PE and Relationships

I was having a discussion with my friend about sex and relationships. I told him I rather gain and be big to make myself happy rather than getting happiness from a relationship. Don't get me wrong I'm willing for a relationship to happen but the second it keeps me from doing my productive pe I will not hesitate to end it. My penis is more important to me than any girl and I enjoy having that mindset. I don't have to worry about anything just getting big and who cares about sex right as long as you have pe and MOS that's my mindset. You might think what's the point of getting bigger if your not going to use it. I totally disagree, if the girl is cool about it that's one thing and that's wonderful. But I've also noticed the more time you spend with a women the less time for pe so I don't think a relationship would work for me. My friend thought I was crazy when I said I rather be big than have sex. To be honest I really don't think I am cause I'm more into the brotherhood and against being tied down. DLD and others what do you think ? Am I crazy for caring for my penis gains more than I would for sex? He does pe too I'm just more fanatical than him. When I think of DLDs ex being jealous of his relationship with is penis that's what really steams my pot. Don't get me wrong I'm willing to give all my love but if it interferes with pe than that's unacceptable for me. Lets start a interesting discussion shall we

different srtokes for different folks, you're not crazy, do what you want. Then when you look back on your life you'll have no regrets, and will be happy

Many people sacrifice a lot of things to reach their goals, in bodybuilding if you are dead serious about it, social relationships suffer. I say put all you can into reaching yours goals bro, then your confidence and everything about you will attract the ladies soon after, and you'll get to enjoy every reaction from the unveiling lol...

Coogi: Good general point that's all you can do really. Ezskanken: Yes you hit the nail right on the head when you said we will get to enjoy the reaction. Thank god for pe cause I would have never got those few reactions that I got so far with the few girls that have seen it.

Hey Truant, my advice is fuck what anyone thinks bro, do whatever keeps u happy. I could sit here and say that you're crazy, that you're weird, or anything of that matter and all it would do for you is get you confused about what you really want. Just do you bro and stay true to yourself.

All2real: thank you brother that's so true you cant let anyone's comments bring you down. I just want to hear what others think on this matter does anyone have a gf and do pe and how does it effect your pe? Do you live with her or not? I assume you can pull it off and keep it a secret if your not living with her. But I'm starting to notice a lot of girls are the relationship type and want to shack up. Girls just don't get pe but they shore as hell get breast implants. I told this girl about pe one day who was a stripper and wished she had surgery. I brought up pe and the devices that stretch it out and told her it's natural unlike breast implants. Her response was but isn't that unnatural if you use the devices? Girls don't realize and appreciate how hard we have to work. I've had a girl say but won't the girl think your small if your trying to get it bigger... I've had a girl who was cool with it and watched me use the Bathmate and was cool with it but she new me for years and was a fling.

I love the views on MOS.

I don't share you views though truant. When my girlfriend comes up I usually take those days off P.E. I'd rather be having fun (and incredible sex) than hanging and extending. Yeah, it may make my gains come a little bit slower, but I happily sacrifice a couple of days out of my P.E. schedule each month for it.

Medicated: What you do I would have no problem doing as well. It sounds like your having a long distance relationship? So I guess anyone would be able to pull that off I would consider those rest days you know and enjoy the sex too. It's just what do you do if you always see her type thing and you want to have your divo suits and SG on all day lol. How would the girl react by you showing more attention to pe than her? Because pe is productive I don't think women are in my opinion.

truant;543804 said:

Medicated: What you do I would have no problem doing as well. It sounds like your having a long distance relationship? So I guess anyone would be able to pull that off I would consider those rest days you know and enjoy the sex too. It's just what do you do if you always see her type thing and you want to have your divo suits and SG on all day lol. How would the girl react by you showing more attention to pe than her? Because pe is productive I don't think women are in my opinion.

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Yeah I suppose so. I used to P.E. while I was with a girl I saw on the reg, she knew about it and didn't really mind. It's not like she says 'I'm going for a shower, are you coming?' and then you roll in 5 minutes later with your Bathmate and start a session. I have done penis enlargement with my girl around. I've done some hanging, she's watched me Bathmate (I wanted to see if you could fit my temp girth in her mouth- she couldn't), I've extended while we've watched films. She doesn't mind at all. Why would she, she's benefitting!

I think if it was a marriage, where you lived together and slept together, it would really hinder your gains. A normal girlfriend-boyfriend thing where you see her each weekend, and maybe one night in the week? That shouldn't effect anything.

I have been on all sides of this and I have to say that I would, today keep it secret from a mate if I were with someone. I think, in many cases, it would be more damaging then helpful to the sexual relationship. It takes a very secure woman to handle the dedication a male puts into Penis Enlargement....penis envy is a real thing that has a nasty, nasty ending in these cases. Be careful and be sure that the relationship can the news before you broadcast

Medicated: So it most likely will hinder gains if you live with her I knew it lol. That makes me def not want to live with a girl now cause it would hinder me in everyway. DLD: Yeah dld it's like we are improving on ourselfs and they are staying stagnant and they can't have that they need a challenge. Exactly DLD I agree it's much better to keep it secret. But you can't keep it a secret if you guys are living together so that's kinda my point. I already know how women are if they see you showing more attention to something other than them then they aren't happy. What gets me is how they think breast and butt enhancement is more legit than pe. They think surgery to make them prettier is ok but if we try and get bigger its so taboo to them. I just don't like the women's need to be the center of attention all the time and they want the relationship to be perfect especially nowadays.

Truant, your life is yours to live as you see fit. As long as you're not harming or robbing from someone else then do as you please.
I have quite the same attitude; my life, my energy, my attention, my time are all in limited quantities and I will share them with whom I please and I will retain them from whom I please.
That way, the people most important to me get the best from me, including myself.
And honesty is always appreciated.

Good point maxameyes my life, my energy, my attention. To me I think that's exactly what living with a girl would do. Consume your time, attention, and energy. My friend is in this ridiculous situation with this women living with him and its like she sucks up most of his time they are always together watching a movie or whatever like for some reason I find that so weak if I was to spend that much time with a girl. I would start to feel kinda sappy but that's just me. I can't be in a relationship for a long time I always do something to sabatoge it and I like when I stop seeing the girl and making her feel like what the hell happened lol.

Ezskanken said:

Many people sacrifice a lot of things to reach their goals, in bodybuilding if you are dead serious about it, social relationships suffer. I say put all you can into reaching yours goals bro, then your confidence and everything about you will attract the ladies soon after, and you'll get to enjoy every reaction from the unveiling LOL...

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Excellent post brother. This is what I intend doing. I've been gearing up to register at the gym and build my body. Hopefully I will be doing that this week. If I can grow my dick, I can grow muscles as well.

huge-girth said:

Excellent post brother. This is what I intend doing. I've been gearing up to register at the gym and build my body. Hopefully I will be doing that this week. If I can grow my dick, I can grow muscles as well.

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Proud of you 👏

I am away from the wife for half of the year because of the work I do. She is not opposed to to my PE work but she was a little pissed that it was not as sensitive as it used to be. So in my case I gotta lay off the PE a couple of weeks before I got home. If I don’t get off, no matter how it’s going she anit happy.

Wrenchead41 said:

I am away from the wife for half of the year because of the work I do. She is not opposed to to my PE work but she was a little pissed that it was not as sensitive as it used to be. So in my case I gotta lay off the PE a couple of weeks before I got home. If I don’t get off, no matter how it’s going she anit happy.

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Are you to big already, why aren't she happy?

She thinks we both need to Cum at the same time. When it happens it’s awesome, but one of us is always behind the other. I don’t think it’s a big deal as long as both of us get the big O.

Wrenchead41 said:

She thinks we both need to Cum at the same time. When it happens it’s awesome, but one of us is always behind the other. I don’t think it’s a big deal as long as both of us get the big O.

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Great when it happens but not always possible

DLD said:

Great when it happens but not always possible

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I agree.