With pe involved with kegels you will eventually you will remain hard through the extra blood flow. I am against p0rn but if you can take pics of your wife and use that guilt free to keep yourself erect.
DLD, yes I can tell the kegels help. I had been asking my wife for that for a long time. She finally agreed and it definitely helps both to stay excited and to stay away from p*rn which is how I want it to be.
