DLD, I had this girlfriend years ago, whom I liked a lot, but I was a bit intimidated. She was not promiscuous - she said she was only with 5 guys in her life - but she was with some bigguns.
She said 2 of the guys were between 7-8", 2 were between 8-9" and the "little guy" was only about 6.5 or so.
She also said she preferred the biggest 2, because of their huge girth mainly, not the extra length.
At the time of my life, my penis had shrank from 6.5" to 6.12" or so, and my hardons weren't too good. Well, shortly after she told me about her previous studs, she made a hard bid to get me into bed. I just couldn't. My cock wasn't really getting hard (was probably only around 5 - 5.5 soggy inches or so), she held it in her hand and didn't look too happy. I blamed it on "temporary impotence" problems and we called it a night.
Well, she really was a nice girl & she went back to school. Completed her pre-med, then got accepted to medical school. A few months ago, we started IM'ing each other. She's coming back here in August. I'm a little over 7 bpel now, and 6+ girth, but I'm still not sure I'm ready to follow those 8 & 9 inchers she's had in the past.
I don't want to just dis her, because the wife & I have been going through some real problems the past year or so (I think it's mid-life, but she won't do shit about it - just is a bitch from hell... ironically, the added size has made sex better for us than ever, but they may not be enough). And I just might be single again - and I'd love to hook up with my doctor sweetheart (no, not for the money - although that's nice too). But this gal is so funny & smart, and has big boobs, and we always hit it off well. But as childish as this might sound, I don't think I can hit her with less than 8". I don't think for a second she'd reject me....I just can't bring myself to look that badly in front of her. Remember, she's been pounded with a pair of fat 9-inchers....that's a tough act to follow. But I'm going to go overboard on the DLD blasters for the next 2 months & hope to be at least 7.5" when she comes back. It may or may not happen then...but she will be relocating her permanently next year sometime. I hope to God to be 8-plus by then....hopefully.