.
Finger is a whole lot different than her fucking your ass with a dildo. I wouldn't let that shit happen no matter how much my wife begged. I'd let a GF finger a bit and oral a bit but no way in hell I'd let her shove a dildo up my ass, especially not with the dominance of her fucking with a strap-on.

You may like the Aneros so do a search for it. It's formed to massage the prostate which is considered the "male g spot" and some people get comfortable with it enough to get full body orgasms according to many testimonials.

PenilePersist said:

especially not with the dominance of her fucking with a strap-on.

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P.P.) Do you ever let your ladies ride on top?

I'd NEVER in my life let anyone fuck me in the ass because it gives them dominance. Just my opinion but it'd probably give her a dominant feeling over you and then what could you possibly say, I'm the man in this relationship? If you wanted anal pleasure why not just get a vibrator? I have to agree with Persist on this one, don't be surprised if her attitude about you changes. I doubt this would be a good thing for her to brag about to her friends. When she said it to you, it could just be testing you. If a small penis doesn't makes me feel less of a man, having a wife fucking me in the ass certainly would.

Dude, is THIS why you chug Everclear?

I mean if I absolutely wanted to try something like this, it'd have to be with a woman who I'd never in my life see again.

goldmember said:

P.P.) Do you ever let your ladies ride on top?

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Yes. Totally different than being fucked in the ass with a strap on. Plus, any time I want I can start humping her from the cowgirl position and controlling her body with my hands and arms as well and that makes me more of the dominant again.

Even though a girl is on top that is totally different. "She's" still being penetrated, not "him".

PenilePersist said:

Yes. Totally different than being fucked in the ass with a strap on. Plus, any time I want I can start humping her from the cowgirl position and controlling her body with my hands and arms as well and that makes me more of the dominant again.

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lol good point

Man, some uptight guys around here. I'm not really into having anything done to my ass, but I don't see why his wife being turned on by this is such a bad thing, or why not being in a dominant position sexually is bad thing. What's the problem? What's wrong with a woman being more in charge than he is for a turn? If they're secure in the relationship and they both enjoy it, who cares? I read Dan Savage's column all the time, and according to him this activity is called pegging and it's really not all that uncommon. Healthy sex is about both partners working to please each other, even if one of them is 100% into what the other wants, you still have to play ball if you expect to get what you want as well. And, being a man is a lot more than just running the show in the bedroom, so I don't really understand how this is is supposed to be emasuclating for him.

It's just unnatural. It's almost like having gay sex. Don't take this hard as it is just one person's opinion.

I don't think i can ever let anyone fuck my ass... however, i have thought of getting a strap-on so that i can wear it just above my dick and double fuck my wife. From doggy, i could fuck her pussy with my dick and her ass with the strap-on... i bet she'd go crazy from it.

^ I always wondered if there was a way to do that.

Well I dont drink Everclear for that reason. hahah> But she is curious as to what its like to be "the man", so I say let her be. What can it hurt? She is very much still my one and only, and although at first I was not into it, she has done some things Ive asked of her she wasnt willing to do at first but later liked it( sucking me). I say let her have her fantasy. After all she is my wife. I dont feel less of a man for doing it or thinking of it, so when the strap on arrives, Ill let her do it. Its mainly for her, so Im game. i love my wife alot, she is my all. Anyway Ill post updates of how it goes. La ter guys!!!

sed26 said:

It's just unnatural. It's almost like having gay sex. Don't take this hard as it is just one person's opinion.

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I'm not taking it hard, I just think it's a little sili to be so horribly concerned about a woman being more dominant in the bedroom. I once again can't speak from experience, but plenty of men enjoy being dominated sexually - supposedly it's usually very powerful men that enjoy releasing control in at least one aspect of their lives.

And, the only thing gay he could do is something with another man. Just because his ass is involved doesn't mean there's anything gay going on. Think about that for a moment. If you want to fuck your girlfriend in the ass, are you gay? That's just a pretty uninformed statement. I swear you guys will have better sex if you're not so paranoid about this shit.

Anyway 3lee doesn't seem to phased by any of it so no worries.

If you want to fuck your girlfriend in the ass, are you gay?

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What does that have to do with gay sex? Its a woman's ass. There are thousands of ways to have unbelievable sex besides getting fucked by a strap-on, or anything else involving my ass. I look at it as I was the one born with the penis and it gives me a sense of power. I guess I'm not the type to be dominated thats all.

See, I'm at the ripe old age of 45, where I have to get the annual finger wave from Ol' Doc. Personally, I can't fukkin' stand it, so the very thought of something even remotely cock-sized jammin' its way the wrong way up the highway just fills me with.....not quite dread...but; a whole lotta hesitation.

Du,

I think that you are a Pioneer with stating that you want your wife to fuck your ass with a strap-on, and I see nothing wrong with it !

My wife and are swingers (I am not active at this time), but she still is and at the parties, we have many toys and alot of the guys/girls are "bi-sexual" and love to get fucked with our strap-ons, slip on rubber cocks, giant dildos etc . . . check out some of these links to some good ass fucking info.

I have used a dildo and/or viberator in my asshole along with my wife for years now - for our kegel training sessions - but at this point I have not got fucked with a "strap-on" . . . . . . . . . . yet . . . . LOL.

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I say "GO FOR IT" - make a difference in "YOUR" life, you only live once, dont worry about what other people say - experience all you can - "Life is Short Enjoy Yourself"

Just tell her to take it easy on your asshole at first and use lube - you done want any permanant damage to your asshole. My wife is very experienced with anal sex and she loosens up and relaxes quickly. So until you get used to getting it in the ass, you may have to learn some relaxation techniques for your anal sphincter muscles - "Relax" them, its alot easier.

My wife said when she first started letting guys fuck her asshole, she was really scared from what other girls said (in highschool) and she would tense up and expect pain. She said that there was a little pain at first then she learned how to relax her ass muscles and it created orgasms.

When we fuck doggy style, she lets me fuck her ass, then pussy, then ass, then pussy and so on and so on . . . . . . . .

Keep us updated and enjoy the ride. Also, post some pics as often as you can - especially of you getting rammed ! Cant wait to see em'