Maintaining An Erection PT. 2

smokey622 · May 24, 2018

What's good MoS.

So I am a week without fapping. I went on a trip two weeks ago and no fap for a week but I caved in on last Saturday.

I realized my endurance during sex has went to shit because of not fapping. I bust within 3 minutes or less. Last night it was 15 strokes literally lol. I can keep going as long as I don't pull out but my dick is about 70% erect. Granted, my wife isn't westernized so she doesn't get frustrated easily but I know that it if it keeps happening she will eventually grow tired of it.

I know if I pull out and cum �naked people movies� star style I can keep my erection but it is hard because cumming inside feels like heaven.

Do supplements like Horny Goat Weed help with this? I want to stay away from Viagra and Cialis.

Any suggestions?

cladre60 · May 25, 2018

Besides lots of kegels and practicing edging the best practice is to play the game. If its been too long I usually finish kind of quick. I can tell when its going to be one of those nights so I'll go for a lot of foreplay. When you're with someone you love it's not always about the finish but how you get there. Women are different than men too. If you think it might be a quickie then spend 10 minutes kissing and caressing her, grabbing at her, letting her know you love all of her. Go down on her for a while, get her moaning and screaming, and then pop in there and pound both of you to orgasm. Now she feels special and loved and that 30 seconds of you inside her was just the icing on the cake.

I build stamina pretty quick. If we haven't had sex in a week or so (opposite shifts fuck everything up for us) I may be quick. The next night I'll be longer, and within about 2 more days I'm fucking her to 2,3, maybe even 4 orgasms before I cum. I'll pull out or really slow down, sometimes even stop completely, if I'm too close and want to go longer. I'm edging during sex and you can't get any better practice than that.

Big Schwanz Acht · May 25, 2018

edging during sex is the ultimate for me

MikeyM · May 25, 2018

You can try that dld push or clamping your base to help with controlling cumming.

DLD · May 29, 2018

Mike3209;759196 said:
You can try that dld push or clamping your base to help with controlling cumming.

Someone read my list of premature ejaculation list

MikeyM · May 29, 2018

doublelongdaddy;759461 said:
Someone read my list of premature ejaculation list

Yes sir I've been working on it when I'm able to.

huge-girth · May 30, 2018

smokey622;759120 said:
What's good MoS.

So I am a week without fapping. I went on a trip two weeks ago and no fap for a week but I caved in on last Saturday.

I realized my endurance during sex has went to shit because of not fapping. I bust within 3 minutes or less. Last night it was 15 strokes literally lol. I can keep going as long as I don't pull out but my dick is about 70% erect. Granted, my wife isn't westernized so she doesn't get frustrated easily but I know that it if it keeps happening she will eventually grow tired of it.

I know if I pull out and cum �naked people movies� star style I can keep my erection but it is hard because cumming inside feels like heaven.

Do supplements like Horny Goat Weed help with this? I want to stay away from Viagra and Cialis.

Any suggestions?

One of my greatest worries is premature ejaculation. It just seems to be something that has no permanent cure

cladre60 · May 30, 2018

huge-girth;759547 said:
One of my greatest worries is premature ejaculation. It just seems to be something that has no permanent cure

As I just commented in another thread it seems if I'm edging after pulling myself back a few times it becomes harder for me to cum. If I hit the point where my body is starting the contractions to ejaculate and I stop myself I'm usually good for a while. I get the feeling of a mini orgasm and have to focus just a little to maintain 100% EQ. Much much much harder to do with a partner and you've got to creatively pull out or stop the BJ for 10-20 seconds to recover.

One of the worst things is how many of us typically masturbate. We usually stroke the shaft. During sex the head is in constant contract and is obviously the most sensitive part. You've got to practice edging and controlling by putting your focus on the head. I even fail doing this at times. If you're able to getting a Fleshlight or other toy will force you to change masturbating so it's more realistic to what parts of the penis get the most focus during sex.

huge-girth · May 31, 2018

cladre60;759639 said:
As I just commented in another thread it seems if I'm edging after pulling myself back a few times it becomes harder for me to cum. If I hit the point where my body is starting the contractions to ejaculate and I stop myself I'm usually good for a while. I get the feeling of a mini orgasm and have to focus just a little to maintain 100% EQ. Much much much harder to do with a partner and you've got to creatively pull out or stop the BJ for 10-20 seconds to recover.

One of the worst things is how many of us typically masturbate. We usually stroke the shaft. During sex the head is in constant contract and is obviously the most sensitive part. You've got to practice edging and controlling by putting your focus on the head. I even fail doing this at times. If you're able to getting a Fleshlight or other toy will force you to change masturbating so it's more realistic to what parts of the penis get the most focus during sex.

Funny enough, when I masturbate, I focus mainly on the glans to mid-shaft, I don't go all the way down. I believe the best way to combat premature ejaculation is to have a stable/understanding partner.

DLD · May 31, 2018

Mike3209;759492 said:
Yes sir I've been working on it when I'm able to.

Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.

cladre60 · May 31, 2018

doublelongdaddy;759756 said:
Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.

You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.

Big Schwanz Acht · May 31, 2018

I've said it a few times but it's worth repeating...there's a lot of talent whiling-away on the bench. C'mon DLD, get yourself off the DL

Lookn4girth · Jun 1, 2018

doublelongdaddy;759756 said:
Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.

Are you sure it was not the 10" cock that made you the beast in bed.

cladre60 · Jun 1, 2018

Big Schwanz Acht;759822 said:
I've said it a few times but it's worth repeating...there's a lot of talent whiling-away on the bench. C'mon DLD, get yourself off the DL

It's been so long he'll recreate the scene with the exchange student in American Pie.

But round 2, that'll be 5 whole pumps.

Can't run a marathon when you haven't run around the block in a decade.

huge-girth · Jun 1, 2018

cladre60;759811 said:
You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.

I share the same opinion with you about this. And also since DLD owns the forum, it makes perfect sense for him to use his penis. If he is not using his penis, most members would be less motivated about doing PE because the owner of the forum is not using his penis and it would lead to lack of motivation. More like lead by example

DLD · Jun 1, 2018

cladre60;759811 said:
You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.

Hey, if the good Lord wants to bring a woman into my life I would take her, that has not been in the cards yet but if it be God's will and the will of the rest of you

Maybe it will happen. I love that you guys care for me so much, really!

cladre60 · Jun 1, 2018

doublelongdaddy;759932 said:
Hey, if the good Lord wants to bring a woman into my life I would take her, that has not been in the cards yet but if it be God's will and the will of the rest of you Maybe it will happen. I love that you guys care for me so much, really!

That's fine but God isn't going to send her to your house like a friend sending you a pizza. You've gotta go do some looking. He's playing hide and seek with the woman for you. Go find her!

DLD · Jun 4, 2018

cladre60;759968 said:
That's fine but God isn't going to send her to your house like a friend sending you a pizza. You've gotta go do some looking. He's playing hide and seek with the woman for you. Go find her!

I can order them! They just cost money and leave after. God knows my heart and what is good and bad for me, I am always guided by the Spirit. But, just so everyone knows, I am not against having a woman but I have a very busy schedule and I am not sure a woman would want to deal with that. I have the Brotherhood where I am working daily, 3 Ministries I work with every day, I have family time and then I have to garage where Iam trying to keep food on the table. Very busy indeed, but if a cute chick wanted tp be a part of all this I am game.

cladre60 · Jun 4, 2018

doublelongdaddy;760188 said:
I can order them! They just cost money and leave after. God knows my heart and what is good and bad for me, I am always guided by the Spirit. But, just so everyone knows, I am not against having a woman but I have a very busy schedule and I am not sure a woman would want to deal with that. I have the Brotherhood where I am working daily, 3 Ministries I work with every day, I have family time and then I have to garage where Iam trying to keep food on the table. Very busy indeed, but if a cute chick wanted tp be a part of all this I am game.

Go get her tiger! It might be like playing Where's Waldo but there's 1 out there.

DLD · Jun 5, 2018

cladre60;760267 said:
Go get her tiger! It might be like playing Where's Waldo but there's 1 out there.

lol so true! That is how it feels when I start to think about getting a woman, where the fuck is Waldo!

If I do land her she will be a hot ticket, my taste is extremely picky! And since I am not a beggar I can be a chooser!

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