Problem... looking for help

Well, I'm looking to see if anyone has ever been in my situation before and hopefully get advice on what to do.

I'm ready to go to a doctor because I don't know how to fix my problem.

My problem is that I finish too quickly when having sex with my gf and also I become flaccid if I pull out and change positions or if I pull out and wait a few seconds.

I was denying that this has never happened to me before when talking to her about it because she is very understanding and obviously wants to get rid of this problem, because that's what it is... a problem and it's happened before in the past with me and different girls, but I honestly never thought anything of it until now.

A little background on me. I'm 23 and I've been working out for the past 3-4 years. I'm 5'5 and weigh between 170-180 with a very low % body fat. Basically I'm in great shape. I eat healthy every day of my life. I've never done any drugs. I do take supplements to the gym, but everything can be found at a vitamin store. I'm trying to answer any questions anyone may have before hand.

If anyone can help me out before I go to the doctors because this is really affecting me and my relationship heavily. Are there any herbs to take they fix this or anything period?

Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. If you need any more info that would help the situation by all means ask away.

MIND MIND MIND

Premature ejaculation and impotence are , in 99% of the cases, due to mental reasons not physical. Let me ask you a question, are you able to get an erection during masturbation? How long do you last in this situation? We can start with this and hopefully get you straight.

My biggest issue with going to a doctor for this is that it may be lending more negative validity to your issues. I think you may want to explore methods here to strengthen your mental awareness of what is happening in these situations.

Let us know.

DLD

This kind of stuff happened over the years as well, not just now. And I only get to see my girlfriend every 3 weeks or so and it SUCKS to be like this.

Yes I have no problem getting an erection during masturbation. I have no problem getting hard ever. I mean the second I see her I get hard, or a kiss will do it.

How long do I last during masturbation? Not any longer then sex, maybe a few minutes but no where near where I'd want to be.

I don't want to go to the doctor but this is affecting me and my relationship heavily and I really willing to do anything. I do Penis Enlargement as well. Newbie routine with one girth exercise from the next phase.

doublelongdaddy;365829 said:

MIND MIND MIND

Premature ejaculation and impotence are , in 99% of the cases, due to mental reasons not physical. Let me ask you a question, are you able to get an erection during masturbation? How long do you last in this situation? We can start with this and hopefully get you straight.

My biggest issue with going to a doctor for this is that it may be lending more negative validity to your issues. I think you may want to explore methods here to strengthen your mental awareness of what is happening in these situations.

Let us know.

DLD

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I'm not as reputable as most of the veterans here. I think I can help here though. I have problems wanting to do kegals, I neglect them. That's how you can get a rock down there to stop the waters and the snow. Although I offer this advice: (I USED to be so concious of busting early)I'm 24 so I'm around your age I'm 6'1, a lanky man. Although that doesn't matter, I use my stamina here. I foreplay with my first 'round'. I get her going and have gotten better at lasting longer doing first round action. It's inevitable to go your first round unless your a Don juan. Second time I can last forever sometimes going into 4 times. The more often you refrain from your first pop, doing just foreplay stuff, you'll get longer times there. Not mouth stuff either(unless shes doing it), just arousal stuff. Since girls need foreplay, I got mine to know after the first pop its on and at first she sort of complained since i didn't want to pop at the particular time, but those days are over and i can actually tell how horny She is whether or not she waits or jumps right in, and that's another story, I wish I had more ambition for kegals, although right now I work on time lasting in bed, and don't get ashamed self helping looking at videos cause that helps a little to get a good mind state that its back off time, make her feel the back off time as well, it helps. Usually she stops first(and is happy)

Ok, I know the premature is mental but what about becoming soft during. I have no problem getting hard during foreplay or staying hard while inside her, but as soon as I pull out and we switch positions or whatever it happens.

Stickman it sounds bad, like you think it does. So think about what I said. I can sum it up by saying, you can make erection quality gains(in post ejac state), and last longer and have more confidence in bed. It might take you a couple months. I honestly want to give you the advice I possibly could give. I remember busting and then going limp, I'd joke and say it's dead, it's tired and go to sleep. Sometimes my gf would say stuff like that and i'd get pissed off and go to sleep anyways. I go out of my way to get hard pre ejac for as long as possible. Why? I can't get erection quality like that any other way than when I'm wth my gf. Hands down stick with it, move your whole pelvis out of the way if u get real close to ejac. Cause in my opinion, it's more easier to go flaccid pre-ejac, and then bounce back to a raging one. I hope it works for you though. Maybe someone else has any ideas?

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