Confused about ED

I'm not really sure what to make of this and I haven't seen any doctors about this either although I probably should. I'm 29 years old and I feel as though I have ED. My sole purpose of buying the bathmate was to see if it would help in any way and I've even bought one of those power rings off of ebay. I'd like to eventually get some blood work done to see where I'm at as far as T levels go. Basically whenever I see those ads on tv which talk about ED and they start to list the symptoms, I feel like they are speaking about me.. Lack of energy, always wanting to sleep, lack of attention to things, low drive, can't stay hard, etc. etc. I'm 6'1, 145lbs (YES I'm a skinny fk). I have a psychically demanding job so although I'm skinny, I'm 'fit'. I eat fairly healthy and I almost never eat out. I actually had my thyroid checked out a while back because of my weight and was told nothing was wrong.

I'm worried about going in to get my levels checked because I'm very paranoid about taking medicines and their side effects but for something like this, it's kind of a big deal to me so I really don't know what to do. I'm also a loner so I have no girl and never go out. I'm very self conscious (particularly about my weight) and this is a factor in me not going out. When I was younger I didn't care about how I looked but for whatever reason as I age, it seems to bother me more. I'd really love to go to the gym but going alone seems intimidating, especially for a scrawny person.

Could all this just be a result of my lifestyle and living like a hermit? How big a role does psychology play in ED?

pedud;604032 said:

I'm not really sure what to make of this and I haven't seen any doctors about this either although I probably should. I'm 29 years old and I feel as though I have ED. My sole purpose of buying the bathmate was to see if it would help in any way and I've even bought one of those power rings off of ebay. I'd like to eventually get some blood work done to see where I'm at as far as T levels go. Basically whenever I see those ads on tv which talk about ED and they start to list the symptoms, I feel like they are speaking about me.. Lack of energy, always wanting to sleep, lack of attention to things, low drive, can't stay hard, etc. etc. I'm 6'1, 145lbs (YES I'm a skinny fk). I have a psychically demanding job so although I'm skinny, I'm 'fit'. I eat fairly healthy and I almost never eat out. I actually had my thyroid checked out a while back because of my weight and was told nothing was wrong.

I'm worried about going in to get my levels checked because I'm very paranoid about taking medicines and their side effects but for something like this, it's kind of a big deal to me so I really don't know what to do. I'm also a loner so I have no girl and never go out. I'm very self conscious (particularly about my weight) and this is a factor in me not going out. When I was younger I didn't care about how I looked but for whatever reason as I age, it seems to bother me more. I'd really love to go to the gym but going alone seems intimidating, especially for a scrawny person.

Could all this just be a result of my lifestyle and living like a hermit? How big a role does psychology play in ED?

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All of the symptoms are very consistent with depression too...how do you feel lately? I live like a Hermit and I know it can cause deeper depression in me and all of the symptoms happen to me while I am in this state.

being self conscious can really take a person down a bad path. it has for me plenty of times. i have never wanted to take meds whether it be for anxiety, possible depression, or attention disorders. i have found for me when i just kick myself in the ass and get myself to do what i need to do i am much happier. i have trouble going into stores...basically any public place. it's much easier now b/c i just forced myself to. I still want to go sit at a bar by myself someday and have dinner and drink alone. also would like to go to a movie by myself but i get extremely anxious b.c of feeling self conscious. after i force myself into a situation it never goes bad and im always happy i did. also when i feel self conscious and it may stop me from doing something i take some time to talk to myself and get my thoughts sorted correctly. this works for me

Just read your post. Another overlooked issue with ED, especially in young men is blood sugar issues. You have a classic sympton of diabetes. Might not be, but worth checking out. GS

youknowme123321;604118 said:

being self conscious can really take a person down a bad path. it has for me plenty of times. i have never wanted to take meds whether it be for anxiety, possible depression, or attention disorders. i have found for me when i just kick myself in the ass and get myself to do what i need to do i am much happier. i have trouble going into stores...basically any public place. it's much easier now b/c i just forced myself to. I still want to go sit at a bar by myself someday and have dinner and drink alone. also would like to go to a movie by myself but i get extremely anxious b.c of feeling self conscious. after i force myself into a situation it never goes bad and im always happy i did. also when i feel self conscious and it may stop me from doing something i take some time to talk to myself and get my thoughts sorted correctly. this works for me

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So true, confronting the fear is the only way to conquer it.

doublelongdaddy;604089 said:

All of the symptoms are very consistent with depression too...how do you feel lately? I live like a Hermit and I know it can cause deeper depression in me and all of the symptoms happen to me while I am in this state.

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A lot of work related stress for sure. I'm about 9 months into my new job but, I've always been undecided in life and never really found that "dream job" where I can make a living while being happy. The older I get, the more it bothers me. I have a hard time sucking it up and just going out there to do what I need to do but I feel I, or anyone really, should have to put ourselves in that situation (unless borderline homeless or something). I always read and hear stories about how people just up and up quit their job, move, and start a new life do whatever it is they enjoy. This has always been something I'd like to do but without really having figured out what I enjoy in life, it's kind of hard to do that. I think living close to family may have some role in my stress as well :s

youknowme123321;604118 said:

being self conscious can really take a person down a bad path. it has for me plenty of times. i have never wanted to take meds whether it be for anxiety, possible depression, or attention disorders. i have found for me when i just kick myself in the ass and get myself to do what i need to do i am much happier. i have trouble going into stores...basically any public place. it's much easier now b/c i just forced myself to. I still want to go sit at a bar by myself someday and have dinner and drink alone. also would like to go to a movie by myself but i get extremely anxious b.c of feeling self conscious. after i force myself into a situation it never goes bad and im always happy i did. also when i feel self conscious and it may stop me from doing something i take some time to talk to myself and get my thoughts sorted correctly. this works for me

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wow you sound just like me in regards to anxiety issues. I absolutely hate going out even for grocery shopping! One reason why I'd like to get a membership at the gym is because I feel this would be the best way to relieve stress and clear my mind (outside of drugs). There are some things I can kick myself into doing but, doing the gym thing is probably a hard one for me to get over. That and going out to meet girls =\ Its always interesting for me to read other people sharing similar issues that I have and it's almost reassuring in a way. Thanks for the insight.

German Stallion;604145 said:

Just read your post. Another overlooked issue with ED, especially in young men is blood sugar issues. You have a classic sympton of diabetes. Might not be, but worth checking out. GS

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My relatives are cursed by this but my parents/siblings have seemed to avoid it, so far. I never thought about that and I sure hope I don't end up with it. Now I'm pretty certain I should go in and just get all kinds of blood work done. Thanks


Another thing I'd like to add is that I've been spending some time in the viagra section and I'm contemplating trying some. Maybe going through a session of that will lift my spirit, among other things

pedud;604310 said:

Another thing I'd like to add is that I've been spending some time in the viagra section and I'm contemplating trying some. Maybe going through a session of that will lift my spirit, among other things

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Very expensive but if you can afford it nothing compliments a girth session like Viagra.

doublelongdaddy;604646 said:

Very expensive but if you can afford it nothing compliments a girth session like Viagra.

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You can get good generics from over seas. The name brand stuff is way expensive

Jdcsd;604956 said:

You can get good generics from over seas. The name brand stuff is way expensive

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Yeah I ws getting stuff from India but that source dried up. It was much stronger than any other Viagra I ever took, wish they were still around.

doublelongdaddy;605026 said:

Yeah I ws getting stuff from India but that source dried up. It was much stronger than any other Viagra I ever took, wish they were still around.

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Yah that's what I buy also from India.

india wrote the book of sex hahaha

I'd really love to go to the gym but going alone seems intimidating, especially for a scrawny person.

When I first turned up at a gym I also felt VERY scrawny and inexperienced but its sooo badass. In like a week I even had different groups of friends there,and ANY day I went there was someone who wanted a training buddy. It's so fun that you don't even notice you have been lifting until you reach muscle failure. Very positive attitudes there where

Jdcsd;605135 said:

Yah that's what I buy also from India.

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They do not regulate there like the US and the stuff I was getting was far stronger than the real thing. A 50mg tab felt more like 100mg of real Viagra.

doublelongdaddy;605352 said:

They do not regulate there like the US and the stuff I was getting was far stronger than the real thing. A 50mg tab felt more like 100mg of real Viagra.

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Yah but the thing is they just aren't as accurate with dosage of the drug like USA drug companies. They could always overdose on purpose or sometimes you just get a good batch and it's overdose and maybe next time you get a shitty batch. Most raw drug powders that are cheap come from china and the purity can be shitty most of the time. It's really just a crap shoot for the most part, inconsistent dosing. Sounds like you have some good overdosed product

tkto;605154 said:

I'd really love to go to the gym but going alone seems intimidating, especially for a scrawny person.

When I first turned up at a gym I also felt VERY scrawny and inexperienced but its sooo badass. In like a week I even had different groups of friends there,and ANY day I went there was someone who wanted a training buddy. It's so fun that you don't even notice you have been lifting until you reach muscle failure. Very positive attitudes there where

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That's good just keep at it. When I started I weighed 130lb at 6'1" and I've been up to a muscular 230lbs. Diet is the most important

Jdcsd;605401 said:

That's good just keep at it. When I started I weighed 130lb at 6'1" and I've been up to a muscular 230lbs. Diet is the most important

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If I do any bodybuilding today its only abdominals. If only to boost testosterone and circulation.