edging?

Hi!

Am I doing this edging thing right?

I masturbate and when I'm coming I flex my PC muscle very hard to prevent ejaculation?
If so, I did this first time last night. I was jerking off and when I was about to come I flexed. I mean that if 0 is flaccid penis and 10 is ejaculation, I waited around 8-9 before flexing.
OK, I noticed several things:
1) It took me longer time to get to the point of ejacultion, the more I have already flexed. I mean that at first, I masturbated 3 min and flexed, than it took me 5min before I must flex, then 8 min and so on --> this is great tool when having sex because you remain hard all the time!!
2) When you get past a certain point it is hard to ejaculate. This might be because this was my first time but when I hade flexed 5 times and 30min and I decided that now I want to come, it was quite hard! My cock was hard but it wasn't so sensitive anymore.
3) When I finally ejaculated, it didn't feel so great! Actually it hurt a little!! And my spearm just dribbled from my penis (a quite huge amount though). Where was all the pressure? And why did it hurt??

Questions:
Am I doing the edging right?
Should I ejaculate in the end?
How many times should I edge?

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i want to know the benefits of edging .. someone please reply

-johnny k

Jelqer said:

Hi!

Am I doing this edging thing right?

I masturbate and when I'm coming I flex my PC muscle very hard to prevent ejaculation?
If so, I did this first time last night. I was jerking off and when I was about to come I flexed. I mean that if 0 is flaccid penis and 10 is ejaculation, I waited around 8-9 before flexing.
OK, I noticed several things:
1) It took me longer time to get to the point of ejacultion, the more I have already flexed. I mean that at first, I masturbated 3 min and flexed, than it took me 5min before I must flex, then 8 min and so on --> this is great tool when having sex because you remain hard all the time!!
2) When you get past a certain point it is hard to ejaculate. This might be because this was my first time but when I hade flexed 5 times and 30min and I decided that now I want to come, it was quite hard! My cock was hard but it wasn't so sensitive anymore.
3) When I finally ejaculated, it didn't feel so great! Actually it hurt a little!! And my spearm just dribbled from my penis (a quite huge amount though). Where was all the pressure? And why did it hurt??

Questions:
Am I doing the edging right?
Should I ejaculate in the end?
How many times should I edge?

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1 You are edging correctly, you get to a point when you are about to cum and then squeeze the PC to stop it. Its an easy exercise.

2 Dont ejaculate at the end, unless you really want to. Ive heard both sides saying that they dont ejac at the end of their workout in order to maintain a larger girth for a longer time. And then others do it and are still growing. Truthfully I dont know if either is universally correct. I try not to have one and then wait to have sex when my girl gets home. Usually about a 1/2 hr after finishing my workout. My girth growth is going well so...

3 How many times are totally dependant on you.

The benefits of edging are:

To strengthen the PC muscle.
To help you be able to last longer during sex.
To engorge your cock with more blood for a longer period of time, in order to help you grow girth wise.
To help promote blood flow which helps with overall penile health.

This is the one I find to be one of the most beneficial reasons:
To release hormones into your system and better yet your cock in order to increase your testosterone and other natural hormones,which should help with increase your girth and overall penis size.

Not sure if these are all the benefits, but Im sure someone else will chime in if it is not.

As far as why it hurt it is possible that you already went too far and had an orgasm but didnt realize it. Would also explain why you couldnt have an orgasm during one of your workouts. I did that a couple of times. I thought I flexed my PC hard enough to not have one, but I was shaking and trembling like crazy trying to hold it, no cum came out, but it didnt feel right after that, my stomach even hurt. This is called retrograde ejaculation. This basically means that you came but it went the wrong direction. Dont really remember the specifics on this, but it hurts and can be uncomfortable. Doesnt totally fit your description but it is a possibility.

Hope this helps.

they are many, but the main benefit i would say is lasting longer in bed.

edging can also be incorporated into your excersizes. Take a look at supra's supra slammers for example.